>hardmode: after the second anniversary
>>539691853I saw some retarded psyop argument of how BPD women are superior or something. Bronze Age retard and co I think.Anyway, no, why make life more difficult than it needs to be?Unless you live in a country where you can beat her into submission its pointless. She'll beat herself up and blame you and try to take everything
>>539691853Yes, but you gotta treat her like shit.
You beat them, she won't leave.
>>539691905Bap is a gay Jew, of course he would want normal men to risk being with deeply unstable women
>>539691853What is this unbelievable faggot post
Bpd isnt real its just a doctors note for a get out of jail free on taking personal responsibility. Cheated on you? Its your fault I felt abandoned.Stole from you? I was splitting haha sorry.Did something vastly inappropriate? Your fault because mars is in retrograde.Only simps with 0 self respect go with anyone with BPD.Always check their meds and diagnosises before committing.
>>539691853I can deal with crazy on a personal level, but I'd be afraid she'd drown the kids in a marriage
I know a guy, really talented musician, who lived with one for over 15 years. No one knew about it until the end. He got totally buck broken. A nervous wreck. So used to tell her what she wanted to hear that he lost the sense of reality. Even years after she abandoned him for a much younger guy, every time he meets somebody she calls him round the clock and threatens to kill herself.
>>539691853Mine literally killed herself over a perceived slight. 0/10 Do not recommend.
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>>539691853Not me. I am ugly, poor and lack charisma. That said, I can attract a BPD girl due to their low self esteem but then I fuck it up by being a faggot.OPs screenshot is accurate, if you can maintain frame. I am a manchild and cannot do so. >>539692110This guy knows. I almost fucked a married girl at my old job. She was married to her fat HS sweetheart who beat her. Trauma bonding is very real and makes their cunnies wet
>>539692216tO bE fAiR, all women are unstable by default.
>>539691853I don't really care. I've just no time for those sort of women. The first sign of it and she's gone, don't care. I've enough stress in my life as is and i'm not tolerating any disrespect
>>539692867Female crazy scale starts at 4
>>539691853I had to leave a 4 year relationship because of BPD bs. I tried my best and wanted to be a savior type, but in the end it’s not worth it and a girl won’t change just because you’re an awesome boyfriend. They need professional help. Best piece of advice a lot of young people need to hear is that you shouldn’t date someone with a lot of issues
So is this the latest psyop from twitter idiots to get men to marry mentally damaged women because it's heckin based or some bullshit?
>>539691853There is no such thing as "a BPD woman". It's an invented category with a very limited correspondence to real underlying phenomena. Might as well just call her a "psycho bitch" or "hysterical"; that has about as much meaning. >>539692245This. Like almost all psychiatric diagnoses, it's just a heuristic that help doctors and therapists refer their patients to a specialist who has experience dealing with similar cases, or give them the "correct" drugs.
I know one that's made over 120 false allegations, including 40+ felonies, without any consequences. She accused me of stalking, harassment, being an NSA agent, indoctrinating her kids with nazi propaganda, stockpiling illegal weapons, and planning to blow up courthouses, army installations, NSA buildings, and "the government" while working for a cabal that was working to overthrow the US government, impose a Christian theocracy, and then annihilate all other races. I got off light compared to her other victims.BPDemons; not even once
>>539693061I'll add: the only sense in which BPD is a real thing is that women will receive a diagnosis from a psychiatrist (or through self-diagnosis) and from that point onwards will identify with it and act it out.
>>539692830>OPs screenshot is accurate, if you can maintain frameThey will wear you down eventually. It's just a matter of time. You could be the most chuddy of chuds and eventually you will snap. I lasted about 5 years with mine, her go-to move was to disrupt my sleep because I had to work a grueling job and she didn't, so she always had the upper hand there. I rage quit one day and that was that. Never again. If you want great sex with a hot woman just fine and expensive hooker, spend an hour or two having a great time and then leave and go home and sleep soundly.
