>Hitting your kids makes them vengeful retards>But not hitting your kids ends up making them entitled retardsWhat's the /pol/-approved way to discipline one's child?
>>536023811>>Hitting your kids makes them vengeful retards>>But not hitting your kids ends up making them entitled retards>What's the /pol/-approved way to discipline one's child?Hitting kids is assault. Would you do it with police watching, no.
>>536023811>Hitting your kids makes them vengeful retardsonly if you hit them for no reason or for every reasonphysical discipline is a must in raising children but it shouldn't be for spilling a drink or some small bullshit like that, 99% of parents that hit their kids fail this one step
>>536023811The best way to raise your child depends on their intelligence, which in turn depends on their race. If they're White, just explain things to them like they're little adults. Teachers and other parents will gush about how well-behaved they are. The more melanin they have, the less they understand and the more you have to beat them.
You should be sterilised and barred from access to children.
>>536023942>physical discipline is a must in raising childrenOnly for non-Whites.
>having kidsNgmi
Child abuse is an important part of Anglo culture
>>536023811It's a matter of genetics and nature. If your kid is subhuman, no amount of nurture will fix it but only minimize damage.
Spanking is not hitting. Only browns and failures hit their children.
>>536024063I would clarify the difference between discipline and abuse but your parents clearly didn't have one.
>>536023811If they love and respect you then you'll have 100 other ways to discipline them. And if they don't, then they're either genetically low IQ or you fucked up as a parent. But assuming they're not retards at birth it's entirely within your control.
>>536024261Spanking is for consenting adults.
>>536023811Beat the shit out them. Just so they know this world is kind of mid.
>>536024275There is no reason to ever strike a White child in any way whatsoever. Spanking is nigger parenting.t. father of two extremely intelligent and well-behaved White sons
>>536024261Ok but aren't browns replacing you rn? Feels like there's probably a middle ground between breaking your kids' teeth and kneeling for BLM tier lack of spine
Do me a favor and post the most judgemental shit ever I'm sending screenshots to my parents that beat meThey starved me too, jerks. For faggot wrestling. I was an ass kicker tho. I have ptsd tho, according to the jews and jeets at the clinics
>>536023811Bit of a middle ground. Only hit them hard if they do something really stupid and dangerous for their lives and others', like playing with fire, crossing the road without looking both ways etc. I wouldn't hit them if they do something that embarasses me in public, like crying because I wouldn't buy them something, like I see some parents do. I think I would be an okay blackmailer parent if it ever happens.
Sometimes kids need a little reminder. It's doing them a service and reminding them that they are not invincible. On a somewhat related note, good honest kid fights seem to be rare these days (not talking about niggers attacking kids). I posit that every kid needs to receive a good punch in the face at some point in life from someone their age so they learn to shut their fucking mouths and when to let things go. Otherwise they end up like my wife.
>>536023811Once a child is old enough to understand the meaning of words and the entire concept of future and consequences, you really don't need to keep hitting them. And when they are little, a spank or two on the bottom is all they need. Never done out of anger. Now when they get much older and your teenaged son gets defiant, you might need to hit him again. But years and years of "whippings" and "beatings" in between is just stupid. If you need to do that shit, you dun goofed as a parent.
>>536024446Your parents had their heart in the right place. MMA is inherently gay. >but what if I need it for 1v1 self defense against Tyrone? . 22lr is more than enough
>>536023811Heh. Sure, they did beat me, but I beat them back from very early on its even now and we all love each other.
>>536023811I don't think hitting children works unless the schools also hit children. I grew up oldschool because my dad had an old dad and my dad was old when he had me. I had to cut my own switch and be whipped with it. Whenever they had to discipline me in school I never took it seriously and my parents didn't care about education so they didn't beat me over stuff like that.
When a kid loses control of their actions due to their tantrum, a little spank can bring them back to their senses. This no spanking shit is a jew movement to undermine parents and authority to bring kids down. Ever notice this message is never directed to niggers?
>>536023811>But not hitting your kids ends up making them entitled retardsIt doesn't. This is just cope that child beaters use to perpetuate the same parenting that fucked up their psychology. Corporal punishment being bad for children is up their with IQ being correlated with good life outcomes as one of besr replicated and supported psychological findings.It's low class, trashy, and every time you hit a kid, you're rolling the dice on whether you're going to make them trashy and destructive. Spanking us arguably worse because of the element of sexual humiliation.
>>536024504Based wife beater.
>>536023811Um.... hit them at random regardless pf how they act?
You gotta scream at them and ignore them until they develop personality disorders like me
I got hit only when I did something extremely dangerous or something actually very wrong like theft or assault
>>536023811hitting them is a tool, you use it when appropriate
>>536023811Beat the wife, to show the kids.
>>536023811What's wrong my man not enjoying your hotdog?
