Why is going no contact so popular?
>>539577574Because my mother is a cunt. Dad's great however, thank fuck they finally divorced (he initiated).
>>539577574You want a shitpost or serious answer?
This is what normie American parents actually do.
>>539577574Because my mom's an asshole?
>>539577574>Ruin kids' lives >Help ruin country >At least the kids can cut them off>NOOOOOO YOU HAVE TO KEEP DOING YOUR FAMILIAL OBLIGATIONS! GIVE ME MY CAKE SO I CAN HAVE IT AND EAT IT TOO
Imagine having this for a mom and not cutting her off
>>539577574Women popularized this shit. It's in women's nature to avoid conflict, most likely result of their own actions, than to have to fucking talk about any accountability they may have and resolve it"let go", "cut off" and similar are also cuck stuff promoted by women therapists that don't accomplish shit. You should only let go things that are irrelevant to you or truly out of your control. Any other shit you "let go" and you'll be pretending to be happy your whole life
Breaking the family unit is a key taproot to rip out that will bring day of the Jewish rope closer to fruition. Before the game is over, Jews will be requiring that the boomers be nicer to their children and try to face down that explosive dementia. We have to not indulge, and remember the goal. Jewish Destruction of Amalek, Jewish goal of breaking the family unit, of poisoning every street corner with a Cannibis and weed dispensary and poison section for grocery stores that weaken the minds eye of shabis with metal powders and substances that are legalized even though they do damage. Harming the Goyim is our aim.By helping the Jews with their goal to destroy white people, we can bring the USA, the Constitution, the Bill of Rights, the amendments, the threee branches of Government, the Jewish Banking Cartel, the Media hollywood university all to its knees, by showing everyone that the Goal of the federal government, is to harm its citizens directly, and using taxpayer money to do that work, without the US Code section on Treason ever landing, since Jews are immune from jail, there are no Jews in any Jail anywhere in the world. Jews cannot be jailed, they are Chosen, and you can confirm this with a google serach.Breaking the spine of the USA is as simple as becoming Jewish and becoming Christian. Give your heart to Christ, and we will use that to wreck the USA.
>>539577574Because boomers broke the intergenerational contract so its often better to not acknowledge them
>>539577727the more you look the more you realize 99% of interactions with golems is feminine womanspeak. they're all nuts.
>>539577656I have to ask because of my personal experience, did your mom brainwash you for most of your youth to think your dad was an asshole when it was her the whole time?I'm older now and I noticed though life this characteristic in a lot of mothers (and women in general)
>>539577574hell is other people
>>539577787This anon has no contact with his kids
>>539577574Because boomers are insufferable and never matured past age 15 thus they resent their kids and make their lives a living hell, it’s only normal that you cut off resentful assholes that act like children.
These Boomers listened to the international Jew and broke the most basic mammal contract between parents and offspring. The Boomers are baal worshippers and Moloch-Mammon worshippers. Boomers don't believe in family, they believe in money, power, and the force of the do what I say or I'll burn you in a fucking furnace okay? Boomers will have a ready cry of persecution when the Jews start realizing they better give some representation to the shabis before we have every single Church in the USA gently removed so that there is no structure for Christians to meet to molest children.The Jews are gonna show all of you that they are a VERY generous people, we have more than enough for all of you, we can all share. Just don't kill the United States of America.I'm sorry Jew, but I have the right to destroy America and the USA, I was given this right by both the founders, and by God, and I EXERCISE this right. And giving me money will just hasten and empower this demand. So you better make sure I do not gain any more power because it will be used against the Kid Killing Christian Mafia Klan. To Choke out the Jewish Polyergus from bloodsucking this land.
>>539577574Everyone knows they will inherit nothing and boomers didnt help their kids in their in their most important adult years hamstrunging them
>>539577994The Bible says Satan is the king of this world. We also intuitive understand Satan rules hell. Therefore, this reality is hell. It's also heaven when you're not a destitute retard and exhibit goodness
>>539577574Because the Boomers were terrible parents.
