Just for context, he was the one who asked me out and he didn't stop being interested when I told him my age. We've been dating since summer and he's way more charming than I first thought the more we get to know each other.We haven't had sex yet and it kinda scares me since we're both virgins. He knows I'm trans and is okay with it because he says he doesn't want kids. I've been post op for like 5 years anyway so it wouldn't be weird for a straight guy like him to be with me, but...I think about how big the gap in age is sometimes and it feels like I'd be holding him back from someone more appropriate for him even though I feel in my heart like we're actually compatible in a lot of ways ourselves. I've talked with him about it and he says I'm being silly and he likes me despite the age, and I like him back despite the age too. I guess I have brainworms about being liked at all too and I don't want to hurt him while he's so young by being the wrong woman for him to be with in the end.Am I overthinking this? Is this actually wrong and I should stop him while I still can?
hood knowledge dictates you shouldn't go below 23. like he's an adult so legally its whatever but damn lady
He’s gonna be a different person in five years as his brain fully develops, how okay are you with that? Are you going to be less attracted to him as he ages into an actual man?
>>45298386Humans are sexually ready-to-go at like 13
>>45298364it's not illegal, but it's weird and reflects poorly on you that youd willingly date somebody almost half your age, like you cant find somebody in your own peer group or generation. it's your life, so it doesnt matter anyway
>>45298415You wouldnt say the same if op was cis. Stop being phobic.
>>45298403please shove your head in a hydraulic press
>>45298364>is it weird for an adult to date a literal high schoolerLmao>he doesn't want kidsMost kids don't
>>45298428same is true for cis women. or cis men desu. dating someone half your age is weird and people will think you can't find someone in your own peer group
>>45298430They’re correct, the problem is puberty happens long before you have life experience and responsibility for sex and relationships
That's actually ideal, you can get two good years out of him and then dump him a for a newer model
>>45298386I thought he was older when we started talking so I entertained him hitting on me.>>45298400>He’s gonna be a different person in five years as his brain fully develops, how okay are you with that?I think I'm okay with it but it is one of the things that I thought I should talk to him about. He's still so early in his life and he's going to go through a lot of different phases every adult goes through. I have this fantasy that I could him him navigate some of them but I don't know if it'd actually play out like that.>Are you going to be less attracted to him as he ages into an actual man?He actually already looks at least 20-22. When he first started talking to me when we met I assumed he was that age, and he said I looked young for my age and that I was around 22-24. I don't know how much of that is flattery but on the surface I guess it looks like we're in the same age bracket, and I'm already attracted to him.>>45298415>it's weird and reflects poorly on you that youd willingly date somebody almost half your age, like you cant find somebody in your own peer group or generation.>>45298449>people will think you can't find someone in your own peer groupI've barely dated anyone at all. I knew I didn't want to until SRS, and after that I guess I just felt too old and like I had no experience anyway. This was around covid so nobody was approaching me in person either. I got maybe too comfortable with the though of dying alone for a while until he showed up, and now my heart is a lot more confusing having him in it. I don't mean that in a bad way.>>45298431>Most kids don'tI mean, I can't have kids so I put it out of my mind a long time ago when I started HRT. I'd be okay adopting.
>>45298428You don't know me, I absolutely would say that it's weird and predatory for somebody over a certain age to date somebody under a certain age. N/2 + 7 is the most ethical rule, and anybody dating somebody 5 years younger than even that minimum is weird to me.
>>45298509>I meanWhat I meant is that you're dating a childHow do you even have things in common to talk about?
>>45298485I would NEVER. Even if I can't be with him I would never want to hurt him. He's such a sweet and strongwilled man but that might crush him.>>45298579>hat I meant is that you're dating a childHe's young and I have my concerns over that, but I don't even think that 18 is a child myself. Child is like, pre-puberty. To me he's in that phase right between late teens and early adulthood, which is... awkward to think about in theory but it hasn't made anything awkward in person yet.>How do you even have things in common to talk about?We just kind of like the same stuff and it was easy to start talking. We'd both played the game I'm posting, Persona 5, recently and talked about it. It also turns out he's a big movie nerd, and I've been watching a lot more movies the last few years, so that was another ice breaker for us. We do talk about our lives and thoughts on random things too, that's how I know we feel compatible in our values and goals.