Woman doesn't like my bullshit, bpd! lol
>>539691853No it never ends good
>>539691853I left first before theygo insane then they stir up the chaos.Probably have all sorts of sabatoge horror lies told about me by those cunts
>>539691853no. these women string me along (am a proud beta orbiter) until one day they get a bf.then all communication stops, until i randomly stumble upon them at the store years later & they are morbidly obese now
>>539691853Not worth it. I feel bad for whoever married my ex. She hit me up after not talking in years and tried moving back in with me. It came out of nowhere and she was married. When I said no because that was obviously insane and she removed me from everything. When I think back on it, it feels a killer trying to lure me to a secondary location.
>>539692706Share your story brother, sounds painful.
>>539691853tsundere does not mean BPD
As an oldfag you do not want drama and instability in a relationship. Had a bad relationship in my early 20s, learnt from it and every subsequent girlfriend where drama started I ended it, building up to my current happy life. If you're an idiot who likes drama and shit then go for it, but once you're older you should just want an easy life. Also kids etc. puts a lot of pressure on a relationship, so the more stable already the better.
>>539693140I have never been able to figure out how her car fishtailed so bad like that.
>>539692245Here is the thing about BPD. No woman that has it will ever be willing to see a doctor to get that diagnosis. I knew 3 people that have it and they all refused to see therapists and thought they were perfectly fine and it's everyone else that is fucked up so no you are wrong. One of the big BPD features is pretending you are fine what you are describing is the opposite of that
>>539695794Opposite experience. The women I knew who had it were immediately prescribed SSRIs. One was my ex who said it made her feel like a shell of a person. She's probably back on them right now.
Had one for 4 years and another for 2. It's basically just a regular GF on nightmare mode. All of the annoying insane bullshit that comes with being female is just amplified 100000x and it becomes a game of walking on egg shells.The idealization phase is incredible though. Non-BPD girls will never be able to offer anything similar but the devaluation phase once she has built you up will break you easily.
>>539695903>SSRIsThats what was fucking her up not the BPD diagnosis. A key component of BPD is narcissism narcissists never admit there is something wrong with them
>>539695999>The idealization phase is incredible though. Non-BPD girls will never be able to offer anything similarThis is what makes them so devastating.
>>539695794I disagree bruv, theres no objective bpd. No genetic patterns to be observed, no brain patterns etc. Foids just found out they can get out of jail free by having a quirkchungus heckin 3 letterino ebbinly neurodivergent diagnosis
>>539696138There is. The eyes give it away every time. Lifeless dead eyes that barely blink. They all have that.
>>539692797Fuck me I know we all chuds here but goddamn if you can write all that out, have a read, and still think it's a sound choice to hit publish on it, you are so far gone there is no return to the land of the sane for you anymore.Same for anyone who follows these people, reads shit like that and finds it engaging or interesting. If it doesn't make you either cringe to death or want to pull the plug off the internet forever you are either 15 or just totally gone.
>>539692913Hot to crazy matrix video should be mandatory viewing
>>539691853BPD is not something to mess with and if you're idiotic enough to have kids with a BPD woman expect them to take after their mother, even if she abandons them while they are babies because it is very much genetic. I have a BPD cousin who had twins, abandon them as babies to marry another man, and got kicked out of her country after she abused him too many times. https://scitechdaily.com/psychiatric-disorders-share-far-more-dna-than-scientists-realized/ > Schizophrenia and bipolar disorder formed their own closely related group. So even if your kids won't have BPD they can randomly at any time in their lives develop severe psychoses. These people are genetic trash at best and should best be avoided at all costs. Mental illnesses also breed other mental illnesses, your ADHD, Autistic, or BPD wife might create a trooning son or hyperfeminist daughter. I once almost impregnated a highly neurodivergent woman, she had an amazingly beautiful body (though an extremely ugly face) and I really enjoyed just how horny she was all the time, but no amount of pussy or her high IQ should ever distract you from assessing her genetic quality relating to mental health issues.