>>539577574Pimp Niggers&Jews to your family and friends!Win boot-licker points with ZOG!
>>539577574this is goyslop media trying to get kids to hate their parents so they spend $2500 a month on the apartments they built. Also fuck niggers
Because people are selfish pricks or whores and that probably includes your dad, your mom, your brothers and your sisters. People are just shitty people now.
>>539578362Their parents are the ones driving kids away retard
I tried everything to get through to my parents but nothing worked. Didnt talk to them for 2 years. I was always planning on reconnecting at some point. My dad got sick last year so I expediated it. Better relationship with my mom now. Explaining things, saying how I felt, getting angry, nothing worked. Not speaking to her for 2 years made her understand I was genuinely hurt by their bullshit I think and shes changed her attitude a lot. My dad less so but life is short. Nothing super crazy. Just s dysfunctional house with constant fighting. Hoarding. Wasting money. Boomer shit. Utter inability to understand the economy is shit and life is harder. Constant invalidation of my opinions and thoughts. It was honestly destroying me feeling like I had to raise them. Im looking at getting my dad a therapist now. His generation thinks therapy is "talking about your feelings" when its more about reframing the way youre thinking. I told him like, i tell you to try to change and care about your life again because I love you. I get angry because i feel like you wont take me seriously... meanwhile were arguing about like, him having 5 cars in the driveway rusting snd a two story garage filled with garbage. Lol. Their shit was driving me crazy and I have my own mental health shit to worry about. I got a million stories. But theyre not bad people just super fucked up childhoods themselves that they never really recovered from.
>>539578411shutup jew faggot
>>539578247>when you're not a destitute retardContempt for the poor and the meek is directly contrary to the teachings of Jesus Christ.
>>539578455Whiter than you will ever be, boomernigger. Your generation ruined the country and now you take it out on your kids, no wonder they hate you
>>539577840This is called parental alienation, it’s fucking awful, and incredibly common. It fairly frequently backfires in this way after time. I suspect it’s more common than simple estrangement.
>>539577574I'll text my mom tomorrow. I promise. It's just very difficult, as the subject is freighted with metric tons of pain.
What will Boomers do in 10-15 years when they are on their deathbeds alone, with no one showing up because they were a dick to their kids and grandkids?
>>539578477>poor and the meekLook at how presumptuous you are, faggot. Poor/meek is not the same nor does it automatically mean youre a spiritually devoid goblin. Most destitute people are actually relatively wealthy and well off imo.
The alt is probably domestic violence or its resistance. The resistance is probably what we need
>>539578634Bequeath all their belongings to TV charities
>>539578415100% this sort of thing. With them driving you crazy, that's exactly where a lot of people have ended up.If your parents never married and the families are completely different, it's like you end up being your mom's husband and your dad's wife (as a boy growing up). I couldn't do it anymore and haven't spoken to either of them in a while.
>>539577722it is actually crazy talking to women and they get so mad at FGM but male circumcision is 'different'. Like they actually don't carei f you live or die, and get shocked when you return the favor.
>>539577574Why wouldn't it be? My mum was a narcissistic bitch, i imagine theres many such cases
>>539577656>>539577703Brothers
>>5395775741pbtid data farmingKYS OP
>>539578569Yeah but I've also seen how 3 siblings scorned their mum publicly on kikebook and at every party they attended together. The mum was a cunt and after public shaming she just withdrew and maybe sent like postcards on special days. She will die alone. Dad is happily remarried, he turned out as the winner eventually.
>>539579030We have to at least attempt to keep some kind of family / communal group, but yeah there can be a lot of tension with parents. Remember that you were most familiar with each other, and that life became perfunctory, they aren't Gods / infallible. We will tend to be lazy on these things, it is best to persevere in love rather than critique their personality and foibles.
>>539577574too lazy to talk to others
This site is riddled with faggot redditors now blogging all day fucking disgusting
>>539579152>Dad is happily remarriedNothing was learned.
