What exact sort of parenting leads to a man essentially giving up on life and rotting in his room waiting to die?
Don’t blame the parents.
>>537404800Single moms
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>>537404800Giving up on life is committing suicide. Oh you're a hylic so that means life to you is all about sex, money, power and buying shit. Lol
>>537404800as opposed to?
>>537404800> parentingIt's at least 80% genetics not parenting. Just as with intelligence.
>>537404800I became a NEET because I wanted to live well, nap restfully and die old.My parents helped me achieve this goal. We all did well
>>537404800I'd be a neet if I had all bills covered somehow. Who tf wants to work?
>>537404800Boomer parenting
>>537404800>No don't look at the computer screen of stuff that you like for no money!>You need to look at the computer screen of stuff you don't like for money!Basically the two options in life for most men and they are both not good.
>>537404800>jews rob you blind at every turn and still refuse to pay a living wage>its the parents fault
>>537404800Not being involved enough during childhood? I don't know. Mine kicked me out for bleeding on their carpet, waited for me to drain my savings, and then felt bad and let me come back. So I'm a NEET because I basically had my savings stolen and thrown away, and now cannot find work because of the state of the American economy and political arena.
>be me>didn’t do drugs or even socialize and have friends or a girlfriend parents told me their would be time for it latter>got the useful degree on a scholarship>found a job in my field>only pays 19 dollars an hour but thought there would be room for advancement>stuck with it for 10 years and then was laid off during covid because of the vaccine bullshit and replaced probably with Indians>couldn’t find anything else and ended up working retail for 11 bucks an hour>was never able to move out didn’t have the time or the money to I was working 12 hour shifts>a teenager is my boss and I have to deal with my coworkers talking about going to parties or dating things I never got to do because getting the degree was oh so important according to my parents>dad one day yells at me for being a 34 year old loser who still lives with his parents and works retail and that I should have a family by now and when I say it wasn’t my fault I was laid off he just told me that I’m not a child and adults don’t make excuses they do and that I had the choice I could have gotten the Covid shot and I told them even then they would have still laid me off and he says well then at least you would have tried>outright hate my parents at this point for bringing me into this shit world, giving me outright harmful advice, and cheating me out of a childhood>give up and neet now I regularly get yelled at by my parents and I don’t care I just ask when I’m going to get friends or a girlfriend and the house and car that I was promised if I worked hard and sacrificedI wish I never tried and just fucked around at least then I’d have made one friend maybe an girlfriend and enjoyed life a little. But now I’m stuck watching other people enjoy life while I’m stuck rotting in my room for the next 30 to 40 years. I should have never been born. Why did my parents fuck me over so damn bad? They didn’t have to go through all the same shit I did they went to the beach every week.
>>537405018How is a learnt behaviour genetic? It's not 80% genetic for a huge proportion of the population to be jobless you stupid monkey. Cognitive processing speed is genetic. Consciousness is somewhat genetic. But humans don't hatch from an egg knowing how to walk like mallee fowls, they're instructed by their parents. Bad parenting leads to bad childhood outcomes and this is a well known fact.
>>537404800not chasing pittance pay for 60% of your day is not giving up its giving a middle finger to the system while I do anything else, fuck off, didn't ask.aren't you building robots and AI and shit to replace the human workforce anyway? why the FUCK do you pretend to care? shill
>>537404800Why is it always an American making these posts? I don’t see Europeans or Asians.
>>537404800A percentage of the population are intelligent enough to, without consciously doing so, engage with abstract hypothetical questions."If I do X, what are the possible outcomes of this decision", rather than a normal drone response of doing a simple database lookup on what society expects them to do.For those people, it's far too easy to see the inevitable, and undesirable outcome of engaging with modern civilization as a male. Just losing themselves in decadent behavior was the best ending of a litany of bad endings.
Only childr en and a single parent afraid of alienating the only lasting relationship they’ve ever known. If there’s 2 parents one of them has an illness or something that makes it so they’re only for show.
