I don’t know I have never been over 40
>>539042515Why did you reply then?
no you just get used to the horrors
No it doesn't. >Your T levels plummet >The things you used to love you now can't stand for some reason>That thing you used to be good at. Not anymore :)>You get dumber and stupidr>You could spend all day working out and still have trouble lifting things that you could lift easily without working out ever >All the shit you grew up with is now "cringe">You can't enjoy your favorite foods without blowing up like a balloon>All your friends (if you still have any) and family members start dying
>>539042460No it gets much worse, especially when you have nothing to show for 40 years on earth, the one thing that matters (the thing women have all the power in today, the pickers of winners and losers). The memories just stack. All the losses. All the so close you can still taste it, but it failed memories to remind you how cursed your life is 24/7. I have hundreds of memories from age 0 -10. I remember every thing. But that chart lines up with my experience of others. They just are like a new person after a few years, every thing in the past they will hardly remember. I am always asking people I've shared long parts of my life with about memories and they simply don't remember or its super vague for them. Having a memory of every thing since I was a baby and others not also can cause paranoia and schizophrenia. I only have paranoia from it, like what the fuck no one cares about what happened in the past or don't even remember.
I mean, I'm 40 and I'm fine but I spent youth investing and making sure things would be cozy because I wanted to retire early.Didn't get early retirement but I have no debt and no real stress. I'm on beta blockers so I have trouble getting angry/adrenaline rushes.The world stops mattering when you're in the coze zone. I'm not as strong as I used to be but as long as I don't get fat, the world is all computers now so I can participate.40+ looks like it'll be fine for me.
>>539042460This is my last year in my 30s. I had my first child last year (a bit late maybe), and I genuinely can't imagine getting older without one now. Pretty much everything >>539042846 said is true, you watch the world change and it isn't always better - rarely these days it seems. Friends drift, family dies, but the one thing that still makes me feel good every day is my kid. Everything that has lost its lustre for me is a brand new experience for her, and you get to experience that vicariously through them. I can't imagine how empty and vapid my life would feel without her.
I'd say so.
>>539042460I'd rather not talk about it.
>>539042882I feel for you fren.the foid problem is incredibly unfair. people broke the social contract in such a way that they basically have all the cardsmen are judged by how much casual sex they have, but prostitutes are taboo, you have to get picked by women for your facial features and height. this is insane.women on tinder swipe right on top 5% of guys only. sure most people are not on tinder, but this says it all about how they are. the fact many men are still on tinder also says a lot about what real life dating is like. and yet we're blamed if we don't marry.if we marry then she can refuse to put out, or divorce and take everything that you had to work hard for due to social expectations on men in the first place.its insane
>>539043165>I'm fine>I'm on beta blockersfuck. the bar is so low. meanwhile, tone deaf feminists keep pretending that society is misogynistic kek
>>539042460I'm 42 and treading water till I die. I have a nice car and a mortgage and can buy all the toys I want as I have a decent job. I guess it's ok bro
>>539042460Yes, you don't remember how good it was in your 20s and early 30s and think you've never been better.
>>539042460Yes it's true, because in your 40s you have a good job, a house, a wife and kids, HA HA.
>>539042460>used to be prwtty rich and in shaped around 20s >covid lockdown hits around early to mid of 30s no longer rich and became fat>land on government duty and no longer jobless on late 30 and starting to get fitthis graph is pretty accurate to me
>>539042846Average age for successful business owners is 45. Thats around the same age for conquerors and world leaders too.
>>539042460No retardYou have to have worked in your 20s and 30s for your life to be good
>>539043451>spend all day in cagie, the remaining bit taking care of kids, then go to bed with a wife who refuses to put out because the chad who wouldn't commit was better>i made it! im not like those incel losers!
>>539043481>land on government duty and no longer jobless on late 30 and starting to get fitwell done frenat the end of the day, the best thing you can do is be on the side of the thieves who live off people's taxes. its better than being one of the chumps. and people are awful and deserve it anyway.