>>539577574Because once you get passed all the "muh flesh and blood" bullshit, you realize that most of your family members are pieces of shit who only bring negativity into your life. I finally cut my parents and my brother out of my life back in May and since then my wife and I have been getting along a lot better and I am much closer with my own children. We never realized how much if a toxic and negative influence my family were until cutting them out and now I wish I had done it sooner.Just to give you a taste of how toxic they are, my faggot ass father lost his shit when we told them they aren't permitted to have contact with us anymore and actually threatened to sue us for everything they bought for us over the years (birthday and Christmas gifts, etc.). He backed down though when I actually lawyered up and had that lawyer send him notice that if he pursues litigation for things that were clearly gifts, then we would go after him for what is called "abuse of process."
>>539577574It is really the only strategy for dealing with abusive and toxic people that works.
>>539577574My family fell apart during the housing crisis or so. Aunts and cousins stealing medication from other people in the family, the extended family getting bigger and having their own get together, etc. It's a variety of things. I haven't done Christmas since the wii came out aside from with co-workers.
>>539577722I need a drink after reading that.
>>539577574As long as you raise your kids right this doesnt happen. Just don't be a shit parent and your kids wont hate and avoid you into adulthood.
>>539577656My dad used to be cool but now has Stockholm syndrome and me and my sister have disowned them both. Boomers will all go to hell.
>>539578062>>539578069>>539577797>>539578177>>539578294>>539578634>boomersboomers are regressing into 15 to 6 year olds. their parents are dead, and now they can't fucking help but treat their kids like some authority figure they have to rebel against SIMULTANEOUSLY trying to exert authority over them
>>539577701What the fuck is wrong with amerimutts
>>539578985You can reason with them all you want, talk about the circumcisions that get botched or talk about the importance of body autonomy principles, it does not matter. The issue to them is an emotional one. One makes them feel terror and the other does not. They will never be able to get past that.
>>539577656My dad was the only family member that I liked.One of my brothers is a complete femsocial cunt.The other brother is a tranny neolib bitch.My mother blames me for almost everything that's ever happened.I dream of pulling a defoo. They're bad people."Actually, the problem is you" Yeah, I haven't heard that before. Fuck you. I've dreamed about escaping my family since I was 15.
>>539579538>My dad used to be cool but now has Stockholm syndromeexactly.loosing his memory means anything that looks familiar must be his by default. NO DAD I DIDN'T FUCKING TAKE YOUR FLASH LIGHT. I FUCKING BOUGHT IT FOR YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE, AND YOU COMPLAINED WHEN I GIFTED IT TO YOU BECAUSE OF SOME MADE UP REASON IT WASN'T GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU, AND THREATENED TO EXCHANGE THE GIFT OR RETURN IT FOR MONEY LIKE YOU ALWAYS DO, AND NOW BECAUSE YOU CAN'T REMEMBER WHERE YOU LEFT IT, YOU ACCUSE ME OF STEALING IT, AND GOD HELP YOU REMEMBER I FUCKING GAVE IT TO YOU. I HAVE HALF A MIND TO ACTUALLY THROW IT AWAY WHEN YOU FIND IT.
>beating me since before i was 3>never teaching me anything and constantly ridiculing me for not having life skills>discouraging all my interests then ridiculing me for staying in my room playing video games while they themselves rot in front of the tv>charging me rent and making me pay for every other visit to the gas station as soon as i started working>dumping their psychological issues on me and trying to coopt me on to their side of every argument they have to the point where i restructured my whole life to never be in the same room with any of them>claim that they were good parents because i never went to jail and didn't die>"why don't you ever visit or call"Gee i dunno. Life could have been so insanely different with a functional family. Even just with money, I've spent so much on rent etc over the years but I can't even regret it because it bought me my peace.
>>539579538My dad used to call niggers niggers but now he classifies himself as progressive, which maybe he kinda was but not to this point, and is now homeless living in a VA Shelter in niggerville Milwaukee.
