QotT: Has your sexuality ever made you feel lonelier rather than more open to potential partners?QotT2: What's the biggest difference between the people you're attracted to and the people you actually pursue? FAQ:>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.>What's the difference between bisexual and pansexual?Only difference is that our flag is prettier.>Am I bi if i have periods where I feel only attracted to women and others where I feel only attracted to men?This is known as the bi-cycle and many bisexuals experience it.>Am I bi or am I 'prison gay' or porn addicted?'Prison gay' is not a real thing and porn addiction does not alter your sexual orientation. You are bi.>Am I bi or pan if I like trans people?Both are able to be attracted to trans people.>I think I might be bi but I can't tell. How can I be certain?Just make a point to check out members of the sex you think you might be attracted to and see if anyone grabs your attention.>Should I be harsh on myself?You should be kind on yourself. Few people will do it for youPrevious Thread: >>45199336Resource for Bisexuals:https://biresource.org/The Bisexual Manifesto:https://bimanifesto.carrd.co/#manifestolgbt inclusive friend server, join if you want:https://discord.gg/gejUmDBzMG
>>45270509how many hookers would it take to knock out a buff street nigga?
good morning bigen
>>45270529gm
gay guy here can i hang out with you guys today?
Being bisexual is a head fuck for you guys as well, right? To me it feels like endlessly struggling to grasp your sexuality while also believing that this time you've finally got a hold of it, ultimately for it to just slip away again.
>>45271038sounds like you think too hard about it.
how can i be bi and not have found even one person who fw me, im fucking pathetic
what you think of foreskin?
>>45271068I definitely go through phases of overthinking about it.
QotT: yeah, i do have some friends but i like to stay inside muh house, there's not much things that i do through the day too.QotT2: I think i don't have any interest right now, i had once but i don't have right now.
>>45271248why?
>>45271279I don't really know.
>>45271242penises are so beautiful i cant bear to see them mutilated
>>45271363Real. This far leftist approves to ending all genital mutilation.
>>45271242i have no strong opinions on itcute cat
why you guys always slow gen?
>>45272090what is the committee of schizo spammers going to take us to jail for being a slower gen or?who gives a fuck
>>45271242i dont like it, cut dicks look more aesthetic to me idk why
>>45272176relax>>45272381very weird
>>45270922I'm Steve
>>45272476uhh, whats weird about it?
>>45271242That's kind of like asking what you think about having 10 fingers. It's completely insane to me that there are major religions and countries in the world where people remove it - circumcision would absolutely not be allowed if it were invented today.
>>45272505preferring mutilation. >>45272521should be illegal.
>>45272563err sorry, its just a preference thing. if you guys dont want to get cut thats your choice i am not going to hate you or anything. but i am fixated to cut penises myself. they look the most appealing to me.
QotT: Nope, I love having a big pool of straight options, and a smaller but also respectable pool of other bisexuals and homosexuals. Although I do prefer dating other bisexuals.QotT2: No difference, I pursue the people I’m attracted to and I have a great boyfriend.
>>45272583you like what you like bro.
Hawaiian macaroni salad tastes so good like what is in this miracle carbohydrate
>>45272476no fuck you retard
>>45272662fuck you dickhead
>>45272693go back to shitting up gaygen
>>45272702dont tell me what to do homo
>>45271242I feel sad for guys without foreskin and being with a cut guy can limit some of the fun you can have frotting.
whats /bigens/ rice purity score? i remember when mine was in the 70s lolmaopicrel
>>45272855and they cant experience foreskin french kisses.
>>45271694I think jews are cool and i wish I had a cute jewish bf but at the same time i cant condone the barbaric practice of circumcision
>>4527290894, is this good? or bad?
>>45271242I'm have a foreskin, I prefer foreskin in my other male partners. It's hot and fun to play with.That being said sometimes I like the look of distinctly two-toned penises, even if I am philosophically opposed to infant circumcision.