>>539042460Only if you were born long enough ago to have been 40 in like 2000 or have enough accumulated boomergeld to live like a reprehensible sex tourist while also winning the "not decrepit" lottery
>>539043587>You have to have worked in your 20s and 30s
40 yo virgin bros report for duty
>>539043683>reprehensible sex touristyou hit the nail on the headthis is the true good ending for a man who is not exceptionally good looking. this is how a man can enjoy the single life and not get scammed.let the NPCs do rejection warmup sessions
>>539043623>the chad who wouldn't commit was bettermfw i'm that chad
>>539042846All of this shit happened to me in my 20s. Don't be a whiny bitch and try to enjoy life.
>>539043784cant take this seriously when everyone on 4chan says thatbut if you are congrats you're out of touch with the downsides of life, what can i say
>>539042460This graph is right, or at least it was for me. My life really started improving at 35. I had a good amount of money and I was able to snag an 18 year old girlfriend, who I still fuck almost 3 years later.
>>539042882im 50 amai just come here to laugh at how fucking narccisstic and degenerate you losers are
>>539042460depends on if you have shit to show for it
>>539043766It wasn't a backhanded compliment, you're not gonna be don juan you're just going to be shoveling accumulated wealth into a hole that will never be filled and probably fuck up a bunch of other people's lives in the process unless you pre-screen your women to be.. already considered disposable prostitutes or whatever, and what good is that to begin with?
>>539043827I turned down living with my gf at the time because she was already very annoying during trips and i knew it would turn bad.I don't regret it because it was bound to fail, despite everything else.
>>539043243The only shit that's lost it's lustre to me in life is media. I keep thinking maybe I am just getting old but I'm pretty sure late stage capitalism is to blame that most games are shit, most movies are shit, and most music is shit. >>539042460I'm short, balding, but in shape with absolutely no fucks to give anymore at 40 op. I live a solitary life for the most part but have 3 really top tier friends I can hit up at anytime, work from home, and disposable income. Even if there is a lot of shit getting worse in this world, young people are dumber than ever and if you wanna just have fun it's pretty easy to pick up decent looking girls under the age of 30 at fucking 40. My cute medium sized dog that looks like a giant teddy bear does help start conversations with randoms on the street. Summer is the best when you just walk by restaurants/bars around closing when these hot young college aged waitresses stop me to pet my dog. I feel bad for the guys with actually shit genetics who's dicks stop working at or before this age. You may be tall and have hair, but I can fuck 5 times a day still and would take that over a kid that will dump me in an old folks home. Younger generations have even less respect and care for their elders the way society is moving. I took care of my dying mom at my home (where she died) a few years back and that shit sucked dick, so I can't fault people who put their parents in hospice to die while my older brother was ready to just dump her somewhere and visit maybe once a week. Can't imagine that shit is gonna get better for our generation when the Gen A kids are 20+.TLDR if you end up hating life that much just kill yourself, not like we're going to figure out how to live forever in our lifetimes.
>>539042882it's crazy how things seem so vital in the moment and then 10 years later nobody even remembers any of it
>>539043243Eat shit faggot Nobody cares that you betrayed your bothers in a time of war to marry some slag that likely already hates youBeta nigger
>>539044228get help
>>539044067turning down some girl doesnt mean you're "the chad who wouldnt commit", i am an ugly as fuck incel virgin and even i have done that, this is yet again proof of men's self proclaimed success with women vs reality>i am that chad>i turned down living with my gfi guess if you elaborate more it'd downgrade the history even more KeKi've been saying this for a while. imagine if, regardless of how bad a recession gets, everyone claimed to be doing great financially and was offended at the suggestion they might have any trouble, didn't want to hear anything about the government doing a bad job. and kept talking about trips to maldives. even people whom you know for a fact they're broke. this is how most men treat success with women and it's so pathetic and retarded.
>>539044063i know frenits sad but at the same time, what is a man supposed to do if he's single without a model looking face? just be celibate? being reprehensible is clearly less sad
>>539042460>Does it really get better after 40 /pol/?only if you're healthy and got moneyI can't imagine being over 40 like I am but still a poorfag or in bad health would probably kms
>>539044369lol the person that needs help is my one co-worker whos the same age and does nothing but bitch about his wife, his terrible sex life, his retarded kids, and who's only outlet is playing world of fucking warcraft for 20+ years.
>>539042882Same struggle, memories that no one else has or cares to remember. Most people just give up and distract themselves.