This one was solved ages ago by both /pol/ and reddit. In b4>leddit>https://old.reddit.com/r/raisedbynarcissists/>https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Covert_incestNarcissistic parents. Or parents that practice emotional incest.Narcissistic parents:Always demands to be physically present like in helicopter parenting but doesn't actually provide emotional support, but the opposite. Drains their kids mentally and emotionally while taking up all their time.Emotional incest:>refers to a type of harmful relationship in which a parent looks to their child for the emotional support that would be normally provided by another adult.So describes single mom phenomena.Pic related not the post I'm looking for, there was a better one posted on /pol/ describing it better from nearly a decade ago or so.
>>537405380>https://old.reddit.com/r/raisedbynarcissists/damn I thought I had it bad, some of the stuff on there is beyond insane
>>537405323Yep, it's a curse.
>What exact sort of parentingThe ones that are lacking. Being a BSB is indicative of NEETdom. It's really sad.
>>537405380>Always demands to be physically present like in helicopter parenting but doesn't actually provide emotional support, but the opposite. Drains their kids mentally and emotionally This is exactly what I was trying to/wanted to describe.
>>537404800FAKEROOM IS A FECALOID
>>537405529Be wary of the new posts, a lot of it is attention whore botting and don't really describe the original definition.The older posts were on the mark though.
>>537405281>Americans>Largest consumer of anime outside of Asia>Anti anime threadYou already know it's not an American, just a kike/jeet doing their rounds.
>>537404800Success breeds success.One can infer that neets were never successful. There was never a girl in elementary school that liked them. They were never popular. They never made really vibrant fond memories of interactions with their peers. They never figured out how to work with a team and gain satisfaction from it. They were never buoyed up into truly believing in themselves, having confidence in themselves, and feeling like there was something worth striving for.There's also the fact that life requires a kind of grim determination. At least for most people. Some people love their job. Some people think their wife is the hottest woman they've ever seen. But for most people life is a disappointment compared to their fantasies, and part of the human experience is plodding forward in that life with grim determination and acceptance. Your job isn't fun and exciting. Your wife isn't hot. And still you have to go forward.I think the lack of religion has played a big part in the rising emotional wasteland of society. If you're very religious you can say "Things aren't perfect. But I'm going to work hard to make right by Jesus." or whatever. But if you're not religious, where does the grim determination come from? What's your motivation?
>>537405281probably because the higher wages are cope and working in corporate America is a living hell
No pussy, no work.No affordable housing, no work.No living wage, no work.It's not my parent's fault that the global economy is fucked and that Canada is a dying nation.They tried their best.
>>537404800the people in my age group that have houses- their parents got them the house.or the wife's parents got them the house when they got married.if your parents dont help you succeed, better start buying lottery tickets. waging will not buy a life anymore. or get reeeeeeally into online poker basically life becomes a drawn out countdown to suicide. there is no path to recognition or status or even self reliance in the 2026 migrant packed world
Reminder that only liberal/leftist policies allow NEETs to exist. If you're some based and redpilled guy you need to go get a job NOW.
No one wants to work a service job for a megacorporation where they are worked like a nigger for shit wages. It's honestly legal slavery, cause people direct such positions as being "lowly".Boomers upset about their favorite chains going belly up, it's because they are leptin mediated organisms that get their endorphin rush from food. Not anything cool like; heroin, weed, meth, or lsd/mushrooms.They operate on a different wavelength of this generation, and so most millennials are happy just being at home with the family that loves them. Only faggots think you should get the boot at 18 while a mother is property of a husband (boomer mentality)Boomers are also more aggressive from life exposure to leaded gasoline. There's no way a manager can make enough money to live dignifiable in contrast with the already inflated living standard of the developed world. Humans are now fatter, lazier, and more entitled to polluting and killing animals.You still live day in and out doing the same shitty job for the same shitty society. You honestly should burn it down. BURN IT ALL DOWN.