>>539695650She panicked, hit the brakes instead of letting off the gas or punching through which then shifted the vehicles weight as she turned out of the steer instead into it.
>>539696245That video is bullshit I knew a girl named Tiffany who is just fine and has a really nice family.
>>539696297steered out of the _skid_*
>>539691853I have fucked a few and dated two (all diagnosed, not stupid self diagnosing ones). I'll say the same thing as everybody else that has ever been with them so don't expect anything interesting in my post. They burrow into your mind by playing on your insecurities and your desires in equal measure as well as being some of the most unstable creatures on this earth. They can go from calling you daddy while you are doing degenerate shit to them, utterly draining your soul from your cock and within an hour you are engaged in the most nonsensical bullshit argument that makes you want to self immolate. They can do the sweetest and most heartfelt gesture to make you feel loved and look into your eyes in a way that makes you feel like everything is going to be okay with your life and you start seeing a future full of laughter and children and growing old together happily. The next week they will threaten to kill themselves because you mentioned a female colleague from work and then talk for hours about how their ex cheated on them, all men are the same blah blah blah. If you are particularly unlucky they will publicly embarrass you, make passes at your friends to enrage you and get pregnant on purpose as an act of hate towards you. Best pussy you will ever experience, it will keep you coming back to the bitch that will eventually make suicidal ideations a weekly occurrence but they won't let you kill yourself, they will bring you back from the edge for long enough that you feel an iota of hope and then crush you again. They will do this until they find a new target and your misery doesn't end there because they will stalk you and try to keep you from moving on. Literal demons in human form and no they can't be fixed. My current partner is completely emotionally stable and a fantastic companion but my experience with BPD women has made it so I have a permanent feeling of unease like she could switch at any time. Don't fuck them lads, it's not worth it.
>>539692245Normal women aren't remotely like that, and plenty of women will take responsibility for their own actions and are supportive and loving wives. People always see crazy women on TikTok or YouTube Shorts and pretend that this is just female nature when culture removes restrictions, no, this is crazy people with a culture that enables them. These women belong to be locked up in mental institutions. Don't even use them as communal fleshlights, almost all STD's are spread by these women.
>>539692110Simple.Choking also works, although you have to shake and toss them around while doing so. Bonus points for lifting them by the neck or tearing their clothes off.It's almost like they want to be punched, and will try to provoke you if you don't keep them in check, but it's excessive, just wide arc slaps and throwing them around - it's a game of sorts after all.Under no circumstances allow her the illusion she can successfully defend herself by being half-assed with it. Ideally you show her that trying to defend herself is utterly futile or makes it worse and so just takes it. By that point you don't have to beat her as much or as hard anymore.
>>539696216It's midwit mindporn.He's a provider, don't read more in that.
I advise agianst it. Wanting a relationship full of drama is female tier too.
Fucking normies invaded this place over 10 years ago. Fuck off all faggots.
>>539696337>your misery doesn't end there because they will stalk you and try to keep you from moving onWhen you actually do move on they cut all contact.
>>539691853BPD women shouldnt breed. Froganon's kids are fucked.
>>539696354>and plenty of women will take responsibility for their own actionsyou haven't met a lot of women have you anon?
>>539693140> Maintain frame> Shit tests Literally everything the PUA sub-culture is designed around is sleeping with mentally ill women. PUA's or "redpillers" always talk about things like maintaining frame, never appearing weak in front of a woman, how you have to pass her little tests, how negging works, and how you can easily sleep with a woman if you say the right things and approach enough women. What PUA's don't see is what they are doing is survivorship bias for the type of women that respond to their "good personalities" (being an unlikeable asshole). What normal mentally sane woman would have sex with a random man who just approached her by saying a mix of compliments and insults to come off as a narcissistic asshole? It's literally all assortative mating, mentally ill women sleep with PUA men because the only normal men who naturally act like them are mentally ill. I've had one-night stands with the type of women PUA tricks work on, literally each and every one of them was mentally ill. Not the same type of mental illness, some were ADHD, some depressed, others BPD, but all were highly neurotic and unbearable beyond the sex. Their vaginas are literally their only redeeming quality. Whenever you hear a "redpill" dude say "the only thing women have to offer is pussy" remind yourself that he's talking about this specific worthless woman. No man who actually has a choice in partnership would be desperate enough to try to maintain a long-term relationship with any of these women.