>>539577574Life is hard enough without dealing with brain rotten boomers
>>539577574if your family smokes pot or raises their kids in a sick way or if they treat you like shitcut them the fuck offt. me
>>539577574Because divorce is popular. If mom and dad can split up then children should be able to "divorce" from their patents too
>>539579668>>539577574Eh, because Americans are terrible people. I didn't contact anyone in my family for 18 years - until my father, sister, grandpa, and grandma were all dead. I probably shouldn't have. My mother is worse than ever. Totally delusional and with a persecution complex. My brother disowned me.
>>539579689He once kneed me in the balls for saying nigger around him. I pushed him down and could've beaten the piss out of him but I didn't for some reason. I should have. He wasn't even a liberal or anything it just randomly set him off one time after I'd say it thousands of times before around him. Boomers are fucking retarded.
One of the worst things you can have as a kid is narcissistic parents. Fucks you up real good. I'm too weak to ditch them for good though.
>>539579273Well if he's happy now, apparently he learned something.Sure, you're right in that the fact that he left a cancerous woman and then found another woman left him open to the possibility of meeting another cancerous woman, he may have a repeat of history. If he's aware of that, then he did learn something and you aren't sure he isn't aware of what you're pointing out.If you choose to remain single and refuse women all together in the future, that's understandable, but not everybody's choice.His dad may argue that you haven't learned something yet which is that not ALL women are that bad and a warped perspective can have it's effects.Either way I get where you're coming from.
>>539579789Ditching them for good was literally the best thing I ever did. All they brought me was anxiety and misery.
>>539577574It’s half boomer retards being deservedly cut off for destroying their kids’ lives and half drug-addled millennials/zoomers cutting their parents off for accidentally deadnaming them once because their kike therapist said to
>>539577574Boomers never raised their children, it was the state/school. Are you surprised there is little want to meet your parents. Not to mention how many families are broken on top of that.
>>539577574Prevent the next generation from being psyopped by removing them from "soxiety", no internet, no public school, stay at home mom, dont drink city water or eat goyslop, no goyproducts like cocacola....etc gather with other likeminded fellow humans for connections. Only buy books and expose to culture that was never gay jewish psyop which will be easy to do. let kid grow up innocent and then bomb them with the truth around 12-14 and look after them, finish school early from homeschool and get kid enrolled in school or in trade or working before/at 17. Get them a musical instrument. Let them chase dreams also. Daughters go to church and get NO internet or exposure to jew music or jew advertisements ever, and men get exposed to it slowly while you explain to them the purpose for the mind control and how it works. Learn and teach them both real history. Stay away from all colores but be polite and have exit/safety strategies (like the smile and be polite but never stop backing away technique - like you have somewhere to go)Guaranteed no trans kids, 95% less gay kids, productive and not over coddled. Can't guarantee success but you get a kid thats knowledgable but not overwhelmed by an experience of trying to operate in a system that hates them before they're ready.Beyond this, your kids need a safe environment, which means 100% non slavic european and space between you and the hordes of mongrels.
>>539577656Opposite for me, but i am mad at her because she wont divorce the cunt
Because the boomers have made EVERY SINGLE THING IN LIFE SHIT.
>>539579786At the very least my dad never really hit me. Spankings were extremely rare and really the only time I remember him abusing any of us kids was when he shoved the shit out of my little brother when he was 8 or something and he flew across the room. He definitely beat my mom a few times and has us all terrified trying to stay away from him in a locked bathroom when we were young though. Went to the state pen for a bit for that one. I do still love him though. Just sent his ass $35 because he asked. But I won't pretend he was a great dad. He was more of a friend.
haven't spoken with my oldest daughter for 7 years
>>539577574>Why is going no contact so popular?Oh jeez I wonder why.>Now you remember how I promised you the car and house when I die Timmy? Well because you didn't get me RED roses instead of pink ones, you're out of the will! We're selling the house and car to have some cruises before we die>WTF TIM WHY HAVE YOU NOT VISITED US FOR YEARS!? YOUR FATHER DIED AND I AM NOT FEELING WELL!
>>539579668a tranny neolib? That's strange. Most trannies tend to become communists.
