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>>45234067
>What kind of self care routines do you have to help you recover from setbacks?
i dont really have one, i kind of just wait until my brain resets or someone drags me out of it
>Would you date a girl that was demanding and needed a lot of support?
of course i love being a supportive person and i expect my partner to do the same
>What was the worst breakup experience you've had and how long did it take for you to get back to normal?
my only real relationship and i haven’t gotten over it

>>45234106
Stomp

>>45234113
im already in a bad mood you dont need to be mean to me ;(

>>45234141
idk

>>45234155
that wasn’t real, im talking about the guy i dated in highschool i know im an evil bishit im sorry

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I think I need to drop this general too
Way too many people to keep track of who change their names and trips constantly and too much drama I couldn't care less about
Image related to the op questions

>>45234190
i wish i could go back, i hate whatever is going on with my life now

>>45234227
i just want to be held and told everythings alright

>>45234258
i like overworking myself too, i hate being alone with my thoughts

>>45234288
i dont get it

>>45234341
yeah that sounds nice

>>45234417
its fine, i dont mind

>>45234437
np np

>>45235038
Yes

sometimes I genuinely think killing myself is the best solution…

im going to slit my wrists and bleed out in my bathtub tonight

would you date a girl that's kinda retarded and schizo and extremely quiet but is like always there to protect you and make u laugh and kinda guide people to make better decisions......

>>45235308
You need help

>>45235493
It’d be a solution to my problems. Nobody would even care anyways

>>45235512
Why should they? I’m just another tranny to add to the statistics

>>45235522
what do you mean

>>45235642
its more of a protective thing not really i wanna control thing
kinda like a mommy

>>45235805
is it weird that i just write blog stuff and ignore negativity? most people arent negative to me here on 4chan at all

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The Nymph not able of hir selfe the franticke fume to stay,
With restlesse care and pensivenesse did pine hir selfe away.
Bareheaded on the bare cold ground with flaring haire unkempt
She sate abrode both night and day: and clearly did exempt
Hirselfe by space of thrise three dayes from sustnance and repast
Save only dewe and save hir teares with which she brake hir fast.
And in that while she never rose but stared on the Sunne
And ever turnde hir face to his as he his corse did runne.
Hir limmes stacke fast within the ground, and all hir upper part
Did to a pale ashcolourd herbe cleane voyde of bloud convart.
The floure whereof part red part white beshadowed with a blew
Most like a Violet in the shape hir countnance overgrew.
And now (though fastned with a roote) she turnes hir to the Sunne
And keepes (in shape of herbe) the love with which she first begunne.

>>45235903
ive crashed out on 4chan many times in my youth but now i just wanna be positive to everyone even if it is 4chan, i dont think ive insulted anyone on 4ch in like 5 years

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Almost finished trails in the sky SC :> I preferred the first one honestly bc it did so much good set up but the sequel is great in terms of payoff even if it's paced incredibly awkwardly.
>>45235974
Lol I considered it there.
>>45235973
Thanks for speaking out for me sweetie
>>45235988
I am!

tfw no gf

>>45236113
Yep. I am so busy w work and dogs and seeing friends and travelling and everything that I get maybe 5 hours a week to play lol so it's been 2 months but I'm in the last few hours .
>>45236088
Oh my god girl that's great. Keep eating healthy.
Though, I've eaten potatoes 3 meals in a day before... TFW...

>>45236255
i live in fear i will wake up one day only to find out my entire life was a fabrication of a board schizoposter

>>45236312
interesting... tell me more

>>45236667
made with ai

>>45235756
Can you imagine if there was a type of person who read too much hdg and when she saw someone like you described felt only compassion and the desire to turn that chaos seeker into a contented little housepet?

tfw no cis gf

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Such is the miserable condition of the sorry souls of those who lived without infamy and without praise. They are mingled with that base band of angels who were neither rebellious nor faithful to God, but stood apart. The heavens drive them out so as not to be less beautiful; and deep Hell does not receive them, lest the wicked have some glory over them.

>>45237458
>and thru all of it nobody is actually having sex...
i could've been having sex tonight but i had to study...