>>537405776>One can infer that neets were never successful. There was never a girl in elementary school that liked them. They were never popular. They never made really vibrant fond memories of interactions with their peers. They never figured out how to work with a team and gain satisfaction from it. They were never buoyed up into truly believing in themselves, having confidence in themselves, and feeling like there was something worth striving for.Nah wrong premise.The high school chad to NEET pipeline is practically a meme.
>>537404800I’m doing better now, but I had a phase where I was quite withdrawn and if I had gotten on welfare I’d have probably never gotten off it. My parents are overly critical of everything I ever did and never happy in general. I don’t talk to them anymore and I have a wife and kids now. Fuck boomers
>>537405884Liberal and leftist policies CAUSE NEETs. If NEETdom becomes unviable because the leftist shit is rolled back, then it means working becomes possible because the leftist shit is rolled back
>>537405018Japanese people are becoming NEETS due to genetics?
>>537405380Yeah you said it perfectly, parents who are literally dictators but uninvolved in actually helping the child, in other words they ban you from doing anything fulfilling by force, and only force you to do things that are harmful to you, it's essentially a form of extreme torture.They force you to stop doing anything good.And they force you to do things that harm you.The dictator-restrictor parents.They torture you and force you to torture yourself so you keep torturing yourself forever without them needing to torture you.
>>537404800Simp Fathers afraid to do anything with their sons
>>537404800a combination of parents being too protective and also not nepotistic so the child was never allowed to do things for themselves or have things done for them
>>537404800>essentially giving up on lifePeople give up on life when they an hero, NEETs just don't want to be wageslaves what about that is so hard to understand? If your "life" is a job at a soulless corporation that pays you in pittance wages that isn't much of a life, you are all called wageslaves for a reason.
I feel like spoiling a child and never disciplining them for their bad behaviour leads to this. These people end up in school and get severely bullied because they come off as massive spergy assholes so everyone just excludes them. So they get bitter and just stay inside.
>>537404800Gen X mother, boomer father. Pretty much guarantees failure to launch.
>>537406876NEET cope is harmful for the self and other neets. We really need to get ahead of this and explain that NEETs are victims. All the cope is just people being ashamed to admit they cant and so pretending like they choose not to.
>>537404800jews raping kidsand hoarding all the loli
>>537404800I wouldn't pin it on parents. It's a conflux of factors, both internal to him as an individual and societal. In general there's been a societal failure to cater to male psychology and its needs and drives, especially what one might call a "mission-focused" drive. On the inside, it's difficult to give yourself a purpose out of thin air. So it's easy to retreat into the shadows and chase cheap dopamine spurts. Women don't have this problem as much because they are naturally more pliable and lack inner drives to begin with.
>>537406988I actually worked 6 years before becoming a NEET, realized the juice isn't worth the squeeze with modern society and fucked off. Some of you wish you had the option.
>>537405001Being a tax slave so that your government can pay to import millions of browns and give money to single moms fucking Chad.Yes this is a better alternative to the average normie.
>>537404937Based N.H.K enjoyer.
>>537406828I'm close to this but the difference is that while I was allowed to do things, but I fucked those up and was given a nice safe cushion to come back to that I just can't get out of anymore
>>53740524090% of the stuff you talk about in your post is your fault, anon.Also only a manchild keeps complaining like that at fucking 34. Your dad is right, grow a pair.You have a degree, you are (presumably) healthy, you have some cash with you since as you said you literally spent the last 20 years working like a mule and never had fun once, plus you always lived with your parents so no bills or rent. How can you not be swimming in money?
>>537404999 checkedIsn't a hylic willing to give up sex, money and power a good thing?
>>537404800It’s not parents, our education system was made for your to fail and be non competitive so you will be forced to take out debt or join the military
>>537405853By the way that's how communist countries usually work, you can only get a job if you have connections, if you don't you're blacklisted by the oligarchy, nepotism rules the society, you are prevented by physical force from mobilizing upwards or just having a decent living, that's only reserved for party officials and their connected networks and friends of scum, oligarchs force the crabs down into the bucket, but everyone ignores the barely hidden aggression against people who just want a better life, they are thrown into the gears for the benefits of the oligarchs and their friends who say they are oppressing you for the greater good.