>>536024261spanking is weird kinky shit that imprints on children permanently
>>536024891Then the kids that are hit or spanked the most have the best behavior, right? Wrong.
>>536023811Only shitskins beat their child. If you ever think hitting your children is the proper way to educate them you need to get your ancestry checked.
>>536024763>Corporal punishment being bad for children is up their with IQ being correlated with good life outcomes as one of besr replicated and supported psychological findings.This is next to impossible to prove and a classic BS psychological study where the author already has the conclusion written. The only potentially insightful study would be comparing only identical twins with the same number of parents in the household, those parents being close in age, and household economics being similar.
>>536023942Yea its best to beat your children while reminding them its their fault for the pain they are experiencing .
>>536025008The kids that are hit or spanked the most have the worst behavior. Otherwise they wouldnt be hit or spanked the most.
>>536024975Fine, then only spank the girls and never hit the boys.
>>536024863this is the correct way to do things
>>536023811Reserve the spanking for extreme situations, don't dedicate every second of your life to antagonize your kids and things will be fine.Authoritarian parenting is OK for everybody as long as you are a strict but otherwise fair benevolent tyrant and not a retarded spiteful one.
>>536025067uhh yeah if your kid goes out and does something extremely dangerous or hurts somebody physical discipline should be necessaryyou guys are doing a lot of self reporting by assuming we're talking about hitting kids over little things
>>536025067Beating children is a cowardly move. The reason for shaming corporal punishment is that some people (niggers) dont understand the difference between an open handed spank on a fleshy part of the body vs beating them.
>>536023811send them to live on the farm with their grandparents>"but we sold the farm" many such cases, sad
>>536025078Even with SES and educational controls, corporally punished kids behave worse and have worse outcomes.You need to forgive your parents, but also not be like them. If my uncle who was beaten so badly neighbors called the cops and the priest could muster the willpower to not lay a hand on his kids, so can you.
>I'm OP and I'm a fucking retard with nothing original to say >I decided to make this awful thread that I saw a twitter post of because I'm useless>haha!
>>536025313You are talking about corporal punishment performed by a school employee. Not spanking at home.
>>536025243>>536025256How about when you're mad and having a bad day, don't take it out on your children? Even yelling at them ( can ) harm a child.
Do what mine didAlways threaten to hit so they know it could happen, but before they realize it's an empty threat, lose your cool a few times and actually whack them. But never use hands use a belt or a spatula or big wooden spoon so they don't associate your hands with violence. After that when you hear them say them taking off their belt or grabbing a cooking utensil you know to run.I turned out alright
>>536025313I actually dont spank my kids but I sometimes think that is due to father/daughter dynamic and that I probably would be harder on a son.
>>536023811>disciplineMore like understanding that small children can't process information the way adults do. Stop trying to make them act like tiny adults, then you'll get a lot less frustrated from the shit they do. Work with your kids, on their level. Making your kids afraid, is trash.
>>536025600Awfully presumptuous of you. Why dont you suck my dick and mind your own fucking business
>>536025644Sounds like a lot of work. Im sure you could pay someone to beat your children for you? Like an agreement to not report the person, in exchange they get to take out a days stressers on your kids.
This is what happens if you don't beat you child, just like the gringoylems do
>>536025830Just take them to a playground with a bunch of niggers and wait in the car for 20 min
>>536023942My brother literally thinks yelling at his one year old daughter will somehow stop her from doing stupid things like eating off the floor
>>536025805Children arnt punching bags, thats what your wife is for.
>>536025848Isn't the stereotype, that faggot kids who got hit and uber repressed, end up being the extreme lgbtq deluded folks, like pic related?Dude probably got hit extensively. Only love he could find was with the degenerates.
>>536023811There's a BIG difference between a pat on the bottom and a closed fist to the face. Anyone who says otherwise fails as a parent. It's not about them fearing you it's about them fearing the fact you are right about how cold the real world can be with zero tolerance for your childish bullshit.
>>536025916Thats right. Its more satisfying when they fight back
>>536025313You're mistaking the symptom for the cause. The kids who are ALREADY little shitlords are the ones getting corporal punishment. If they werent running around at night with the local gang or setting shit on fire, there would be no need to beat them.Sure, some alcoholic fathers might come home and abuse their wife and kids, but those kids turn out fine as often as not, and it's not that common an experience anyway unless you're talking about niggers or spics, which, let's be honest, no one gives a fuck about anyway.Tell you a statistic you maybe haven't heard before: kids with a mother and father have better life outcomes than kids missing one or both parents, and that is INCLUDING parents that are abusive. Yes, even if your dad beats you, you end up better than if you had no dad at all, which strongly suggests that the supposed correlation between beatings and poor life outcomes is weak AT BEST.
>>536025644>use a belt or a spatula or big wooden spoon so they don't associate your hands with violence.Kids aren't stupid. They know who's holding the belt. And who is holding them in place so they can get hit.