>>539042460Life after 30 is a slow-motion suicide without family. It's all the negatives of getting old; watching your friends drift away as they start their own families, your parents and siblings getting old and die, watching everything in your life slowly putter out as the magic fades; without any of the positives of things like family or community to shore you up. Everything rots away and you're left with the bleakness of oblivion, no hope of anything continuing. Anyone who has experienced considerable ageing among his family members (or already in himself), knows how blackpilling it is. It's really rough, once people pass their early 50s (or sometimes even sooner) you start to notice the slip-ups, forgetfulness, the declining of fine motor skills, the difficulties understanding new information. Human existence is a tragedy, there are so few years that you are allowed with full mental and physical strength. Your peak years are mostly wasted with education, where you have barely any control over your own life, because you have little to no money nor autonomy. Add to that the time spent sleeping, working, hygiene, housework, shopping, appointments, visits to the workshop - what do we have left? Everyone who has to work for a living basically leads a precarious existence, regardless of whether they are a simple worker or a well-paid employee. Before they have built up a comfortable fortune and a well established understanding of the world, the body goes downhill.
>>539043726I admire your purity
>>539044442>I can't imagine being over 40 like I am but still a poorfag or in bad healththat would mean something went wrong but trying to make a comeback is better than the rope imo, i think making a comeback after 40 would feel great if you can pull it off
>>539044373trvke
>>539044228>absolutely no fucks to give anymore at 40 op.this is very true. even in real life i say im a virgin and i work at the super market. literally no one even bats an eye. it's that all your potential and promise is gone and people don't want to even start that conversation. >I feel bad for the guys with actually shit genetics who's dicks stop working at or before this age.low key me. i've always been very athletic through out my life. my lifts, my stamina, my willingness to learn new moves is still there. full set of hair without even a hint of grey. but oh boy is my dick dead. has been for a good 5 years.>I took care of my dying mom at my homebeen there with my grandma. shit was hard. but i will do it for my parents. > just kill yourselfbest advice>>539044523>I admire your purityi can conjure up the best magic in town
>>539043165This whole board is full of fat fucks like you. Telling us how youre ahead of the game with your investments but require meds to make it through a single day. We are not in the same struggle. What an embarrassment.
>>539042460No61 here. It sucks
>>539044446i found a video of you and your coworker
>>539042460It did for me, but you have to play your cards right.
>>539044524yes it's easier to get money than reclaim your healthif you're approaching 40 and still a poorfag, at least look after your health
>>539044373We were together for 5 years i refused to live with her full time, i was a shitty bf desu, but she also had a terrible personality. But you know what, i hope you're right, that those 5 years meant nothing for her and she got over it. Obviously she is on a superficial level, because she's with someone else now. But i wish her the best.
>>539042460This is psychology, which is pseudoscience.
>>539044563>i can conjure up the best magic in townyou never once considered paying a whore and getting some?maybe it was never that important to you then which is admirable in it's own way most guys do the stupidest shit for pussy when they're young
>>539044595damn man you must be mad your dick don't work or that no one wants to ask the 50 year old faggot anything who called everyone here a narcissistic and degenerate. why are you so mad?
>>539042460Unless you were incredibly poor and worked in a coal mine for the first 40 years of your life then no.
>>539044798
>>539044775>you never once considered paying a whore and getting some?unironically that's both disgusting and retarded because i doubt anything magical happens when you have sex that it subconsciously makes you attractive to womens. if i had sex with a whore, i would still be an unattractive guy who was desperate enough to fuck a whore.>most guys do the stupidest shit for pussy when they're youngyeah but it's for girls who like that. not some fat 50 year old with stds.
>>539044945>unironically that's both disgusting and retardedinteresting my experience was the exact opposite
>>539044945
>>539045064lmao, welcome to pol
>>539042460I guess it's "easier" after 40 because you are all sorted by then, not necessarily better.My 20's were peak, graduated high school in 1990, married at 28, 3 kids, house on the beach, divorced, I kept the kids who are now in their 20's, I currently spend a lot of time with my folks because their time is short
>>539044882>AMA you degenerate fuckswhy would anyone ask someone that looks like this how to be successful in life? I think you took one too many blue chews this morning. It might of worked for Hamas but it's not working for you guy.