>>45272908like 20 or smth
female_supporting_yaoi is my favorite tag
>>45273813I didn't know that was a tag but now it's my favorite too
>>45272973can't have a stretch-off either
>>4527290823. I feel like most normies would score below 30 after the age of 21 or so.
>>45273853That one and bisexual_sandwich rock
>>45273813>my_wife_in_the_chairlol
I think everyone just filtered me, i think i should stop namefagging.
>>45271242I PREFER NATURAL BISEXUAL MEN!>>45273533The two tones ARE oddly erotic...
YOU KNOW I'M BAD I'M BADSHAMONE
>>45270509QotT: Absolutely. Saying I’m bisexual to anybody, even bisexual women, has made me feel alone. People don’t treat bisexual men well, you either get treated like you’re a cheater in waiting or you’re disrespected by people because they assume you’ll leave if an attractive member of either sex rolls by. QotT2: I find a lot of different body types and people attractive, from chub dudes to skinny twinks or muscle girls to fat bitches, but I generally don’t pursue anybody because I’m too retarded to tell if somebody is interested in me or not and I also don’t really go out or interact with people much these days. Have a chaos space marine.
>>45270509>QotT: Has your sexuality ever made you feel lonelier rather than more open to potential partners?https://voca.ro/1lujG5ykndRa>QotT2: What's the biggest difference between the people you're attracted to and the people you actually pursue?https://voca.ro/17ary2daSHJB
>>45270509>QotT2: What's the biggest difference between the people you're attracted to and the people you actually pursue?In the past, I was actually quite anxious about potentially hurting people's feelings. This caused me to not pursue the people I really was into because I didn't want to offend them, and I also ended up with people who pursued me aggressively and if they got upset when I tried to break up I would stay with them far too long.Ironically, my cowardice hurt far more people's feelings than just being blunt would have been.I've since gotten over it.
>>45274443You have a cute voice, anon.
I live in a country where circumcision is for jews and muslims. I had a hookup with an american tourist, cut, and his dick was rough. Like the head was made of leather or something idk but it was distracting. He wanted to attempt to fuck my foreskin which was v uncomfortable
>>45271242that's an odd name for a cat
>>45274443where you from? straya?
>>45274872they get some real weird ideas about what they want to do with foreskin
>>45270509Qott my sexuality has never come up with potential partners, I was either interested or I wasn't. That was all that mattered.Qott2Physically the types I want aren't common or don't exist and in reality compatibility was the only real metric. I've also never pursued anyone, we'd just talk and figure out organically if we liked each other. They'd have to push to make it a thing.
>>45275199im in canada>>45274528thats nona to u! but ty
>>45274443Uhm uhm uhm uhm uhm uhmJk actually interesting perspective
>>45275556you have very cute voice though
>>45272908I am a virgin. I have never been loved or in a sexual act, I don't do drugs, masturbation is all that lowered ut for me.
>>45276054lost points for not doing meth or fucking my relatives
>>45276155pretty much same
>>45276155Woops, forgot my pic
>:)
>>45276054>I'm a virgin, here's my virgin test result>several posts flexing whoredom follow
1: pretty much2: I don't pursue anyone so I guess I'm not sure how to answer, I'm a volcel4tran lgbt server for friends:https://discord.gg/B6CbkspzQ
>>45276512This raises serious legal questions about your conduct
>>45276518I was a victim of human trafficking.
>>45275556Can I call you nonny? But yeah, cute voice.
