DO THIS: Something I have been pondering. The condition you are in now, could you drop the shoulder in public like Gymskin? We walk around all tense in business mode so efficiently there is no opportunity for enjoyment or genuine expression, no celebrating the moment. Next time you go in public, drop the shoulder a bit and loosen up.
We need to loosen our shoulders in public in a non threatening, dominant or anti social way. It's an ancient technique to reduce stress