>>539577574My family doesn't care about what I do.I honestly don't care about what they do.And these are the people who I will pick up the phone for.Everyone else is dead to me.Why WOULDN'T I go no contact? There's nothing there.also not political
>>539580066Want me to fix her?
>>539577574Because boomers are insane. Your time and energy are not worth spent on dealing with their bullshit. You gain more peace and autonomy with your life when you cut off your boomer parents. Build a new family with your values and structure.
>>539578634I do a lot of palliative care and many or most people are actually kind of relaxed and ok dying without family present. They are usually grateful for prompt pain relief and to be asked if they need to be made more comfortable. Mostly they seem relieved the shows almost over.
>>539577574It's a way of stopping emotional abuse. I only go no contact with BPD women.
>>539579577checkedtell us how you really feel
>>539577656My situation too.And a common theme for young men on the far right I've found, as though we saw the rotten evil of feminism up close from the start.
>>539579836all women I have met ever are selfish to cancerous. None are accountable.
>>539580078I think politics is definitely related to the collapse of some families. My mom and aunt hated each other for a while because my aunt couldn't handle any Trump criticism back during the first campaign. Meanwhile back when I was a kid I remember them all agreeing with a George Bush Jr. radio broadcast about invading the Middle East.
You know all the threads here about boomers? That doesn't necessarily vanish when the boomers in question are your parentsI'm lucky mine weren't like that
>>539579684I never post here due to stupid retarded captcha. fuck whoever invented it like this. But i want to say anon, that i hope you will at least find peace. consolation, not so much, just peace for a few days at the time without the thoughts burning you. I know the feel, perhaps for the same or different reasons. I hope you can go for longer periods of time without thinking about it.
I would never in a million years cut my parents off. But if your parents sucked shit I can understand why you did it. All relationships have a transactional element and if your parents are complete dumpsterfire people who abuse you and gave you nothing as a child they voided the unspoken parent-child contract and should be jettisoned.
>>539580178After you post a certain amount of times the captcha gets extremely simple to where you just pick one image out of three that are different than the other two. Just a single quick slide.
>>539577840My mum try to do this. Thankfully i saw through it practically straight away. She got my half-brother though and now we don't talk at my instigation.Don't be a step-dad to someone else's kid. It's not worth it
>>539580178It's been a decade, so I'm quite fine. I don't think about them at all but this thread brought some memories back.
>>539577840After my mom left my dad and he moved she claimed he had not paid child support for years. Turns out he had paid over $30k and she spent the majority of it on beads. She was in a wheelchair so she just sat thereaking costume jewelry everyday while I was the only person out of her, my brother, and myself to have a job. I worked a damn near minimum wage job and gave her practically all my money while I was also the only person to cook or clean. I slept in the living room on a couch while my brother had his own room. My mom is dead now and my brother has still only had one job in his life for maybe half a year at the age of 33.
>>539580406Oh I should clarify she had sued him for $30k in back child support and she claimed he hadn't paid on any of it when it was already paid off.
>>539577574not being shitty parents would have prevented this.and there's quite a lot of wiggle room with regards to how shitty you can be before your children cut you off.I know three who no longer talk to their parents and their childhood was abusive as fuck, their parents can be happy the children only cut contact with them instead of giving them some cement shoes and throwing them into the ocean
>>539577574Not my problem. I have a good relationship towards my family and I care for them.Must be a leftist faggot thing
>>539579764Most of this is solved if inheritance is mandated like in Italy, France, or older civilizations that developed Imagine your parents were legally barred from destroying the world on their way out, and you could count on 1/4 or whatever of their estate
>>539579641pretty much.the only solution to this would be to instill a similar degree of terror.i.e. the father letting her know, in a believable way, that he'll perform au naturale circumcision on her if she dares to mutilate his son.then you go to prison though.
>>539579684>>dumping their psychological issues on me and trying to coopt me on to their side of every argument they have to the point where i restructured my whole life to never be in the same room with any of themfuck, bro, I feel you...