>>45274088im 21 and i have a score of 72....>>45275063lolanyway /bigen/ i have a question.im pretty sure im bi but not that sure. ive jerked off to some mildly gay stuff but never just gay porn on its own. i do jerk off to the idea of sucking cock. and i think having a bf would be cute.I guess i was thinking i should figure out if i would actually like it in real life.I installed grindr, but not super sure on the protocol. my ideal scenario would be we cuddle for a bit (watch a movie or something) and then i suck his dick and/or we make out (no sex). the thing is there's a 50% chance i get scared and don't feel like sucking dick and then it would just be awkward to come over, and i don't want to give someone blueballs. i have no clue what hooking up on grindr (or in general) looks likeso, is it a good idea to try to go on that app? Especially if i'm not 100% sure and basically a virgin
>>45277024rec trying other dating apps, grindr is largely for hookups
>>45277024>im 21 and i have a score of 72....Well then you're not a normie. Such is life.If you're going to use grindr, be honest and open about what you're looking for. You might get lucky and find a gentle guy that is willing to let you explore your bisexuality without pressuring you or pushing you too far. Just be careful, a lot of guys will want to push you beyond what you're comfortable with. It may take some patience to find the right guy.
>>45277144yeah maybe that's a good idea. someone recommended hinge...still, I feel super awkward talking to normal people online. i feel like i need to be talking to someone with at least a little autism, if that makes sense. sometimes the way people talk on dating apps, from my impressions of seeing it online, really confuses me>>45277164:(I don't understand because a score of 72 seems somewhat normal, i don't understand how you could get lower than a 50ish. I had a gf in high school and have done some sexual stuff, but even adding what i would consider "expected" feels like maybe -20 points at most. if they're weighted equally.what you said about grindr does scare me a bit. I guess i can be a bit of someone who will just go along with things so i should be careful. but i would obviously say no to penetrative sex and the like.by patience do you mean just talking to a lot of people? or if i put it in my profile would they just filter themselves out and not message me
>>45277257actually maybe im larping, -20 was a bit conservative because i took the test as if i was a sexually active person and got 35and i do want to clarify im not that autistic like interacting with most people in friend groups irl, university clubs, or parties, etc. im usually fine, but not really a long term connection with the person kind of way (but i guess that also takes time).
Is lower better or worse?
>>45277257You can cross off a ton of that list with one moderately adventurous relationship
>>45276226I've come to expect it, it is funny though. You would be amazed the things people admit to doing after you tell them you are a virgin.
>>45277633Lower is less pure.
>>45277257The Rice test thing is silly anyway, don't worry about your score. I just think most normies would score low because they're usually sexually active and have often experimented with drugs in college. I just scored low because I'm 30 years old and have lived a degenerate lifestyle.I did mean that you might have to talk to a lot of people on Grindr before finding a good person. I don't think anyone would filter you by your bio. When I've used that app I always got loads of dudes sending really forward messages who clearly hadn't even looked at my profile beyond my photo. Usually weird old guys.Like that other anon said, Grindr is mostly a hookup app, but that might be good for you since you just want to experiment to explore your sexuality. You get all types of people on there. Be careful but also don't let fear stop you from discovering who you are. I've learned a lot about myself by taking risks. I only started exploring my bisexuality after impulsivly getting a hotel room with a trans girl that I had just met on vacation when I was 21. I never regretted it.
>>45277633lower = more sex haver
>>45278155>>45279418Right, I probably should have put 2 and 2 together given how much I checked lel
genuinely have no idea why black lipstick is so popular amongst a specific group of people especially if the person wearing it is as white as a sheet of paperimo its very hard to pull off>>45275690be nice!!>>45275747thank u>>45276576ofc u can <3 and thank u!>>45277633>Is lower better or worse?it all depends on your perspective and moral standard
I don't think I can be bi anymore because every guy I've been with has tried to use me for cheap sex and I don't trust any of the ones I've talked to. I can't imagine having a bf or any serious long term relationship with a guy either. idk I just wanna be on my own or make friends with girls atp.
>>45280358ye men really give me the ick as well but i cant help being attracted to them too. but everytime i try to be intimate they only see me like a human onahole and gives me so much ick i just stop interacting with them all together.