>>45298885Go ahead and date a child that's still in high school, it's obviously what you want, just don't kid yourself about what this is
>>45298364You and your bf sound like you are very happy together! Ideally both of you would be dating someone in the same stage of life as you. If you guys break up please date someone your age and eventually settle down with someone because 32 is up there in age. I know it’s rude to say that, but I just wanted to tell you incase you didn’t consider that.
>>45298400He'll definitely be a different person in five years, but the 'brain develops into an adult brain at 24' thing is actually a myth, the cut off for most of those studies was around 24 and misinterpreting it made for good headlines.
>>45298364They gonna call your ass groomer but desu I don't see nothing wrong with it other than the fact that you're dating someone you lack the ability to relate to in terms of generational upbringing. I don't think I could date someone who wasn't emotionally neglected by their parents and raised by newgrounds, like me and my wonderful husband.
"Are they too old" is a question only the younger person has to ask. As the older person, you should only acknowledge that you have a lot of power and a lot of risk. You could do a lot of good! But also a lot of evil, so take care. This can be beautiful.
>>45298364giwtwm
>>45298364>is it bad to realize a young's man dreams
No, it's not wrong at all. I am 31 and date 18 year old boys all the time. I've been doing this since I was 27 and got a taste of an 18 year old boy for the first time. He was literally 18 and 1 month old but I talk to high school boys often. I like when they call me mom in every aspect of life, especially during sex, then I imagine myself as his literal mother and try to psyop myself into forgetting it's just a fantasy. Thinking of myself as his literal mother makes the taboo aspect way hotter. Zoomers are such puritanical sexless losers, back in the day things were much worse and it's not like he's 14, it's not creepy at all, he's an adult. All trannies have extreme age gap relationships and I've been with men way older than me. No one cares and it's not illegal. The age of consent is also lower than that in many states.
he will want children eventually anyways
>>45300427do you really want to continue having "relationships" (pump and dumps).that bear no fruit until you turn 50?
>>45300463you clearly don't understand how these age gap relationships work because the tranny is basically a groomer (but remember they're 18), the man falls in love for life, and is mentally attached to her permanently. it is actually easier for me to get married this way because he will have stockholm syndrome for me. It's also better because there were no stupid low IQ women that made him feel jaded by ruining his life being immature. I'm mature so his first experience with women will be happy and healthy. Really, I'm a humanitarian for hooking up with young boys
>>45300427GIWTWM
>>45300503I'll drive you home from high school and if you're good I'll buy you an ice cream
>>45298400"The brain fully develops" holy fucking retardRead the actual study for once you imbecile, then you'd know that the garbage retarded people like you cite is related to self-control and literally nothing elsePeople have better developed self-control at 25 than at 20, that is literally it
NOBODY likes trannies over the age of 24
Trannies that groom men at 18 years and 1 second old are saving them from being traumatized by loser bum women their own age. There is nothing with 30 year old women dating 18 year old men. Prove me wrong, woke leftoids.
>>45300793t. used goodsYou're jealous and coping because you're too old to be loved, testosterone destroyed your body and now you'll never be a beautiful teen twink boy all the 18 year old boys in the city want me and there's nothing you can do about it
>>45298364Nothing wrong with this. It is insane to demand that an 18 year old must stick only to pre-approved older figures still at that age, and it is one of the real ultimate reasons why this whole age gap discourse keeps becoming stricter. In almost no culture on Earth would this be considered abnormal, and there is no objective evidence to push this as harmful on its own.
>>45300839I'm a virgin>you're too old to be lovedBut yes, that is precisely my point.
>>45300888So you're a tranny? then you're delusional and just generally mentally ill with an overly negative mentality. You choose to not put yourself out there or you put no effort into your transition. Just try harder in life to better your situation.
>>45298403Diddy aah blud
>>45300975why do you type like you ate lead paint as a child?