>>536023811there will never be any need for violence if you explain every rule to your kids.they are never because youre evil but because it may have bad consequences.if you cannot explain your rule maybe you shouldnt have it.once the kid knows that there is a reason for everything you can just say "without discussion" when needed, and explain later.>be me late for kindergarten>3 yo doesnt listen>me: "no discussion">starts crying but obeys:>noooo, not "no discussion"too cute
>>536025970He mistook the beatings for hate. Nonsense. Discipline IS love - bastards don't get chastised because they don't fucking matter. Only sons get chastised and disciplined, because they DO matter. Tell me, would you care if your stepson was running around with a gang? No, cause he ain't your problem, he's your wife's problem. At best, you'd care less. If it was your own son though, you'd beat the snot out of him for being a degen.
>>536025970>Isn't the stereotype, that faggot kids who got hit and uber repressed, end up being the extreme lgbtq deluded folksLmao who said so? The stereotype is kids who are not beaten end up being the most annoying fucking human beans.Migatards are an example
>>536023811I grab my kid by the neck or give him a light back with an empty PET bottle if he fucked up royally. It's reserved for lieing and doing stuff he knows are bad on purpose. I did that a couple of times, now I just have to ask: should I grab your neck, or will you stop? >stops immediately It works wonders.
>>536025970There might be something to that. Most faggots are close to mom. Women tend to engage their children physically far more often than men. Its kind of unspoken but pay attention to who is pulling the kid uncomfortably by a body part, giving a little slap or yank.
>>536026062We're not all Germans, anon.
>>536023811Vengeance is better than. Unwarranted entitlement.Disobedience in my household will ge getting the belt, submit or suffer.
>>536026323Most faggots hate or are afraid of their fathers / male figures and find solace in over protecting mothers.At least is what I've heard.They then swallow all the female bullshit of their mothers and assume them as a (male) role model.Imagine unironically not being able to doubt every thing your mom tells you...
>>536026062Correct way to do it assuming you haven't already fucked up terribly.
>>536023811I was beat I’m not vengeful I just want to be left alone I am entitled tho
>>536023811No kid is the same. Some need more discipline than others. Some learn not to cross their parents early and never need to be beaten. Others need to be hit with a shoe. The first step for the latter to become better kids starts with a shoe.
>>536025975Where does spanking happen outside hitting kids? The bedroom for recreation.Spanking is particularly pernicious because it substitutes outright force for unwanted sexual humiliation.
>>536026263You have to do this when training dogs too. Without the physical reminder, they can become dangerous and try to invert the relationship. Basic shit here.
>>536026564Dog trainers take a dim view of it. The phrase "like a kicked dog" has negative connotations for good reason.
>>536026553Singapore.
>>536023942If you have to hit you kids to get them to do what you want then you are a shitty parent your kids don’t respect you and never will.
Being vengeful is bad?
>>536026564Proverbs 13:24: "Whoever spares the rod hates their children, but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them."Proverbs 22:6: "Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old, he will not depart from it."Proverbs 22:15: "Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline will drive it far away."Proverbs 23:13-14: "Do not withhold discipline from a child; if you punish them with the rod, they will not die. Punish them with the rod and save them from death."Proverbs 29:15: "A rod and a reprimand impart wisdom, but a child left undisciplined disgraces its mother."Proverbs 29:17: "Discipline your children, and they will give you peace; they will bring you the delights you desire."
>>536023811You think the only way to admonish a child is by hitting them?
>>536024418>There is no reason to ever strike a White child in any way whatsoeverFuckin simpnat raising your kids to be sociopaths
>>536023811not it doesn't, but even if it did, it is sure better than what the faggots are turning out to be today
>>536024975>umm sorry sweety buy my degenerate porn addicted brain thinks anything and everything is sexual
>>536026827Vengeance is a dish best served cold anon
>>536023811Whatever the fuck you losers do,NeverNEVERThreaten abandonment Your child will grow up hating humanity and seeing it as nothing more than a tool tool to reach a desired end state.Your child will look at other kids having fun and think "fuck off with your stupid shit"
>>536026622They just need to wear a prong collar. A little correction on the leash is all it takes.
>>536023811Who are you quoting althoughbeit?
>>536023811It's not about discipline. It's about normie sadism, which is why it usually stops by puberty when kids are physically mature enough to hit back and cause damage.
>>536026829This is why jews have been pushing against it. The debate presents the classic problem of scale. One side thinks light spank the other side thinks full fisticuffs.
>>536023811I don't hit my kids.But there's a dilemma: You have to teach them that their actions have consequences, and sometimes that means violence. Other people can and might hit them over the course of their lifetime. They need to understand that other people may not have the type of restraint that you do as a parent.I'm really tired of seeing women especially say things and get themselves into situations where even relatively normal people might harm them, nevermind niggers with no prefrontal cortex.