>>45280358I don't trust people in general to the point I wonder if I am technically asexual.I'd tell you to hold out hope for something different but honestly life is pretty bleak.
i wish gay guys were into bi guysi am considered a pest to them and all i want is to have a gay bf (not a bi bf lol)
>>45280510stop posting fake and gay(derogatory) bullshit that came to u in a dream
>>45280510Valid if you’re a bottom
>>45280319>genuinely have no idea why black lipstick is so popular amongst a specific group of people especially if the person wearing it is as white as a sheet of paper95% of the time black lipstick looks awful, especially if they wear regular colored clothing/makeup and only have the lipstick being black. I have no idea why you wouldn't just go with red or more vague(?) colors instead if you aren't gonna go full goth>>45281298Un petit chat !>>45280510I wish I knew any gay guys, noone in my current friend circles are gay, or even lesbian for that matter
>>45274443u seem nice, and yeah what u said is pretty real
>>45276054why are you here lol
>>45283346why wouldnt they ?
>>45283346I remember when bigen was like 90% incels. It's weird how it's shifted to more sex havers over the years. I kinda miss the old bigen desu.
>>45283565>>45283681being a virgin incel isn't being bisexualyou just jerk off to gay porn sometimes
>>45283685Sexuality is defined by attraction, not action. You're a retard if you think otherwise.
>>45283744no i think im right and i hate the weird larper orbiters that think jerking it to futa makes them bi and optics nuke my sexuality
>>45283757you're being extremely reductive and imagining things and getting mad at them I recommend you go outside and touch some grass
>>45283781no im right and you have no argumenttired of these retards invading space they don't belong in
>>45283685Ive just had no luck with grindr and hinge.>>45283681I never left i just stopoed using my trip.>>45283757I'm into older men they just aren't into me nearby me. I have better luck on discord but they're on the other side of the world basically.
>>45283855how old are you?
>>45283855stop using shit apps, go to a gay bar with some friends or somethinginb4 no friends
>>45283872None of my friends are gay.>>4528387129
>>45283878huh, i am only slightly older than you
>>45283681>old bigenFrom when? Because the only good bigen I remember wasn't full of sex havers but it barely had any incels
>>45283886they're making shit up
>>45283886Not the one claiming old bigen but I've been here since 2016, it would have been a few years earlier if i used /lgbt/ much at all back then.My life is like... If I crush on someone they are A. About to discover they are aromantic asexual(this is temporary and only within my space it turns out)B. On the other side of the world and also unwilling for a label or commitment if it did happen C. A Fictional characterAnd this is why I have a rice purity so high still.
>>45284004>getting baited by ace peoplemany such caseshope u meet someone nice anon
>>45284004I don't see how that's related to the amount of incels here but oh well>A. About to discover they are aromantic asexual(this is temporary and only within my space it turns out)This happens with people's bisexuality around me all the time lmao, I love it so much
>>45284075I mean in the past it was people in relationships that infrequently posted, terminally non committal and poly people on occasion, and a few regulars with names that are almost all single. >>45284052>hope u meet someone nice anonI stopped looking and stopped holding my breath. At this point I've developed a learned helplessness I don't even know how to recover from.
>>45283886it all went downhill when i lost my virginity at the ripe age of 20>>45281913>95% of the time black lipstick looks awful, especially if they wear regular colored clothing/makeup and only have the lipstick being blackyeah imo it only works if you have a deeper complexion, have fuller lips, and/or have “high contrast” colouring (see picrel)i have relatively full lips compared to my family who all have paper cut white people lips but im white and blonde and j wouldnt dare stray from my nude/pink lip glosses and balmson the rare occasion though i do wear a red lip
>>45284335Yeah black lipstick and black lipgloss looks amazing on black women, but for other women it usually only works if they're doing a full-on costume or special outfit
>>45284335>i have relatively full lips compared to my family who all have paper cut white people lips but im white and blonde and j wouldnt dare stray from my nude/pink lip glosses and balmsI've never used makeup (regular cis guy) but I'll keep this in mind since I'm white and blonde too lmao
>>45270509Qott1: i may be too pessimistic but i wont even bother swiping on a woman because whats the point? once she finds out its overQott2: no difference. if i werent attracted to em then why would i pursue em?bifags which dating app do i use to find love? is it bumble or hinge or tinder or a secret 4th app?>>45271229picrel>>45271242i like it. not a big deal if he doesnt have it>>45277024>im pretty sure im bi but not that sure>jerked off to some mildly gay stuff>jerk off to the idea of sucking cock>think having a bf would be cute>my ideal scenario...i suck his dick and/or we make out >>im pretty sure im bi but not that sure
>>45271242im terrified of penises with no foreskin like where is his sweater to keep him warm!!t. foreskin haver
>>45283886I think I was visiting it regularly from 2021-2023ish. I was just using incel as a synonym for non-sex havers. Didn't mean to imply that they were misogynistic or anything.>>45283855>I never left i just stopoed using my trip.Yeah I think the fact that no one uses their trips anymore has contributed to the change in vibe.
