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How do I display the traits that signal to good men? What would they be looking for?

>be me
>socially a little retarded, enough to want to isolate
>no social structure to help me discern men
>conflicting greater social narratives about what I, a silly foid, should be looking for and discerning
>if I choose incorrectly... well, you know

>inb4 kys foid
>>>> inb4 blackpilled demoralizing doomniggers
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I believe having clear social roles for men made this easier.. "rites to manhood", if you will
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You don't have to signal anything

You are the prize
That's a fact

You need to follow gay men on tiktok who will tell you the truth about men

The more you run around after a man, the more he thinks he is the prize and takes you for granted.

Men don't operate on oxytocin like women. When you make a demand of a man it produces vasopressin which bonds him to you.

Men need to feel useful to be content. Give him tasks to do/
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>>538438570
> has initiative
> takes responsibility for his actions
> keeps his word
> adheres to his values and stands for them in practice
That would be some good indicators
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This is the truth what I am about to say


You don't chase, you attract.

The more you chase, the more it eludes you.

Women who pour into themselves completely - are magnetised

Pour everything into yourself and you will be a beacon
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>>538438570
1. Be humble. This is the most important trait for women. Realize you are mid and a depreciating asset that gets uglier and saggier every year.
2. Shut up. Men don’t want to hear retarded woman blabber unless it’s dirty talk.
3. Don’t be a jealous bitch. Links in with point 1. All men watch porn so you have to be cool with that. There are women who are much hotter than you everywhere he goes, you aren’t that special.
4. Allow him to have side chicks. Men aren’t programmed for monogamy but women are.
5. You can lock down any man as long as you present your holes for fucking daily, cook him dinner each night, and clean the house. Just don’t be a nagging bitch.
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>>538438917
Shut the fuck up you fucking loser

You vile disgusting creep
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>>538438842
for man i mean, for female i dont know, dont cut your hair short, dont dress like a slut and dont be a bitch i assume.
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Honestly Op

Marry a gay man. Who will treat you with respect.

Don't EVER let these losers on 4chan get into your head. They are running psyops and some of them are just abominations.
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>>538438917
>1. Be humble.
I hate when women make me do everything. What do you want to eat, 'I don't know', what do you want to do, 'I don't know', do you think for yourself, 'I don't know'. She needs to be smart, not a slut. Impossible, I know.
>2. Shut up.
Depends, what's she shutting up about? Also, I don't want to hear their 'dirty talk', fucking nasty, they just want me to slap them and choke them and it's just tiring.
>3. Don’t be a jealous bitch.
Don't listen to him, fight for me!
>4. Allow him to have side chicks.
Why would I bother with more than one woman at a time? Intimacy gets tiring over time, eventually your dick doesn't want it anymore and you have to make it.
>5. You can lock down any man if blah blah blah
No, she can't lock down any man, she can lock down ME. Also get her the fuck away from my food and let me clean my own parts of the house, she won't know where anything goes or what it's supposed to do.
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>>538438570
Do you have intelligent or interesting hobbies/skills other than traveling, eating, and looking cute? If yes you are top 1% of women.

Display your knowledge, strengths, and skills if you want to attract a high iq chad

Also don't take advice from the dysgenic incels that have already replied here
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The top men love travelling, eating and for you to look beautiful.

Image going to Venice together on the Orient Express.

Of course you are intelligent, Anon didn't notice your love of pre-Raphaelite art and romanticism.


You could get married in a pre-raphaelite wedding dress.
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>>538438570
Why are you asking us retard? The implication here is you are a woman? Show tits AND gtfo
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>>538438570
>no social structure to help me discern men
>conflicting greater social narratives about what I, a silly foid, should be looking for and discerning
I fail to see how this is a problem for you.
Are you unable to think for yourself?
If the answer is yes, then even if you have the golden answer presented to you, how will you know it's correct and accept it? How will you know to pick it over the retarded answers?
In the olden days you had fathers who at the very least had an incentive to make sure the man you had was adequate, if not, he would have to take care of you and the kids.
Let's assume you don't have that.
How do you know I'm telling you what is the best for you, or if I'm purposefully telling you false information to spite you because I hate women, or false information I want to be true because I want to push a narrative?

I believe the most important thing for a man, from a woman's perspective, is being able to provide for them. Good lucks and charm won't fill the belly. Next is agreeableness so they don't hurt you or the children. Beyond that, everything else is "nice" but not "necessary". You should make your internal life not necessary on others, and you should have friends for social needs.
>be socially retarded enough to isolate
See above points anyway. If the man is to be a father for your children, then the above is relevant. If you're wanting to use him as a social all in one package to fulfill all your needs, u r dumb.
This is coming from a broke guy with no hope of ever attracting a woman.
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>>538438570
You're a tranny
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>>538438759
>>538438842
Signaling does matter!
>theirritatinggentleman.jpg
Keeping my head down hasn't gotten me much of anywhere, anon. I'm frequently approached, but by utter perverted pests. Another archetype would be like >>538438917-- I don't find that anon's mindset to be moral, intelligent, nor conducive for children, for life... at the very least, we are incompatible, and yet, men with this mindset approach still approach me, and

To your point(s) about "being the prize", attracting and not chasing... I was also told a long time ago, by a nice old man, to not approach men but to make myself available for men to then approach me... which they do.. but, again, I am unwed.

