The son never learns to regulate his own emotions because mom never could. Any stress at a job feels like mom's rage or discard so he quits or gets fired. Independence triggers abandonment fears because moving out means you hate me or you're abandoning me, so he stays. She enables with food, laundry, rent, and constant reinforcement that you're her special boy. Normal adult milestones like a real job, a girlfriend, or actually leaving feel like betrayal or completely impossible because his nervous system is wired for her chaos. He retreats into the only place that's safe: his room, computer, video games, porn, and 4chan. Dopamine without any risk of mom's splitting or dad's weakness. Over time he becomes the classic twenty five to thirty five year old NEET with no skills, no friends, no prospects, living in the same house where the damage was done, sometimes on disability for anxiety and depression that traces right back to the home.

This is why you see so many NEETs with the exact same story: crazy mom, checked out or spineless dad. The ones with normal stable high conscientiousness mothers and present fathers have a much higher chance they actually launched even if they were awkward or had other issues.

Single motherhood and fatherlessness stats already show worse outcomes for boys across the board. Layer actual cluster B pathology on the mother and you get a perfect storm for producing manchildren who can't function. Feminism celebrates the strong single mom while ignoring what it does to the sons. The welfare state and easy NEETbux just subsidizes the failure to launch.

Most of these guys aren't lazy. Their operating system was corrupted in childhood by the person who was supposed to protect and prepare them. They never got the psychological tools or the male modeling to become independent adults.

Fix the mothers by not breeding with BPD or cluster B women, or fix the fathers by actually raising your sons and not letting crazy women run the household. Everything else is cope.

>>537903451
Well said. Nothing I can add.

>>537903402
Men should not be living with their Moms past the age of 16 otherwise their maturity gets severely stunted. Get them out the house by the time they're 18 at least so they can learn independence, self-sufficiency, and hard work.

This is why military can be an acceptable path if there isn't another. Boys in divorced families should move away to their father when they become teenagers, or go to some kind of school/institution/job where they are no longer around their parents.

It's a tougher life but it forced you to pull your shit together. The only reason the Neet has the comfort to live like that is because it's literally enable by his parents: free rent, free wifi, free food.... Literally sponsored neetdom.

Oh fuck off ojr generation were given no chances in the work force, systematically removed and given zero financial independence. Blaming parents for the work of your masters is all you are good at you limp dick demoralisation agent of the state. Fuck off back to r/raisedbynarcicisrs with your gaggle of mind fucked psyopped losers you dickhead.

society is broken because the average person is too successful and theyre all riding high on that entitlement to the easy life
if you had my mental chemistry you would be pissing tears on a carpet and eating sleeping pills by the whole kilo while on stolen opiates just to not feel like going sky diving
i only trust people who know this is all bs and prove theyre tough enough and intelligent enough to manage a completely fucked up fate to begin with because the problem with everyone else is they are way more successful than they ever would really deserve to be
seriously it would be enlightening to you to have to drink like i think ill call it bitch water. its the only water you can have
i got about 7 mental disorders that are all chemical based
if im not distracted by that i could do your job whatever it is in 10 minutes

>>537903402
no the problem is as society has become more productive the real gains in productivity in financial metrics, has gone to the wealthiest group of people who are squandering it, through their own stupidity, on the most faggoty metaphorical penile enhancements you can imagine, while the prospect of maintaining the same quality of life grows more and more daunting for the average person. Your MATERIALISM is turning this into the fucking rat paradise experiment

most people als othough are fucking retarded
just because you figure out how to dick around with plants or something doesnt mean you can control your fertility intelligently so i literally mean that from the lowest to highes of persons the real source of accumulated discord and general fuck is too much success across the whole board
the poorest should still be struggling with endemnic child death and disease because you won't prioritize functional administrative organization and talent before scaling the population too much
this has nothing to do with someone else its is entirely the fault and problem of every single group to just blindly trumpet ahead into a darkness only waiting to swallow all of you back

>>537903753
military does NOT help, get the fuck out of this thread. You have no idea what you're talking about you fucking retard, leave jackass.

i would murder nearly any of you with total impunity and no sense of guilt for being a waste of fucking time if and only that and anything

>>537904094
>rat paradise experiment
ye

Hmmm you've described my life except ummm my mother and father aren't diagnosed with anything as they refuse to ever go to doctors.

I knew NEETdom and being a BSB were a mutually exclusive phenomenon.

>>537903402
I'm a schizoid demi-neet because of my parents being as the op describes

>>537904802
How much does your mom pay for you to live off of her?

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>>537903402
Do the one about Pan Piano this morning.

>>537903402
IT'S THE JEWS!!!
THE JEWS DID THIS TO US!!!!!!!!

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>>537903753
> military

> just join a gang that requires you to abandon all your god-given rights and take orders including (and exceeding) killing people, so that you'll never be able to leave the gang as you are haunted by the memories, assuming you have no physical scars, for which you will be totally abandoned and left to rot having served your purpose for the economic machinery of your nation!
> oh wait there's another dip in recruitment... lol, stop-loss trap card ACTIVATE! time to bring back in the old veterans for another tour.

if i could kill you through the internet i would make your head fucking explode.

>>537903402
That's a lot of presuppositions that miss the point entirely.
>say no, take responsibility, leave the house and build his own life
You're so right, OP. If he would just leave the house, he'd have a $75/hr job at the local post office waiting for him, all he needs to do is give the manager a firm handshake. Since his parents worked so hard to support their son and give him a great life, all he has to do is save up to build a new house on the land his parents own, right? He can bridge his expenses with the trust his parents set up and max out his contributions to the investment portfolio his parents gave him.

What, he doesn't have that? His parents are overleveraged on a twice-mortgaged home and live paycheck to paycheck? Their total retirement savings are $40,000 between the two of them? They tried to flip a house in 2008 and got rinsed for $180,000?

Why don't they just pull themselves up by their bootstraps? Very strange, OP.

>>537903402
>we have offered him
This is exactly what those motherfuckers do to their kids.
>we
>we
>we
>we
>we
that guy from day one of his life lived in envorioment where everything that parents should naturally do for the child they decided to have comes naturally as
>we did this for you
this is the NEET
>we did
you fucked him up without day in jail

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>>537905392
I wake up at 4:30 AM, not because I want to, but because my shift starts at 6, and if I’m even a minute late, I get written up. Drag myself out of bed, choke down some stale cereal, and drive 45 minutes to a warehouse where I spend ten hours sweating, lifting boxes, and getting barked at by managers who probably hate their lives more than I do. I come home exhausted, eat some microwave garbage, scroll my phone in silence, and pass out so I can do it all over again.

For what? I’m still stuck living at home. I thought working hard would get me somewhere, but I’m 27, still sleeping in the same bed I had as a teenager, surrounded by the same posters from a life that never took off. Rent is impossible unless I want to split a filthy apartment with three other guys who smell like Hot Pockets and despair.

Meanwhile, Pan Piano is out here making millions by playing a keyboard in a sexy cosplay outfit. That’s it. She dresses up, plays a song, and simps throw money at her like it’s nothing. I break my back every day and can barely afford gas. No real skill, no real effort—just looking hot and pressing keys, and she’s set for life. Meanwhile, I get yelled at for stacking a pallet the “wrong” way.

Tried dating. My parents met at work, so I figured I’d ask a coworker out. Big mistake. Got written up by HR and now everyone in the warehouse makes fun of me. “Bro thought he was in a rom-com.” Meanwhile, some girl from high school is making $400K working from home in her pajamas, married to some finance dude, traveling the world, while I have to beg for a day off just to sit in a waiting room at the dentist.

I work harder than any of them. And for what? Just to keep existing? Hard work doesn’t pay off. It just keeps you alive enough to keep suffering.

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>>537905374
Less than 10% of military ever see combat
Less than 1% chance you'll ever get killed or injured
Get skills, independence, see the world, priority in getting jobs, zero down payment on a house.

>>537905668
nope, military makes it worse i highly recommend not joining.