>>536026772Children shouldn't be handled like dangerous criminals, and as far as Singapore is concerned the sexual humiliation of caning is part of the punishment. It should not he controversial to say that parents should not sexually humiliated by their patents. There are also tradeoffs with the alternatives of jail and fines for a state that don't exist for disciplining children for being annoying or rude in ways that would not rise to even the level of criminal mischief in a court of law.
>>536023811Convince them with reason and logic, and failing that, trickery
>my kid got uppidity after i fed him goychow, sent him to goyschool and put him infront of the goyscreen thats why i had to beat him ass
If you have raised your child well, discipline is simple. Just take their phone away. You wouldn't think an 8-year-old girl could scream and rage for three hours straight, but she can. Thank you, American Airlines. And thank you, 29A, who decided now was a good time to start being a dad and tear away your kid's symbiote.
>>536023811Play wrestle with your kids to show them you can physically own their ass.
>>536027474when the end result of overdoing it, is infanticide. The debate isn't that big. Pro children getting to live into adulthood, all the way.
>>536028405Why do you think parents mysteriously become enlightened and stop hitting their kids around the time fighting them becomes somewhat dicey?
>>536023811The problem is most retards will hit their children out of anger. Kid does something stupid retarded parent chimps out and uses the wrong amount of force or at the wrong time. There's a fine line on how to discipline your kid and if you miss the opportunity you're just fucking him up. You need to do it with purpose and restraint, not out of spite or anger. The average normie and Roastie don't have the capacity for this
>>536027923Kek
>>536027923>My goy got uppity so I gave him the ol' tax increase of 13% and now he can't afford his cummy custard at the grocery store and is forced to eat shit Kellog's sharts from India. That'll teach'em.
>>536023811Lead by example. Remember that kids are young and stupid and teach them that stupid games win stupid prizes. You should never need to physically discipline your kids (timeout is good enough) if you’re white and naturally inclined to be good. Only a nigger or trash has to beat a kid, and really, no amount of beating will make the kid better in life.
>>536026341but you can try as we do in germany
>>536031571but honestly, not many are like that in germany. when i come into my sisters house she is screaming to her boys all day about nothing
>>536023811>What's the /pol/-approved way to discipline one's child?Don't be a poorfag and give them monetary and food rewards for behaving properly. Beating the kid is the solution of the poorfag loser, who cannot afford anything.
>>536023811Hit them again harder if they dare try to get revenge. Little shit will obey the hierarchy or die.
>>536024110Have fun being a genetic dead-end>>536024901Beat both and then your father and then your grandchildren and then you bastard son and then your son again.
>>536023811You have to humiliate them when they get out of line. And you have to do it when still they're young and their mistakes don't have any serious consequences yet. They don't get vengeful when they know you love and support them. When my daughter reached that special age, the spanking stopped working realibly and I had to resort to other methods whenever she tried to step out of line. I found that forceful anal penetration does an excellent job. As I said, it's all about the humiliation. Of course she always hated me for it in the following minutes and hours, just like kids are. But she never held a grudge for long. Now she's an adult herself and she loves me as much as a daughter can love her father. She still comes to me in secret and asks for a little special punishment from time to time when she visits with her husband. The poor fool thinks her kids are his.
>>536033438CorrectionCHAD... I KNEEL!If the humiliation bothers them, then may they climb back and become strong enough to properly enact their revenge. A that point they'll be worthy of fostering the next generation. Until then, they they will be beaten into their place in the hierarchy.
>>536032883Y'all niggas so broke you can't even afford larger file sizes?
'Spare the rod, spoil the child' is still the best explanation for why firsties are such faggots.
>>536032883>Little shit will obey the hierarchy or die.Or kill you in your sleep. Unironically, I support all abused kids in murdering their parents. Do it while a kid. Get out of jail as a young adult. Use time in jail to finish all your schooling and get AP classes. Type an essay of how you saved yourself and thrived, regardless of the government invalidating your self defense claim. Abusive parents deserve an early death.
>>536023811give the young boy a dog or a cat. A pet will teach him to physically be gentle and will not restrain itself the way a human would. And pets will show emotional and physical support nurturing the boy to do all the empathetic things. First feeding the dog the left overs he refuses to eat, then eventually teaching the boy to feed the dog out of compassion. Friendship with an animal teaches invaluable lessons that parents, teachers, and peers can not.