I'm not belligerent. I dress modestly. I'm told that I'm gentle, feminine.. I'm also told I'm "intimidating" frequently? Maybe that has something to do with the disconnect? Regardless, sending the right signals matters, and I fear I'm sending the wrong ones... perhaps even just "generally unavailable", thus pests, and no fruit.
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>>538438759
>>538438842
>>538438825
>>538439187
>>538439376
Thank you for your advices, anons
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>>538439000
>Marry a gay man
No
>Don't EVER let these losers on 4chan get into your head. They are running psyops and some of them are just abominations.
Sadly, I agree. Thank you for the reminder.. it's rough.

>>538439435
Well, I am having to discern for myself, of course. But, dear anon, all prior decisions have been for my life, not involving children... I would want the discernment of men and women alike, to guide me; if there are traits the men are seeing that perhaps the women aren't, I'd like to be aware.
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>>538439775

What would the ideal man look like for you?

Please don't tell me an artist.
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>>538438917
You sound like a Muslim.
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>>538438570
You helpd create a Satanic world were youre already married to the state.

This is your husband...you chose this, there is no turning back.
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>>538440157
Who is he? Hermes?
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>>538438570
good men don't want to talk to you.
all the good men already have devoted families.
you're literally in a different caste to them
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>>538440025
No. I, personally, lean a bit artsy and limber, and I am attracted to my compliment-- structure. I find Teddy Roosevelt incredibly attractive, for example. When I was a kid, my first crush was Qui Gon Jinn. I've been told to look for an "SLE" by a Jungian-nerd. I find excessive material wealth to be disgusting, and I appreciate depth of character and drive.
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>>538440297
What are you doing up at 4am dear?
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>>538438570
You should come live with my in leafland. I'm not ugly or indian.
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>>538438570
Not being a faggot in a dress would help immensely.
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have you considered not being a faggot?
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>>538438570
Go on some ssri you're clearly too retarded to reproduce...
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>>538440441
>dear
My jeet alarm just exploded.
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>>538438570
>I am le woman
Yeah, nice larp.
>How do I display the traits that signal to good men? What would they be looking for?
Try to look as young and attractive as possible. There is really not much else to it.
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>>538438570
Be who you are and take enough risks that you’re open to a good person when they come along.
Don’t try to be what you think people want
You can only be who you are
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Trying to get an ego fix via attention from strangers on the internet isn't generally one of the things good men like to see in a woman.
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>>538438917
Do not listen to this person
This person doesn’t know what he’s talking about
This is the sort of person you should avoid
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>>538440441
Thank you for your concern.. this issue has been troubling me, in a few different ways. Additionally, I'm processing a few recent life-changes. Writing, sorting, preparing, and... hoping /pol/ reply will give me some answers.

>>538440576
I admit-- I laughed
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>>538440202
That’s Baphomet
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>>538440643
Yes... Do you have other "tells" for this archetype?
>>>>>>Any more tips for discerning men?
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>>538440714
That's Hermes, Baphomet isn't a goat.

You see his rod the Caduceus.
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How do I send the right signals?
What signals do I look for?


>inb4 kys foid
>>>> inb4 blackpilled demoralizing doomniggers
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>>538439775
He unironically gave you good advice. Keep his balls drained, his stomach full, and his house in order (and be pleasant in the process) and any man will work his ass off to take care of you.
What he left out though is very important:
>don’t sleep with a man until he has committed to caring for you (marriage)
Which means you also need to be a virgin. Obviously there are various levels of commitment, but this protects you from being taken advantage or or from dating a weak man who won’t have the courage to propose but will gladly waste your youth.
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>>538440969
This is actually getting warmer to a fear of mine, which is becoming increasingly relevant:
What if I sleep with my (future) husband and he... changes? It's such a fear I have. I'd easily commit my life to the right man.. but sleeping with that man would scare me, because of the "what if he changes on me; perhaps this was all a ruse / trap?"
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>>538440020
>But, dear anon, all prior decisions have been for my life, not involving children...
Perhaps you fail to understand my point.
I will try one last time before bed.
Again, "good looks and charm do not fill a belly". Do you survive on something besides food earned with productivity / resources / money? You are a living creature bound to the laws of this world insofar as survival goes.