here you go new friends
>>539695999Should also add that both of their mother's were mentally ill as well. Not sure if borderline but they both accused their Mother's of extreme neglect and they both had Fathers who weren't abusive, just non existent. Working or gone all the time.I don't think it's genetic. It's more like a contagious mind virus.
I have male BPD and I'm able to be very charismatic at times but always destroy any relationship or friendship in the end, without really knowing why I do it. You're not gonna manage a BPD person unless you act more BPD than them, which is tiring to keep up and will put you in legally questionable places. It's best not to engage at all. Boring vanilla normie couples don't know how good they have it
>>539696439You are just getting old. Youth culture today isn't the same when you weren't 40 and not old. Better come to grips with this now it's only going to get worse as you get older.
>>539696455One of my exes sent me walls of text when I moved on to my current partner and then lied to my friend group that I cheated on her with my new partner. This happened for about two months before she snapped back the other way and apologised to me in text for lying and said she still loved me, I then screenshotted that shit, sent it to my friends and only then did I never hear from her again.
>>539696591You're wrong. I fucking hate normaloids who've fucked foids. Fuck off faggot.
>>539696642I am not. This place has changed and you are old now. If this upsets you you probably should move on with your life
>>539691853what's' that new crap campaign to bait chuds into putting their dick in crazy?can you fuck off already?
>>539696678I'm not upset I am just tired of zoomers and normaloids.
>>539693401I once randomly stumbled across an extremely beautiful woman I had a crush on since I was a teen, we eventually became friends with benefits. Unsurprisingly, she probably had undiagnosed ADHD. In fact, the more I think back about her the more obvious it is that she probably had ADHD without knowing it and thinking that she's just normal. She couldn't sleep without a radio, she masturbates like 10 times a day, especially at work, she is extremely excited about sex but almost never orgasms with a man (I was the second man to ever make her orgasm, despite her being an absolute slut). ADHD is strongly associated with hypersexuality AND a huge range of sexual dysfunctions in both men and women. So they are horny all the time while simultaneously being really bad at sex. It's like a chronically hungry obese person with extremely weak taste buds, they eat significantly more than a normal person but an average person has a superior culinary experience every time they eat tasting the entire pallet of flavours while the obese person can only taste 1 or 2 very strong flavours weakly. ADHD women are superior to BPD women simply because they are horny every day, while BPD women are only horny when their menstrual cycle and mood align at the right time, which is about 1 or 2 weeks a month.
>>539696703You are and I am telling you this place has changed and you outgrew it. It isn't the anime and incel zone anymore.
>>539696245>>539692913>mfw retards think a joke video with millions of views is some secret knowledge hidden from masses
>>539692706I'm just horrified by this strange attempt to redeem literally insane bitches when even normal ones can ruin your life these days on the regular. My father has PTSD from my bpd mother. Even if you know they're crazy, they don't just say random shit. If there's anything in your life that's hurtful to you or precious to you they will use it to hurt you at every opportunity by trying to destroy it. Friendships, relationships with your parents, self-esteem.... they will also try to isolate you, and all of this while feeling like they're victims and literally crying about how horrible you are to them for not doing something random today. In a month they will go on the same crazy drama for you doing that thing instead, and always with so much confidence they might kill themselves over it. It's pure madness and your brain is just not made to handle it without literal brain damage to nerf your own emotional capacity and empathy
>>539696719You're a fucking fed.