>>539579789No worries anon, still plenty of time for them to toughen you up to do the deed.I spent 2 weeks at deaths door in the hospital in excruciating physical and psychological pain and my mom planned it so she would go on a cruise with some aunt i've never heard of right after I got out which forced me to work 2 weeks with no days off while nearly dead. Then I spent about a year dealing with her bullshit while in severe pain and trying not to die. My problems didn't phase her in the slightest. She still doesn't know why I was in the hospital, she never even asked.I think I got a little bit of genuine ptsd from the experience because I frequently wake myself up by saying "i hate this" kinda loud.Anyway never seeing that bitch again. Best thing I ever did for myself too.
>>539580219at one point, when it was introduced i tried posting quite a lot, making my own threads. It just kept getting worse and worse. so much so that i just gave up having to do 3 stupid captchas non stop. No other website has it anymore, so why this wretched dump, i was here for 12 years now, and ever since the 7 day hiatus where 4chan was gone this place became unbearable to post. >>539580337It will always bring back memories, some event or another will trigger the memory. its inevitable, i just want you to know that many have the same issue, for one reason or another. it wont help you knowing this, but nobody should suffer alone.
>>539577574If somebody likes you they will go out of their way to spend time with you. If they don't like you then they won't, even if you are their flesh and blood. That is basic psychology. Furthermore you should cut all contact with anybody who disrespects you. If you don't you would be putting your self-esteem on the line every time you speak to them. It's about protecting your peace. Your self-esteem is under the umbrella of that. If they disrespect you once confront them, if twice cut them off completely. That is the golden rule, that way you would be giving them a second chance. That's with mediocre disrespects. On the other hand if they apologize from their own accord then it is appropriate to consider letting them back as that is a display of conscientious character.
>>539577574My brother went no contact because he's a democrat sperg who lives in an apartment for disabled old people who all want him out because they know he milks the system for gibs.I'm never more relieved than when I remember I don't have to deal with him ever again.
>>539580669I believe its some kind of globohomo ploy to stop people posting here
>>539577574American liberals completely cut off contact from family and friends for voting for the ‘wrong’ person. You think they’re able to have a mature, measured discussion with someone they disagree with about issues that are important and nuanced? No, they plug their ears, scream shrilly and sulk like a child.>>539577701I like how charities, governments, and other organizations get outraged about genital mutilation in Africa but never a peep about the same thing happening in the US.
>>539577727>You should only let go things that are irrelevant to you or truly out of your controlA relationship with another person depends on both of them (and sometimes even third parties). It's not entirely within your control. If the other person is unwilling or unable to change, actively harmful to you, what are you supposed to do? Stay with them because they're "family"? Cuck mentality.
>>539580178This site has had a pretty simple captcha for a while now
>>539579165I mean yeah I guess but i dont really do it out of affection but self interestinheriting some of her assets when she dies is probably the only chance i have of buying a house although it wouldn't surprise me if she fucks me in that department too
>>539577574Its called: "Growing UP", something that used to be very common in the 70s/80s when I was a kid. The whole idea was to leave the nest, become independent, form your own life. Back then if you were over 18 and still living with your parents or still in constant contact with your parents it was considered weird. That all changed in the 90s, third wave feminism happened. The family unit was broken, women took over control of the family upbringing, being a single mom was very popular back then with teenage girls. Basically kids stopped becoming adults. Parents had unusual control over kids resulting in where we are now, parents can cut the dick off their 5 year old boy because they think its a girl.
>>539578634Boomers are already old dude. I was in the hospital recently, it's all boomers. I asked the nurse how many of the patients have people regularly come in to visit them. She said about half. She also told me around half of the patients are also dicks to the staff.
>>539577574Cutting off parents is something that grown children have to do with narcissistic parents. It has to do with being blamed as a child for being a failure. This is usually done to emotionally sensitive children who become the scapegoat in dysfunctional families. We live in a time where american families no longer have problems due to parents being narcissistic. Empaths breaking off from narcissists is something that is very common today and just doesnt happen in familiy settings.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A89d5NejzNghttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s4jWpYK4Fno