You really don't understand who you're talking to. Stop spreading lies to people and getting them even more fucked up in the head.

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Okay so here’s the deal. I turned 40 back in August. Bald. Like completely bald. My scalp is so shiny now it reflects the screen back at me when I watch YouTube in the dark. I haven’t touched a woman in over a decade unless you count accidentally brushing the cashier’s hand at Aldi.

Anyway. I’m deep in a depressive spiral one night, sipping flat Diet Dr. Pepper and scrolling through anime covers. Suddenly YouTube recommends me Pan Piano. If you don’t know who that is, imagine Chopin reincarnated as a busty Taiwanese woman cosplaying 2B and somehow mastering the ancient art of sideboob.

It was like God reached through the screen and slapped me in the face with a very jiggly miracle.

I signed up for her Patreon immediately. Not even thinking. $110 tier. “Just to see what it’s about.” Total impulse. No big deal, right?

Fast forward 8 months.

I’ve given her nearly FOUR GRAND.

And not even through Patreon. No, I used most of it on YouTube super chats like a full-on brain-damaged simp. Dropping $100 a stream just to say “Nice playing!” in a sea of other degenerates. She never responded. She never even acknowledged me. At one point I think she laughed — not at a joke, but at my existence.

I told myself it was for “supporting the arts.” My bank account says otherwise.

Do you know what $4,000 could buy? A used car. A flight to Thailand to die in peace. A lifetime supply of ramen. Hair plugs, probably. Therapy, definitely.

Instead I have 8 months of footage of a woman who doesn’t know I exist dressed as anime girls playing songs from Genshin Impact.

I emailed her asking if I could get a refund because I was “in a bad place emotionally.” No reply. Not even an emoji. I tried telling YouTube I had “a mental health episode.” They told me to contact law enforcement if I feel unsafe. I AM unsafe. Unsafe from my own choices.

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>>537903753
Jewish "Men" should not be living with their Moms past the age of 16 otherwise their maturity gets severely stunted. Drag the little kikes out the house by the time they're 18 at least so they can learn independence, self-sufficiency, and hard work.

This is why military can be an acceptable path if there isn't another. Jewish Boys in divorced families should move away to the army when they become teenagers, or go to some kind of school/institution/job where they are no longer around their parents or rapist rabbi.

It's a tougher life but it forced you to pull your shit together. The only reason the Kike has the comfort to live like that is because it's literally enable by his parents: free rent, free wifi, free food.... oy vey make the little kike work!.

ALL JEWISH KIDS SHOULD BE KICKED OUT AT 16! ALL OTHER NORMAL KIDS DESERVE THEIR FAMILIES SUPPORTING THEM

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>>537905928
>be me
>parents made sure ever since I was a child that I understand that life is a miserable curse and refuse to allow me to do things that are enjoyable like going outside and exploring, playing with other kids, or eating good food
>do too good of a job and I end up a nihilistic neet who can’t hold on to a job for more than a couple of months because I don’t have any incentive too
>even if I wanted to self-improve it won’t fix the wasted years of social development, the fact that I look like a meth addict because of the shit diet they forced on me, and I’m circumcised so tightly to the point where it hurts to masterbate
>parents realize they fucked up badly finally and realize they are going to be stuck supporting a adult son for the rest of their miserable lives and are now finally starting to encourage me to make friends and go outside and do things I should have been doing at six and even then they half ass it like a token gesture
Why the fuck do American parents want their kids to live absolute shit lives of poverty and misery? It’s like they get off on being poor and miserable. I straight up said I’d get a job if it would get me an apartment which no job will these days and they just can’t comprehend that I could actually want something from a job they outright said I shouldn’t worry about pay.

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>>537905668
Eglin faggots deserve to have their intestines cut out in their gay little uniforms.

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>>537906034
>be me
>wasn't allowed to go outside and play with other kids because of pedophiles
>wasn't allowed to date or have friends in my teens because alcohol and drugs
>wasn’t allowed to get a job and I was threatened with the police if I did get a job because the car isn’t mine
>25 now and now I’m condemned for being a jobless loser who won’t give them grandkids
Seriously, do they not understand cause and effect how did they expect me to end up?

>>537903402
Can confirm. I fully believe that if my mother straight up died when I was little, it would have been nothing but beneficial for me. Admittedly my situation is exacerbated by chronic illness, but, for reasons too complicated to get into, I believe that could also have been entirely prevented by my mother's absence.

>>537905841
Worse than living with a mentally ill parent until youre a dysfunctional adult? What are the neets gonna do when their parents die?

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>>537905920
>“in a bad place"
I read this as "I was in a bald place"

>>537905920
Bro, what the fuck is wrong with you, chinks are worthless, why would you give a non-white any money or help ever? Even a bald white man is better than some stupid chink.

>>537906190
Same here man, my father will probably die first, but it would be a huge benefit to everyone if she died first. Also have chronic illness from my parents neglect and abuse causing me to have bone spurs and breathing problems.

>>537906212
so fucking hilarious how desperately you want to play pretend with me.
>I dont like this person therefore they must be "X"

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>>537906496
>>537906190
>>537906407
What sort of parenting do you think leads to a neet; which is ultimately a usually young man giving up on life? My cousin had a BPD mother and a pussy whipped father and he was never allowed to do anything because of his mother neurosis and if he dared rebel and by rebel I mean go outside and play with me or other kids his mother would sick his father on him and “put him in his place”. End result is a 34 year old man who has long given up on wanting or expecting things out life. He was denied being able to make his own choices or go after his own desires for so long that he simply gave up and lived vicariously online to the point where even if he wanted to he couldn’t function on his own now because his mother simply never let him grow as a person wanting him to be “her baby boy” forever. What’s sick is she has the fucking nerve to blame him for it whenever she feels ashamed of having a neet son by her peers. Why do parents do this to their children? Set them duo for lives of misery like this?

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>>537906688
>be me
>put on heavy medication my my struggling single mother who “just couldn’t” anymore keep in mind I didn’t do much to bother her except exist
>put on multiple Medication I can’t even spell
>destroyed all my motivated, my emotions, and I went though my childhood in a daze
>mother is now stuck with a emotionless dead inside 22 year old man who refuses to work or do anything and doesn’t see the point in anything and has the nerve to want grandchildren when she didn’t even want children
What exactly did she expect would happen? That I’d just mature into a successful man with no input from her and despite all her sabotaging?

>>537903753
>Literally sponsored neetdom.
How else do you become a neet unless someone pays for it? Is a dude in his 50s who worked hard all of his life to save up for early retirement actually a neet?

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A burning enquiry

>>537906979
>a problem exists
>doesnt get solved
>mad the threads keep popping up

>>537903402
Nah I'm a neet and my dad was present and worked insanely hard

>>537903402
I fucking hate how words seem to lose their original meaning when used by the common plebs

the son by definition isn't a fucking NEET. a NEET is someone who's not in education, employment, and training

>>537907258
>im doing this for you
>everything i do is so you can live better than i did
>with telling you that all the time
>with only one goal in mind
>for you to not be better than him
i saw those type of parents i know
for everything that child becomes after 21 years of age, parents should be accountable for by law

>>537903451
At some point in life you are your own man. Once you hit 30s you can’t blame your shitty upbringing anymore.

>>537903402
>>537903427
>>537903451
Well said, based, and truthful.
But what about the guys who've been broken already?
What can they do to heal the damage their dirty whore mother caused?

>>537907473
man you are full decade behind everyone
its over
gtfo if you dont understand

>>537907473
man you are full decade behind everyone
its over
gtfo if you dont understand
there is no going back, everything you know up to 30 years of age is upside down, you are foreigner in life

>>537903753
>muh military
Cool if you think being a homeless opiate junkie is a career path, and that's your reward for surviving goyim war #286.

>>537907473
if you arent neet or never were don't bother coming in here.

>>537903402
What does Broncho-Pulmonary Dysplasia have to do with NEETing??

I just met a BPD girl I like btw and have a date with her today, what should I do guys.