>>539044945Sex with a non-whore isn't magical either. Most who fuck whores aren't desperate just lazy. Imo it's more enjoyable then chasing club sluts or tinder holes. No stress and way less time investment. You don't have to listen to retarded bullshit. Nothing wrong with fucking whores.
>>539045316lmao keep seethe posting
>>539044775not him but I'm 35 and still a virgin, the few woman that were interested me started talking about their boyfriend and shit on the first date, noped the fuck out of there. And I can't just fuck someone if I don't feel a connection to that person, I feel like, might as well just use my hand at this point and save myself a 100 bucksBesides, I have no idea how to talk to women these days
>>539045361lol I'm responding because you have to have the last word like every 50+ year old faggot gen-xer I've ever met. Prove me wrong don't respond with some faggot meme generator image.
>>539045420I'm 29 and still virgin, mainly because I find most women unattractive (not gay either, I dont find men attractive)
>>539045447
>>539042460Baz Luhrmann - SunscreenRead the lyrics. It's extremely accurate.If I had one comment about the graph you posted, it's that your mind remembers every cruel thing you did or was done to you far better than happy moments in your life. It's a cruel existence. Who knows, maybe when you're dumb enough you won't feel this affliction, which is a blessing in disguise.
>>539045129What a bullshit screen cap. >They eventually learnNope they don't. At best pretend when they are so used up because abuse chad doesn't go for them anymore. >Looking for genuine connection Big mistake. Failed so hard with this mindset. If you look for a genuine connection pussy around you will dry up like the Sahara. You have to pretend to be a fuck boy that only wants sex or women will lose interest, get the ick or whatever. It's a painful realisation.
>>539042565I did have breakfast
>>539042460The older you get, the faster time goes by. The older you get as an incel, the more missed important youthful experiences you have. Other people are going to college parties, getting married, and having kids while you [decay]. The older you get, the more your body begins to fall apart from the inside after the age of 25. The older you get, the uglier the foids your age get and a younger foid will find youcreepyif you try anything. Eventually you’ll become a lonely old fart with no experiences to reflect on before you know it.—Saint Hamudi
>>539042460oh my science i love this arbitrary science line!
>>539045420> I'm 35 and still a virgin,>And I can't just fuck someone if I don't feel a connection to that personif you made it to 35 without doing something about it, it's probably not that much of a priority for you which is neither good nor bad, it just is
>>539044228>another post where 40 yo losers try to convince us they get pussythis is just sad, whats the point of making up shit on 4cuck
>>539043434>Duck tape in peenWtf
Over 40 what, stones? Id say so.
>>539043981Why are you gay?Was it a conscious choice or did it just happen one day?
>>539045525>Baz Luhrmann - Sunscreen>Read the lyrics. It's extremely accurateOr read the article which its based off of.
>>539043165>I'm not as strong as I used to beMeh I'm 37. I got serious about lifting consistently at 30 so I'm stronger that I was in my 20's.I squat and RDL 315, do weighted dips with 90lbs and weighted pullups with 45lbs which I think is pretty good for an amateur lifter.I started working on front and back lever a few months ago and I'm making decent progress. Planche is way harder though I'll probably have to lose some weight to make any progress on it lol.I do have to be more careful about getting enough sleep and recovery time compared to my 20's
>>539042460no.t. 40 in 2 weeks
>>539042460you give less fucksbut you wish you had the wisdom you have now, when you were 20
>>539042565Barely anyone over 30 posts here anymore.
>>539044595>>539044798>>539044882tfw rakamakafone
>>539042460No
>>539042460It gets better after 40 if you think getting fired from your job due to "economic uncertainty" is fine then not being able to find another job because "you won't be happy here" (aka over qualified and make too much money). If you're a white male over 40 your life is basically over because billions of browns will work for nothing.
>>539042846True. Still have gaming, though. But for how long? That's indeed the great question. Gaming has basically replaced bars for old men now. While all they had left to live for was the local dive bar, all we have to live for now, is good ol gamin'..
>>539046427Makes sense as the average age of a 4channer is under the age of 20.
>>539042460Yes.Unless you fucked up your body during your teens and early adulthood. You're smarter and wiser.
