talking to people online makes me depressed. I'm always comparing my life to theirs and it's tiring. I hate myself and my stupid brain.>be neet due to poor mental health >no irl friends >anxiety stops me from going outside much>Vent about being a tranny loser in spaces>get told I'm a failure and to just get a jobYou're not wrong but with an empty resume, no socialization skills, or real independence it makes everything 1000x harder.idk why, but I feel like I'm not even allowed to have friends until I get a job, it fucking sucks. I don't know what to do with my life. I make digital art, and that's all I'm really worth desu. (picrel not my art tho)
>>45301326yea i know i know im the same way, its at the point now where my friends multiple years younger than me have careers and im actually old. still no degree, never had a job.it does feel just like im not allowed to have a normal life, i applied to jobs before and got rejected from the lowest rung, i dont have a car so i cant travel very far. idk what im even supposed to do or how people actually have skills and careers that pay a lot. ill never be able to get surgeries and my transition is dead in the water.
>>45301326how old are you anyway? i am pretty sure you can turn things around
>>45301326you just need a good fucking. I can fix you.
>>45301386learn 2 code.. oh wait nvm
make porn
>>45301386yeah, I'm basically in the same situation. never had a job, haven't made any friends, and I am completely socially inept. I apply to jobs but I mostly get ignored cause my fucking resume is empty. which is something I can't wrap my head around. People want me to work, I try, but they won't even give me a chance so idk.I hate myself.>>4530139424. by the end of next year I'll be 25 and desu I'll probably rope before then if things don't get better.
>>45301448Im getting back into drawing it. so atleast I have that. just need to stay consistent now.>>45301422I doubt sex would do anything for me. I'd just make you transphobic cause I'm disgusting looking.
im in the same situation except i failed high school and repeated a few years and failed them too, now im a neet that cannot even get a job until i can finish school, which ive decided i wont ever do. i sympathize with you and hope you can get better than i can
>>45301456you can start collage for a degree
>>45301326>dk why, but I feel like I'm not even allowed to have friends until I get a job, it fucking sucksI feel exactly the same way, I can't make friends because I'm too embarrassed to tell people that I'm a NEET who dropped out of grade 12 sue to mental illness.
>>45301438ive met ppl that still got jobs learning to code idk if they got fired or what but they were making 6 figures, code just looks like gobbledegook to me, these ppl are like 23 year old kids and are smarter than i will ever be in my whole life
>>45301326just become a house wife and now suddenly you're a winner compared to all the single girlies who work
>>45301326>>45301456Don't know how it is where you're at, but have you tried retail stores? Specifically backroom/stocking, so not customer-facing. I doubt they're expecting resumes, and during the holidays they should be hiring more than usual. Supposedly Amazon hires anyone with a pulse, but I don't have any experience with them to know whether that's true.>anxiety stops me from going outside muchThis is probably your biggest obstacle, I don't think you'll be able to address any of your other issues until this one is taken care of first. Too much competition for full-time remote work, and there's the experience/resume issue, anyways. Unfortunately, I don't have any advice I can think of for getting over that, what exactly is your anxiety about?
>>45301326except for irl friends which I have (I got lucky and half of my friends that I got trough discord live in the same city so sometimes hang out together).I feel the same, there's a point that you;re just too old to get a job if you dont have experience and have too much social anxiety. noone will hire you. the worst part is that my clock is ticking. my parents are dead and I'm living with my grandma, when she dies (which could be soon, as she's 85) I'll have noone to help and no place to stay, I'm fucked.
>>45301665Isn't this just the same situation with a different coat of paint though?
i technically have a job, but it's remote and i barely have to do anything at iti'm extremely anxious, i'm depressed, and i'm unsocializedquite often, my only social interaction during the day is 4chan
>>45301470get really good at drawing niche fetish porn and sell commissions, rich freaks have no sense of the value of money
>>45301326neetdom is a curse
>>45303022no because you won't be a loner and have someone to pay stuff for you
>>45303839But it doesn't actually fix any of the listed problems though. Also, how many people out there are well enough off to be fine with a stay at home wife?
>>45303270cute, id socialize you
>>45304983thank you, anon, feel free to leave your email or any other contact
>>45301326yeah even if i were to get back on my feet or "re-enter society" or whatever, the fact that i'd been a piece of shit NEET for years would be a massive handicap no matter what. i'll always be marked by it. a permanent blemish..and the worst part is i'm not even one of those smart neets who masters or creates or becomes an expert in something-or-other. i'm a fucking dumbass idiot and i have like nothing to show for all these years
>>45305100where are you located?
>>45305270southeastern europe
>>45305208>the fact that i'd been a piece of shit NEET for years would be a massive handicap no matter what. i'll always be marked by it.If you're talking social life then I think most people would not judge too harshly if they know you're trying to escape it, it's not the same as someone who's a neet and gloats about it. Employment is a different story, though I think the job market these past years has been terrible in general. Even a late start is better than the alternative, though.>i'm not even one of those smart neets who masters or creates or becomes an expert in something-or-other.How many are actually like that though, this sounds incredibly cherrypicked and not something you should be using for comparison.
Just get to work
>>45301326you dont need a job you need a plan
>>45301326try to find a way to get yourself outside.i pretty much only go out at 2am to skateboard and get coffee but even that helps a lot. anything that breaks you out of dooming and scrolling in your room helps.idk if it's your kind of art but plein air is great for drawing gains. [spoiler]it's gonna get really fucking cold in a few weeks but still[/spoiler]there are also figure drawing sessions pretty much anywhere where there's a community college. it might not make you any friends but it'd still get you into a room with other people in a low expectation setting
>>45303270>my only social interaction during the day is 4chanme for the past 15 years
>>45301326>I feel like I'm not even allowed to have friends until I get a jobNot a good mindset to have, you're basically handicapping yourself at a time when you need all the help you can get.>>45305624>anything that breaks you out of dooming and scrolling in your room helps.This.