>>537906844
Technically anyone who's not in employment, education or training is a NEET.
People who retire early, whatever their age and whatever their reason, are NEETs.
Most people who are NEETs aren't early retired people though... unless you consider giving up on the society that raped you your whole life a form of retirement as well.

>>537907473
>At some point in life you are your own man. Once you hit 30s you can’t blame your shitty upbringing anymore.
depends. The mom that mentally abused me is still around and still mentally abusing me and won't listen to reason.

Effeminate faggot boomer/gen x shaming tactics don't work anymore since everyone hates you and wants to put your head on a pike for stealing their future.

>>537907473
>at some arbitrary point other people decide for you, your category changes bruh
>can't blame the people who bludgeoned you out of shape for you not fitting the mould anymore
Why don't you go be a bruh in the gym and mog the other bruhs with your wisdom

>>537907473
There's a shitty upbringing that hardens you and makes you hungry for life. And then there's a shitty upbringing that kills your desire for life. Becoming some magical number only has the effect of closing the door forever on the possibility of being able to pull yourself up by your bootstraps once you reach it.

>>537907473
I'm 33. I am waiting on a surgery. My life is fucked and 100% of it is circumstantial as I've always been well behaved, always done the right things, always been a self-improver, always been kind to others, never ever start dramas, studied psychology, tried always to "fix" myself, very disciplined, etc. but I'm a total wreck right now faced with poverty and illness. I even run marathons despite being so sick but then I end up being awake for multiple days and nights despite trying to sleep and just doing very poorly. If I didn't have the issues I have, I would be leagues ahead of everyone.

>>537907658
Then get rid of her.
No-contact.
It can take years to process everything.

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>>537907633
>be me
>born to a BPD mother and a weak father
>groomed by the mother to be her eternal emotional pet and surrogate husband that she abuses viciously and forbidden to do anything or develop as a person while condemning me for it with her attack dog that should have been my father at her beck and call who she also treats like shit
>end up moving away and disowning my crazy family
>older brother became a meth head and killed himself
I understand woman are fucking crazy but why did my dad invest his and his children’s lives into this black hole of a woman who even after decades is still not happy and still hates him and being alive. Why didn’t he cut her off or literally do anything else than support her being a lazy worthless cunt.

>>537907726
I go to the gym all the time but I've made in years the same progress non-injured people make in mere months of going to the gym because I can't fucking sleep.

>>537907829
Thats easier said then done to cut off someone like that.

>>537903402
Sounds like my parents, but also my dad did everything he could to sabotage my social life for some reason.

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>>537907876
Why do white men pretty much worship white woman despite the reality that they are utterly repugnant whores on average? I grew up with a crazy mother and an enabling father and no matter how bad she treated him he always gave her his paycheck and came crawling back and apologized for whatever she thinks he did. She constantly accused him of cheating and other things like blowing money while she buys an ungodly amount of cigerates, booze, and weed. Another story is one of my classmates in highschool girlfriend accused him of beating her after he broke up with her and he was harassed and assaulted through the rest of the year. Even the teachers turned a blind eye to it until he fought back.

>>537907567
>>537907658
>>537907726

Then give up faggot and take the rope. There’s your choice.

Also the mom is overbearing but not to the point of making it unbearable, because in those cases kids decide to fuck off on their own. They are overbearing enough to not let their kids socialize or do things on their own, but not too much as to make the kid uncomfortable while playing vidya in his room.

>>537905986
You're going to start off with a bullshit job that won't pay you enough for your own place, but the bullshit job is always a path to something better.

It also is worth your time to get a trade, apprentice programs, training, etc. Contact your local employment agencies or Department of Rehabilitation.

>>537908068
first lets adovacte for parents reposnsibility about what they do in child formative years without just allowing them do dropshit retards 18+ into society and take 0 flac for it

>>537906160
Bro I'm 37. I got my shit together at 34. You can't blame your parents forever.

>>537903402
I propose a parenting licence, you shouldn't be able to have kids if you can't prove that you will make a functioning member of society or produce a retard (but this is MUUUH eugenics)

>>537903402
humans are built to see problems as local, it just doesn't make sense to live 200 years viewing everything as the end result of macro environments. but that's basically the only answer to why humans can no longer rely on cross-generational wisdom to help each other, and yet we persist with this mindset, for it's all we've been evil ed to know

>>537908372
>percieved sucess
you didnt fix anything and what you did in your 34 years of life did unreparable damage to everyone around you
you are just too dumb to realize it

>>537903402
>be gringo
>kick your child
the jews must be proud

>pay for his school
>college
Going to college never got me a single job. Businesses literally do not care.

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>>537908058
It's natural to like your own people.

>>537903427
>He retreats into the only place that's safe: his room, computer, video games, porn, and 4chan. Dopamine without any risk of mom's splitting or dad's weakness. Over time he becomes the classic twenty five to thirty five year old NEET with no skills, no friends, no prospects, living in the same house where the damage was done, sometimes on disability for anxiety and depression that traces right back to the home.
next time, you better cite my autobiography

>>537909060
Do Mexicans in Mexico relate to any of this stuff?

>>537903402
Yeah well I tried to move out of mom's house, but nobody wants to pay enough to afford rent around here so it just never happened. Now the job market is dead so I'm double fucked.

>>537905920
Demoralization pasta, KEK. Hope the readers see this shit for what it is.

>>537909664
nope, my mom took care of me even after I had a wife and a child. My mom just gave me a room to live with them, then I got lucky I got a job, bought a house and went back to take care of her in her last days

>>537907889
I did it.
By the time it's necessary, it's effortless.
It's as simple as not taking the calls, not returning texts, and not telling her anything if you run into her.
Simple in structure. The emotional load of actually doing it is different.

>>537908068
>then stick to my arbitrary classifications and kys for not meeting their requirements
Figure out what you wanna say before trying to insult someone.

>>537909777
Checked. So Mexican boys don't experience overbearing mother's that gaslight them growing up?

>>537910006
I get you, I was raised in L.A and thought it was normal to kick your children at 18. But in the end, who else do your children have? you are the only one that can push them forward, not kick them out like an animal

>>537903402
>>537903427
>>537903451
This was my life, psycho mom and a step father that was just there. I'm a 25yo neetcel now.

>>537909150
You have your advanced work permit. Go go go.

>>537909743
>see this shit for what it is.

A way to spot the newfags

>>537908372
>got my shit together at 34
how ?

>>537910306
32 here.
I was put on disabiligibs when i turned 18, my mother arranged all of that.
The unemployment services kept harassing me regardless because they thought they could help, at least that's what they said.
They would send me to those letterbox firms that take 4 years pay in advance and offer 2 years of promises they can't keep and resources they don't have.
This was attempted 3 times though it only worked the once.
The services also threatened to take my gibs away if I refused to participate in that fraud they kept committing.
Safe to say, that man never spoke with me again after that threat.
It's funny in a way. I needed help last year, so when they called, I made my plea.
They'll be hearing a lot about that one, how they heard "I'm gonna an hero" and said "lol go make friends" and waited 5 months to do their 2-minute part of the job.
Tried it too.

That institution is seriously corrupt. It can't be fixed without ripping every system apart and firing everyone who works there.

>>537903753
Sounds like a good way to create rent slaves

>>537908372
>bro I'm age this, and got there at age that
>I'm applying the standards I have for myself, to you, and judge you a failure for not meeting them despite the fact you're not in my position
You didn't fix anything, anon.
You haven't healed at all.
You did the weak child thing and "manned up" by pretending the problems don't exist, and now just like a pathetic little shit you're attacking people who are processing their trauma through grieving because they've got bigger balls than you choose to have.