>not involving children
This is a common mistake men and women both make. ALL dating advice needs to be made with the intent of future children in mind.
The BPD who rocks your world (at first)? Get her pregnant and find out the mistake you made. Don't get her pregnant, and find out the mistake you made just sometime later. Sensitive art hoe? Imagine that as a mother. You have your fun for a year or two and then eventually make the mistake of impregnating her (not that the child is a mistake, but that your actions in choosing a mate was), or you realize "holy shit what have I been wasting my time on", when, had you looked for "what would be a good mother for my children", you would have avoided most of those issues.

You don't have to want children now. You may not want them (though most women change their minds later anyway), the point is, "what would make a good father for my children". And then go for that.
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>>538438917
number 4 is stupid and degrading
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>>538440576
>>538440703

Op said Dear earlier in the thread...
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>>538438570
What state are you in, how old are you, do you want children, are you vaxxed?
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>>538440969
The issue with his advice, is that his advice is "how to keep a man". Which is good advice.
But the advice she's looking for, is "how to attract a man".

>how do I send the right signals?!
You're not a dog or a bug. You don't get to shoot out pheromones and hope they notice you're in heat and desperate. You are human, and must use your brain. Specifically, your language skills. If you see a guy you like, just talk to him. Don't worry about "sending the right signals", you're too socially retarded for that. You can't afford the time it takes to hope someone looks at you and interprets the signal correct and decides they want to maybe ask you out. Ask them out, see if the date goes well / you're compatible, and by then the man will likely be proactive and you just respond.

>>538441097
It's a fear everyone has to some degree. There's no way to know the future so don't worry about it. Cross that bridge when and if it happens.
That said, there's an old saying. "Men marry a woman hoping she never changes, and women marry a man hoping he does change. Both are unhappy."
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>>538438570
I'm a girl and engaged to a wonderful high quality man, we're both patriots and devout/strong Christians.
Regularly go to church, so it is not a dating hub, but when you live the faith and lifestyle, it shapes how you are and how you live and will help in discernment. Genuinely live the faith, when you do it will eminate from you, be chaste/pure, you will be more soft and feminine and classy and traditional, the way you dress, walk, hold yourself.
Looks matter. That said depending on your x/10 rating, I will just say there is a saying in eastern europe among Slavs " there are no ugly girls only lazy girls". Be on top of fashion, beauty, makeup, exercise and have a good figure, have some interests, hobbies and skills.

My point is are you putting the effort in? So your clothing and appearance. I'm not saying you have to spend lots of money, you can totally put together good outfits and looks on a budget, how do you present yourself? Not everyone is a 8/10, but you can dress nicely/appropriately, look as good as you can and be feminine, I'm not sure how things are in America, but usually men will appreciate that, and being in shape/slim I've heard is a big deal over there.

What are you looking for and what are you struggling with? So I've never had an issue discerning e.g. I do not find and never have found promiscuous men or "bad boys" or "artists/dreamers" appealing... I do not get swayed by flashy things, people have tried, I think class is more important and character.
So what issues with discerning men do you have? Perhaps I can help?
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>>538441109
I didn't intend to confuse.
I ***was*** afraid of childbirth for a long time, and I am no longer, so finding "the father of my children" has definitely become the primary filter. Before, I was mostly avoidant.
Thank you for your efforts. I am dyslexic, so sometimes I have to reread things. Sleep well.
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>>538441289
>Not everyone is a 8/10, but you can dress nicely/appropriately, look as good as you can and be feminine, I'm not sure how things are in America, but usually men will appreciate that, and being in shape/slim I've heard is a big deal over there.
2/3 of everyone here is obese, and then on top of that there are drugs (illegal as well as legal 'SSRIs'), tattoos, and other issues. It's hell.
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>>538441289
You sound like a wise girl
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>>538441283
Pursuing men, by approaching them and asking them on dates and whatnot, feels so horribly unnatural. I've tried to blushingly approach men before, and it may garner their interest, but as >>538438759 >>538438842 elude to, it creates a rotten dynamic where I continue to act as some pseudo-male to a peacocking femboy-spirited man (which was not apparent before my light pursuits)
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>>538438917
lol lmao just fuck prostitutes
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>social narratives
Stop right there
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>>538438570
OP can't inb4
show tits and kys foid
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>>538441097
What incentive does a man who you’ve slept with have to stick around and raise the kid? In today’s society, none. It’s better strategy to act like a nigger, disappear, and never be found.
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>>538439144
>I hate when women make me do everything. What do you want to eat, 'I don't know', what do you want to do, 'I don't know', do you think for yourself, 'I don't know'.
This is not a woman problem, it's a "You not being able to be a leader" problem. Your gender role as a man is to take decisions and hers is to just follow you.
It's perfectly normal and natural for a woman to be like this and it's you who's supposed to adapt.

