Did anyone else grow up with literally no community?>single mother family>mother was illiterate>grew up in rural town with nobody my age>raised irreligious, never attend church>only friends were outcasts who I saw at school>rest of my life my 'community' was just workmates or friends who I would play videogames with onlineI'm jealous of people who grew up in a functioning, tight nit community of competent people
>>538424188Have you ever had a girlfriend? If so, how did you get one?
the only time i hear about people i grew up with/went to school with is when they die because my mom still has a facebook and it has replaced the local paper as the place for obituaries i guess although i admit i stopped reading the paper years ago when i became a recluse
Those who were neglicted by a community will burn it to feel its warmth
>grew up beside natives and a few years on the rez because my moms a neechieboo due to outreach with her job with indian affairs>only community i know is a foreign race
>>538424284No, never, except for "e-dating" a girl from a different country for a while
>>538424574what were reservations like? our reservations are just filled with boozers
>>538424836Men in their 50s who need to steer you towards not being like themIts like they see a kidSpend hours giving you the more and tell you what to avoidMeanwhile im half scot half frog ardently listening in my childhood Im legitimately sure they dont even see me as someone of another race and try to drill in the fact bad omens exist and i need to avoid them
>>538424188i grew up rich in the hamptons and still managed to wind up on this awful website just like you did
Yes I only ever saw other people my age in school, after that I never met another person. Everyone is a gen X around here, (Kentucky), and its been around 11 years since I met a young person.
Yeah I haven't had a single friend since I was 15. People are so cold and hostile in Canada I genuinely stopped caring forever ago.
>>538426850I had to hire people from this board and make freinds from /k/ to hang out irl Canada is unfriendly and i was born here
>>538424188I was shunned by the people (southern Baptists mainly) that were supposed to be my community and didn’t fit in well with my family, so not really. I now have a community (post 25) but growing up did not
>>538426948Why don't you just tripfag, why the lolis
>>538424188I did.I don't care.Only normies need social lives.
>>538424310MUST HAVE BEEN NICE to have been able to enjoy the woods back when they were quiet.Now there is nowhere to go where there isn't the near constant sound of jetliners overhead and diesel engines or jake brakes in the distance.At night the sky is full of Starlink satellites going by constantly.
>>538424188Community can fuck off unless they aren't on some bullshit.
>>538424188My parents moved frequently not just different neighborhoods but different provinces or countries. My mother would fight with family too, both her side and dad's. So yeah I can relate.
>>538427185Sometimes I regret not having friends anymore, but honestly a wife is all I need. I get other mens takes online and play twenty year old games with them thats enough for me.
>>538424188>Did anyone else grow up with literally no community?Yup, former wetback. Came to this country with no extended family. No grandparents, no cousins, aunts, uncles, etc. My parents were social retards and made no friends themselves. >>single mother familyBoth parents but with constant domestic violence. >>mother was illiterateMother didn't know how to speak, read, write English. >>grew up in rural town with nobody my ageGrew up with people my age but they all lived IN town. Us wetbacks lived in isolated enclaves on the outskirts of town because our parents needed to live nearby their jobs. Nearest neighbor was 10 miles away. Needed a telescope just to say hi. >>raised irreligious, never attend churchCatholic in name only >>only friends were outcasts who I saw at schoolSame but those outcast are still my friends to this day. >>rest of my life my 'community' was just workmates or friends who I would play videogames with onlineThis is very common, unfortunately. It's because our parents refused to participate in community activities. I never played little league like the other in town kids. Lived on the outskirts of town and my parents couldn't afford the equipment and travel fees. It's my parents fault my sister and I didn't develop healthy social skills. >I'm jealous of people who grew up in a functioning, tight nit community of competent peopleSame. It's worse when those same tight knit communities exclude you because you will always be an outcast.
>>538428008i don't remember much of my childhood, i wish i did thoughmemory is the only way to go back in time, you can never step into the same river twice
>>538424188I grew up alone and when I was abused because of my parents failing to give a shit they also used that abuse to justify more abuse towards me for many years after. Humans should not be allowed to have kids especially if they're poor. So many should have been sterilized. They see the kids as a burden and punching bags to vent over failing at life and being too pathetic to attack the ones who actually fuck with them. Imagine forcing more life into existence just to complain about it being here and poorly defend abusing it while it's completely dependent on you. They're all sick.
>>538424188It actually doesn't matter if you grew up with a community or not to some extent because the rot that destroyed them also destroyed people who grew up in one so don't look back in anger ya heard me say
>>538424188Join a community of caring altruistic people. People who want you to be a part of their group because you add value by your presence. If you don’t have friends or family, go join a church. The people in the church believe that IT’S THEIR JOB AS CHRISTIANS TO MAKE YOU PART OF THE COMMUNITY. They will go out of their way to fit you in. The women will even find you a wife. At least a good church will, so if you don’t find it at one, then keep trying until you find a good one. It’s God’s plan that you have a good mate and family and be supported by a strong community. If you are lonely, there is a woman out there who is also lonely because you aren’t in her life. And children who need you both to create them and raise them in a loving healthy family.Jews hate this.
>>538426850>>538426948is this generally a western canada thing? i'm a semi-rural nova scotian, meet many friendly people all the time but i'm socially retarded so haven't really made lasting friends and almost everybody leaves around age 18-24 so there's nobody in my age group left for me to mingle withns really doesn't have many opportunities outside of blue collar work, i'm hoping to move west or to the states before i waste my life here
>>538424188Being dalit, you will get these perks for free.
I play fortnite with my wife, save the world pve add me milisolbo
>>538430072What games? Steam info?
>>538424409>The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmthif you're gonna steal a quote at least quote it right, anon. neglicted???
>>538424188Grew up on a farm in rural midwest. The closest town is filled with boomers and spics who dont speak english. its Insanely lonely so i spend all my time on hobbys and online
>>538424188My family were together but total Judeo NPCs to a T, I don't think there are any genuine communities anywhere with the "fellow white" problem AnonStraight White Non Jewish territories need to happen and different races and cultures can have their own territories
>>538431757You're probably a third worlder like me. For them, children are a commodity not people. Children are farm equipment, custodial equipment, retirement plans, etc. That's why you get treated so bad yet still are expected to take care of them. You are just equipment.