>>537903891
I get the sense that this was supposed to drive young men to some form of military and or hard labor. But something broke in half along the way, so to speak. The currency system all over the world kept inflating while wages no longer reliably paid rent or mortgage. Buying a house or condo or car outright became unheard of. I remember buying my first car and the salesman being in a state of disbelief when I told him I didn't need a loan for the car as I had enough money inherited to buy it in one payment. You don't have to be jealous of me. I blew my good chance over several decades and still live with my abusive Progressive Left family and still avoid them in my room. I post on the net and have been watching soccer lately. I'm more than a little worried about my future. Not because I couldn't find some shit job that would take me but because I was taught to either run away or to explode with Devil Possession levels of wrath over even the slightest errors and surprises of normal life. Or to thoroughly belittle anyone who has displeased me, just as my parents did to me every time they spoke to me. Mom is the Matriarch and Dad is the physically dangerous handy man who doesn't have final say in anything. I couldn't join the military without being forever shunned by the family. I'm too old now. I never even knew cheap housing existed until I had blown my inheritance, so I'm stuck with these monsters. But I did learn how to write music and cook food. So why don't I do that? Because I was taught to be deeply fearful of the world, white Leftist style and I got sick of playing bash the white man with all the Progressives I was raised around. You win! Say, how does this power to issue currency work and why do so many Jews have it? That's a question I would be in danger for asking at the dinner table. Why do threads stop when it gets brought up? A lot of forum owners must be ordered not to talk about it. Thus, that's the one to tell.

>>537903402
The solution is to find him a wife.
No wife, no life.

>>537909979
Make a stand then. What age do you consider it pathetic to blame your childhood? 50? Are you blaming your parents at 60?

>>537903753
Fuck off kike

>>537911723

it's about a destroyed trajectory brainlet

>>537903402
>BPD mothers
that's just women

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>>537903402
>talking about your actual flesh and blood as if they were a pet

god i wish i could give whoever wrote that a solid kick to the hip

>>537911723
The age is irrelevant.
The only thing that matters is the grieving process, which means going through it and releasing all the stored energy.
You can use trauma-relief exercises to help do this.
For some people it'll take 5 years, others a decade, it entirely depends on what they experienced.
Could also be 6 months.

Another thing to consider.
Just because someone's healed when he's 40, doesn't mean he's not allowed to blame his parents for having needed the healing for what they did when he was a kid.
You can talk about how things used to be, without them being that way today.
If that triggers you, it's because your own trauma's still with you and you didn't do the work to heal it.

>>537903402
>>537903427
>>537903451
This was/is my life exactly, word for word.

>>537903402
>>537903427
The child is born defective, like his parents
The excesses of wealth and modernity will be returned to Nature

>>537903402
I had a BPD mom and were NEETing through most of my 20s. Felt like she is always emotionally and financially manipulative.

>>537903402
I almost got stuck with a BPD psycho. I got her pregnant but thankfully she had an abortion, probably in one of her fits because she had dumped me and told me I wasn't going to be involved so I blocked her because I needed a break from her constant ups and downs for awhile. She already had 2 kids with 2 different fathers, both of whom wanted nothing to do with her. It would have ruined my life. At the time it was incredibly painful, but now that's been a couple of years I am so fucking relieved.

>>537907473
A building built on unstable ground with no blueprint will always fall
How are we really any different?
We need something and somewhere to learn from, a stable foundation from which to build upward
You don't magically get there at a certain age, snapping your fingers to make it reality like it was Marvel movie
That is a bunch of kike bullshit

>>537912182
You probably should have been warned by your dad your mother was a psychic vampire like all other women, if he wasn't drinking to numb her voice, but you're not allowed to say that are you

>>537912143
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>>537905141
I feel like we especially value some sort of bonding and helping out. Can we have a community for this?

>>537903402
The parent in OP's pic is retarded. I don't know where she gets this "go to college/tech school and you'll make more money" bullshit, but it's not true. I graduated from two colleges and only ever made decent money (25 an hour) working as a maintenance man in a hospital. Graduated at the top of my class in my state's most prestigious university, in fact. Yeah, Mr E-peen over here, right?
But my point is that extra schooling does nothing. The "good jobs" are staffed entirely by 3rd world jeets who work for 15 an hour and have some chubby onlyfans roastie directing them. The only thing a normal guy can hope for is to find a job as a security guard, maintenance, or janitorial worker and they alwaus have good benefits, raises, and starting rates.
Will you make 100k a year doing these jobs? No. But you'll make half that and live semi-comfortably if you invest well and you're smart about finances and saving.
His parent's are so clueless.

>>537912347
>The parent in OP's pic is retarded.
These people are actual child people and part of realizing why your life is so fucked is realizing how everyone around you is actually a bumbling child person whose parents never taught them anything that coast through life being dopamine chatterboxes

>>537912342
This is the community for this.

>>537903402
>BPD mothers plus enabling or absent father
is that a TADC reference?

im a neet single father. honestly it's pretty comfy bros

>>537903402
Thank God the BPDemon I had a child with gave me a daughter. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

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>>537903753
>This is why military can be an acceptable path if there isn't another. Boys in divorced families should move away

>>537912680
you're going to have to put the kid in isolation while you waterboard your wife

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I took back my BPD ex because I miss the grippy pussy. She had a kid since we last broke up and it's still grippy. I am not motivated by things like relationships or love I just like grippy pussy

>>537903402
>BPD

Another mental disorder made up by jews, the same jews who say being a fag is totally normal.

>>537903402
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>>537903451
I wouldn't say it's just BPD but yeah, spot on. Also lack of opportunities for them to get out and stand on their own. Anon suggests the army >>537903753 sadly there aren't really many other opportunities to gtfo and be supported with accommodation. Maybe some ship gig but it should certainly be easier to go out, get a stable job and get your own life together.

>>537908320
you will get droned at the frontline and your babushka mother will get potatoes.

>>537912877
*Isn't just BPD

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>>537903402
the most strict father is no father at all–
natural selection, boys have to learn everything themselves & only the best make it–
society gave women all the power & privileges, now men have to carve out their own path & create novel worldviews since the men of the past have clearly capitulated before lifes struggles & allowed women to take over–
make no mistake about it, nature is still working as intended–

>>537903968
They're putting chemicals in the water.

What's wrong with being a NEET, who are you to decide what is right or wrong.

Maybe it's time for the white man to stay at home and collect welfare, let the women and the browns work an pay for my NEET bucks.

>>537912741
Nah, I just fucking left because I couldn't put up with the constant splitting/spiraling over a comment some random woman made at the grocery store trying to be kind and personable, while she takes it like she heard "you're a shit mother and should be shunned", then I don't lie to her and take her side and suddenly I'm an abusive, narcissistic, psychopath, but OH GOD DON'T LEAVE ME, PLEASE NEVER LEAVE, I'M SORRY, onto; YEAH WELL GOOD RIDDANCE, YOU'LL NEVER FIND WOMAN WHO TREATS YOU BETTER THAN ME, followed by everything I've ever told her in confidence used as a weapon against me, etc.
FUCK that noise. I still visit my daughter, and she loves me more than she loves that witch. Fuck the custody laws in this country.

I don't think you can get neet buxs for anxiety, I have crippling social anxiety and been working full time for 10-15 years now, got a mortgage, two cars paid off, etc etc

if I could get paid to just survive and not afford new things I'd take it in a heart beat, that shit sounds fake as fuck

>>537912853
There's literally measurable brain differences.
https://amfmtreatment.com/blog/bpd-brain-vs-normal-brain-differences-size-scans/
Why there are brain differences when people are exposed to trauma in early childhood should probably get more research and prevention efforts. It's probably some weird evolutionary way to make someone slightly crazy so as to survive better in what appears to be a crazy world. You can make quite a close guess as to the age someone experienced childhood trauma at depending on what personality disorder they have, as different brain regions are affected or don't really develop properly afterwards. Narcissists usually get hurt when very young, this is why they have literal toddler temper tantrums.

Never EVER date cluster B women.
You CANNOT fix them.
You WILL be worse off after the inevitable implosion of your relationship.

>>537903753
>>537905668
>>537908372
>I'm 37. I got my shit together at 34
Did you join the military at 34?
I'm just guessing because I'm 2 weeks away from shipping out to the army and I'm 25. I can't stand my mentally ill parents anymore, they know and they dont care what I do.
Just wondering how a guy 10 years older than me fixes their life.