>>45237585
you got an innie or an outie

Need naturalist gf to take me on safaris so we can watch all the adorable animals without interfering with their lives

>>45237612
>both
if true please be my wife

>>45237652
>okay<3 what would you like for dinner sweetie?
ngl some beef stew would be delicious rn, I haven't had it in years but a warm hearty stew on a crisp fall day could probably cure my depression

>>45237781
now THIS is some peak cottagecore, I hope I can achieve this some day. no. I WILL achieve this.

>>45237759
I want to hear about that...

>>45237870
but nona... I have no beloved... I am beloveless...

Gf with sweaty feet...

do lesbians like girls who get vyvanse sweats

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Ay, we may march in England or in France,
Not seeing what is likely to ensue.
This late dissension grown betwixt the peers
Burns under feigned ashes of forged love
And will at last break out into a flame:
As fester'd members rot but by degree,
Till bones and flesh and sinews fall away,
So will this base and envious discord breed.
And now I fear that fatal prophecy
Which in the time of Henry named the fifth
Was in the mouth of every sucking babe

>>45235395
bump

>>45237854
Calling you out in your bullshit isn’t harassment. You mentioned me and that prompted me to reply for the first time. Seek mental help.
>>45237881
All you have to do is not mention me and accuse me falsely and learn to ignore retards instigating shit. It’s not that hard.

>>45238204
Yeah like returning after months to drama spam.

>>45238198
kinda hot desu

>>45238198
No lol, I’ve never been pressured or coerced into sex. Don’t like PIV or dick.

Girl who lives in the uk and has a cute accent

>>45237872
Do you like Japanese fashion, nona?

250 posts wiped out in the blink of an eye and the board just fuckin' watched

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>>45234067
Hey girls. There is this cute girl on discord, but I'm too afraid to talk to her. (I cencored her profile). What are the odds that she's trans? I feel like she is, need some transbian advice.

gf with a dick piercing...

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>>45238702

This is why you're not supposed to even reply to the trolls no matter what they post

>>45238702
Could start by not posting their profile on 4ch

>>45239554
The name is censored

Need a transbian to play games with

>>45239637
normal games or jigsaw games

>>45239637
You should probably join the server then that's where everyone is hiding now

>>45239680
Both
>>45239827
I’m banned

>>45239828
Like you don't have five accounts

>>45239860
I don’t anymore I deleted all my alts

>>45239877
Why though?

I’ve never gotten close to shoving my fucking fist through my monitor more than this 40 minute match of League. My teammates are fucking braindead and I couldn’t carry them when I have zero support and I’m putting up a 6 KDA

>>45239936
thanks for reminding me to watch worlds, you are my champion

>>45239883
Because I didn’t need them? But a dumb ass question

>>45240045
It was a dumbass idea to make so many accounts you don't need then

>>45240042
No worries carry <3

>>45240065
IN MY DEFENSE, I didn’t know I even had so many. I knew I had like 2 when people were mass reporting me in mtfg but I didn’t think I had 5 with the same password…

>>45240074
That's more incriminating than a defense

>>45240116
Arrest me then

Pity I was excited to talk about pretty dresses and winter fashion too. Getting dressed up to go to a winter market is a dream date

>>45240608
Cute, I would love to go on a date with a girl and try on dresses

>>45240612
Do you though? Would you give up the drama whore life to be with her?

>>45240724
I would sell my soul to be in a happy life long relationship…

I could only date a girl I could trust not to act like a fucking tool

>>45240608
Cute!!
>>45239936
Do you think it'd help to remind yourself that it's just a game and that losing is ok and won't impact your actual life when you feel that it's starting to affect you emotionally?

>>45241015
Losing isn’t okay when Porofessor says I got stomped and I lose Elo when I’m literally carrying my team! I know it’s childish to care but I’m good at this game and I don’t want to lose my rank to dumb dumbs

>>45241039
I don't think it matters whether it's childish or not, the problem is that it's negatively affecting your emotional state :<
Going down in a videogame rank doesn't lower your worth as a person, it doesn't make you lose money in real life, it's gonna be alright because it's just a game...