>>537404800I'm only a part-time NEET, since I usually work 3-5 years and take a year or two off.I get paid very generously, and at this point I have absolutely no idea what to do with my money, even when I try to burn some on stuff I don't need.I have no loans, no debts, I own my house, my two cars, and go on vacation several times a year.So fuck it, why would I spend my life slaving away if I can't even find a use for my money?
>>537407207Hylic literally means materialism, basically most normalfags go crazy if they can't constantly consume but many NEETs need little to nothing in a way they are like lot of monks from various religions. Monks isolate themselves from rest of society for spiritual reasons, NEETs fuck off for different reasons really depends on the NEET we aren't a monolith in regard as to why we choose not to work.
>>537404800if you have no reason to leave, you won't. copes are too plentiful. I'm unemployed and live with my parents but I thankfully have a large savings, and it is disturbingly easy to retreat into my room and not leave. If I didn't have good workout habits I would definitely slip into that NEET depression. Today I need to get some stuff drycleaned and get a hair cut, and instead I'm procrastinating on 4chan. Gotta tear off the bandaid and just do it.
>>537407039Yeah people really should push their boys into sports, it really is what gives so many of us a higher calling at such a young age. Plus all the social skills you develop from it will stop them from being spergs.
>>537407142If this is actually true you're one of the lucky ones, you have a chance.
>>537407278Parents are SUPPOSED to BE a child's education system, you dipshit
>Go outside>Trash>Dog shit>Dilapidation>Potholes>Smashed up toys>Overturned trampolines>Broken fences>Rats>Cigarette butts>3/4 people obese>Everyone covered in tattoos>Vape stink everywhere>Niggers>Pakis>Half-castes>Gibbering Slavs>Tower blocks>Barratt Boxes>SUVs all over the pavements>Graffiti all over the walls>Remember why I spend 98% of my time inside>Go home
>>537407364crowcat
>>537407310in the USSR if you didnt have a job you went to the police station and requested a job and they have to give you one even if it meant the state just built a pointless restaurant somewhere for you to work at. Everyone worked, and as long as you worked you were entitled to things like an apartment. (which sometimes took a while to get)The soviets had it better than the bottom third of modern america and that is incredibly depressing
>>537404937>FridayMonday.
>>537404800Kike
the cause for beeing a neet is unironically related to one's horoscope. if you want to stop being a neet, you have to fix your horoscope through planetary magic
>>537404800>picrelamongst other things.
>>537404800I neet because thats my only choice. Mental illness is a bitch. Id love to be a normie, but thats not how it went.
>>537407576>which sometimes took a while to getYeah years lol, and you could never own one, unless you were connected with the party of course.It's an old soviet joke, we pretend to work, they pretend to pay us, unless you're in the party, then you dont work, but you actually get paid, this is just like modern office jobs, you do nothing and get paid just for being politically connected, if youre poor you still do nothing but they pretend to pay you.>The soviets had it better than the bottom third of modern america and that is incredibly depressingKek, wake up idiot, you ARE the new soviet union, all that talk about capitalism freedom the founding fathers, its all ideology now, it's long gone, you are the USSA where every aspect of life is controlled by the state in most areas, but they call them corporations, contractors and agencies instead of the communist party so you think its different in any way, just like the soviets thought they were a proud socialist whatever ideology, its all just oligarchs stealing and oppressing with force and manipulation.
Boomers are incapable of putting themselves in someone else's shoes. They consider boys not into sports a write off alone. Actually attempting to understand your child's issues rather than thinking they're crazy woudl8helped stop it.
>>537405108diligent Bible verses n shit
>>537404999>a hylicis this the new loserspeak for not-a-loser?
>>537404904You do blame them if they raised you that wayThey are responsible for your well being
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