>>539696642They call him Mr No Bitches
>>539691853>go on, stick your dick into woodchipper! I did it and I'm completely fine, trust me, bro
Lmao woman lol
>>539693140>her go-to move was to disrupt my sleep because I had to work a grueling job and she didn't>I lasted about 5 years with minebruh, if someone fucked with my sleep on the reg, I would probably be put to jail for beating them in like a week
>>539696750the issue isn't this site has changed which any normal well adjusted person understands happens with new generations. The issue is you are a 40 year old loser who can't move on with your life and come here trying to recapture highs from like 15 years ago. This is why we have so much spam of older memes and threads reposted over and over and over and over again. Move on with your life. Can you imagine how things will be bad for you when you are 50 and still posting here?
>>539696712>which is about 1 or 2 weeks a month.this is every women? has nothing to do with BPD women
>>539691853Best way to calm them down is to give them a hug
>>539691853Fuck no. Those are for casual use only. Only an idiot would try and have a relationship with one.
>>539692867No they aren't, but stick to your hand and homosexual kike e-celebs.
>>539696513wisdom here
>>539695794BPD's root is insecure narcissism, its the failure state of Cluster BsThey recognise that they are useless but expect the world to change for them, which is why a lot of them are now hopping on the "I'm literally autistic" bandwagon and demanding spaces change to suit their 'neurodivergence'.You'll recognise the type as the 'quirky' women that wear The Stripy Fluffy Jumper and are covered in tattoos
>>539695291The thing is, the mentally ill are relatively shit and hiding their mental illnesses. A BPD woman will "shit test" you quite early on in the relationship or advertise her bad qualities early on. A couple of years ago I dated a mentally ill woman for several months despite all the obvious "red flags" (signs). Yes, she lacked introspection, but she would give away her own flaws by the stories she told and by what she clearly ommitted. I basically tolerated her until she started insulting me directly and showing that she clearly didn't respect me. I would've helped her and stayed together with her, but there is just a certain level of disrespect I can no longer tolerate no matter how much I sexually desire her. Society unfortunately always sides with women and because Feminism is a race to the bottom it has essentially become a movement to protect mentally ill women from society at all costs. Our entire government system is designed to accommodate mentally ill women, this means that if you end up in a relationship with one she essentially has government permission to abuse you as she sees fit.
>>539693095How did she learn about all of that? You're not supposed to talk real politics with a woman.
>>539696205That's probably more to do with them being on SSRIs since puberty
>>539696838the issue is (you)
>>539696976None of the woman I met with BPD were on SSRIs and all thought nothing was wrong wit hthem and would whataboutism to my issues whenever I suggested they should get help. They all had non blinking eyes with the long eyelashes. I have become really good at pointing them out now.
>>539696712>ADHD is strongly associated with hypersexuality AND a huge range of sexual dysfunctions in both men and womenthere are different types of ADHD thoughimpulsive biased one is associated with being a retard in how you behave, drugs, sex, gambling, etcattention deficit one is associated with being a scatter brain, but not necessarily hypersexualthe latter is pretty much being a normal schmuck, but you can't finish anything
>>539697015Jeez dude you didn't even try with that no u at all.
>>539691853ALL women are borderlineit's only a disorder in men, lolfuckwit
>>539692216Is BAP a scrawny jewfroer like Raw Egg Nationalist?I was surprised when REN was exposed, you'd think someone that hangs around gyms would be more built. But I guess people like him aren't going to the gym for the weights, if you get what I mean
>>539691928This, kind of. They just need to know that you are above them and they are below you. If you treat them like equals and they know you're the one that needs them they'll eat you alive.
>>539697027essential phenotype right here
>>539695650>>539693140>>539696297And do you expect a woman like that to maintain her tyres?Probably as bald as her cooch
>>539691853All women are BPD
>>539696308But was she a waitress?