>>45241126
Yes it does, it’s the only hobby that I have anymore and I have to be good at it! I come home from taking care of old people and going to school and all I want is 3 winning lanes and a win streak! If I had a girl friend to take care of then I wouldn’t need hobbies but sadly thats out of the realm of possibility.

>>45241144
You don't need to be good at your hobbies, their purpose is to have fun!

>>45241413
I ONLY HABE FUN WHEN I WIN!

>>45241015
Thanks

downside of asian gf: asians have the no body odor gene so she has less girlsmell...

>>45242011
I'm pretty sure I have that gene and I'm european... it's so over

I’m probably going to block everyone and delete my socials again

>>45242020
go to bed

>>45242213
Only if you tuck me in

>>45242020
Have you ever considered you end up like this because you treat people as expendable?

>>45237529
If only dante understood that morality was subjective thus evil and good were entirely arbitrary

>>45242257
They’re the ones that see me as expendable. I could give them attention and be the nicest person and they’d still leave me on read for multiple days on end. It’s hard to make friends with people when they just see as a source of attention or use me to feel good about themselves

>>45242273
Everyone is a sociopath and you're the nicest person ever? I can see how people manipulate you.

>>45242301
I’m not calling anyone a sociopath or a narcissist, and I’m not saying that I am the nicest person ever I’m just saying. There’s no reason to be rude to me

>>45242310
You just said they all see you as expendable even when it's you that treats everyone as expendable. You have some fucked up ideas about social interaction and people easily manipulate you down a path of self inflicted isolation.

>>45242240
no you're mean to me every time we talk

>>45242360
Wow it’s almost like I have borderline personality disorder like I’ve said multiple times…

>>45242373
I’m sorry

>>45242378
That makes it okay then

>>45242382
no you arent you called my tattoo retarded and called me a retard and told me mean stuff

>>45242509
It doesn’t make it okay
>>45242536
Was your tattoo the “ngmi on your pseudotit” or the ribbons on the back of your legs. I stand by thinking both are retarded

Would you date a girl that always went to the zoo on her day off?

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>>45242266
It's not subjective he was just worshipping the wrong things as he had no knowledge of the true goddess

>>45242547
If you know acting that way is wrong then you can stop

>>45243537
she can't control it

>>45243537
I’m just saying what you want to hear so you shut the fuck up about it. You’re so fucking annoying and unbearable

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https://youtu.be/eIUB5XsDJuM

would u date a girl that plays in the backyard all the time whimsically?

>>45243130
yeah

>>45243579
You're making excuses and think I'm annoying? Go ahead delete your socials and be a bitter asshole to everyone. That's so cool and authentic.

>>45243895
I still have my socials

>>45243895
How am I making excuses when people are mean to me and see me as nothing but free attention! You sound fucking retarded! Quit replying to me if you don’t like me

>>45244077
>people are mean to me
That's the only thing you want

Nothing worse than histrionics, I would never date a girl like that, and neither should anyone else. If you don't like the result after the breakup you really can only blame yourself.

>>45244330
Not when it makes me cry and there’s no after care… I’m masochistic but I have feelings
>>45244361
Only ever blame myself when a relationship or a talking stage goes bad. I lash myself over and over mentally for it

>>45244389
You think that makes it less annoying or boring? Take your own advice

>>45244458
Have you tried not being an asshole? It would really help right now

>>45244498
Take a look in the mirror

>>45244571
Can we just both drop whatever it is this is and talk about our interests? I’m getting tired of this

>>45244598
You can post about anything you want since nobody else is going to interrupt the last few of us for two days

I really want some soup

I'm thinkin' about some hearty beef stew

I'm eating nuts and dried fruit like a rodent

All of that sounds really good, a nice charcuterie board with sharp cheddar and sausages would be delightful

>>45244731
>cheddar
rape
>sausages
murder

>>45244779
Fine spam, Colby cheese and some crackers

>>45244814
the finest canned meat money can buy

>>45244832
It’s good! Spam over rice with siracha is one of my go to budget meals

>>45244849
When I was a young bachelorette I used to make a "stir fry" slop meal by frying rice with bits of sliced ham and egg, plus anything else I had lying around like if I had cooked beans I would throw that in too. That was half of all my meals at one point and I would just eat it directly out of the pan to save dishes. Life was simpler then

>>45244938
That’s usually something that I do to, I like to make simple pasta dishes like goulash and spaghetti a lot and I’ll eat it out of the pan

>>45244949
Most women think it's weird and bad to do that. Beastly manners, they say.