>>539042882>Having a memory of every thing since I was a babyThat's not a thing. If you do, then your brain should be studied.
>>539043354Are you 40+?
>>539042846>>Your T levels plummet it's not that rapid>>The things you used to love you now can't stand for some reasonthis is true. I wouldn't go as far as to say you can't stand it, but they're not that enjoyable. >>That thing you used to be good at. Not anymore :)>>You get dumber and stupidr>>You could spend all day working out and still have trouble lifting things that you could lift easily without working out ever haven't noticed any of this, but i'm only 41 yet. In the best shape of my life. The only difference is that injuries take longer to heal. And if you keep aggrivating, you'll get yourself in trouble. Meanwhile when i was 20 I could do dumb shit all day every day>>All the shit you grew up with is now "cringe">>You can't enjoy your favorite foods without blowing up like a balloondepends on your lifestyle>>All your friends (if you still have any) and family members start dyingnot yet, but probably when I hit 60, it will be noticeable
>>539046773Being smarter and wiser is a bad thing in the current job market. In the u.s they extended the retirement age to 69 but every company is getting rid of all the men over 40 because they make too much and are high insurance risks. So, basically you cant draw on your retirement until later but are ostensibly unemployable for those 30 years. Kek. I literally had to start my own company which directly competes with my ex-employer in hopes that I become a big enough threat to be bought out and offered my old job back. T. 42
>>539043243that's what we live for. For the next generation of ours living and improving on what we've learned. and naysayers will just die depressed
>>539042846This is all true. By the time I turned 41, I had grown boobs, become frail and weak whereas I used to be jacked AF, I became retarded and could even accomplish simple metal tasks I used to be able to easily do, I stopped eating bc even a cheeseburger would make me gain 10lbs, I stopped going out bc everything was boring and lame, and almost all of my friends died
>>539046136I’m 39 now, and didn’t get my first weight lifting injury until 38. You’ll be surprised how quickly your life and physique can change. From 1234 to basically nothing.
>>539045792>this is just sadthe sad thing is seeing people here in their 20s and early 30s thinking their life is over. women can be perverts too retard. you're just not looking hard enough if all you do is swipe on gay ass tinder. go outside.
>>539042846Yes, it does. At 40 you enjoy things you didnt before. This is exactly why you no longer enjoy the things you used to. Everything you enjoyed before 40 was pointless. Absolutely nothing. For example do you remember high school? Those days when you felt like shit and thought your life was over because a girl rejected you? Now looking back to see how small minded of thinking that was. Perspective changes with age. I suggest you stop being such a huge faggot.
>>539047047That's rough. There's better worker rights over here. It's expensive to fire an employee without reason. Severance is at the very least 3 months of salary, plus 20 days for every year you were at the same company. I wish you luck with your business.
>>539042460not for white trash. they age like bird shit. for everyone else, older the berry the sweeter the juice
>>539047459You can be fired for any reason in the state I live in and no amount of signed contracts means a shit if you cant spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to litigate it in court. The U.S. is being gutted by what is essentially the "Robber Barons" of yore. Companies are bought, gutted, and sold by private equity with all the productive males being the first to go. Hopefully the niche i have found has enough wealth in the current market im targetting to make a few million dollars in the next 10 years and I can figure out a safe place to "invest" to carry me through until im dead. Good luck fellow oldfags
>>539047227>first weight lifting injury until 38I've had several already. I just work around it. They resolve after a few weeks/months. Currently dealing with a minor rotator cuff tear so I've had to lay off bench press for the last 2 months but it seems to be getting better.I also messed up my quad tendon adding weight to squats too quickly a couple years ago and had to take 4 months off squatting.It is what it is. I train with a guy who's 46 and he bench presses more than me lol
>>539045792Absolutely possible, you're simply not trying and super stuck up. Most German men are like that actually. It is much harder to make friends here than get women. Making friends is damn near impossible, German men are unlikable as fuck on average and I say that as one.
>>539047227I'm probably gonna start focusing on calisthenics and lower weight/higher reps. These heavy barbell lifts have a higher risk of joint and tendon injuries.
