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how do you deal with hopelessness?

I go to work for what? to have a family soon? I could barely afford a house, how will my children be able to? and if they do for what? I already live in an open air plantation full of niggers and ran by sociopathic nepotistic jews, by the time any children I have would be adults the world will be so much worse.

No matter how much money I make its never enough, always more bills more bs, always constant stress.

I see no hope here, no future, I am not sure what I even work twoards.

This isnt even hard work or pain, I appreciate both of those, they breed strength, but this is just.. hopelessness, with no light at the end of the tunnel.

How do fellow anons cope with clown world? Im trying to keep busy and get back into some hobbies I guess, but It all feels like a pointless distraction and I feel like I am going insane.

I have been on this board for over a decade, but the world terrifies me now, things are so dystopian and fake and gay and retarded and I hate what this country is now with every fiber of my being.

Any vision of the future I envision is not good, The scenarios where things improve are low, the scenarios where things become far worse and there is a global prison planet seem garunteed.

How do you frens cope?
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>>539036733
post again in this thread and I will give you a serious answer. I want to see your post count go to 2 first before I put in any effort
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>>539036877
I get it mate, this place being shit and same with all alt chans doesnt help me either. Never joined any chat rooms but the entire internet just also feels dead and hopeless now.
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>>539036733
do you really want a real answer?
most people don't. they just want people to read what they said and commiserate
if you actually want an answer, you have to be ready for it to be something that you don't expect, or something that you already examined and discarded
because you've already looked for the answer and apparently didn't find it. so now you're asking whether anybody else did
i recognize your problems. i had my own versions of all of them. i could write an encyclopedia about being dissatisfied and bored and disappointed about how everything good fades and becomes cumbersome
so i'm going to take the time to answer you, so fuck you if you don't read it and take it seriously
the answer is not outside yourself. the answer is not to be found out in the world, because the world is really just a bunch of clumps of dust that are formed into contraptions
all contraptions are doomed to fail and fall apart and get broken into their elements again
and it's the nature of your mind to endlessly compare things and become disappointed with them. even if it wasn't, the things themselves are always changing. nothing can hold still. nothing can stay how you want
so the answer is inside. the answer is to stop wasting your time searching outside. instead, stop. sit. become still. watch. become calm
learn some kind of meditation practice. let the concerns of the human/animal world gradually weaken. gradually gain wisdom about the real nature of your life
then you'll see that all of the things that currently seem to be your problems aren't really anybody's problems. they're just things that you know about. temporary. just a weird movie that can't actually touch you, much less harm you
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>>539037121
Interesting perspective anon, thank you. I used to mediate alot when I was younger, but I havent done it in years.. I am constantly surrounded by noises, music etc.

Every time I go camping or into the forest I feel much more at peace and I have been "trying" to go more but have done a poor job because some jewish qualia always distracts me

I think this is good advice and actually helpful rather than the typical platitudes. Thank you fren.
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>>539036733
i don't know man
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>>539036733
I downsized as much as I can with my life. I dunno if you are married if you aren't I have no idea why you bought a house. That's just going to be a financial pain in the ass to deal with especially if it doesn't pay off with a marriage. I just got a condo and if I ever get married I can see it for a down payment.

Our life sucks. We can't live like our parents. It's probably not going to get any better. Things only change when we hot rock bottom otherwise corporations will try to nickel and dime us till they implode see Wendys and Pizzahut.

So I just live a really minimalist life. This helps with the money situation. As for the rest of your concern I suspect you stay inside a lot. If you have friends and family try to see them more. I remember during Covid I didn't see anyone for 6 months and I started to develop paranoid thoughts about them since the only way we communicated was with the internet and it made me more self conscious of their faults. The moment I saw them in person that vanished and I felt better.

There is no magic answer here. Your choice is either suicide or work with the handle you are dealt with and the 3rd option is extreme RNG like you win the lottery or a rich person hits you with their car. I limit my time here and am pushing myself to stop coming here. You should consider that too. If you are in a negative headspace, people here will only make it worse as there are many loser NEETs who game up who exist just to drag you down to their level.