>>45245001
Women don’t like me as it is so it doesn’t matter, my house is a mess anyways they’d probably flip shit when they walk through the door

>>45244938
i hate being such a picky eater, my soul yearns for the slop but my body rejects it

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>>45238074
wonderful image gracious

>>45237529
i wana take a cozy train or bus trip

>>45239936
we watched some last night and then some figure skating in china

>>45243272
my love!
your a good girl <3

Stir fried rice just doesn't do it for me, I've had to eat too many that were mid

>>45245073
There's no such thing as a cozy bus trip, and trains are only cozy if it's a special service like a bullet train. Otherwise it's just travel for the poor, and nobody is having a good time or wants to be there.

>classism

>>45245239
Bus trips are cozy!

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>>45245073
'For where Love reigns, disturbing Jealousy
Doth call himself Affection's sentinel;
Gives false alarms, suggesteth mutiny,
And in a peaceful hour doth cry 'Kill, kill!'
Distempering gentle Love in his desire,
As air and water do abate the fire.
'This sour informer, this bate-breeding spy,
This canker that eats up Love's tender spring,
This carry-tale, dissentious Jealousy,
That sometime true news, sometime false doth bring,
Knocks at my heat and whispers in mine ear
That if I love thee, I thy death should fear:

O hard-believing love, how strange it seems
Not to believe, and yet too credulous!
Thy weal and woe are both of them extremes;
Despair and hope makes thee ridiculous:
The one doth flatter thee in thoughts unlikely,
In likely thoughts the other kills thee quickly.

>>45245357
No they're not, nobody wants to be on the bus. It's just people fetishizing being low income because they don't have to go through it every day

>>45245500
Are you low income?

>>45245500
Yes? I have to ride public transport and it fucking sucks. It's loud, you get shoved around, and often there is nowhere to sit. It's dirty and smelly, and nobody wants to be there, nobody is there for fun, they're there because they have to get somewhere. The longer you're in the moving can of sardines the more it drains you before work or eats into your recouping time at the end of the day.
Getting stuck in traffic is cozier, fetishize that.

>>45245582
Meant for >>45245530

>>45245582
You sound really jaded, I’m sorry you have to deal with that. I do to but the tanks aren’t as packed and they usually are very quiet

>>45245623
Yeah and? Everyone that has to use public transport is jaded after years because it sucks. Try being stuck commuting like that for an hour or more every day for five years and tell me cozy is the first thing that comes to mind.

The dream is working 9-5, spending 10% of your life in commute, paying rent every month, and then paying off student loans.

>>45242020
Good?

>>45245373
>t. cheater

>>45245837
Who cheated on who?

>>45234067
>>What kind of self care routines do you have to help you recover from setbacks?
Self care? Like care about myself?
>>Would you date a girl that was demanding and needed a lot of support?
Nobody has time for that if they're being honest.
>>What was the worst breakup experience you've had and how long did it take for you to get back to normal?
I don't like to think about people who don't think about me.

>>45245656
No need to be mean

>>45246436
Mean?

the cutery is where they make cute things

The crazy thing is that all the lesbians I know in real life are all chilled out and real as fuck. All the half-baked crazy shit seems to be online with girls that have no presence among meat space lesbians. I'm not even talking terfs, like they'll welcome trans women just as much, but without all the fucked up crazy backstabbing.

>>45246853
Who is backstabbing?

>>45246885
You are

>>45247008
I would rather die

>>45247062
A likely story but a backstabbing lesbian never admits she does it, and when she's caught she probably denies it too

>>45247089
You got me there

>>45246853
You're right, a lot of the posters in various threads claiming to be gay just plain act str*ight

Would you date a lesbian who was a backstabber?

I wish I were a lesbiab

>>45247602
Why aren't you?