If you can't even take decisions as simple as those she will NEVER see you as a leader or respect you.
If anything, you should be grateful that a woman wants you to decide for her.
If she didn't, that means she doesn't respect you and isn't even attracted to you.
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Farm 300 angry (You)s from nigger brained cattle on 4chan with this one simple trick!!
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>>538441548
>it creates a rotten dynamic where I continue to act as some pseudo-male to a peacocking femboy-spirited man (which was not apparent before my light pursuits)
You approach them to signal interest. Because the ways you have been signaling interest clearly haven't been working. Once the interest has been established, you fall back to your desired levels of activity and reception.

Lastly, I would ignore their words. it's written like the perfect feminist self help approach which is by design not one that works because if it did the women would stop buying cosmo or whatever they get that from. You are not a prize, you are a person, and you need to put in work for what you want. Neither is the man a prize, but a future partner.
My advice to pursue that which you want is not because you are a woman, though I will admit being a woman will net you a lot more positive responses than a man asking out women, but because you are a human who has a desire, and thus the need to act upon that desire in a real tangible way. You must do something, not the pseudo-mysticism law of attraction manifestation of "just will it to happen! make yourself the beacon of your universe!"
Actual /x/ advice is this: "the best magic for killing someone isn't a death spell, but a .357".
No magic outperforms real world action, which in this case, is just ask the guy out yourself.
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>all the simps itt
you do realize you're talking to some jeet that's paid to slide here?
Even if it is a foid, she fucks niggers and gives 0 shit about le white race or finding a good man.
You guys are beyond stupid.
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>>538441289
Thank you, sister.
I don't enjoy saying this, especially given the platform we're communicating on, but I am considered (very) attractive.. and I am rather productive otherwise; it is far from a laziness issue. As I said earlier, I've even frequently been told I'm intimidating, and my problem is not whether I'm approached at all.. it's attracting "good men".
When it comes down to it, the only men that feel comfortable actually saying something to me will smirkly slip out something like >>538439144.
The "good ones" tend to keep to themselves, focus on other men and themselves, thus I'm surrounded by a sea of lingering creeps. I've learned to not actively pursue men, but to put myself around them and make myself available to be hit on. So, nothing ends up happening. They keep to themselves, and I stand blushing. I don't know how to get THEM to break the ice, instead of the lingering creeps, who are all too ready to approach any and every woman around.

Also, I go to Church, though our parish is very small, and consists of only old married couples. I am the only one in my age group.
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Dress for the man you want. Dress upmarket? Attract upmarket. Dress slutty? Get a loser or pumped and dumped.
Very well applied minimal make up, if at all (see above)
Use your brain. The sexiest part of a woman is the bit between her ears.
Own yourself. You're nobodies pet, you're there because you want to.
Put out. But not straight away. Don't shut up shop and give up when you think you've made it, but let them know you're doing it for them and such things are a two way street.
Respect is earned. Yours, theirs.
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>>538441860
Us fatties always get caught out on 4chan. Maybe it's something about how we think and communicate. Who knows.
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>>538438759
>>538438570
Two women in the same thread? Get the fuck out, we don't want you hormone driven decision makers here.
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>>538441849
This.... is making me realize things.
Thank you, anon.
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>>538441426
2/3? That bad? O_O ...oh ok... well I'd recommend loosing weight. Also don't do drugs. I've never touched them, even from the youngest age/opportunity, I found it repulsive, I knew it can be addictive, so why try? So for me guys doing that was off-putting. Another tip for discernment.
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>>538441862
So, to understand your point:
I should strictly find a man to provide, and do so by initiating with him?
Also, you're funny.
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>>538441487
Thank you anon, have a nice day :)
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>>538438570
Guys how is this political? And I keep getting banned for nothing.
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>>538442177
Now imagine this..
We're in other threads, and you never knew!!!! You've been lurking on "foid"-threads the whole time!!!! MUAHAHAHAH!!!!! >: )
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>>538440714
You have no idea who Bapthomet is or when was created
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>>538442445
aren't you supposed to spam BBC?
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>>538441289
And the wedding is going to be like this
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>>538442445
Slit all Indian throats
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>>538442072
Why don't you find some IT guy and increase his ego -> which increases his competency as an adult?
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>>538438570
If you are looking to impress women, you'll have to dissappont men, and vice versa. We sre at war now , and always will be.
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>>538438917
>Men aren’t programmed for monogamy but women are.
retard
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>>538442712
IT guys aren't Chad and give her the ick.
There are no women on the internet.
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>>538440157
Imagine divorce raping this thing for everything it has stolen
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>>538442072
Roosh wrote a good book that you might will like:
It's so good that globohomo Amazon banned it,
https://www.amazon.com/Lady-Meet-Keep-Good-Marriage/dp/1732865426