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>>537903402
>No stable father or a weak one who enables her makes it ten times worse. Real dad either bailed or was driven out, or stayed and became her emotional punching bag and wallet.
all of patriarchy failed us, now we have to reboot & make our own–

I feel like this OP is putting too much of the blame on the parents. It's not always the parents. My own parents are flawed but wonderful people and I don't blame them at all. I blame public school.
Here's the typical school day
>Get beat up
>Get spit on
>Get kicked
>Get tripped
>Get called gay faggot for the billionth time
>Get your backpack stolen and dumped out and kicked around
>Get laughed at and mocked by all your peers
>Get ignored by the teachers who watch you get bullied and probably laugh about it

Really it's the public schools. They are a warzone and the children in them are monstrous animals who should be drop kicked off a tall building onto Mortal Kombat spikes. I learned early on that everyone is my enemy and I can't count on anyone or any authority.

>>537913150
I think most of women's insanity comes from the society that tells them they're perfect is actively disintegrating. It's a race to the bottom of your desires and nobody tells them any other goals. They're probably not even receptive to avengers fairy tales when every one is an allegory that flies over their heads, they're illiterate culturally probably in some misplaced attempt to make them independent

>>537903402
>ask son to leave because insurance ran out
the most jewish american thing I read here today

>>537913026
NEETing is a poor survival strategy and will be ending soon with the bankruptcy of Social Security.
White men stop working and then war breaks out and white men have to fight.
Happened every single time until 1945. And they didnt ask you they just did it and white men complied.
Even if you dont fight a war for someone else you will have to fight a war yourself or make another team so ultimately having resources to create an alternative for yourself seems to be the best way.
Only getting out of NEETdom provides this opportunity.

>>537913501
>Modern society is a poor survival strategy

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>>537903402
>BPD mothers plus enabling or absent fathers is the factory that produces most NEET sons.
also nigger welfare state & the consequent devaluation of labour–

>>537913584
Explain without implying, shitbag.

>>537903402
>job
You can't be a neet if you're a wagie.

>>537903402
Rent IS too high and college does t get you better wages

>>537913662
Any society that imports a bunch of people reliant on on time delivery of goyslop to survive that abuse their kids through incompetency and "coasting through life" probably isn't well suited to change

>>537913774
>Ranjeet the Doordash driver is why I can't be a man, you see

>>537913501
Best thing is to use social security while it's here to make clever investments.
No quick pumpy in your dumpy schemes, no crypto.
It's gay to slave for your pittance and then spend that on stonks.
Using public debt instead to Jew the Jew, is based. Worst case scenario, the debt the gouvernment took is destroyed in stonk memes.
Best case you profit.

>>537913823
So you are saying Canadian levels of jeet importation is fine? So you really don't see any problems with it?

>>537903402
It's really funny to me to observe the most jewish brained boomers struggling to understand why their kids end up hating them "for no reason".

>>537913823
Ranjeesh is a symptom of the race to the bottom of jewish consumerism. Yes. You are supposed to be ranjeesh, a scamming smelly turd worlder, that is what society tells you when they import consumers because whites aren't consuming enough. Maybe Jung was right in a way

What produces NEET sons is a completely wrecked society where there are no good jobs, everything is an anti-racist gynocracy, and even the churches and armies are literally fucking gay.

>>537913774
Thats not what I was saying though.
I was saying:
You NEET, things change around you and you are powerless to stop them.
You have a job which gets you more resources and suddenly you have an exit plan for when SHTF.

If the US was to break out in an all out civil war tomorrow, would you be forced to fight under a situation you don't want to (Against/for the US army by yourself, against/for militia by yourself, against/for gangs by yourself, against/for hostile nation armies by yourself) or would you rather be glad you spent the last 10 years prepping a defense/escape for yourself?
If a $2000 plane ticket was the only thing in your way to complete safety and you couldn't pay it because you didn't work 40 hours in your life, then you are the only one to blame.

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>>537903402
>Feminism celebrates the strong single mom while ignoring what it does to the sons.
you dont udnerstand, mothers consider it their contribution to society to destroy their sons who would otherwise go on & become evil warmen who cause harm, its not a bug but a feature–
moms want to turn their sons into sissies bc thats the only peaceful solution to the male question, they fuck their sons up on purpose–
war = pain = evil
nations = exclude others = evil
racism = doesnt help the sad hungy african child = evil

womens survival strategy has always been to surrender to the dominant force & be an obedient whore to avoid danger & the jew makes sure women get the chance to raise their sons according to those principles–

>>537913942
what have you done with your life and education that a freshly imported brown streetshitter compete with you?

>>537914107
My point is if you're actually worried about societal collapse learning basic survival skills and stocking up on food will be worth more than getting a mortgage

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>>537913301
>joining the military instead of being a spirit detective

The worst NEET recipe is overbearing mother and absent father. My mother was always there but never actually taught me anything; all my father did is telling my mother to stop being overbearing, but never actually doing anything himself either. Years later they blame me for having no motivation or anything.

>>537913956
maybe you shoulda stayed in skool and gotten them certifikayshuns so that Sukdeep can't come off the plane from Bungalore and start competing with you next day

>>537913150
Yes there are brain differences in people...surprise.

But you can't say that about blacks or you will be branded a racist or fags for that matter, only white people have mental disorders, more jew manipulation for their anti-white agenda.

Maybe young men do not want to leave the home because they have no reason to do so, before jews created women's liberation a young man would marry his childhood sweetheart buy a house and have a family now none of that is achievable for most young men, his high-school sweetheart is now a tatted up porn whore with a golem child and buying a home is beyond his reach.

I'm sure rent jews want him to move out because that's more money in their pockets.

Even the Bible addresses this issue it says:

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

But now there are very few wives to cleave to, they are running around riding the cock carousel.

Maybe the jews ideas of normal being pushed on society conflicts with the ingrained whites ideas of normal and that is the root cause of the problem.

>>537903402
My mother was gentle and kind overall, but she spent all day at work and as a result neglected me entirely.
My father on the other hand was an utter psychopath drug-addict who almost never worked (my mother fed him) yet he would constantly beat the shit out of my mother and threaten me with breaking my arms and legs if I ever went out of the house to go socialize with other kids. He would also beat me if I had so much as a speck of dust on my school uniform or shoes after school, so I couldn't even play around with kids in the 30 minute breaks between classes. Then when I was a teenager and was given free condoms during sexual education, he took the condoms away because I was "too young for that", literally cockblocking me even further. Not only did he forbid me from going out to meet girls, but he never introduced me any girl either.
The icing on the cake: after two decades of this, both my mother and my father asked me why I never go out of the house, why I don't have friends, and why I don't have a girlfriend.
The cherry on top: should I mention that I'm an ugly manlet autist socially-inept retard?
Now guess, anons: am I a millionaire Chad with a degree in engineering and well-paying job along with a house and wife and children, or a hikikomori NEET?

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>>537913399
>he wasnt the 2nd toughest punk at Sarayshiki Jr High

>>537914219
Society has been set up for a long time to artificially benefit a select few. You can't point out how politicians are selected before they even go into law school to be politicians. Then these same politicians void constitutional rights to import low wage labor so they city can get a bigger welfare check from the government. You know what that sounds like? communist china

>>537903451
>Their operating system was corrupted in childhood.
Yeah no.
Not holding a job in the current economy is a perfectly normal reaction because you are paid jackshit, have jackshit perspectives of promotion, and jackshit chance at using whatever you are doing right now as a lever to get a better job somewhere else. There are literally 0 fucking reasons for them to give a shit. Giving up on the slightest hurdle is rational behavior in their situation.

This is the same shit than that meme about foid therapists branding perfectly sane & moral reactions to the shitty state of the world as something that need solving with pills.
You can't "fix" someone's shape if you gonna drop him back into a mold he was already perfectly fitting in. Fix the mold first.