Would anybody date a girl that's tries really hard to be as sweet and friendly as possible???

>>45246596
Yes
>>45246853
Lesbians are weirdly rude and deceitful in real life too, it’s almost as if it’s not an online thing.

>>45248098
What lesbian do you know in real life? Or are you trying to say they're no different from you?

>>45248134
Lots of lesbians >:(

I know lots of real lesbians too

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Lesbians are pretty nice

>>45249466
I would like to think so too

>>45249466
Not to me

>>45247868
life is unfair

>>45249775
You can be whatever you want to be. Except lesbian sexual orientation. That's set in stone from birth.

>>45250040
Can I be an alcoholic scientific genius that turns herself into a pickle?

>>45250086
No that's stupid and beyond your ability. Turning yourself alcoholic because you're frustrated is also lame

>>45250182
Are you calling me dumb! hmph

>>45250186
No I'm saying people like you that jump into addictions for the attention are just annoying. As in you better hope you find someone that will stick with you to help you out of it or ggs better luck next time

>>45250328
Do you actually think that I jump into addictions? I want to know your reasoning for that assumption honestly, because I don’t really have the addiction gene in me. I only smoke occasionally and drink socially

>>45250346
Nobody starts out smoking or drinking. You have more of an excuse for eating too much because eating is something you have to do. You don't need to do that other shit, and even when you drink it's not like light drinking turns you alcoholic. People choose that even if it's difficult to undo that choice. What stops you making other annoying choices when being healthy again no longer gets attention?

>>45249466
Glad you think so nona. Are you a lesbian too or just an ally?

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hi fellow transbians >w<

>>45250553
Why are you such a fucking asshole all the time?

>>45251069
ironic

>>45251180
Isn’t it ironic, don’t you think?

>>45250936
Bootleg agp harlot

>>45250841
I'm a lesbian who happens to be trans, a transbian for short

>>45245837
Who

>>45251254
She's already a bootleg agp

>>45251610
Ask your AI why it's not short for that

>>45251689
Don’t be mean

>>45251710
I did and it gave me a bunch of woke nonsense about gender

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It is the cause, it is the cause, my soul,
Let me not name it to you, you chaste stars!
It is the cause. Yet I'll not shed her blood;
Nor scar that whiter skin of hers than snow,
And smooth as monumental alabaster.
Yet she must die, else she'll betray more men.
Put out the light, and then put out the light:
If I quench thee, thou flaming minister,
I can again thy former light restore,
Should I repent me: but once put out thy light,
Thou cunning'st pattern of excelling nature,
I know not where is that Promethean heat
That can thy light relume. When I have pluck'd the rose,
I cannot give it vital growth again.
It must needs wither: I'll smell it on the tree.
>Kissing her
Ah balmy breath, that dost almost persuade
Justice to break her sword! One more, one more.
Be thus when thou art dead, and I will kill thee,
And love thee after. One more, and this the last:
So sweet was ne'er so fatal. I must weep,
But they are cruel tears: this sorrow's heavenly;
It strikes where it doth love. She wakes.

>>45251743
It should tell you transbians are terminally online puppy girls and annoying not just lesbians

>>45252414
but I'm not a terminally online annoying puppy girl

>>45252431
I am

>>45252769
Why are you a puppy girl now?

I thought ogres hated puppies

>>45254264
lol

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>>45252769
I don't think you are annoying. What do you think of my mousetrap speech?
https://voca.ro/13AqeHC9A288

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>>45254451
my love!!

your voice is the most beautiful to me in all the lands and the skies and the stars

i will hold you more like that in just a bit <3

>>45254264
actually they love to eat them

>>45254252
I’m not I was just bored and felt like responding

>>45254264
Who doesn’t like puppies?