>>536026796Bitch, try taking my nintendo away, see what happens.Hope you know a handyman who can repair drywall
>>536023811>>Hitting your kids makes them vengeful retards>>But not hitting your kids ends up making them entitled retardsPunishment only works when the reason is understood and the punishment is proportional to the behavior it is meant to dissuadeMy parent beat the shit out of me when i was a kid, and i love both of em dearly, because they only let me have it when i was being a little shit (also i was much much more scared of my mom than dad when i fucked up; he'd kick and punch me around a bit, all body blows and then it's all good, mom would beat me with a wire hanger or smack me across the face, and then be really pissy and scary for the rest of the day)That said i did have buddies who's parents would beat the shit out of them for minor shit or just because they(the parent) had a bad day or was drunk, straight up child abuse, and those friends of mine basically cut ties the moment they moved out. Not even going to the funeral decades later
hitting them doesn't make them vengeful if they know you love them and they were wrong
>parents were chronic screamers, strict, got hit, grabbed, etc.>all it ever taught me was to never get caught again and become a liar and manipulate whenever needed It is what it is
>>536023811Spanking feels weird, I'd only slap my child, and only if it does something very stupid and dangerous for itself or someone else.Presumably my child will pick up behaviour patterns from me and the environment and would make me not resort to such behaviour but shit happens nobody is a perfect human being and children are naturally curious because they have to be that way.
I don't think spanking is bad, but physically abusing them to the point of leaving bruises, is traumatic and bad. The problem is that many parents will spank their kids over mild things or snitching from siblings. A lot of parents get off to controlling and dominating their kids and that causes too much discipline. Just don't be an asshole. Spank your kid if they really fuck up and you need to make sure they don't do it again. It's effective, but it should only happen a handful of times max. If you're known for consistently hitting your kids with the belts over and over, then you're probably a lazy shitty parent.
>>536023811You swat a kid for purposefully doing what you told them not to, like throwing m80's on the roof
>>536023811Im vengeful AND entitled
>>536023811If a child looks up to you>Your disapproval will be something that they want to avoid to such a degree that you never have to even raise your voice, let alone raise your handIf you cannot get a child to seek your approval in this manner>Then you are a pathetic excuse for a human being
>>536034428>Or kill you in your sleep.Humpf. Should've slept with armor and chainmail.
I still remember THE day. You know which one.I was 10 years old or so, got punished unfairly for a fight I did not start. Dad grabbed the belt and hit me in the butt with it. I was so angry at the unfairness of it all that when the belt hit me the pain didn't matter and I grabbed the belt HARD. I may have been smaller than my dad still but at this one moment in time I was putting on resistance that he could not overwhelm with casual force. Now he only had two options: stop, or double down, and if he doubled down it could not be to teach me some sort of lesson or be light about it, it could only be vengeful and a hard beating. He was unreasonable but not a monster, so he stopped. Never got hit again. There's often a moment where the child is too big and humiliates their parent. Unless their parent is an actual dipshit who also fights other people their own size.
>>536039629What if the parent is the dippest of shits who fights people even larger than them?
>>536039744Then the child is shit out of luck and their only option is waiting until they're old enough to leave and live on their own, and hope that they can outgrow the trauma and break the cycle of abuse.As somebody said earlier, most parents are normies and stop when their child is big enough to fight back.
>>536024261Spanking is only ok if the motion you use is whipping the kid, ass first, into a hard surface. If you were to hold the kid down and strike their buttocks with your palm, then it's not ok.The child has to be in motion, then you're morally in the clear.It's the law.
>>536023811You hit your children with wooden logs or planks untill you get bored. Soon they will learn some side hussle to buy you enough vodka to not hit them as opften.
>>536039946Ok, and what if after the child left, broke away from the cycle of abuse, started a family and had a son the parent chase them, beats the shit out of the child and his wife and trains the grandson to beat the child as well, beating it many times in very hard sparring sessions throughout the process?
>>536040359You throw his ass into a volcano and wink at the camera.
>>536040446And what happens when he comes back?
>>536023811Neglect is worse than physical abuse, but both create nigger. You teach kids negotiation and real life consequences, not how to avoid or take a beating.
>>536040525He straps you to a rocket and launches you into space.
>>536040629Good boy.
On sided beating seems to be disliked here. But what about having your son fight you? Of course, pull the punches until he hits puberty.
>>536036966But what if you father is a very violent and competent detective with helicopter parenting technology with chips in your body, drones, social media and digital transaction control (physical money's been extinct) that grants him outlook akin to an eldritch deity?
>>536041241'One
>>536023942>>536024531Muh nigger, beating/spanking teaches nothing good, only how to be a prisoner and obey power.
You smack them don't beat them retard.My parents smacked me when I was being a little twat.I'm not vengeful now.In fact I am extremely grateful to them and do whatever I can for them.
>>536041311>only how to be a prisoner and obey power.The physical body is a prison of attachments, ambition and flesh. The little twerp wasn't born to be free, at peace, happy or sovereign. He has to earn all of it, and he will only earn it once he obliterates the force purposefully stopping him from having any of those things, that being me. And he better not even think he can outlive or run away from me. I'm immortal and I'm everywhere. His purpose is to become stronger and then fight me.