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>>537903402
>Fix the mothers by not breeding with BPD or cluster B women
anon... i...
women are all corrupt today–

>>537914329
working up quite a sweat looking for excuses why a fresh immigrant can compete with you

>>537914469
Have you ever actually seen a positive product made by jeets?

>>537912771
Yeah I know what you mean. Once you get grippy pussy it's hard to be happy with the slip n slide

>>537914239
Tl;dr, only hikikomori faggots blogposts in the chan.

>>537903402
To be fair, public school also wrecks the psyche of some kids who even slightly think outside the box. Unfettered internet access too, it all compounds.

>>537913301
at 31 years old:
Went to rehab to get sober (from weed)
Learned a lot of coping skills for problems I used drugs to hide: DBT, Buddhism, Journaling, CBT, etc ...
Moved out my Mom's house into this shitty sober living spot. (gotta get out moms house by any means, even if it mean a shittier living space, otherwise I'll relapse into old behaviors)
Got serious about health and fitness til it just because an automatic part of my lifestyle.
Worked a shitty security job and saved cash at the shitty sober living place.
Used to money to start my own business.
Made enough money off the biz to lease a car and live somewhere with a roommate.
Eventually made more money to the point I could get my own place.
Got arrested and went to prison for threatening to kill Jews.
Lost everything. Get released from prison.
Start over.
Work a shitty manual labor job while at halfway house.
Get into a transitional housing.
Start attending university.
Use fafsa and student loan money to start a side hustle.
Move into a place with roomates.
Buy a used car with side-hustle money.
Apply for fuckton of scholarships, department of rehabilitation, etc
Currently working on a book while running a shitty ecommerce biz til Fall semester where I'm going to get more money out of the education system to push my brand blah blah blah

My wealth isn't where it was at before I got arrested, but my mindset and happiness is better. But I want to show you that once you are out of your Mom's house and on your own, your whole mindset changes and you stop making excuses and just do shit.

No one is coming to save you.

Also, call me a nigger but I also took advantage of EBT, rental assistance, utility assistance, low-cost insurance, etc programs. I had to get stable by whatever means so I took advantage of any program I could find.

>>537906716
>>537914239

>>537914521
have you tried taken personal responsibility for your outcomes?
an education perhaps so that a brown can't do the same shit you do?

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>>537914239
>dad took my condoms
he just wanted you to be a raw chad

>>537914688
*taking

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>>537914666
checked
i remember being scared for years after getting hit with the mandiant popup after watching porn at age 11. i literally lived in fear that i was going to get vanned by the government but was too afraid to tell my parents i watched porn.

>>537914580
>anon asks what leads to a neet
>i tell him
>macaco cant read so it seethes

>>537903753
>This is why military can be an acceptable path if there isn't another.
Not as long as our military is zogged or pozzed. No White man should ever die for Israel or have to serve with spics and faggots.

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>>537903753
>This is why military can be an acceptable path if there isn't another.
nice try sneaking in war propaganda. kill all good white men or let them become faggots, pick your poison–

>>537914688
Okay but jeets literally produce nothing for society so sorry you should go back to your country
>I'm not a parasite
you are, you're a fatbodied cretinous economic parasite like all the other non whites in the west

>>537905668
And yet joining still quintuples your suicide risk.

The military is just another government welfare org. It doesn't fix your life, make you fit to interact with normal society, or give you marketable skills. It just makes you even more dependent on the government than a regular NEET.

>>537914669
nigger you fucked yourself up with booze
Imagine a normal human trying his best to do his best being actively sabotaged by his own kin the second his kin feels he will be better than they expected him to be
The fuck are you even talking about normie trash here
GTFO

>>537914171
That's a very short sighted view you have, I guess trying to explain long term repercussions would be wast of time as seeing though you don't have the mind for it.

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>tfw no dommy big sis to bully me to success

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>>537903753
>The only reason the Neet has the comfort to live like that is because it's literally enable by his parents: free rent, free wifi, free food.... Literally sponsored neetdom.
The only reason the Nigger has the comfort to live like that is because it's literally enable by his ZOG: free rent, free wifi, free food.... Literally sponsored niggerdom.

>>537914190
How is a NEET going to survive when they dont have enough discipline to find a job and show up to it?
What basic survival skills are NEETs learning?
NEETs arent surviving they are drowning. SSI is not enough for a single person to live off of. Not even close.
Post-society NEETs are beggars and theives NOT organizers.

What I suggest is more than simple survival. It's organizing yourself and your environment so that you can organize others. This is statebuilding.

>>537914870
>stealing and surviving in a chaotic urban setting where the cattle realize their on time delivery chicken and biscuits didn't show up
take a camera

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>>537903891
why not blame the jews *&* their enablers? no need to play the forgiving saint here, even hitler scolds the boomers of his time:

“Naturally, our wretched army of contemporary Philistines will not understand these things. They will ridicule them or shrug their round shoulders and groan out their everlasting excuses, “Of course, it is a fine thing, but the pity is that it cannot be carried out.” And we reply, “With you indeed it cannot be done, for your world is incapable of such an idea. You know only one anxiety and that is for your own personal existence. You have but one God, and that is your money. “We do not turn to you, however, for help, but to the great army of those who are too poor to consider their personal existence as the highest good on earth. They do not place their trust in money, but in other gods, into whose hands they confide their lives. “Above all we turn to the vast army of our German youth. They are coming to maturity in a great epoch, and they will fight against the evils which were the outcome of the laziness and indifference of their fathers.” Either the German youth will one day create a new State founded on the racial idea or they will be the last witnesses of the complete breakdown and death of the bourgeois world. If a generation suffers from defects which it recognises and even admits and is nevertheless quite pleased with itself, as the bourgeois world is to-day, resorting to the cheap excuse that nothing can be done to remedy the situation, then such a generation is doomed to disaster.”

Adolf Hitler, Mein Kampf, 1925/26, Stalag Edition

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>>537905668
>Less than 10% of military ever see combat
>Less than 1% chance you'll ever get killed or injured
>Get skills, independence, see the world, priority in getting jobs, zero down payment on a house.

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>>537914989
german original:

„Freilich, das jammervolle Heer unserer heutigen Spießbürger wird dies niemals verstehen. Sie werden darüber lachen oder ihre schiefen Achseln zucken und ihre ewige Ausrede herausstöhnen: „Das wäre an sich ja ganz schön, aber das läßt sich ja doch nicht machen!“ Mit euch läßt sich das freilich nicht mehr machen, eure Welt ist dafür nicht geeignet! Ihr kennt nur eine Sorge: euer persönliches Leben, und einen Gott: euer Geld! Allein, wir wenden uns auch nicht an euch, sondern wenden uns an die große Armee derjenigen, die zu arm sind, als daß ihr persönliches Leben höchstes Glück der Welt bedeuten könnte, an diejenigen, die den Regenten ihres Daseins nicht im Golde sehen, sondern an andere Götter glauben. Vor allem wenden wir uns an das gewaltige Heer unserer deutschen Jugend. Sie wächst in eine große Zeitwende hinein, und was die Trägheit und Gleichgültigkeit ihrer Väter verschuldete, wird sie selbst zum Kampfe zwingen. Die deutsche Jugend wird dereinst entweder der Bauherr eines neuen völkischen Staates sein, oder sie wird als letzter Zeuge den völligen Zusammenbruch, das Ende der bürgerlichen Welt erleben. Denn wenn eine Generation unter Fehlern leidet, die sie erkennt, ja sogar zugibt, um sich dann trotzdem, wie dies heute von seiten unserer bürgerlichen Welt geschieht, mit der billigen Erklärung zu begnügen, daß dagegen doch nichts zu machen sein, dann ist eine solche Gesellschaft dem Untergang verfallen.“

Adolf Hitler, Mein Kampf, 1925/26

>>537903402
These parents actually seem ok, assuming that the author is being honest.

People don't understand the importance of moving in the right direction.