Guys I need advice
I broke up with my ex 6 months ago and after like 3-4 months of on and off fighting we’re back to being best friends again like we were before we tried dating. The past two weeks she keeps treating me like a puppy, saying stuff like she wants to pin me down and lick my face, brush my fur, etc. I told her she needs to stop because while I know it’s onions that stuff is like my weakness, and I would probably start catching feelings again. She apologized and said that wasn’t her intention and she was just being herself which is fine. But last time we hung out she kept doing it!!! I crouched down to feed a squirrel and asked her if I could have more treats to give the squirrel and she told me I had to beg for it like a dog (which I did because of course I did)

WHY IS SHE DOING THIS it’s like my one weakness and as far as i know it’s not like she wants to try dating ever again or anything .-. What does she want from meeeee

>>45254974
whether she understand what she's doing or not she's playing games with you for her own satisfaction and she enjoys the power she has over you and is stringing you along. what she wants from you is to dance to her tune but as soon as you do she will pull away again. sorry anon ur ex has no respect for u as a full ensouled human being and u are a plaything to her which she uses to feel better about herself with no true consideration for you or your feelings

>>45255026
Do you think it’s really that deep?

I kinda like it ngl fml .-.

>>45255080
trust yourself, your feelings, your intuition, you already know the answers

Is it worthwhile to long distance date a girl who after a year has no concrete plan for visiting you but who in that time period was able to motivate herself to visit a friend?

>>45255592
if you're really asking talk to her about it. if you can't talk that points to deeper problems. if it's a misunderstanding maybe you will get that visit l. also have you thought of visiting her

>>45255592
No lmao how is this even a question

>>45254974
She's using you and has desires she could not fill in these few months

>>45255934
Okay but I also have desires I have been unable to fill :c
>>45255204
I dunno it just confuses me. It feels like she’s trying to win me back idk why else she’d be doing it? But she said that she’s not. I hate that I like it I’m so pathetic ;-;

>>45256199
That's why it works and how she gets you. It's okay if you both agree to it like adults, but if she initiates without agreement or tries for more then it's manipulative. Otherwise if and when it goes bad she can just say she didn't commit or think or any other excuse.

>>45234067
On Monday I recover by sleeping early like I'm old do I should probably date an older woman

I’m mentally exhausted and physically tired… my life is actually so shit

>>45254974
don't let people string you along

>>45257978
What happened now?

>>45258702
My mom had a mental breakdown after I went to the doctors and threatened to kill herself and that she was going to leave me on the side of the road and cut me out of her life and stuff. Just an average day for me really…

>>45258713
Sounds like she's at her wits end

Why are most of the hot alt girls millennials?

>>45258883
If you’re going to blame me for it and say that I deserved it or whatever I’m actually going to fucking kill you in your sleep

>>45258954
Bitch that's a while ass three sentences of shit I didn't say. But good to know it's like that but probably not how you said.

I need to meet more alt girls

>>45234067
Needy girls never really justify it

>>45259799
my question: do you have a healthy understanding of what neediness is?

>>45259374
I thought you were the person who kept being an asshole to me for no reason about everything. Sorry

>>45259824
Neediness is unhealthy
>>45260034
Who is being an asshole?

>>45260290
it can be plenty healthy

>>45260290
Some random anon recently idk

>>45257978
Cheer up buggy

>>45260418
How is neediness healthy in any possible way?
I'm interested in why anyone would think so. Since it requires someone being insecure, abusing someone else as a source of confidence, and dependency. Keep in mind people aren't talking about needing someone or missing them when they're gone. It's completely different to normal dependency too.

>>45260716
I’ll try

>>45260869
What are you doing today?

>>45261257
Laying down and relaxing for one day, what’re you up to?

How do i know if I'm getting ghosted or not?

I've been dating this person and we had a great time together even though we've been taking it slow.
Last time I saw her she told me she was depressed and was going to crash soon. She also hinted at struggling with dysphoria.
She hasn't replied to me in days and I tried to not overwhelm her but I'm but I'm scared she won't come back. I'm also going through my own mental health struggles but I kind of want to know if she's still there and I am wondering if this is her way of breaking things off.
Can someone who has been in her position help me out? Did you come back or not?

>>45261436
Both messaging her and not messaging her can be bad, and will probably not go over well. Even at the same time, there just isn't a best choice here. Accept that whatever you do it's going to be bad, and then decide what to do. If you want to reassure her or check in on her do that, if you want to give her space do that. Maybe message her a few times every couple of days and then give up after a month.