18yo is young adult. I think he should he able to decide for himself whether he wants to date you.Tho its funny that the hypergamy has gotten so bad that the match for an 18yo guy is a no-womb tranny over a decade his senior lol .Good on him for getting even a crumb of surgical-grade fake pussy
no i was 15 dating a 28 year old trans woman, you’re good dawg don’t stress it
>>45301154beast mode
>>45298386>>45298449>>45300043>>45300224>>45300766Okay but how about dating a 20yr old as a 25yr old tranny? Is that acceptable?
>>45301154lmao. a bit young but kinda based. why are all trans women pedophiles? >>45301216eww so old. why do you have an adult men fetish?
>>4530122615 is too old for a pedo though
>>45301216if it's legal then do it, literally no one can stop you, let the moralfags seethe. why would you give narcissists the control they want? as soon as you capitulate on one thing they'll come for something else.
>>45301236Not according to the FBI lol though 16 is legal in half the states in America
>>45301226i miss her everyday.. she’s not a pedo btw don’t call her that she just took advantage of a situation that presented itself. yk if a guy rapes a drunk girl he really isn’t a rapist he’s just taking advantage of said situation do you catch my drift
>>45301236erm acktually it would be called a ephebophile ohohhoho brah no one cares it’s the same thing fuck you
>>45298364Yes, stop being a fucking optics nuke you predator
>>45298364how tall r u and him PLEASE tell me
>>45301048lmaooooooooo
>>45301392optics nukes aren't real, cis people made those up to turn you into an autocuck.
>>45301349You miss her every day because she groomed you. Also, she is a pedophile, legally at least. But technically she is a hebephile. Anyway why are LITERALLY all trans women pedophiles? >>45301363sounds like you have an adult men fetish>>45301392ewwwwwww you have an adult men fetish. how is it an optics nuke? cis women do it too and you don't screech at them for that>>45301425for me he's 5'11" and I'm 5'6"
>>45301468no retard i miss her everyday because she was my GIRLFRIEND, stop projecting
>>45301488so how good was the sex?
>>45301504sex…? who said we had sex, we were online dating and never met up because i fucked up. well actually we had e sex and it was hot as fuck so yeah pretty awesome i believe
>>45301468you're evil
Wow this thread really took off while I was working.>>45300043I think being a different person in 5 years is normal for anybody. I was different when I was 27 from who I am now. I was different at 23 from who I was at 27, or 23 from 18, and so on. It's normal for anyone to change over a span that long, that's just growing up no matter how old you get.>>45300224I think he is beautiful!>>45300427Like I said, he asked me out first. I don't seek out men this young to date, life just happened that way and he just turned out to be very compatible with me. Nobody has cared yet, but we also haven't really told anyone we're dating and thinking about making us official.4chan is flagging me for spam for some reason so I have to cut this reply up, sorry!
>>45301693nah I only date legal men, i'm ethical
>>45300444Maybe, maybe. if he does I can support him in that decision. I already said I'd gotten comfortable with the though of dying alone, and while it'd hurt to lose him like that, I think I can handle it.>>45300599He already gets himself home from school fine, but his graduation is next year and the thought of an old lady like me coming to pick him up from it or hanging on his arm in the audience is... very strange! But nice, I think if it's with him I could take the weird looks from people.>>45301425I'm one inch taller than him that's all I'm saying. I think it's cute.
It’s only bad if the genders are reversed.
>>45301714yeah you're evil like I said
>>45301731Exactly it's okay for trans women to be pedo with 18 year old men but it's not okay for men or anyone to go for young women.
>>45300427>back in the day things were much worsei think you mean better
>>45301747>be pedo>with 18 year old menwords have meanings you retard
>>45301746How can it be evil when it's legal? If it's evil, why doesn't anyone try to ban it? Not a single person cares enough beyond clutching their pearls online. If it really bothered you, you'd be an activist trying to stop it. >>45301757what do you mean by that young man
>>45301763you're evil because you support and uphold the status quo by calling trans women pedophiles online
>>45301762he's a teenage boy tho and in high school
>>45301747Teenaged guys all like older women. No one likes FUB’s outside of fiction.