>>45286270>I think the fact that no one uses their trips anymore has contributed to the change in vibe.I haven't been in a good mood for years and I think my mood has annoyed people.
>>45280510>not a bi bf lolI find bi bottoms are more fun to talk to than gay bottoms, I think I prefer bi and bi lol
>>45286256Just like me fr
>>45285057could you keep it warm for me...
>>45288226Smooth
>>45285057true good point.there is mouths and holes and hands to help though.
>>45288226>>45288337https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F3B7M-3KfrA
what's your drug of choice?
>>45288731Shrooms even though I've only done them a few times, and the last time was like 5 years ago. It was genuinely life-changing for me but right now I don't have stuff I need to work out or whatever so I don't have a desire to try it again until or if that changes
>>45288818life changing how?
>>45288821It made me see myself in a more objective way and realize some uncomfortable truths about myself that I wasn't even aware were there, but did explain why certain things in the past had made me far more upset than was reasonable. Plus being able to fly around in space made me realize how small and insignificant my problems were in the grand scheme of things, but in a good way. Like how worrying about how others will perceive me is a futile endeavour and how I had let the fear of that control my behavior.Plus a bunch of other shit like synesthesia and time dilation, but those were just cool rather than meaningful per se lmao
>>45288731MDMA, but sadly my wife doesn't like it so I don't do it. Also it's long lasting and can be physically exhausting, so if I end up doing it again I will take it at like 10AM instead of at night lolLSD's a close second although I've only done it a couple times.
>>45288947why she doesn't like it?>>45288930nice bro.
>>45288996>why she doesn't like it?She's done it twice (once before we met, once with me) and both times it made her incredibly anxious for hours to the point of near-panic. I wouldn't really want to do it without her at this point in my life so I'm unlikely to do it again any time soon. Maybe if I mixed it with LSD while she was doing LSD.
>>45289075whats lsd like for you?
>>45288731well, what have you got?
>>45289155my gummies but i can't share sorry.
HUGE tranny cumshots NEED to enter my esophagus
>>45289285go back to chasergen
>>45289312>think someone is attractive>they fucking hate you for thisWhy are all trannies insane
>>45289326you're gross
>>45289330I'm sorry you feel that someone finding you attractive is gross. Sounds like a horrible way to live.
>>45289360kys genuinely
>>45288731>1. MDMAUnrivaled feelings of happiness for about 8-12 straight hours and incredible self confidence. But it's mentally and physically exhausting and I make terrible decisions on it so I don't do it anymore.>2. AlcoholMy first and only true love. Makes me happy and lose all my cares in the world. I'm so familiar with the feeling of being drunk that it feels more normal than being sober now. It's similar to MDMA in a lot of ways, though the feeling is diffent and it doesn't give you that same manic stimulant energy.>3. CocainFeels like a less intense form of MDMA with a much shorter and more controllable high. Really should be everyone's number one choice.>4. KetamineFun hazy feeling. You feel kinda separated from the world and can hallucinate if you do enough.>5. Nitros oxideKind of like a ketamine high that only lasts 15 seconds. Cheap, easy, fun, no after effects.>6. Amphetamine (speed)Gives manic energy for the same length of time as MDMA but with much less of the happy feeling. Still has the exhaustion after. This is were the list gets to drugs I don't really like.>7. LSD (and similar designer hallucinigens)1st trip was fun. 2nd trip was horrible. I lost the ability to retain short-term memory and I thought I was gonna be stuck as a retard forever. 3rd time was fun again but mixed with ketamine so I think that helped me stay calm. I also was more aware that the effects would be temporary. Probably won't do it again, I don't like the complete loss of situational awareness.>8. NicotineBarely a drug really. Can be a relaxing everyday habbit.>9. CanibisJust makes me go to sleep. I still do it every time I'm offered though because I'm an idiot. Although I did actually enjoy it when I smoked it while travelling in South East Asia, maybe it was a different strain.
