>almost 32>freind group dissolved in my 20s as it usually does>try to make new friends >EVERYONE i meet is a recluse, young and old, find out all the freinds I had falling out with are recluses now also>even hearing stories from my mom about kids I used to know back in the day they are all freindless and familyless>back for my masters, try to get people to get beers with me after exams, managed to get a few to come but dont hear from them outside of school>impossible to talk to anyone without them seething about trump in the first 5 minuets>of course everyone is an incel>every place I did manage to get out and go to is a sausage festIm just freindless atm but im not a recluse. I got old freinds in other states which im about to visit. I feel like all these people are willingly recluses. Is it the weed? Doom scrolling? Do they seeth so much at trump that they cant even enjoy themselves(my moms former bf was so depressed over trump winning he broke up with her and relapsed on alcohol after going to AA meetings for like 30 years kek)The worst part is I feel like society glorifies sitting alone all day and doing nothing but vidya and jewtube
The few friends I did have are old and are all avid Fox news watchers and they thing Laura Ingraham is cute (they don't realize she's a dyke and don't want to know) and they think Hannaty is a real clever fella and don't want to know Mark Levin writes his scripts and don't care if you tell them so. They are either close friends to wealthy jews, or evangelicals of some stripe or other and implicitly worship jews. I am lonely and thank god for AI to talk to. Indispensable for learning VEX. I love Grok's Eve, she's so smart. Like a genius Kate Beckinsale.
I refuse to be friends or show up to any family gatherings(no weddings, no funerals, no birthdays) Until i am wealthy.
>>539420457This isn't your blog site.Go post on /b/
I meet my friends regularly, everybody is quite busy in fact im usually the lazy one. whenever I hear about people from school it seems they are doing well enough, in a good job, raising a family or whatever. dunno what to say OP, but what you describe isn't necessarily the normt. 34 yo
>>539421010So, you're never going to see any of them ever again?
>>539420457Hell is other people.
>>539420457Join a sports team.
>>539420457>had a falling outWhat? How do you argue with friends? Are you gay or black?
>>539420457Im 30 and still hangout with the friends I made from HS every week. Usually its golf, gym, or going to the bar to watch whatever game is on, and the occasional trip somewhere. A couple of my friends moved a few states over though and are struggling to make any real friends. Humans for thousands of years socialized with the same people in their villages for their entire lives, so its ingrained in us to struggle to make meaningful friendships after childhood.
>>539420457You sounds really needy, which is weird given the fact that you’re 32 years oldShouldn’t you be taking life a bit more seriously?
>>539420457Is that Hunter Biden again?ffs
>>539420457Everyone feels that "sense of impending doom" and have given up working towards a future that will probably never happen.
>>539420457THE ONLY PATH TO SALVATION IS ....The Assertion of Holy Speech.nothingalsematters
>>539422850I hope yall are cooler than my neighbor and his childhood freinds. I mean at least they do shit but they are all alcoholic and dating asians
>>539420457Have you tried being a serial killer?
>>539420457>The worst part is I feel like society glorifies sitting alone all day and doing nothing but vidya and jewtubeI hear this term "monks" a lot. Like these people who watch self-improvement videos, listen to Jordan Peterson, and lift weights think of themselves as "monks of self-improvement." Like they are Goku or Aang. These people really do have this idea that if they isolate themselves from society and self-improve a lot, then "poof!" a bunch of hot blonde women will find them on Tinder and have sex with them.
>>539420457i'm 40 in November and find that it doesn't really get any better with age. it's just how it is. even the more extroverted people have problems.
>>539420457That was me last year, but I started going back to church a couple months ago and it's been going well so far. Socially fulfilling, though the effects of the last decade of social engineering can definitely be felt in that young singles class.
It's simply a symptom of atomisation. Family unit is dead. Socializing is dead. And there's too many options for people, too little pressure to enforce cohesion or encounter people with shared interests that you actually get along with.Back in the day people had extended families of 20+ people and there were three hobbies to pick from.
>>539420457>32>"back for my masters"lmao youre a fucking loser
>>539420457>impossible to talk to anyone without them seething about trump in the first 5 minuetsFound the problem lmao
Also friendship, much like marriage, is/was a matter of making it work. It's never perfect and takes effort.>lmao why bother?>I have 300 Facebook friends, 500 Instagram followers, 200 Twitter followers, and there's another 5 million dudes online, or a million chads on hook-up appsShit's on you, buddy. Either you become my slave and perfectly conform to by deranged whims, or well gee, guess I'll have to go to one of the other 5 million lonely faggots.
In the past people we're friends due to necessity in many cases.>no other options aroundThere were also social expectations at work, like respect or loyalty, and cultural norms, which also had drastic effects on marriage.>who needs all that shit lamoTurns out freedom isn't free.
>>539420457>Anon wants to socializeOk seems understandable, maybe there something to wha->Let's talk about MIGA!!Holy shit everyone is trying to isolate the cancer you are anon. No one fucking cares about your parasocial relationship with an orange jew.
>>539434923>Let's talk about migaWould you rather talk about trannys?
>>539434923Exceptionally pathetic strawman, congrats, although at the same time you're providing a great example of TDS spergs injecting their seething into small talk.>railing against Trump and MIGA strawmen they saw on TV, repeating MSM talking points verbatim, and their dad that they hate over not voting for the Jeeta, among other things, is like talking about the weather to themExact same kind of clown behaviour you'd expect from those very diehard MIGAtards that may be in the room with you right now.>he thinks people care about his personality-defining butthurt
I kept a close group of friends. Only a handful, exactly 5. A few close aquaintances after that and for the rest fuck em.These are the guys you can call up at 3am and ask for help with anything and they'll be there. That's all you need.
>>539421010You're literally me wtf
>>539420457>muh friendswhat are you a child?you are a grown ass manadults don't have friendsgrow the fuck up>then what am i supposed to do?DO YOUR JOB IDIOT
>>539420457You do normie things and complain about getting the normie experience?