Not sure where to buy it now. Lots of good help and hints.
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>>538438570
>How do I display the traits that signal to good men?
You already rejected him in high school, college, and the workplace
Lower your standards cunt
Good men wont always be 6 foot +
Good men wont always make 6 figures
Good men wont have 20+ women under their belt.
Now fuck off
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>>538442177
Two christian wholesome women with good lives and well articulated browse /pol/ on the regular? Its total bullshit.
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>>538442642
That nose.
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>>538442642
No, I am a devout catholic & virgin and have never even been naked with another man, nor will I be, I will only be and know my husband.
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>>538442991
Thats what the average man has to deal with in the west
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>>538438917
Anon you can't be here spewing truth amid a bunch of incels and larping incels, their insecurities will flare up
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>>538442991
Idiot newfags have gotten so comfortable with ignoring the goddamn rules they'll just let this retarded larp continue as if its real. The people called incels, obsessed with ai girlfreinds, are desperate for a perceived connection. Its sickening
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>>538438917
I agree with everything but 4.
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>>538443064
How dare they want relationships
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>>538438570
Good men are only interested in real trad wives.
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>>538443089
most men today will either hit it and quit it, or ignore you outright. The good men got cucked to the point of hating women, or never even got a chance to touch one.
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>>538441548
Because it IS unnatural, your (((gender))) inverted the paradigm.

Now you are asking men to commit sexual assault....just for a number. TjTs what you created, men are the new women, you arr a man now.
>>538440157
THIS IS YOUR HUSBAND...disgust or hatred is what attracts you, not love...thats what inverting genders does.

This is also why the left is so filled with hatred, thats how they "love" now, through hate.
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>>538438570
No man will ever love you fucking ugly bitch, kys.
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>>538438570
>Woman on /pol/
Okay so when are you gonna drop the pretenses and show us the girldick?
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>>538442177
hahaha! my thoughts exactly. stupid cunts, go back you doom scrolling tiktok.
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>>538438570
good men in this day and age are black or arab or jew, rape at least once each morning and evening, attend a mosque and have several wives, have fled multiple crimes in different european countries, live in a hotel in England whilst milling about on the street committing petty crime or running a vape shop, turkish barber or convenience store as a front for the real business which is child murder to create kebab meat and being an absolute menace to society
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Learn to read the eyes, you can practice with anyone and everyone you meet and you'll start to recognise if there is dissonance between how they talk/act and what's behind their gaze.
Always melted my brain watching women fall for being showered with love by men who clearly had bad intentions or predatory motives sitting behind their eyes.
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>>538442072
Ah... don't know how I missed your response to me. Nothing wrong with the platform we're communicating on, don't worry.
So you're saying you have issues attracting good men specifically and you have issues with discernment of good men from bad.
>When it comes down to it, the only men that feel comfortable actually saying something to me will smirkly slip out something like >>538439144.
Interesting, usually men are not so upfront in reality compared to online. Remember online is an opportunity to be honest (at least I found it to be such, which is what I like about it too). Where are you meeting such men? Perhaps it is the circles you're moving in (I mean via uni or work or social circles) and your surroundings, most of the time men are and have always been very respectful to me, if they push a little in a different direction they apologise very quickly.
I never pursued men either, they approach, you are correct to be in proximity and available to be approached, but what sort of areas are these? If it's creeps, I doubt we're talking about church, school/uni or while walking down the streets or at the shops, usually even if it's a little awkward, men are still respectful, and I always try to be kind back. You say you have problems with discernment, so how do you know one type are "good" and the other are "creeps" ...if you don't mind my asking.

Good that you're going to church, it is not just to meet people, it is for God and it shapes who you are if you live it.
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>>538438570
Post titts with time stamp and state your buissnes otherwise fuck off.
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>>538442226
Decisiveness and competence are the two most important traits a man can have. It's literally the difference between a winner in life (high quality man) and a deadbeat loser. They're literally the most attractive character traits in a man.
I've seen many men who weren't very blessed in their looks, but always had female attention and plenty of dating options because they were driven, competent and decisive, and always doing something productive.
You probably want to look for a man that has those traits, that your own instincts will automatically make you act and feel more feminine around him and make you act submissive to him.
It's probably the #1 tell that's the right man for you.
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>woman posting on 4chan
i cant imagine anyone more undesirable than that
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>>538441548
>where I continue to act as some pseudo-male to a peacocking femboy-spirited man
Oh, see...you got it all figured out.

This is 50/50. This is gender equality.

This also creates a high crime/low trust society...youre the man now, its ALL your responsability...ahah but women dont take responsability haha so someone else pays for her crimes hahHAHAHA its called slavery!!