>>45289326I think it's because they don't want to be thought of as trannies, they want to be thought of as normal women. By being attracted their tranniness, you are ruining that for them. Some of them don't care though and just want to get laid.
>>45289117>whats lsd like for you?It's pretty nuts, but also fun. Both times I did it at music festivals, the first one was more intense than the second.I liked techno music already but just cuz I'm an autist who likes repetitive electronic music. On LSD, I understood why people like dubstep, which kind of annoyed me before. If I bent forwards at the right times, I felt like I was blasting into outer space, it looked (and felt?) sorta similar to when you might see a space ship go into warp speed in Star Tre2k.Visuals are intense. My wife's jacket had a drawing of a face on it that looked like it was talking to me, some guy in front of me had a tattoo of a DND-style D20 and it started to rotate and I tried to grab it (wife stopped me lol). Looked at a bunch of Persian rugs and the patterns were moving around, trees and buildings looked like they were CGI graphics from the 90s. Stuff like that.Never hallucinated anything that wasn't really there from scratch, no psychosis, no voices, nothing like that. First time I did get overwhelmed by the number of people around briefly and had to sit down for a bit, but I was good within five mins of that.It's really easy to laugh at stupid shit. You can also get stuck in mental loops, for better or worse. I also spent some time thinking about my personal life and family, had some insights there, some I was at the cusp of anyways, some I hadn't thought of in a bit. Space and time kinda get messed up, sometimes you think you're moving a lot or far or can't tell how close people are to you.Both of these are not too dissimilar from MDMA, but I'd say LSD is a bit less emotional and much more distortional.Unlike MDMA, it didn't give me any internal physical feelings, nothing in my skin or chest or anything like that like with MDMA. No headaches or hangovers or anything either, despite staying up late both times.Very fun but I could see how people who do it regularly could lose touch with reality.
>>45288731I love weeeeeeeeeed :3
>>45289381Put your penis in my mouth and feed me, genuinely
i could not handle any hallucination or distortion reality.
>>45289524If you take reasonable doses of mushrooms you are always aware that your hallucinations aren't real.
>>45289504funniest bit about all of this is that im a guyplease go back to cg thanks
>>45284982ok you got mebut I guess im more just scared of sex with men, like i just jerk off to some weird stuff but idk if it would work irl, and i would feel bad if i give a really bad bji was going to make a hinge but then i was flashbanged as the "best" photos of myself show me as pretty tall and masculine, it was the first time i realized i might actually have some kind of dsyphoria idk, at least because I want to be perceived as small and submissive but im really tall and have a strong jawline. i realized basically most straight women wouldn't be interested in me along with most gay men which really made me feel bad. im feeling better now so might try again... both with hinge and grindr
>>45289381El oh El tee bee haych familia. I hope you don't push away people who think you're good looking.
>>45289672There's someone for everyone homie. Only way to find them is put yourself out there. You'll be fine.
>>45289680you have your own thread go back there
>>45289709I'm bisexual and attracted to men and women. Even men on hrt. I think I'll stay.
absolute state of this board
>>45288731Nicotine and addy.
>>45288731none, i dont use drugs, and i stopped drinking about 7 months ago, i am sober since april. feels great.
>>45290594Have you found that sobriety has impacted your social life? I felt great when I was sober for a while but it definitely made it harder to interact with friends.