I used to view myself as a "destination is more important than the journey" kind of guy, but in my 30s I realized that focusing on the destination made the journey suck.
Simply moving in the right direction is usually enough to satisfy your own mind as well as satisfy people around you

>start going to school
Even if it's going to take 4 years, STARTING that journey gives the parents peace of mind

>cleaning up after yourself
It can be hard enough for parents to accept that their son might live with them until hes 30, so cleaning up is the least a man can do to help his parents, and it helps the parents not view themselves and their son as a failure
>he can't even clean up after himself
>"where did we go wrong?"

Lots of shitty parents out there, but the ones who are willing to help deserve cooperation.

>>537914939
I don't know why I suggested theiving. NEETs are too dysfunctional to even steal without getting caught or killed anyway.
NEETs are totally out of control of their lives thats why they are playing into the hands of the state.

>>537905928
Yes, jewish males can go die for Israel. White men should stay home.

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>>537905668
under no circumstance sign up for military service lads, they want to kill off the best white men as a periodic cleansing, a type of negative eugenics program so the degenerates & niggers who stay at home fuck everyhing up, we must remain alive as a counterbalance to their gay nwo–

“The 400,000 who thus fell or were maimed on the battlefields of Flanders couldn't be replaced. Their loss was something far more than merely numerical. With their death, the scales, which were already too light on the good side, now shot upwards, toward baseness, treachery, and cowardice; in short, toward the mass of the extreme bad. And there was something more: While, for four-and-a-half years, our extreme best were being horrendously thinned on the battlefields, our extreme worst succeeded wonderfully in saving themselves. For each hero who made the supreme sacrifice and ascended the steps of Valhalla, there was a slacker who cunningly dodged death in order to engage in business that was more or less useful at home. And so the end of the war gave us the following picture: The broad middle stratum of the nation gave its share of blood-sacrifice. The extreme best, with outstanding heroism, sacrificed themselves almost completely. The extreme bad preserved themselves almost completely, by taking advantage of absurd laws and because of the non-application of articles of war (death penalty for desertion). This well-preserved scum of our nation then made the Revolution, and could do so only because the extreme best elements were no longer there to oppose it: -they were no longer alive. Hence the German Revolution, from the very start, was only conditionally popular. This act of Cain wasn't committed by the German people per se, but by an obscure rabble of deserters, hooligans, and so on.”

Adolf Hitler, Mein Kampf, 1925/26, Dalton Translation

>>537912544
this is unironically true
you learn so much here if you don't just immediately sperg and overdose on red and blackpills
/pol/ has taught me the basics of personal finance, simple nutrition and calisthenics, dating economics, home construction, weapon keeping, with a healthy dose skepticism to avoid pretty much all the modern day psyops.
in retrospect, these were all things proper parents were supposed to teach, about the only thing my parents did right was not snip me at birth, so i guess i should be more grateful :/

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>>537915138
german original:

„Die vierhunderttausend, die damals in den Kämpfen in Flandern fielen oder zu Krüppeln wurden, konnten nicht mehr ersetzt werden. Ihr Verlust war mehr als das Ausscheiden einer bloßen Zahl. Durch ihren Tod schnellte die Waage, auf der guten Seite zu wenig be schwert, in die Höhe, und schwerer wogen nun als früher die Elemente der Gemeinheit, der Niedertracht und der Feigheit, kurz die Masse des Extrems des Schlechten. Denn noch eins kam dazu: Nicht nur, daß auf den Schlachtfeldern das Extrem des Besten in der ungeheuerlichsten Weise durch die vier einhalb Jahre hindurch gelichtet worden war, das Extrem des Schlechten hatte sich in der wundervollsten Art unter dessen konserviert. Sicherlich traf auf jeden sich freiwillig meldenden Helden, der nach heiligem Opfertod dann die Stufen nach Walhall emporstieg, ein Drückeberger, der sehr vorsichtig dem Tode den Rücken kehrte, um sich statt dessen mehr oder weniger nützlich in der Heimat zu betätigen. So ergibt das Ende des Krieges folgendes Bild: Die mittlere breite Schicht der Nation hat ihren Zoll an pflichtgemäßen Blutopfern gebracht; das Extrem der Besten hat sich in vorbildlichem Heldentum fast restlos aufgeopfert; das Extrem der Schlechten, unterstützt durch un sinnigste Gesetze einerseits und durch die Nichtanwendung der Kriegsartikel (Todesstrafe für Deserteure) andererseits, ist leider ebenso restlos erhalten geblieben. Dieser wohlkonservierte Abschaum unseres Volkskörpers hat dann die Revolution gemacht, und er konnte sie nur machen, weil das Extrem bester Elemente ihm nicht mehr gegenüberstand: – es war nicht mehr am Leben. Damit aber war die deutsche Revolution von vornherein nur eine bedingt populäre Sache. Nicht das deutsche Volk an sich hat diese Kainstat verbrochen, sondern das lichtscheue Gesindel seiner Deserteure, Zuhälter usw.“

Adolf Hitler, Mein Kampf, 1925/26

>>537903451
>fix the mothers
It's too late to fix mothers who already raised sons.

It's not too late to fix the sons, though. Men in their 30s can learn responsibility. They can learn cooperation. They can learn to deal with anger and stress.

A broken man can be fixed, but a broken woman is broken forever

>>537915102
Yes I'm sure snagging that loaf of bread in a puddle will be beyond the average person today. They'll probably call the police to say there's no door dash and their power is out

>>537903402
Mom holds son to a higher standard than she does herself and the rest of the famiy. He resents them for being lazy, and when they criticize his lifestyle. He pays his bills. So it doesnt matter at the end of the day. Mom can suck a dick.

>>537914776
touchy touchy unskilled fag
we have ukraininan immigrations in the millions
doesn't bother me because I'm not a food delivery guy
I've got qualifications they can't reach so my job's safe
maybe their kids can catch up, but that won't be my problem

>>537915231
>I think I know everything about shit that hasnt happened yet
NEETs are behind the curve on survival. They are fed by the state.
Slaves can't revolt, only protest.

>>537903753
This is what white boomers do. Jews and immigrants actually help their kids succeed

>>537915265
Ranjeesh just because you scammed some illiterate white woman with a fake degree doesn't mean you're worth a damn

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>>537903968
>i got about 7 mental disorders that are all chemical based

>>537915421
>everyone who's making me angry by being right must be an immigrant
lol

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I think I finally understand what it means to be truly broken. It didn’t happen all at once—it was a slow, painful process. But the final straw? Pan Piano’s net worth.

I work 12-hour shifts, come home to my fat bitch of a girlfriend who wasn’t always like this. She used to be normal, decent even, but once she hit 20, she started ballooning like every other American woman. First, it was little things—more fast food, less effort, more nagging. Then, before I even realized what was happening, she was just there, a miserable, entitled blob, treating me like some human ATM while complaining about everything.

Still, I kept my head down. I worked. I saved. I told myself it would get better. Then I made the mistake of looking up Pan Piano’s net worth.

Three million dollars. In just three years. All because she plays piano while wearing stupid, sexy cosplay outfits. That’s it. That’s all it took. Meanwhile, I’ve spent years breaking my back for less than nothing—just enough to keep myself alive in a world that doesn’t care. No talent, no innovation, no hard work, just sex appeal and a piano and she’s set for life.

I haven’t been to work in a week. Didn’t even quit. Just stopped showing up. What’s the point? There is none. There never was. I see now that my entire existence is just a joke played at my expense. I can’t even bring myself to be angry anymore. Just empty.

I used to think there was some fairness in the world. That hard work meant something. That if I suffered enough, things would eventually even out. But no. Life is just one long humiliation.

>>537909060
>be beaner
>rape sister/daughter/niece

>>537915462
Yes all jeets talk the same it's weird, it's like you're constantly projecting your own low self esteem to cope with being scum

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It used to be normal for generations of families to live together, when was it decided a young man had to leave the home when he turned 18 and who was behind that societal change.

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>>537915383
Found out today that Pan Piano, the YouTube cosplayer who plays anime openings in skimpy outfits, has a husband, three kids, a paid-off house, and a car. She films herself half-dressed pressing piano keys while millions of desperate guys throw money and praise at her like she’s some goddess. She barely talks, doesn’t even have to pretend she has a personality. And she’s set for life. Comfort, love, stability, attention, all of it handed to her for doing the bare minimum.