>>536023811>>Hitting your kids makes them vengeful retardsAre we talking about righteous discipline or domestic abuse?
>>536024063>Only for non-Whites.Are you just going to ignore the fact that physical discipline has been practiced by Europeans since the beginning of time?
>>536023811You cut the child's head off. And then pray to god, and rape an altar boy.
>>536024296Try explaining to a toddler why what it's doing is wrong.
>>536041743So you want your kids to hate you, the essence of third-worldism.Anyway, unless he is a low IQ brute, by the time he is big enough to fight you, his spirit is already broken.
>>536041317I deserved every smack I was given.
>>536041962Compared to other races, it was always o the lower side. If all you know is violence, you never develop negotiation skills.
>>536041919Domestic abuse is righteous discipline.>>536042110If his spirit breaks, then he dies. Should've been born stronger, like his brother. I can always just rape a new woman and try again.
>>536042199>it was always o the lower sidehow would you even know this?
>>536042199Fuck "negotiation" skills. Actions speak louder than words.
>>536042021Unless he is nigger you can, white todllers may not understand words and complex concepts but they understand intentions, emotions and consequences.
>>536023811The way my father raised me most like.Only have to raise your voice, and give a look. Beyond that you knew that if you'd continue you'd be in deep shit. You didn't know what deep shit was, but you knew you didn't want to be in it.
>>536042264KEK! Yes, stone age nigger, violence is how you deal issues in your life so enjoy getting stabbed or rotting in prison.
>>536023811>going to /pol/ for parenting adviceYour family is doomed. Kill them and then kill yourself
>>536023811You can get pretty far with ignoring, taking away of toys and shaming/yelling at kids. Only time you'd ever do something if they're actively doing something endangering others. Like a slap. Anything further than this is not necessary. What's weird though is there is an entire culture of avoiding even doing stuff like removing toys or leisure as punishment, if you can't do that the kid is gonna be a spoiled retard.
>>536023811Problem is. 99% of kids get hit by raging powerless parents. So its retarded. If you can keep it cool and spank your kid without rage then its a 100% fine.
>>536042261If you can't do a google search, you can extrapolate from today. How the fuck do we think we got the concept of laws, due process, freedom of speech, self-ownership, by might-is-right?!
I find it more bizarre is that childless chucklefucks having an opinion on the matter. I know most of you fucks are just trauma dumping like the petty, woman-coded retards you are, and it's not actually about what is "muh optimal parenting" t. spanks his kids
>>536026564>>536026622With puppies/dogs you need to correct them within 2 seconds of them doing anything bad, so if they bite you take the flesh around their mouth and press it against their teeth (mildly) or if they jump on top of you, you grab their paws put pressure and swing them to the side, nothing dramatic but it's just uncomfortable and they get the message.That is to say, if dogs do anything physical towards you, you can react physically, but if they're eating something they're not allowed to or sitting somewhere forbidden you can just yell at them, tit for tat.
>>536023811Clearly you need a schrödinger's cat setup with a paddle inside so that they are both hit and not hit simultaneously
>>536042752Ignoring is neglected, and verbal abuse is in general worse than spanking, as it usually doesn't stop at puberty.
>>536040133When is it okay to slap an adult on the ass where you would not be proportionate to break your fucking nose in response? Stuff like sports teams smacking each other on a good play doesn't count for obvious reasons.There isn't. Why then would you do this to a child, other than that they are too weak to break your fucking nose like an adult or teenager?
>>536043045Problem with spanking and physical contact like that is a problem child wanting attention can get attention even if it's a negative physical thing.But yes absolutely verbal abuse can be worse than just a light slap of the wrist.Literally most of the time telling them to quit acting like an idiot is enough to get them to stop. No one wants to be an idiot.You play according to the rules and we can have fun and relax, you want to act like an idiot things will get boring and restricted. This playbook is enough for most kids. Some kids think if they brute force enough they can get their way and maybe in those instances you need to remind them physically but I've never seen it.
>>536023910One of the rare smart Lambright posts. Not hitting your kids doesn't mean you have to turn them into a pussy. People are too dumb to properly communicate with their kids and teach them right from wrong. Retards think fucking your kids up by belting them like a Nigger slave from 200 years ago will somehow turn them into functioning members of society. Nothing could be further from the truth.
>>536042450It seems like you're not a a very curious little George I'm a very curious George. If he can't truly show me what "deep shit" even means I'll just go for it without any hesitation, and if upon showing me what deep shit truly is he can't continuously escalate it, I'll just conquer it eventually. Everything he has, I will take from him. Everything he thinks he is, I will prove that he's not.
Delete their Minecraft world and then log into their computer to message embarrassing stories about them to their friends.
>>536042450>>536043327To put it simply: your father is/was not only weak, but he bred even sadder weakness. Kill yourself immediately.
>>536023910There’s a common misconception that spanking is illegal in the US. It’s not.