>>539046890My entire genome should be studied. I'm 42 and look like a teenager/early 20s despite my entire life history riddled with markers for accelerated aging.>>539043981I come here for the day millenials and gen Z wake up and realize Gen X was cancer worse than boomers
38. Very self aware.Paying close attention to this ride.It gets worse, not better. You eventually go through so much anguish, despair and pain that you realize how everything works and you stop fearing death. So there is that. It gets much much worse. Diseases start in your mid thirties and worsen in your 40s. After 50 it's all disease. I don't smoke or drink anymore, no vidya, can't sleep more than 7 hours (disease that affects circadian), I barely watch TV, I go for walks for fun now. I can barely eat decent food without it fucking me up. Appetite dies down too.Enjoy the ride anon.
>>539043165Atenolol is superior to Propranolol and Metoprolol. Shit can make you gain weight though which sucks.
>>539042460this is scary accurate
>>539042460I had never heard of that before; now everything makes sense. It happened to me, and I was wondering why.
>>539042460>Does it really get better after 40 /pol/?I was an unhappy teenager.My life sucked into my 30s.Late thirties was when it started to turn around for me.I'm 50 and pretty happy now.Too bad I'll never be a daddy tho.
>>539043701This is only semi-accurate. If you're a loser in his mid 30s or older society sees you as dead weight. Women who want an older men also arent that likely to go for you either because they want a guy who is developed. Ironically if you want to play out your cards society judges you too. >>539048117I am 46 and used sunscreen all my life. I am looking "younger than my age" but maybe in the sense that I pass as mid to late 30s. Nobody believes me being in my 20s though. My sons say I do look better than most other dads of their fellow students.>>539045685 Dating a younger woman and society doesnt look favorable on this dynamic, not at all. Had one guy tell me even he doesnt want to meet up with me simply because I am dating a younger woman. The social costs are high here, people who say otherwise are lying. But it is feasible if you want it enough, anyone saying anything different is lying. Almost every retard could get a much younger woman, the secret sauce is simply finding one who doesnt mind. If you approach large enough numbers you can get about any age difference that is physically possible. In my opinion dating in general is nothing but playing memory or an American-style scratch lottery.
>>539048610If you're 50 and cannot date a 30-something you messed up. That is almost effortless, and I say that as someone living in a very, very woke city. t. 46 with girlfriend half my age
All of you around the same age going through this level of pain or will soon be. Remember that randomfags like me love you, and I'm very proud of you for being who you are despite societal pressure.Nobody makes it out of this game alive and life has a way of evening things out. The people who have it good, will watch it fall harder and it will hurt harder.You did the best you can. Just stop doing shit that will lead you to the doctor. Eat less and enjoy the little things because that's all you have left. T Chadcago guy
>>539048757This is true, I never had a problem dating 25-35 year olds in my mid 40's, my previous marriage tainted my view of women pretty badly, these days I prefer to be alone
>>539042846>Your T levels plummetNo they don't. They decline 1% per year.
>>539045325>Sex with a non-whore isn't magical either.i don't really have on opinion. my comment was on this supposed "right of passage" that sex gives you. like if i had sex with a whore that would magically give me the level up i so desperately need to advance my personal life to the next stage. the fact of me have never been in a relationship is that i don't offer an attractive package. >>539045064>my experience was the exact oppositeim not low class sorry.>>539045129i understood none of that.
>>539049292I have a work-friend about the same age as me who considers himself red pilled and tells me about his marriage to a self described feminist and it sounds God awful.>she talks about her woke views openly but gets mad when he talks about his conservative views >wants to be treated equally but throws tantrums and crying fits when they disagree and he has to be the emotional rock and wait it out>she's only working part-time to take care of their toddler, he's working full time to support them but she bitches when he doesn't do 50% of chores because that's not "equal">her body count was way higher than his and he copes and says "so many women are like that these days you just need to settle if you want kids" At least he had the sense to put the deed to his apartment in his parents name so she can't steal it if they break up lol.If this is what modern marriage is I'll gladly stay single for the rest of my life kek
For life after 40 you need the following things1) do not ever marry, only have children out of wedlock. Poke a hole in the condom, dont marry, dont be stupid. 2) have enough money or all aspects of your life will suck, invest 3) dont become an introvert retard, all guys with younger women are extroverted or can at the very least force themselves to it4) dont become fat or immobileI have done all these things well and cannot complain, except for socially, have a grand total of 0 friends. 0, nothing. My profile is basically not fitting anywhere anymore. I am like some special tool, that doesnt fit into the box. Most stereotypical single guys have no children so see me as unrelatable, wife-guys hate on me for dating a younger woman>>539049292You simply have to try often enoughSomething I wanted to say in another thread recently but forgot about marriage: Had a conversation with both my gf and a Turkish friend of hers, she said she would date an older guy like me but wouldn't ever marry one. If she would get pregnant she would "probably keep the baby and simply see where the journey is going". Anyone still marrying women in 2026 is an absolute CERTIFIED RETARD. She literally admitted she treats marriage as total cuck-relationship where standards apply, howerver; you can rob the store, get everything for free without paying a dime if you play your cards right. And that is from a Turkish woman, you would think they would be more traditional. Imagine how crazy German women must be if a Turk says dumb shit like this. Both are Masters students btw, so one would assume not super dumb women.
