Anyone else here who has lived through an abortion of a sick child? How do you cope?
>>535533214Drinking, mostly. Alone in the dark, perferably also the rain. Also, marry that poor woman and give her the life she deserves.
>>535533214get your wife pregnant again, the pain lasts forever though
>>535533214Had to abort a miscarriage. I hope life improves and you can bring a child into the world.
>>535533731Can you share your story?>>535533746Sorry to hear that, at least you didn't have to make painful decisions.>>535533746I did, we had a successful pregnancy and we now have a little girl. But the grief and the shame never goes away. Some days I feel terrible, it's been two years.
>>535533214i'd hire a prostitute and fuck her brains out while my wife watches
>>535533214Prayer would be best, meditation, lose yourself in work or trying again. If you didn't feel bad then you'd be like the other antinatalist pro-murder psychos, but in your case its justified imo. So mourn but don't drink yourself to death. I'd say get high on weed if you have to even though pol is pretty adamantly antiweed at present but if I could partake I'd take it over alcohol easily given that I quit drinking. But it might put you in a better mindset, alcohol is best for celebrations and this ain't it chief. Go for a walk in nature, try to listen to running water. Go to a support group or go be amongst friends. I'll pray for you tonight anon.
>>535534136>grief and the shameFor aborting a retard? Soft cunt
>>535533214Hey anonWife had a late miscarriage and saw the fetus in toilet Fucks you up badHave two kids now and i know you will be okWe have come to agree that the child was not viable and had to move forward Love ya man
>>535533214it wasn't your fault
>>535533658What! Lol.>>535533214Dodged a bullet.
>>535533214Make another one
>>535535527that's horrible anon, i'm sorryi guess it's good in hindsight that my wife's miscarriages were all really early
This is how emasculated modern man has become. I can understand women feeling fucked up over this but serious dude, get your fucking shit together.
>>535533214If you or the mother were vaccinated, then the vaccine was the cause of the termination. Jews murdered your child, and possibly ended your bloodlines by sterilizing you. Be sure the public knows that.
I've never been pregnant
>>535533214have more kids. the pain never goes away though.
>>535535527your wife shat out the baby in the toilet? sorry but lmao
Grief from losing an unborn child has never registered for me as a feeling that makes sense, but I have never experienced it myself so idk. Logically it just seems like a failed pregnancy and you should have to try again. Something happened because of nature and it's out of your control so you shouldn't have to cope with guilt or the thought that you could have done better. But it seems to be a powerful grieving experience for most people so there must be some biological reason behind it.
Explain to me why this is so traumatizing. Im not a shitlib who thinks a fetus is just a clump of cells but I sincerely don’t understand how it can fuck you up since you don’t even have a chance to get attached to a personality or anything.
>>535533214it's just a clump of cells, what's the big deal?
>>535538496On one hand I don’t really see why an unborn child not making it and a recently born child not making it should feel all that different to a mother but I also don’t really understand. I always imagined that grief comes as a result of losing a personality, and you’ve not yet had a chance to experience that personality. But I guess it’s one of those things you can’t get until you experience, much like living your children. I can rationally understand that parents love their children but I can’t really “get it” until I have children, I think.
>>535538617As soon as you know you’re pregnant or your wife is pregnant you know it is an alive child in there and your hopes and dreams get built up every hour of every day until a miscarriage shatters it all.
>>535538617Im catholic and I think it's morally wrong
Yeah I got aborted twice. It has made me more of a survivor but I cope through incest
>>535538412On toilet paper then in toiletClumps And i actually loled at your comment Why!?
A fetus is not a child.
>>535533214i got a bpdemon pregnant. at first she wanted to start a family and all that. she suddenly changed her mind, broke up with me, told me she's doing it alone and i'm not going to be involved, etc then messaged me a week later saying she got an abortion and to never speak to her again.it was the most painful thing ive ever experienced. still bothers me to this day even though it happened a couple of years ago.ultimately i think im glad it went down that way. having to deal with her for the rest of my life would have been hell. it made me terrified of women.
>>535535699You're so cool, sukdeek. I bet you have sex with all sorts of women
>>535533214>abortion of a sick child
>>535533214once came across a shrine in the woods to a dead baby. a little wooden box in the crook of branch. It had the ultra sound images and a bunch of other stuff in it. Very sad.
>>535533214I lost a baby with a girlfriend when I was very young. We were both 14. I am 43 now. I was so scared at the time. It was a mixture of emotions relief, knowing I would be shitty dad, not mature enough etc. But the would be 29 years old if they lived. Time passes so quickly.