>I dont want it to be this way.
Too bad, too late....your gender got what it ordered, now dystopian panopticon is here and everything is untrustworthy.
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>>538442072
Oh, also, ignore this guy>>538438917
The humble part should come naturally if you're a normal, nice, attractive Christian girl, you understand where you stand on the looks scale but don't let it get to your hear.
The rest of his post is incorrect, it is ghetto clubbing trash talk, it relates to a certain type of women, the plastic materialistic type, and not at all relevant for a high quality Christian man or woman.
If a woman is stupid and retarded (which sadly many are these days in the west) no one wants to listen to that, if she's virtuous and intelligent and pleasant, it doesn't apply, an intelligent man wants an intelligent wife who respects him, not a silly wife.
Porn is a sin, so no. Adultery is a sin, so no.
He's describing a whore/prostitute, not a lady or wife, someone you can present and be proud of and trust. A woman who behaves like that, everyone can sense and see, you can tell the type, guys will know too, a high quality man does not want her on his arm in public as his woman who he can present as his and will protect and love.
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Not even police are willing to "take the lead". Its literally a trap to get them imprisoned or killed. The UK police are "fully transistioned", they attack the victims and protect the criminals.

Women want to be led but still want to lead, "bi-gendered", ergo "wanting patriarchal benefits with matriarchal authority", then they can always choose when or where who is to blame for anything.
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>>538442991
Virgins don't procreate
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>>538443729
>then they can always choose when or where who is to blame for anything
So it makes more sense to fully submit to her authority. As long as they never "take the lead" and are always subordinate to doctrine they can always blame something else for any wrongdoing, aswell....
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>>538443820
Oh, and Judaism is female enwrgy religiom, and Jeffery Epstein is pire female energy in a penis body.

SHE is the reincarnation of Judas Iscariot, SHE is the King in Isaiah and who the Judeans ask God for (a King like thw other nations).
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>>538443740
Your post is irrelevant. We are talking about waiting until marriage (if marriage is your calling and path and something you desire). If you do not want that, but wish to remain single or dedicate your life to other things and remain chaste, that is also fine. Being chaste and virtuous is a good thing, whether that is for life or until marriage (after which you will no longer be a virgin, and then start a family (God willing) and remain faithful to your husband/wife).
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>>538442072
If you live within a 5 hour drive of Cleveland, I'll go on a date with you.
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>>538443882
This makes the women he was around the defacto "dominate" position, thats why women like him, and democrats...its a source of power, and like Eve...like Mrs.Jeffery Epstein, power cannot be turned away from.

Its grabbed like an apple...and submissive Adam will go along with it because if he doesnt then he will lose everything anyway...
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>>538438570
Are you fat?
Fat people aren't good people and most men know this.
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>>538443706
The absolute state of the feminine principle in the late western Christian consciousness is a tragedy to look at.
We've cast Eros into our Shadow and let women(or larping incels in this thread's case) dictate what should and shouldn't be, solely upon their feelings.
Frigid bitches afraid of intimacy claiming moral high ground in doing so, echoed on by failed males even more scared of the same thing they want to shame the world against it.

And there am I, an even bigger retard here attempting to lecture people unwilling to look themselves in the eye and deal with the world on their own terms. You abuse Faith by doing this by the way, you're using it as a soothing and coping medium instead of fully experiencing the gift of Freedom you've been given.
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>>538443882
>SHE is the reincarnation of Judas Iscariot, SHE is the King in Isaiah and who the Judeans ask God for (a King like thw other nations).
This shit is why freemasons are all gonna be set on fire

Fucking nutjobs
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>>538438570
Just be nice to them. Most women fail at this elementary task.
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>>538443889
This god?
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>>538438570
Go to church.
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>>538443882
Correct, only in the Jewish mysticism is justice represted as of female nature. It's part of the left arm of Sepiroth, the female side, and is as such guided by scorn, hatred and revenge(emotions in general) while in civilized cultures it's represented in the male principle and tied to Logos instead.
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>>538439775
>>538440643
Do you expect a man to not be sexually attracted to his wife? Where are you drawing the line here?
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>>538441548
You need to approach men in 2026, especially in the United States and other Western countries. Before you panic, by “approach” I don’t mean go up to a man you like and be like “hey you are cute, can I get your socials/number?” But just simply open by asking a simple, non-assuming question like directions to some place you are looking or what time the train/bus arrives (substitute train/bus with whatever is appropriate for your situation) or if in a store/business ask men around you that you like for advice for whatever it is your shopping for or doing (eg best ingredients for a specific meal at a grocery store or best tools for a home repair job at a hardware store, best coffee to try at a cafe, “what is that you are eating? Looks really good” at a restaurant etc). Do so with a soft tone, feminine smile, playful hair twirling or head cocked down or any other feminine body language that subconsciously signals you are looking for the man to take this non-assuming ice breaker question into something more in-depth. This puts the ball in the man’s court to make a move while simultaneously signaling to him that you are open to talking with him without simply just farming for attention like so many do-nothing women who simply just smile/lock contact with random good looking men on the street do without any serious intention.
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>>538444180
Contd