tldr: live within your means and do whatever the fuck it is that makes you feel something and limit/stop coming here
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>>539037281
you're welcome, thank you for taking it seriously
one important thing to remember is that since the point of meditation is to know about and gradually attenuate the mind's currently-configured adverse reactions to stimuli, it's not necessary to be in a peaceful place
of course everyone wants to be in a peaceful place
but eventually we realize that if our happiness is dependent on external peace, it's not a very strong kind of happiness, not very resilient against attack
a monk named sumedho wrote about this a bit in a book called "teachings of a buddhist monk", probably available in pdf
here's a simple way of meditation that just requires patience that might be useful to you https://library.dhammasukha.org/uploads/1/2/8/6/12865490/a_guide_to_twim.pdf
anyway, please keep in mind that dukkha, suffering, "the blues", the creeping dissatisfaction, is universal to human experience. you are not alone in it at all. you're just one of the rare people who admits there's a problem and actually looks for an answer instead of just trying to find yet another drug that's just going to peter out after a while
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>>539036733
Read, train and most importantly touch grass, I cannot emphasise the importance of nature enough.

"Observe constantly that all things take place by change, and accustom thyself to consider that the nature of the Universe loves nothing so much as to change the things which are, and to make new things like them." - Marcus Aurelius

"I follow nature as the surest guide, and resign myself with implicit obedience to her sacred ordinances" - Cicero

"When people attempt to rebel against the iron logic of nature, they come into conflict with the very same principles to which they owe their existence as human beings. Their actions against nature must lead to their own downfall" - Adolf Hitler.\
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>>539037485
Fuck off loser.
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I cope with marijuana and distractions.
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>>539037596
Your parents who pay for their adult manchild to exist are also wagecucking. How do your NEETs not understand this?
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>>539037625
You're a fucking loser.
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>>539037493
i always hear about mindfulness meditation, and i read a bit when I was younger but this looks perfect, thank you.

>everyone wants to be in a peaceful place
>if our happiness is dependent on external peace, it's not a very strong kind of happiness
Very true, I always tell myself I can control my happiness when things get bad, but when they do I tend to lose all hope, but I do try to remind myself the worst anything can do is kill me.. and thats all part of the grand design of our reality which I trust in.
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>>539036733
Believe me, I understand how absolutely gay everything is in the world, but I don't think anyone has the wisdom or insight to know what the future will hold in detail. Bringing children into the kike zoo seems terrible, yes, but our ancestors pushed forward with bringing children into this world when things were far more grim than they are now. People have faced the total collapse of empires before and have pushed through. Your descendants will face challenges, but they will be ready for them in their time. All we know for certain is that nothing lasts, and even this corrupt, evil Jewish house of cards will collapse. It might even buckle and tear apart within our lifetime.
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>>539036733
You haven't truly given up hope. When you do it's liberating. You're just acting like a faggot who still hopes for things he can't have.
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>>539037637
Says the adult manchild whose parents take care of them
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>>539037637
I have neeted as well, did it all, ran a bussines, several actually, some sucsessful, at one point was pulling 30k a month, at one point was healthy, lifting, camping alot, reading alot, never worked much.

At another point I was doing drugs, fucking sluts at conventions, in a bad relationship, sold my business, went full degen.

Being a neet either way sucked, having nothing to work on but "myself" was pointless after a certain while, I need either a project or something to work twoards,

Simply existing is a more pathetic exsistance than even a mcdonalds employee, at least the mcdonalds employee has mastered the ability to wake up before noon, something I am sure you have not.
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>>539037701
Another loser.
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>>539037650
you're welcome. that's the method that works for me
i think you have the right idea, that happiness is something that you can do regardless of circumstances
but please think about it a little bit differently, not in terms of control. control is a dangerous word because we can't make the synapses in our brains do what we want on a whim
i think it's better to think of it in terms of training your brain similar to how you would train your body
if somebody suddenly needs to run ten miles, they probably can't do it right then. but if they trained, they could
if you gradually train yourself to be happy, and to weaken the negative configurations in your brain, then when you get hit with the adverse conditions, you'll be able to handle it much better. it will just seem easier
that's how my life is now. things are happening but nothing seems particularly hard or scary or painful or sad or anything. to me it seems like i'm supernaturally lucky
happiness just seems to be a habit or a matter of training
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>>539037836
Your mommy gives you an allowance
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>>539037868
huh.. you know, my wife is like this, and ive never understood how she stays so happy all the time, but im connecting alot of dots now..