>>536043516Is dribbling my toddler like a basketball ball against a trampoline legal?
>>536023811Hit them, but only in moderation.Discipline leads to success.Failure to do so is a particularly hateful and selfish form of child abuse (that's why single mother's are known for it) that will ruin your child's chances to be a successful adult.
>>536024531>Now when they get much older and your teenaged son gets defiant, you might need to hit him againNo boomer, you don't. If it gets to that point, you've failed as a father.
>>536043251I'm not saying it's easy, but I went through all scenarios, except beatings, and the only times I got real results with the kids was when I was extremely calm and patience, and led by example, showing understanding and emotional management.
>>536025758Smart Mexican post, but I hear you guys beat your kids quite often, is that true?
nobody uses a cane or belt here? wtf are you all a bunch of soi faggots?
>>536042507>if we write another letter to the king then he will surely listen this time!
>>536023811You can literally punish them in any other way. Take whatever they like or want away from them. If you can't come up with ways to punish your children without beatings, you lack imagination.
>>536023942>>536024275Believe it or not, outside the US there's barely any whites that beat their children. Never even heard of anyone doing that.
>>536044453It's an Anglo thing, you wouldn't get it.
>>536043810>>536025758It is, in fact, true that very small children don't have a brain and nervous system well developed enough to properly understand fear and pain. As they just came from between the previous and current lives he's still very connected to the spirit realm.Therefore, to properly transmit fear and pain you should create voodoo doll punching bags linked to your son for your daily training, enact curses against your son, utilizing the other, expendable rape babies from your seed as child sacrifices so the cursed evil gods may hex him, expose your son to confusion, teach him language, writing/reading, basic math all wrong as a joke to make him feel the pain of humiliation from his colleagues as he grows, and once he becomes seven, kill his mother before his very eyes and throw him off a cliff.
>>536023910im taking the opposite position of the jewhitting your kids is necessary, its a temporary lesson, unlike circumcision, where the lesson never ends
>>536043579Id imagine so. >>536043282>how to effectively communicate with a toddler
The ex-British colonial school I went to still had caning, and one of the big famous local anecdotes told 40 years later is about a father who beat the living shit out of and defenestrated a teacher for caning his kid. Because he did it himself in a fit of rage instead of referring to the dean, having the dean pass sentence, and then having a dispassionate third party carry out the sentence. No one thinks that dad did the wrong thing. Even though there was legal corporal everyone recognizes there's shitty corporal punishment. Most parents don't have the self control to be judge, jury, and executioner dispassionately. And I suspect the studies that show negative outcomes for kids that were struck by their parents is because the cohort of corporal punishing parents is on average really shitty about how they hit their kids.
>>536023811My dad was a raging scary fuck at times.. but he only hit us when my bitch mom who left him told him too.Other than that he had and still has a heart of gold.He was raised in a traditional Anglo Saxon Catholic Midwest household and so was I.. as it slipped away.My dad is too good for this world desu..And his actions are what made me disciplined.He was a good influence and I didn't want his wrath because he usually was right and it was our fault if he was pissed.My mom was just a mean vindictive cunt.Women are sadistic and should be left out of the discipline.. but you know.Niggers don't have dads and think family is a white person thing designed to tamp them down.That's cause they are dumb niggers who will just lash out instead of emulating good trends and habits.
It's all part of discipline. You only smack the kid if he royally fucked up. If you just beat him for any little reason, he'll just hate you.The true trauma is not getting involved in your child's life, and you really don't want to be reduced to the unreasonable asshat that beats your children after work.Your child should fear your authority if he does bad, but also still like to be around you when you do fun things. I think people just don't know how to rear kids at all, and beatdowns are the least of the concerns.
>>536044256>if I'm nigger enough I can fight the king by myselfThat is the problem with retards that were beaten as kids, they never understand power, they just obey it or it gets them killed.
>>536023811Just don't be a deadbeat drunk and be a healthy example for them to follow
>>536045260Well you either fight or stay a cuck.
>>536044784Yes, you adjust your tone and communication style to the level of your child. I know it's a wild concept, but it works. You can also just scream "stfu up" at your one and two year old toddlers in a shrill retard voice like my former neighbors did. One of these days it will work, if it didn't work the first thousand times, just keep doing it, one of these days they will magically just stfu. Don't spend five minutes actually engaging with them or explaining things to them in a calm manner, just scream at them and beat them up.
>>536023811work/chores
>>536044577>DogtoothHere, you'll enjoy this movie.
>>536023910I've hit my kid in front of the police.Maybe if your father beat you you wiuldnt have turned out to be a complete fucking failure of a human being.Wayne i mean this in the most hurtful way you can possibly take it: literal whores provide more value to society than you could if you had a thousand lifetimes.