>>45301775They are pedophiles yeah, not a single person is bothered by this threadand how is an 18 year old boy more mature or developed than a 16 year old boy
>>45301776teenagers are not children
>>45301789both an 18 year old and 16 year old boy are developmentally mature enough to be considered adults retard
>>45301790depends on the number but to the police they are between 13-17 for sure depending on the state, legally they aretechnically I guess not? >>45301798so you agree trans women are pedophiles
>>45301799police do not have the authority to speak over biology. teenagers are not children.
>>45301810That's some pedophile talk which agrees with my point, it's a heinous idea in the eyes of normal society even if you're right. If you said that irl you'd be a pariah. That being said I'm not going to date 16 year old boys, 18 years and 1 second at minimum
>>45301468>ewwwwwww you have an adult men fetish. how is it an optics nuke? cis women do it too and you don't screech at them for thatI don't like men. And yes i do, and i'm going to hold you to the same standards as i do ciswomen. You don't get a magical criticism shield because you're a trans woman
>>45301833normal society has been brainwashed by decades upon decades of jewish propaganda i don't give a shit what they think I care about the truth, the one that all of human history agreed with until kikes got their hands on radio and television broadcasting.
>>45301835>I don't like menGross so you're AGP but at least you're not creeping on younger women shaking my head at AGPs trying to police real women from cougarmaxxing >You don't get a magical criticism shield because you're a trans womanYes I do shaming me for dating 18 year old boys is transphobic because it's normal trans woman culture
>>45301860>jews won't let me be a pedophilewe're really doing this huh
>>45301862>Yes I do shaming me for dating 18 year old boys is transphobic because it's normal trans woman cultureGo back to kiwifarms, discord or whatever shit website you came from
>>45301879If it's wrong why do you not do anything about it other than clutch your pearls online? Why aren't you being an activist stopping trannies or older women in general from dating 18 year old boys? I'll tell you why, because you're a virtue signaling loser that doesn't have any actual values. No one will care if you try to start a movement, no one actually fucking cares, including you. You're just being performative online from your mother's basement. You can't even explain how it's wrong lol.
>>45301909>Why aren't you being an activist stopping trannies or older women in general from dating 18 year old boysBecause i have much better things to do with my life than obsess over losers like you, if i were to meet someone like you i'd probably tell other people that you're a diddy and exclude you from shit because no one actually likes you creeps.
>>45301909i tag "kill your local rapist" at every bus stop, i'm doing my part
>>45301349nah dawg that's fucking rape. in what way did she "take advantage of the situation" with you?
>>45301943yeah that's not really doing anything man that's just midlording
>>45301935>Because i have much better things to do with my lifeNo you don't, you're wasting your time arguing online about something you don't actually care about because you're performative >>45301943how is it rape when it's consensual? Debate me, woke leftists. >>45301955I don't blame her that much maybe she was lonely? I wouldn't go for younger than 18 personally but at least she didn't have sex with him. I feel like it's not that bad otherwise he would report her and she'd be in jail? Sounds like he had a good experience and he truly loved her
>>45301943you are a terrorist
>>45302080based, owning these performative woke faggots
That thread started based but of course some fag had to talk about hebephilia and 15 year olds and others had to take the bait
>>45302202this thread is still based
>>45302202they ruined some tasty cougarslop by making it too predcore baka
>>45302202i dont even like 15 year olds theyre too old
>>45302223No one here dates 15 year olds retard, a 15 year old boy is the one who shared a story about getting groomed >>45302244kek
>>45300162>I don't think I could date someone who wasn't emotionally neglected by their parents and raised by newgroundswow thats me too lol nice
>>45298403diddy moid
>>45298364yeah, you probably met him through some kind of pedophile method. and the character you're avatarfriending with is also a canon pedophile.you already know what you are so idk why you're asking the internet>b-but 18highschoolers is highschoolers idunnowhattotellya
>>45302415all trannies are pedos at least she is going for legal boys and at least she's straightwhat's the problem moralfag
>>45302415isnt the character persona 5 teacher or something? so she can date a high schooler if he initiates? thats not pedophilia you're retarded
>>45302837Based, all trannies are pedophiles that date high school boys
>>45298364no but it probably won't work out
>>45302845pedophiles dont like high schoolers
>>45298364if i were in your place i would take my chances with 18 years old but niggas here are old and bitter and you shouldn't take their words for shit
>>45302244fuck you old wench >>45302271>no one here dates 15 year oldsi’d beg to differ
>>45303153liar you wouldn't say that so brazenly if it were real >>45303073sure pedoanon
>>45301955it’s RAPE but he’s not a rapist, the situation presented itself and she took it, that’s what i’m trying to say, she doesn’t go out of her way to date teens yk so yeah hmu LOL please i miss her so bad
>>45302014thank you nona, she was lonely, it was consensual and i really did love her, in the end i fucked up terribly but she isn’t a bad person what so ever, she’s an angel and i miss her everyday
Fuck all the jealous faggots in this thread. Enjoy your teen boy pet, op. Treat him better than his mother ever would and bring him up like a prince.
