I'm an ugly beta male in my mid 30s. In every single workplace or college environment I become the loser loner that nobody talks to within a week of starting.I haven't had any friends since school, and even then I didn't socialise with them outside of school after around the age of 13.I haven't had a girlfriend or date or any interest from women ever. I've read about the blackpill and know that it all accords with reality.Any advice that allegedly fixes the above points seems like ramshackle artifice. Going to clubs or pubs or hobby groups, "just" talking to people, online dating: it's all a humiliation ritual that only normies can succeed at. There's the added humiliation that none of it is "necessary" (physically, financially), meaning people would literally sense the patheticness on me if I did any of it. They'd think I was stupid and desperate, that I'd be someone who was acting like a 1950s caricature ("Just wear a suit and walk in with a firm handshake!"), potentially resulting in widespread humiliation (maybe even social media virality). Being a loser doesn't remove this humiliation; I wouldn't go outside without proper hygiene either.I've come to see all socialising, whether informal or formal, in groups or with individuals, as a "heads they win, tails I lose" rigged game where people simply assert the preexisting social hierarchy to either insult, ignore, or take advantage of me. If people are in a situation where they don't simply want me to go away as soon as possible, they will try to exploit me in some way, which they will predict they can do because they instinctually (or factually) know that they fit in more than me with other normies, so they will face no consequences if they try to run me over.
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>>536575257Okay, This is bullying and you’re a victim of it, despite what these types of people try to tell you.I think that you’re in a geographic area where this type of person is common. I can tell you that these types tend to be concentrated. Certain workplaces or certain schools, certain friends groups, even certain neighborhoods. These types of people actually move WITH eachother from place to place, school to school.I think that you should consider moving to new areas and trying them out. I used to be in your shoes, getting bullied mercilessly EVERY day, until I stafted traveling. Through travel I learned that bullies stick together and colonize spaces. There were places with few to no bullies that were like MAGIC compared to mky life before. There were places with TONS of bullies where I had problems instantly. You will learn to notice this within minutes of being somewhere once you become attuned to picking it up.My life is a thousand times better now. At my jobs everyone is cool and chill. At my school everyone is chill. I found places with few bullies. You can too. I’m actually invited out to do things every other weekend now.Again my advice for you is you should move.
>>536575257>Any advicenope, sorry... i am you but in mid 40, there is nothing to change.Now that the problem no longer exist, go get some alcohol and enjoy some anime or music. Fuck everyone else, its just waste of time so focus on yourself.
>>536575257This...>>536576126Relocate.Just leave.I stayed in a place that is toxic and most of my friends left.They are doing better now.The ONE thing that helped most?MOVING.
>>536575257Omg stfu faggot
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Normies are actually correct in that confidence matters a lot more than looks, but the blackpilling factor in this is that you can't just become confident after years or decades of social isolation. I'm a tall handsome decent looking guy but social anxiety has pretty much ruined any chance of me ever developing friendships or relationships
>>536575257RunGo to the gym Shave your head to get rid of your egoIce baths Wear sunglasses Make money Report it to police if muslims are bullying you, blackmail them into giving you money Sell drugsDo drugsDon't do drugs and sell them at the same timeLie to women, take them to a forest and tell them its all yours but now tied in a court case between you and your cousins. Fuck and forget them.Become a menace to society Kill everyone who gets in your way "Run from what's comfortable. Forget safety. Live where you fear to live. Destroy your reputation. Be notorious."
Just whatever you do, don't kill yourself because then the jews win, and you wouldn't want the jews to win would ya? A good haircut, well fitting clothes, a good sense of fashion and some personality fakery goes a long way. I'm a loner too but i'm not fugly and still have a hard time fitting with the normies and i hate the hook up scene with the apps. Hell, I haven't had social media since i deleted my facebook 10+ years ago. I started shooting my bow again in a local club and met a couple guys there, who then basically forced me to go out and meet their friends. In that circle there was a girl and we hit it off. Both of us, full of spaghetti falling out of our pockets so we kinda hit it off and started hooking up. This took months but it got me out of my spiral. Bottom line: get a hobby
>>536578633didn't proofread my post so there's some typos and repeated phrases left from editing. Point still stands
Lucky.I HAVE to social or ill get fired.
>>536575257Have you tried showing up with donuts? It's amazing what bringing a dozen donuts does to people's opinion of you. My point is, have tried looking at the people that are around you and being of service to them in some way? If they're not getting anything from you, than why shpuld they give you anything?
Try a Dungeons and Dragons group it's impossible to not make friends there. They will be mostly fat spergs but you'll meet a few good guys. And sometimes they can actually help you since they're used to dealing with spergs. If I lost all my friends today that's where I'd start over. Or just stay asocial because genuinely it's probably better if you have hobbies you enjoy.