I’m 32. I did everything I was told to do. Got a computer science degree. No debt. Never slacked off. I worked part-time through college, pulled all-nighters, stayed disciplined while everyone else partied and hooked up. And for what. No one hired me. Every application either ignores me or tells me I don’t have enough experience. I can’t even get an interview for entry-level jobs. The degree means nothing. The hard work meant nothing. No one cares.

I work in a warehouse now. Twelve hour shifts under flickering lights. My back hurts constantly. Holidays are just longer days. I come home to my parents’ crumbling house in a dead town where nothing grows except regret. I make just enough to stay alive and not enough to leave.

Never had a girlfriend. Never been on a date. Never even kissed anyone. Still a virgin. No one’s ever looked at me with interest. I haven’t had a real friend since kindergarten. Every day is the same blank grey haze. I don’t even know why I keep going to work. There’s nothing to hope for. No light at the end. Just the same loop until I die. Can someone explain to me why I should bother to even get up tomorrow to work? I feel like I’m just finished and it never even started for me.

>>537914669
>Got arrested and went to prison for threatening to kill Jews.
Jeez.
Hiding your power level and general all-round self-control is a superpower anon.
Your life will improve just from implementing these two things, and are are extremely easy to attain as they involve doing precisely ... nothing.

>>537905392
Boomers will literally have a meltdown if you point out that they are the reason their kids are losers. They didn’t invest in their kid, didn’t teach them valuable skills, didn’t give me a safe launch pad in which to try new jobs and education or even starting a business. Once their kids were teenagers they completely ignored them and let the public school system raise them, and then are shocked to find out their kids are unemployable losers because they didn’t set them up for success

>>537915519
imagine being so low skilled you can be replaced by an immigrant jfc
what have you done with your life in what is still the greatest country in the world
what a loser

>>537915541
Why didn't you just start your own company? If you're a comp sci grad you have everything you needed, but you wanted to be spoonfed. Now you can move boxes for a living or something.

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>>537904813
>>537904767
>>537903968
unhinged rabbi detected–

>>537909667
If you're financially trapped there, best you can do is avoid them as much as possible, don't talk to them any more than absolutely necessary, take care of yourself (work out, don't eat goyslop or drink or do drugs), limit time online, and take up a hobby that involves working with your hands. Good luck, fren.

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>>537905346
>>537905346

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>>537915738
>hobby that involves working with your hands
does mastering the spirit sword count?

>>537915669
Imagine being a subhuman with a fake degree getting government provided monopoly money jobs so you can buy cars and houses to keep the economy afloat and talking about superiority. Immigrants are a virus and provide nothing but the most esoteric cultural memes and food. The average Indian is worth less than their curry

>>537903402
So many parents very clueless why their sons don’t want to work. They are atomized and demoralized in a society that hates them and get zero pussy

>>537915016
Pic is a bit too defeatist.
My parents had all the worst traits of the 'Me' generation assholes but I still managed to surpass them in every single way, in spite of the enormous disadvantages my dysfunctional upbringing gave me - financially, career, parenting, personal development, psychological health...
It wasn't easy ("To suffer one's death and be reborn is not easy", Fritz Perls) and it took more than an decade of self-analysis and work to regain my confidence, but it can be done. But it gives you an idea of fucked my head was.
I don't look back in anger or resentment and more, just cold curiosity.

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>>537905374
>and take orders including (and exceeding) killing people
and take orders *from niggers*

>>537907473
>double down on the carthaginian death spiral
lol. lmao.

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>>537905374
>thank you for your service, now fuck off–

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>>537905392

>>537914219
>>537914469
Stinkwinder isn't getting jobs because he's highly trained or a hard worker or whatever boomer babble you use to justify replacement migration, he's just willing to work for free and live in a closet with 43 other jeets. My country literally pays companies to employ jeets. The only way to compete with slavery is to become a slave

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That's why I went to college to get away from my family, so much so that I actually went to college early instead of high school. In my life I tried to kill myself maybe three times. And one those times was over a D in chemistry because I knew if I couldn't get a scholarship my life would end, I'd have to do air force or something. Never do anything besides air force lmao, my brother didn't have the grades so he did military and not doing chair force is his biggest regret in life. Also I failed chemistry because I'm terrified of chemicals.
You're pretty much right about most things, but I don't hate my mother, I hate the people she surrounds herself with. Even my own biological father was a worthless piece of shit. At least she thinks she loves me, but in reality she ONLY thinks she does. I won't get all philosophical because I hate being whiny and preachy, but the simple fact if my mother made choices that drove me away and I simply don't want those choices near me anymore or my future. You're right about a lot of things, but my mother is really not an intentionally evil person who hates her children. She's very smart genetically, but she's a woman and that's the problem. The mental illness of her own family made her insane, it's not her own fault but to cure the mental illness from myself I need to avoid all people especially my family.She passed on her genetic intelligence to me and she gave me the give of enough blackpilled for an overdose. I will not live a pleasant life like a normie does, but I will survive because I see the world as a battle field, I see it all very clearly. Humanity itself is genetic trash, this is why I'm ideologically a eugenicist
In the end I am very lucky to have high total genetic value, and I am not hateful towards my mother because the struggle of my life made me a strong person. Which is greater? To be born perfect without struggle or to be born into chaos and conquer the struggles of the universe? Which is more divine?
Become great

>>537915669
You should go live in India if you think jeets are so great for society, otherwise you should fuck off with your effeminate shaming tactics.

>>537915541
Stop being an insufferable faggot and change the system then. Because right now society sees Pan Piano playing piano in a skimpy cosplay outfit as more valuable than your labor. There are people who are literally homeless and in so much debt with no education and felonies and you are crying about how you didn’t get the cozy work from home computer fag job boomers and Jews promised you. They lied to you and it’s about time you understand that. If your warehouse job isn’t paying enough burn it the fuck down. Prison is not as bad you think, don’t believe the boomer fairy tales of everyone getting their cheeks clapped. You need to realize that (((capitalists))) have made your life a living hell, they’ve turned you into a slave and you have very little to actually lose. Btw there are maximum sentences for property damage. They legally cannot give you more time. There is a generation of losers like you that accept their own slavery. You need to stop pretending that the economy is based on reality anymore, it’s not. Start an LLC and take out the biggest business loan you possibly can, go on Robinhood and yolo an options trade. The only reason you are miserable is because you are a beaten down slavery that accepts their own enslavement. Stop accepting it

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>>537905574
>Meanwhile, Pan Piano is out here making millions by playing a keyboard in a sexy cosplay outfit. That’s it. She dresses up, plays a song, and simps throw money at her like it’s nothing. I break my back every day and can barely afford gas. No real skill, no real effort—just looking hot and pressing keys, and she’s set for life. Meanwhile, I get yelled at for stacking a pallet the “wrong” way.
just troon out, you are just jelly you arent brave enough to become an OF whore, just give in to your feminine side–
wicked rich jews will trhow money at you for castrating & humiliating yourself like that–

It’s not hard to pull yourself out of this trash. Current economic conditions are hard on everyone. Time is on our side. Eat protein.

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>>537905668
>oy vey!

>>537916372
Also this

>>537907473
>Once you hit 30s you can’t blame your shitty upbringing anymore.
This is true. I completely fucked up my own life and it's sad because I'm basically retarded now after sleeping 5 hours a night for 5 years working in a factory. I went back to college and could barely finish calculus II. I got an A wit immense effort. Doesn't really matter because I won't be getting a job with a math associates degree. Can't afford to finish my bachelor's. If I'd been a tradie at age 18 I could be running my own company now. I was so desperate to get a job. Now I wasted my youth and I can't even write or make music anymore.

>>537913399
Parents who send their children to public schools are just abusing them by proxy.

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>>537905668
Kys foreskinless goygolem

https://files.catbox.moe/dkl212.mp4
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