>>45260741
codependency is pareto efficient

>>45261709
Thank you for the advice. I hope it doesn't last a month since we actually had a nice time last time we saw each other some days ago. I appreciate it.

>>45261924
Those things aren't even related

>>45262293
economics is like astrology, always relevant

I think if I had to breed a pokemon I'd choose lopunny
>>45255592
helllllll no I'd wanna meet BEFORE starting an ldr honestly

>>45262452
When you put it like that it sounds really smart

>>45263999
Batman… I caught a little Pokemon Batman…

>>45264003
I think it's smart enough. Aren't relationships relative? So what's right for one or two people doesn't need to be right for anyone else. Take two crazy people who on their own might cause a lot of damage but if you pair them up they can cancel each other out and it's a net improvement. Not only is it more healthy than any alternative, it could also be the optimal outcome socioeconomically speaking

>>45263999
knowing it's even possible to meet someone is a requirement for an ldr

>>45234067
Can someone explain this to me
>This is the /lesgen/ by the community from 2013 onwards before the many splits.
How did you come up with that? transgenders were never welcome in lesgen (which was cis only), transbians posted in transbian general.
I'd like to hear you generals take on what you think happened.

>>45265068
This thread was promised to us trasngeders thousands of years ago

>>45265068
This is the original /lesgen/ by the community from 2013. You are schizo.

>>45265324
No it's not go look in the archives
First read this post here >>45265045 and then click here and go back through the preceding threads
https://archiveofsins.com/lgbt/thread/6000146/#6000146

>>45265378
that is a known troll and a newfag that started posting a few years ago, her 3 day ban just lifted and she's at it again

>>45265378
Only newfags would believe this thread’s OP. This gen was started by someone who posted in the other thread that wanted her own OP with her own server. It’s been common knowledge on this board that /clg/ is one of the longest running generals with /gaygen/. This gen has only existed a few months.

>>45265378
Posting links to the archive is schizo behavior. Everybody knows this is the original /lesgen/ by the community from 2013 onwards, so stop harassing lesbians.

>>45265440
She’s the boomer from /clg/, newfag. She has an extensive history of looking at archives and talking about the board’s history, particularly with the lesbian threads. I don’t like her because she’s a transphobe, but not everyone is your boogeyman that lead to your thread spin-off.

imagine forcing this misinfo and being a creep when lesbians are minding their own business and talking about wlw topics

>>45265497
Agree. This is the original /lesgen/ by the community from 2013 onwards. Anything else is misinformation and harassment (hate speech).

that’s sad that is all you have going for you, this forced spin-off thread where you force a false narrative in your OP. get some bitches instead of playing warhammer with internet trannies and dykes. or keep it up, it’s mildly entertaining.

>>45265538
Stop harassing lesbians who were minding their own business ITT since 2013.

>>45234067
>What kind of self care routines do you have to help you recover from setbacks?
I usually cleanse my face, take a shower, and do my hair when I'm stressed out, somehow feeling fresh just helps me reset and relax
>Would you date a girl that was demanding and needed a lot of support?
I've dated girls like that before, but it really depends on how she is, like I wouldn't want to just endlessly support her if she dragged me down
>What was the worst breakup experience you've had and how long did it take for you to get back to normal?
it took a few years, I didn't want to put myself in that situation again so I avoided attachment for a long time

>>45265440
I assumed this, the wording of their post is clearly in jest.

>>45265449
>It’s been common knowledge on this board that /clg/ is one of the longest running generals with /gaygen/.
>longest running
More like crawling these days but I'll take the win, 13 years is long for a 4chan general.

>>45265472
>She’s the boomer from /clg/, newfag.
I'm not a fucking boomer and your post is worded like they would know of me if they weren't new, which is odd I think.
>I don’t like her because she’s a transphobe
I'm not a transphobe, I just have no interest in interacting with people who aren't cisgender lesbians.

>>45265667
>This is the /lesgen/ by the community from 2013 onwards before the many splits.
Listen and learn, schizo.

>>45265667
I was on the board since day one too and clg didn't exist then, it was created due to transbians being cringe, but this person is just forcing drama and has only been here a few years

>>45265690
>Quoting the literal OP is creating drama