As a tall, in-shape good looking man, I get lots of smiles and stares from women in public, it means absolutely nothing and it is not a proper signal for a man to approach anymore, some of these women are sincere in wanting a man to approach but most just do it to aura farm or for attention/postitive affirmation. I do not consider simply just smiling/eye contact a choosing signal, it’s the equivalent of a man calling a good looking woman “beautiful”, so boring and they get this all the time, it completely looses its meaning and is not worth taking seriously. Every woman I have seriously dated in my past and took seriously were women who stood out in some way by putting in the bare most minimum amount of effort to let me know they are interested beyond just boring, non-chalant smiling/eye contact- and I mean absolute bare minimum, just open your mouth and say something, anything, with a warm smile, and if the man is not retarded he will instantly attempt to start and maintain a conversation and escalate from there with 0 effort needed anymore on your behalf beyond just smiling and replying to his conversation.
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>>538444151
They don't deeply think about it at all anon.
They're scared to death of intimacy and deep personal contact, so they're constructing systems to try and enforce rules onto other people which will enable them to feel safe and in control. To me, they are despicable, though in the grand scheme of things, they're just people.
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>>538444063
>>538444136
Then ones a few generations of men are made "feminized" the "only logical solution" is uni-gendered.

The only true "homo" is two uni-gendereds. Everything else is cis simulated.
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>>538444224
>two uni-gendereds
Two genders, then? Or is that too many now?
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>>538444224
There is no way mutts here can follow your schizoposting anon, but I appreciate it
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>>538438759
>im the prize
>the prize is getting half your shit taken and life ruined for used up pussy
yeah aight.
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>>538438570
What this >>538438759 anon says but have you requests be subtly beneficial.
Telling a man to hit the gym for you not to have a strongman but to have him be healthy.
Or if both your passions and his align have him do something for you that he likes but coming for someone else feels doubly rewarding.
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>>538443729
>they can always choose when or where who is to blame for anything.
Its the jews
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>>538444288
>schizoposting
Stop LARPing youre educated in anything. Not even yourself, I know you better than you do and only a few seconds of interaction would prove it.

t.Professor of Developmenal Psychology and Evolutionary Cognition
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Simple really don't be a whore, be loyal to your man, and if you've ever fucked a nigger you can forget it no sane White man will touch you, if a White man is willing to forgive your nigger lust then he's a man to be avoided
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>>538444458
Nigger the way you decided to express yourself was through a type of shitposting, known as schizoposting. Otherwise, I assume, you wouldn't have spent the thread mostly replying to your own posts in a semi-belligerent way. If my assumption is faulty, fair enough, you're simply rambling like a retard then, no finesse.
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>>538444543
>Nigger
I DONT DEBATE REALITY WITH EFFEMINATE FAGGOTS WHO LARP AS MEN.

GO SUCK YOUR GIRL-PENIS ELSEWHERE.
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>>538444596
>It's actually a nigger
Grim
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Be caring and appreciative, those are the most important things you can give. The rest depends on the person. Also don't chase men who don't want you seriously, it's a waste of time, you cannot persuade them like men can with women. I love my wife because she genuinely has a good soul.
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>>538444543
>express yourself
>known as
>a semi-belligerent way
>If my assumption is faulty,
>no finesse.
HYPER EFFEMINATE FAGGOTRY CONFUSING FEMALE IDEOLOGY WITH MASCULINITY.

YOU REJECT MASCULINITY AND ATTACK IT WHEN IT REVEALS ITSELF.

(posts video of UK policewoman arresting assault victim)
YEP, ITS JUST LIKE YOU, MATE.
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>>538438759
>You are the prize
>That's a fact

Also ignore this idiotic advice, men and women compliment each other and one is no better or no more “the prize”. It is precisely for this mentality so many men have stopped approaching or taking women seriously anymore.
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>>538444652
>smug anime face
>emotional response
HYPER EFFEMINATE.