>>45290875I wouldn't say so, i think i am doing even better, i go out more and wake up much better as well.why did it become harder for you to interact with friends?
>>45290893I use alcohol to help with my social anxiety and all my friends drank and did drugs so it became harder for me to relate with them and vice versa.Tbh I've only ever been able to make friends with drug addicts and alcoholics. They seem to be the only people that are ever on my wavelength. I also get on with other tabletop gaming nerds, but only end up making close bonds with the drinky ones. Can't imagine getting close to someone without getting drunk with them first.
>>45291114well i befriended all of my friends outside of bars or junkie dens, i just occasionally drank with them and some smoked weed and stuff but it was never appealing to me. i dont think i have too much social anxiety, only a little at times.
2020 bigen was the best bigen, it had the best cast of regulars and constant activity and little to no trolls/shitposting
>>45291237overall board and site quality is abysmal right now
Are there any other boards or gens that match bigen's chill vibe? /an/ and /out/ are both cool but slow and probably only work if you like animals and hiking.
>>45291381/sig/ is pretty chill too
>>45270509am i BI if i'm a transphobe?i mean, i really like faggotsi don't know if i could fall in love for them, but fucking them would be awesomebut as soon as i learn that they are trannies, i just ask myself "why though?"
>>45291470Yeah, you're still bi, just an unusual breed. There are trans-exclusionary LGB movements. Maybe you'd relate with those guys.
>>45274443You sound really cute.
>>45291604Chasity cages are the absolute worst, most dogshit thing to ever happen to gay porn.
>>45291830I enjoy the feeling of wearing one but don't really see any apeal in watching others wear them. It's a weirdly self-centred fetish considering it's meant to deny the wearer's pleasure.
>>45292329I think it also appeals to beta male brain logic. 'I can't please a women with my penis therefore she will be pleased with me locking it away'. It's doesn't really make sense when you think about it but it activates my monkey brain neurons.
>>45291532>There are trans-exclusionary LGB movements. Maybe you'd relate with those guys.Every single LGB movement is just straight people that will get rid of the faggots the second they're done with the trannies
>>45292361>It's doesn't really make sensefailed boys/demigirls should know their place :3
>>45292361cage looks appealing to me when i want to be in the sub position as a means to be closer to feminine body with a contained/minimized phallic organ dangling around, idk if it makes sense
FAMILIA BISSEXUALIENSE
>>45292466You are a nigger and an enemy of Christ.
Has anyone else experienced this? After getting out of my last relationship with a woman, I’ve been specifically leaning more towards men and trans females over cis females
>>45292709failed boy pp meltie delicious ;3
>>45292466Yeah maybe I should ;)
>>45292711I think that makes sense. You'll want to try something different after being with one person for a long time.
>>45292985well, how failed of a boy are you? are you a big boy, an average boy, smaller than average? average on purpose or not? cute one that just aren't lucky?
>>45293040Not that failed really. I'm handsome with a decent body and 6 inches. I'm just terrified of women due to autism and failed socialisation. I do fine with men but kind of want a woman to own me. Thank god I'm bi.
>>45293198oh ok, then i can't help you at all if you want to be owned by a woman, bye
>>45293241:(
I've never met a bi person with as little sexual experience as me. Makes me feel like I might just be porn sick and confused.I'm not a virgin but I'm 31 and have only had real (straight piv) sex once and never had a relationship.Idk what to do.
>>45293574If you're attracted to men, why haven't you made use of all the desperate men on grindr? Or just gone to gay bars to get hit on?