>>539049854Marriage doesnt work, you will over time get weak to keep the family together with compromises you shouldn't be making and then the disrespect starts, sex ends, either one of you will cheat, probably you if you're not a true cuck and when you excuse yourself everything will fully implode.Date women, poke a hole in the condom if you want a child. Paying the cost is much lower than a surrogate, at least here. From a financial point an absolute genius move.
Admittedly, my sons would have probably been raised better by me if I didnt fear divorce back then. In a married couple the womens way of doing things always wins out and if one of your sons is already more on the softer side she will ruin him. My older son is a success but the younger one is as zoomers say cooked. He already has all the hallmarks of a future loser> I dont like something so I just avoid it, never try getting better> everyone should get a participation throphy because everyone deserves to feel good> rich men make my life uncomfortable> someone else should pay all the bills cause why not> If reality doesnt conform to my beliefs, just go online I bet if you asked one of these drug zombies near the train stations they all belief similar shit>
>>539050015>compromises you shouldn't be making and then the disrespect starts,Yeah I never married but experienced that in an LTR. The more invested you are, the more compromises you're willing to make, they take that as weakness and try to walk all over you.I can't say all women are like that with 100% certainty but I've seen and experienced enough to lose interest in relationships. It's just not something I want to deal with again.
>>539048757>30-somethingI wasn't able to pull fertile women when I was younger, the chance I can do it now is mathematically zero
>>539050312I still like being a father, hence why I said poke a hole in the condom. I would have been a better father in case of a child I am not worried about getting divorced over. It depends a lot on the natural inclinations of the child, my oldest is worse in school but he has the correct brain on his shoulders, he knows he has to do shit to get something. My younger one has better grades and still he beliefs so much shit, I greatly fear for his future. But aside of my job, dating a younger woman and some me-time I dont have the energy to force him to stuff he doesnt want to do against his own will and that of his mother. I just dont have the energy for that. He will ultimately pay the price for this. Maybe it is selfish but its where I am at.
>>539049896I got married at 28, she was 20, had 3 kids right away then she fucked off a few years later and I raised them, always had my finances straight so that was never an issue. I'm pretty fit and still have my hair, I'll go out for a drink once in a while with business associates but I also have 0 real friends
>>539050474Women in their 30s are still fertile, it is all a numbers game. Unless you are absolutely hideous it isnt an issue. Most women problems come down to not trying enough.>>539050514The important part is to not use the apps. On the apps I barely had any success, albeit there were also no women I would want to see. The selection there sucks. It is almost as if all a cities single moms are in one place
>>539042846>The things you used to love you now can't stand for some reason>All the shit you grew up with is now "cringe"That is a good thing really. Maybe the only one of grow up. You became less and less normie.
>>539050479I never had a strong desire to have children. If I met a nice girl, things progressed naturally and she was going to stay home and take care of them while I worked - sure I would've done it and taken my duties as a father seriously.But I don't want them so badly I'd intentionally become a single father or compromise and do it with a woman who's a bad match for me like my work-friend did.
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>>539046587zoomers do not use this site and most of them have no idea what an imageboard is. they're all on discord, instagram, snapchat, youtube, and tiktok.
>>539050860You're attacking the wrong person here, while I am German men like that wojak type all hate me, without exception.