Thanks for the good advice anons, I think some camping and prayer and time in nature is what I need.
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>>539038078
are you in financial debt or approaching it or are you stable?
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>>539038078
great to hear
if you hit upon a system that seems to work for you, that allows you to become calm, weaken the bad stuff, and strengthen the good stuff, please give it time to work
people will watch videos for two hours a day but would never think of sitting in medtation for 20 minutes or 30 minutes
the reason it's good to let it work is that the brain has a crazy number of thingies that can be configured. it's like trying to configure the entire internet. so give it time
good luck, hope things get better
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>>539036934
>just also feels dead and hopeless now.
That's the feeling I get looking at Heebtube.
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>>539036733
Real answer is have them unless you want to doom humanity to become Africa
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>>539036934
That is the point, and the same thing happened after the 2016 election.

Now is the time to ignore most of this shit and go out and be a person, this place will be here next election and it’ll be huge. Go ignore the propeganda and get laid, get a gf, have kids, make friends.

The “trick” is to invest. Invest in shit and live under your means, that is how you beat the shitty economy and put away for your future. It’s like gambling but more secure and you can pick the companies and pick good ones that you like or ones that pay you dividends every year.
>but I don’t have money to invest
Yes you do, if you work, you have 10 bucks a week, and if not you’re lying and don’t want a solution.
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By coping, everyone finds a different cope, work, money, things, hobbies ect ect in the end it's just cope
Read Ted he summarizes the modern mans predicament, refers to cope as surrogate activities
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>>539036733

For me it's striving towards separations from "fellow whites" and Jewish faggot pigger reptile systems and "diversity" (double niggers, niggers) and Judeo NPCs, but to each their own Anons
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>>539036733
A while ago I believed we needed to return to Europe, but seeing fascism become so popular is changing my mind. Glowies and Jews want to kill off and replace most young, especially white men. They only want you to serve as a cog in a machine, that is why fascism must be embraced.
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>>539037686
Believe me, every year millions of young whites are radicalized by reality. They look back and see what happened to your nation and our great cities with utter revulsion.
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>>539036733
>>539036934
touch grass and learn how to behave like a regular human being again. This is what being terminally online and social media does to your brain.
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>>539041313
You are not wrong Mr glow nigga, but those men going out there is what is radicalizing them in the first place. The covid vax made them realize you wanted them all gone.
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>>539036733
Even when you have kids things wont get better, constant stress, they always demand cry scream, do this do that, sure there are good moments too, i return home from work and i relax spending time with them, but yeah its a pain in the ass, working full time and im still on rent, cant change my car cause i cant afford any better, cant afford anything else beside basic needs, this shithole of a country would rather import subhuman shitskins then help a family get by, and then they cry low birth rates, fucking pieces of shit...
Also the niggers and shitskins that come here all get free housing and food, while i have to kill myself working to have the same things or less.
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>>539036733
Have a sex change and be the wife to a successful guy who can afford to spoil you and you can be a stepmom. Its what I did. Rich dudes love trannies.
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>>539036733
By not feeling like that.
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>>539036733
No idea. I cope with Vidya, Anime, drugs, roids, sluts. And it barely gives me anything anymore.

Get promoted and barely any more money. Fuck some young sluts from time to time but they are all retarded and worthless when it comes to starting a family. I pretty much gave up.

10 years of brutal self-improvement. I look like a god, am smarter/more knowledgeable then anyone and have a on paper nice job. Still hate myself and my life with the only good things in my life being pure escapism like Vidya or drugs. Shit sucks no matter what I do.
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At first I thought maybe I was wrong that everyone around me was sad and hated their life. Basically, outside of face to face social interaction, people and civilization don't actually offer you anything. All the rest, the buildings, noise, is fluff. Then you start to wonder "is everyone retarded"
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>>539042229
You don't feel right in your society, this is natural but our ancestors were so indoctrinated that they continued to believed in liberal democracy.
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>>539042864
I don't fit into society? I don't think people fit into society
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>>539042963
Questioning things on your own is forbidden among the goyim masses. That might be why you felt alienated.
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>>539043133
Alienation in my own country is all I've ever known it's really no big deal, I hope the society people know what they're doing
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>>539036733
>how do you deal with hopelessness?
It comes and goes. Objectively, things are not good. I will probably never have children. I can't really afford a nice place to live. Foreigners everywhere, and you just know that it will only get worse. When I retire, nordic people will be a small minority group. But, for some reason, my brain just shuts off that part sometimes and things feel OK. You have to focus on the positive aspects and on the things you can control, melding your mind into acceptance. Otherwise, you will go insane. No man can take spending all his waking hours in a state of panicked anxiety.



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