>>45303208exactly. stopping trannies from dating teen boys is transphobic.
>>45303213It's teen boy-phobic! You hate what you can't have!
this is so fucking funny
>>45298364Reverse the genders, is it gross now?Then it's gross.You're the adult, you should be doing this math, him being willing doesn't mean anything. There's willing 13 year olds, that's why kids can't consent.>b-buh 18!!!!ick
>>45303224ye we trannies tend to think we are above societal norms because we are high IQ. rules are for stupid people. that's why I'm now a teacher at the local all boys academy. idk why it makes normies seethe so much. >>45303249cope you're jealous because young 18 year old boys don't wan't you, you're too ugly to nab high schoolers.
>>45303268I didn't even want to fuck 18 year olds when I was 18 so no, the pedophile defense of "everyone would do it if they could" doesn't hold. I don't care what larp you're playing, the fact that you're writing this even as some subversion betrays your hand more than the truth would. You are a rot on the world.
>>45303249>Reverse the genders, is it gross now?Actual retard
Honestly if an older tranny had met me when I was an 18 year old boy, she might have been able to train me into being a man of quality. Alas, I am a waste of meat. But it just a matter of taking responsibility. When you're the 18y/o there's no way of knowing whether your pederast is just going to use you, or if they'll practice the "philosophical love" prized by the Greeks. As the pederast, it isn't a matter of doubt, but of choice, so choose to love well!
>>45303329>pederast Lol another tranny confirmed herself to be pedoInteresting my theory always proves itself to be true >>45303306ugly moid cope
>>45303334If you read it I'm just confirming that I always wished I had a responsible pedo in my life.
>>45303306I prefer men older than me by like 3 or 4 years, but surely you can't really believe that someone above the legal age of consent.. can't consent..? people gotta be adults at some point, like I understand thinking it's creepy if an adult is going after a minor, but a legal adult with a legal adult shouldn't be an issue
>>45303400NTA but I don't believe anyone can consent. We're all incapacitated by collective hypnosis. We can only asked whether the people around us are going to reincarnate in hell for how they treated us or not, it has nothing to do with consent.
transwomen date young guys. I blame male socialization
>>45303175if im a pedo and im saying pedos dont like high schoolers what kind of hole in your head do you have to respond to that in mocking doubt
>>45303474what the hell is wrong with you man
>>45303485I guess what is wrong with me is that I'm too smart for you
>>45303496I'm pretty sure pedos have low IQ, is what studies would say. That is why incest is common in redneck states like Alabama.
>>45303512I've always assumed the IQ stat has to do with getting caught or impulse control. We already know 100% of elites are pedos since last year, and if that's not enough to conclude that all men are, it at least shows they don't have to be dumb.
>>45303512people who have been convicted of sex crimes against children have low IQ is what studies say. studies also say that the vast majority of people who commit sex crimes against children are not pedophiles.
>>45301468>Anyway why are LITERALLY all trans women pedophiles?because boys are cute
>>45298364based based based.if this had happened to me id be fixed.
>>4529836432 year old virgin never passoid using an 18 year old to live out their arrested development. Who am I kidding this is bait.
>18>post puberty and legal adult>"pedophilia"When did this board become bluesky?
>>45305738like 7 years ago
>>45298364>I've been post op for like 5 years anywayAn angel who lost her wings