If you have a vagina..."nigger" means youre a vagina-man, if you have a penis, YOU'S A FAGGOT WHO FUCK WOMEN, HUH?
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>>538438570
tranny alert
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>>538444704
>>538444781
Nigger it's just a word and also it's a pretty good word at that, if anything your reaction screams wildly imbalanced emotions and not much else. Are you a chink and pic related or just a mind broken expat?
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>>538444022
Ah, you're an anti-Christian degenerate and have a chip on your shoulder. Find a woman with your values who is aligned with you. I agree, I have no idea why you are here trying to derail things. I was responding to a sister in Christ asking for advice. This has nothing to do with whatever your personal issues are with Christians or Christianity or the Church.
>>538444080
Anything from the Bible has it's reasons and cause.The women were in the wrong and followed Balaam's advice, they did wrong, enticing people to worship Baal is evil, someone doing that is evil... so no, these weren't innocent women, and were to be punished like any other adult. Virgins didn't participate in that, so were innocent of that crime. And 32 were to be like nuns essentially and serve the tabernacle.
I accept everything God laid down and do not care what the edgy degenerate atheist traitors say. If you want to derail this into something else, start a different thread, that is not what this thread is about. There a tons of anti-Christian pagan Jewish threads on pol daily, you can play your little fedora larp over there.
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>>538444781
>>538444917
Can someone ban these two fucking ESL faggot losers for spam already? Stop shitting up the thread with your ESL slop you fucking homos.
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>>538442662

BASED
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>>538441548
>elude
lol you are an illiterate faggot
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>>538438570
If you want me, we have to play a very public game of tit for tat.

You and I will slowly escalate. I will give you the most heavy lidded fuck me smolder you will ever see as I stare at all your bits like a fellow girl would, flicking my eyes over you multiple times in under 3 seconds before turning away like I wasn't just looking at every detail of your hardened nipples and camel toe, and you aren't now starting to stare at the obvious shape of my half hard cock in my pants and my face. You will most likely be unable to look me in the eyes as cock shock takes you and you just leer at it. Then I make it twitch and you still can't turn away.

Now you can't help it. You want to play my games. You want to flirt. You want to stay. You linger in the door. You start dressing up for me. Posing for me. You don't even know me. You are just now playing my games.
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>>538438570
Some of us have to work. Make this thread again in 12 hours if you're willing to roll the dice on a guy from /pol/
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>>538444288
>There is no way mutts here can follow your
(Kind of upvoted)
>schizoposting anon
(Kind of down voted)

Put everyone else down, then put me down, this logically means you put yourself up.

>>538443729
>then they can always choose when or where who is to blame for anything.
Playing both sides...

>>538438570
Hey, OP, I found your (((good (well trained) man))).
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>>538438759
No.

Come around me and I will treat you how you deserve. You chase me, you flash me, you grope me, grind on me? Congratulations. You have bigger ovaries than most men have balls.
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>>538441548
Push with a real man and we will flirt and sex for hours. You need a real cassanova
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>>538445107
STOP SUCKING YOUR OWN DICK YOU FAGGOT.

YOU ARE NOT A MAN, YOU ACT LIKE A WOMAN.
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>>538445199
>Kind of down voted
Pure projection on your thin skinned end, schizo is a compliment around these parts. If I ask you if it's the language barrier that got you confused, you'll likely think I'm trying to put you down.
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>>538438570

OP, these posters aren't providing you with good advice:
>>538438759
>>538438917
>>538439000

A lot of people hate women these days, even other women. In fact, I'd argue that we do in fact live in a society which reviles the female sex, so much so that many women have grown up in a world that only teaches us to hate women. We as a society no longer view women as guides and supporters, nurturers, mothers, teachers, or anything like that. Their current role has been completely separated from what they've done in the service of mankind for countless generations: to forge the male animal into the civil MAN, who through proper guidance and instruction returns the favor by maintaining the inanimate fabric of society.

Almost every structure we cherish today is man-made, but every man is woman-born.

Most women have never thought about the fact that an onus of femininity is to sculpt the next generation of men by winnowing their good male contemporaries from the bad ones. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, and should that prerogative be denied to them through force, then they are still the first portal that young boys and girls have into life at large. This is what men secretly are looking for -- will this woman love me, devote me, devote herself to my cause, and, should I pass, remind my children that life is worth living. This is a difficult responsibility, as you can probably imagine.

"Mother is the face of God on the lips and hearts of children."

- William Makepeace Thackeray, "Vanity Fair" 1848
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>>538438570
Kys faggot, ywnbaw

>I am a girl
>on 4chan
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>>538445424
>Pure projection
>>538445199
>There is no way mutts here can follow your
"THEY ARE STUPID."
>>538445199
>schizoposting anon
"YOU ARE STUPID."

>>538444458
>t.Professor of Developmenal Psychology and Evolutionary Cognition

YOU DONT READ POSTS...YOU EMOTIONALLY REACT TO THEM.


PENIS-WOMAN.
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>>538442991
Want to join my harem?

Its ok. Like really. We live for each other... you can spend time with your friends... we can make it all about us or you can take it out on one of those other sluts that pisses you off. If you have a baby you will have multiple women to help you care for your child.

Think about it. Already stole the heart of one Christian girl. Just remember that if I force myself on you, you're not sinning, I am...
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>>538445424
>language barrier
Im also a Mathematical Linguist.

YOU ****ARE**** ILLITERATE.

YOU ****ARE**** GENDEREDLY CONFUSED.



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