>>45293599I've had gay sex once. No anal tho. I do wanna do it again. I still flirt and make out with a cute guy when the opportunity arises but going the whole way feels like too much work.For men it's honestly just laziness. I'm not interested romantically in dudes so you're right, all I really need to do to satisfy a need for cock is to use sniffies (grindr is horribly unusable). Except I wind up just jacking off and calling it a night.I was half joking about gay sex not being real but also not really joking. It's incorrect to think that but it's still a bias I have. And that's another thing that makes banging men feel not worth it. Because it's not going to prove my worth as a man. It's just using gayness to cope with not being able to hack it in the straight world.I know it's stupid and internalized biphobia or something but that's the way my head works.Women are a drag to be around sometimes. One little misstep and you get written off instantly. And being around women when other men are in the same room is a drag all the time. Everything becomes a competition. Except there is no competition because the other men in the room are years ahead in life experience. Extroverted men immediately monopolize the attention of the girls there and thats it.
>>45293716nta but why are you so concerned with your "worth as a man." that's a ridiculous thing to pursue because your worth is not measured by who or how you have sex with, it's mostly measured by your social standing such as salary, looks, charisma, position etc. women can be drag but that's what makes them interesting. you can view them as a puzzle to solve. doesn't mean that you are going to solve all the puzzles in the world, right? some of them you will, some of them you won't. and as you solve these puzzles, you will get better at them, understand the cues much faster and better and react accordingly. its only a competition in your head.
>>45293716Idk man it just sounds like you need to force yourself to take the plunge with trying to fuck men more. I relate to the whole insecurity from internalised biphobia thing, but ultimately you weren't getting laid either way. You will feel more accomplished for at least having sex with a man. You'll also get the satisfaction of sexual social contact which masterbation can never fulfill.>Women are a drag to be around sometimes. One little misstep and you get written off instantly. And being around women when other men are in the same room is a drag all the time.I also totally get this. One of the best things about being gay or bi is that you can fuck men who are way more relatable and easy than almost any women are. Just fucking do it. All you'll miss out on is getting to feel tits (which you weren't doing anyway).
>>45293716I don't know why those crazies are trying to convince you to fuck men if you don't want to. Men are a waste of time and aren't worth it and you must be retarded if you want to date one long term. Women is what you should look for, sure you should use a fag to get bent or fuck him once in a while if you're looking for a quickie, but women is what you should aim to have monogamous normal relationship with.
>>45270509>Am I bi if i have periods where I feel only attracted to women and others where I feel only attracted to men?>This is known as the bi-cycle and many bisexuals experience it.Has anyone else found that sex toys help with this? I used to constantly yearn to cheat on my boyfriend with a woman, but now I don't need to since I can just fondle my own pair of giant wearable silicon tits.
>>45294030>sure you should use a fag to get bent or fuck him once in a while if you're looking for a quickieI'm pretty sure that's all he's looking to do. He's only had sex with one woman and one man by age 31. Dude needs some more experience.
I wish these threads were still good
>>45294087That just means you don't need a boyfriend but need a woman and it's not working. Could be hot if you wore this pair while in a girl. You can do it.>>45294118Just saying, he can do what he wants but he shouldn't focus on men at all. He's at the age where he's supposed to have a family too, a normal one, with a dad and a mom, not parent 1/2.
>>45294180>That just means you don't need a boyfriend but need a woman and it's not working. Could be hot if you wore this pair while in a girl. You can do it.Yeah maybe, but I don't think I'd ever click with someone else as much as I do with my bf, especially with women. I think it'll be better to grow old with someone I love than someone I don't love that just has temporarily good tits. I don't really want kids either way. >He's at the age where he's supposed to have a family tooI disagree. Women have a ticking biological clock but men can pretty much wait as long as they want to have kids. It's better to wait to find the perfect wife rather than rush things just because you're over 30. Getting some more experience with sex and relationships first could help with this goal, even if it's just with men at first.
>>45288731easy. weed.
>>45294125At least they aren't dying with less than 10 replies anymore
>>45293716Sounds like you have a hang up over how you are perceived by women more than anything. You don't have to be some sex maniac just because you're bi.
I get tons of attention from both men & woman but it freaks me out because i was molested as a kidWhat am I to do my last relationship was long distance which was nice because i didn't have to have sex that often until i got dumped because we didn't have sex that oftenAnd i do like sex just not as the core reason we spend time together you know?