>>535533214You spared that child a lifetime of dealing with idiots.Im serious, i think the next pretty good while for humanity is looking pretty grim and i kind of regret putting a child into this world myself. I love my son but i hate life and always have. Its not worth it, its net negative either which way you look at it. Death is winning
>>535533658Drinking is a shit drug, i nearly drank myself to death a few years ago. Its going to make you feel worse and quitting sucks too and you know, it isnt getting any easier the longer you drink.Get a proper doctor, not one of the kikes and get some proper help dealing with that shit. You dont want to live next decade in depression and with alcohol involved you also wont.
>>535533214Bro I'm in this right now and I don't believe in abortion. I'm trying not to think about it, but when it hits it hits hard.We haven't made the decision yet so I can't say I lived through it. Right now it's just sort of deer in the headlights waiting for confirmation of the results that are likely at this point.Don't believe in abortion either. I don't know what to do anon.I'm divorced with 2 perfect children but my new fiance is 10 years younger and this is her first. I feel so bad for her more that anything that she has to go through this. She doesn't deserve it. Drinking will only make it worse anon. Go to church and confession. Pray a lot and transform you grief and guilt into more love for the healthy family you have.
>>535533214Wasn't even sure if it was mine or whether the bitch had an abortion behind my back or miscarried.Thanks for reminding me though.
>>535541240Are you SURE she was pregnant?Just saying
>>535545253Not to make it any more difficult but when my mom was pregnant with me the doctors said I was almost certain to have a crippling physical defect that would've given me zero chance of any decent quality of life, and recommended aborting meAfter days of agonizing over it my parents decided to keep meI was born completely healthy and am fine. Nobody ever explained how the doctors got it so wrong.
>>535533214I guess to cope with the emotions you just have to remind yourself that you are saving that child from a lifetime of suffering and saving yourself from having to sacrifice everything to attend to a child who will never be normal. Death is never easy to handle no matter who dies or why, but it is a part of nature and we have to learn to accept that. We want the living to be healthy and strong, and bringing a sick broken human into the world doesn't accomplish anything but making everyone sad.
>>535546006Thanks anon. I hear these stories and it helps. We got one test positive, then the ultra sound gave a positive indication (not definitive, just and indicator), and now we're waiting on confirmation. But apparent the firs positive test (placental genome in mom's blood) is very accurate for this kind of thing.We're praying and I appreciate it.
>>535533214Thats just death anon. Unless it was an abortion. But neither one in this context carries any moral context. You are allowed to grieve over non viable offspring without attributing moral failure to yourself or your wife. These things just happen. Look around you...do you really believe people value life. If you made a decision to avoid taking care of a severely sick person to the detriment of the quality of your own life and theirs ... please go easy on yourself. Someone would have to be seriously demented to tell you otherwise.
>>535536042this. Actual babies and toddlers died all the time throughout 99.9% of human history. Do you think men developed stone age alcoholism to cope? No, they performed the proper funerary rites and moved on; for the good of their tribe and surviving children.
>>535533214Nothing sadder in this world than losing a child. There is no cope. Only time.
>>535533214>How do you cope?Seethe instead.
>>535533214>abortion of a sick childprobably half of american men have lived through an abortion of a healthy child. your baby wasnt sacrificed to satan. your baby is in heaven now and is praying for you
>>535538496>Grief from losing an unborn child has never registered for me as a feeling that makes senseyou had a baby. your baby died. you are sad as a result
>>535533214What did they have?
>>535538617yeah well the epstein class thinks youre a clump of cells
>>535545253What does the kid have? What on earth would possess someone to kill someone else I really wonder
>>535533214>Anyone else here who has lived through an abortion of a sick child? How do you cope?It never existed in a meaningful way
My girlfriend brought up abortion yesterday. She was mentioning children with diseases, and asked what my thoughts were on aborting them. She said they would be a burden, that you would have to constantly look after them, and it would cost a lot of money. I didn't tell her what I thought. But I plan on breaking up with her soon when the time is right. Religious beliefs aside, I could never condone killing an unborn child. No matter what the disease, no matter how burdensome, I could never do that to my child.
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>>535533214Yes. She would have been my first child. First time I had ever heard : pentalogy of cantrell. Wouldn't recommend googling it. Time and 3 children later. The memory has faded.
>>535533214how about not trying to mate with 30+ year old, tripple vaxxed wombs?
After the abortion, eat it so it's stem cells don't go to waste.
>>535533214Unironically read the Bible and ask for Gods forgiveness anon. Inb4 my post causes massive kvetching.
>>535533214>How do you cope?Incel chud here. You came to the right place for advice. Just remember, only 100 years ago half kids died before the age of 6. We're made to believe death is entirely unacceptable but that rule isn't written anywhere. Perseverance is what has carried humanity forward all this time.
>>535552665Keep your head up, unc. You'll find peace eventually.
>>535533214NIGGER WHO CARES THIS ISNT YOUR BLOG
>>535550622Is she pregnant now?
>>535554583Your answer is the right one. Ask God for forgiveness and guidance.