>>536043282>People are too dumb to properly communicate with their kids and teach them right from wrongWhen I was a kid I remember asking my parents all the time why something was wrong or why I was being punished and the answer was always "BECAUSE I SAID SO" or "DON'T TALK BACK".I think most people actually just don't know why something is right or wrong or why they do things, they just know they're supposed to. But this is very ineffective against curious and independent minds.
>>536023811My dad would whup my butt with tools such as belt, wooden hot pad, etc. and he'd explain he wasnt doing it because he's angry but because he loved me and his job is to provide discipline to help me choose the right actions. i understood his motive and didnt resent that at all, i respect it. he wasnt abusive. what still confuses me is why i would do shit like throwing rocks thru the garage window when i had to know that would end in a whupping
The UMC white family that inflicted the most "spare the rod, spoil the child" corporal punishment on their daughter and son who were my age had the daughter become a stripper or escort and the son got into drugs and petty crime. There's a lesson there.
I see white boys referred to their father by their first name and then I see those same white boys dump them in the fucking nursing home and visit once every year if that
>>536023811People confuse discipline for punishment, you would only hit them in a case where you need to teach them what it is like to receive physical pain from others.Discipline is supposed to be lessons to maintain functional behavior in order to co-exist with others.A kid needs to experience a wide arrange of things in order to not come out dysfunctional and take it out upon other people retardedly.
>>536023811never discipline angry. Spank if they just have lost their rational selves, but otherwise, just use wisdom and clearly explain how they got themselves into the situation, Spanking shouldn't be needed but a handful of times. Also, make the first time sting. No sense in having a consequence if it's not 'real' in their mind.
>>536047869Also this would be a good example of improper discipline, he should have broken some of your objects with rocks to get the feeling across.
>>536048727It truly is disgusting, the father's weakness and the son's cowardice. The way the son should've gotten rid of him is in a final battle to the death with both at the peak of their power.
>>536043282>One of the rare smart Lambright posts.Maybe log off for a day or two dude
>>536023942That's the thing yeah. I suspect that most parents that regularly use corporal punishment are mostly just using it as a way to blow off steam because of their own personal problems. Parents who genuinely love their children would have a lot of difficulty crossing that threshold even in the few instances where it might be necessary.
>>536046223Whats with your condescending tone here? What’s this tone you mean? I just bring him to eye level and explain it through the thousands whys
>>536025600Yes that's exactly the problem. Even yelling can harm them if it's done in a completely arbitrary way.
>>536024763>sexual humiliationYou cannot even disassociate sex from child rearing?! You really need to kill yourself, pronto!
>>536027749>It should not he controversial to say that parents should not sexually humiliated by their patents.Wow... ESL and an incurable pervert to boot. Base jump onto an interstate, ASAP.
>>536024763this is the biggest pile of bullshit ive read today and reads as nothing more than a retards activist opinion.The studies you think you are referencing, claim that kids who receive corporal punishment (no information on how or how often), are "less developed at exploring their environment" which is a meaningless metric, and could easily be reworded as "less likely to respect boundaries or be aware of danger".also, sexual humiliation? wtf are you a fucking pedo or something?kill yourself
>>536025008proof of this?>>536027749literal pedophile rambling.
>>536026796These retarded takes need to stop. Sam Hyde is such a fucking subversive faggot pedophile who would rather fuck kids than raise responsible ones.
It’s better to learn there’s a line you don’t cross as a child.
>>536023811It's about effort, attention, and balance. If you hit your kids because you're too lazy to parent, that's going to mess them up. If you refuse to hit them because you're too lazy to parent, that's also going to mess them up. Beating your kid because talking would take longer and you want to get back to Jerry Springer is just as bad as not laying a hand on them at all, it just makes a different kind of monster.When a child messes up, you need to talk to them. Actually talk to them, not at them. Of course this can't be done with very small children, which is why the vast majority of your spanking will need to be done there. After the age of 3, you should be able to count the number of times you've spanked your child on your fingers. You should have a clear reason for each time you did so, and why other actions wouldn't have worked. At the same time, you should spank them at least twice in that time. Just as a rule of averages, your child is going to do something messed up enough to deserve it at least twice in the next 15 years. If you refuse to use physical punishment when they have truly earned it you teach them that their actions don't have real consequences.Lastly, this is one of the VERY few things I'll give the kikes credit for doing right. You should NEVER hit your child while angry, even if what they did deserves it. You wait until you're cooled down and not in the heat of the moment, you deliberate if what they did is still worth physical punishment, and then, and only then, do you go through with it. Your goal is not to terrify them, it's not to hurt them, it's to teach them through physical means when logic and reason fail. If you go off half-cocked kids don't take the message "I shouldn't have done that because it was a bad thing to do.", they get "I shouldn't have done that because it made dad mad, and being mad is justification for hitting people." That's how you raise Cleetus with three DV charges who works at the bait and tackle shop.