>>539696852dilate tranny
>>539697370No idea never asked her about every job she had
>>539695650>>539696297>>539697259and likely bust shock absorbers, which make the steering wobbly
>>539692867it's trueall women are borderlinesome are worse than others, but stillreally, it's only a disorder when it afflicts "men"
>>539691853All women are bpd
>>539696730>bpd motherHow did that affect you?The talk is always about BPD GFs, but at least you can always get rid of her and find a 'normal' GF. The mother you're forever stuck with, and she was there to ruin you in your formative years when you had no defence mechanisms.
>>539691853I've known a few BPD people and it ultimately was just them being assholes then being like "omg sorry bpd hehe :3". One of them said he was abused by his parents and I asked how, and he basically said they were verbally mean to him a bit (which is like very common? My family did the same.)I.e a lot of the time they blame trauma when they haven't experienced shit.
>>539696721Women are notoriously bad drivers.
>>539697434Only one of us is consuming queer content, faggot.
>>539697810NTA but I had one. I think the saving grace was that I left my home at 18. My mom was ultra protective of me and my sister and terrified of anyone ever seeing anything bad about us so she made us swear never to tell our relatives when we had issues. She did all my homework as a kid because she didn't want me to look stupid in front of the teacher. She basically was terrified of any negatives about us being reflected on her being a bad parent even at the cost of our sanity. My dad just checked out and didn't raise us or stop her.I moved out, moved to a different state and essentially removed them from my life. My mom did all the typical BPD shit when I left, love bombed me, guilted me then threatened me (you are out of the will) and I stood strong and never have been happier. If I stayed home I probably would have went insane.
>>539697434you're a disgrace to your family
>>539696843Funny enough this is true in my experience, thing is it's a bit like putting a bandaid on a bullet wound and not very effective
Having a BPD gf obsess over me at least for a while would be a massive improvement in my life of being constantly ignored
my ex was 10 years younger and super crazy, I miss her
>>539691853anybody "noticed" this thread keeps being spammed?sure, have kids with a sociopathic woman who will make your life a living hell once she decides she has had enough of playing mom and wants to get even for you destroying her body with children.the levels these people are going to in order to get you to fuck your lives upseek them, destroy themfor all mankind
>>539698415It's just an extension of the cultural zeitgeist that woman can't be wrong. Even when they have a mental disorder it's not their fault just man up and date them.
>>539696524Knew a Narcissist type who went from libtard to White Nationalist back to libtard. Insane. And weird small tits
>>539698415Not everything needs a reaction
>>539696730i think it's some chud grifter coming to terms with the fact the bitches be crazy and it snowballed from there becoming a popular hot takei noticed some of these patterns with my own mom, like always provoking conflict, getting her way despite what the other wanted and still acting like she's a victimi resolved to never even bother with a woman who does that but guess what, i'm alone
>>539698720Some men are just weak and put up with this shit. I feel like every man that tells you "don't ever get married anon" are weak cucks who feel for woman like this and are too afraid to divorce them because being alone scares them more than being with these terrible woman so in a way you are stronger than them.
>this thread againWhat is it this time? The usual kikejeets or the idrama trannies?
>>539692245/threadsame shit as with (((autism))), it doesn't exist
>>539698815no, too afraid to end up with half of your already meager belongings fucking robbed by the government. And God forbid you had kids. Buddy of mine got married to a landwhale and made the idiot move to adopt not one but multiple kids and now he's paying for them out of pocket while he pretends to not want to kill himself. I told him to just take his savings and move to mexico fuckit, come back as an illegal under a different name. Lord knows they don't give a fuck about that anymore.
>>539696354communal fleshlights will spread STDs even if they're otherwise sweet and loving girls, simply by the fact that they're being used as communal fleshlights
>>539691853Why are you trying to create more spiritual trannies and mentally ill useless woke people? What are you doing?
Don't get with a woman with BPD. Its that simpleThey are just psycho's with traits of your standard stupid bitch>I was a retard who got with one regretted it massively. Spent loads of money. They are just bugs avoid
>>539699023If I lived in hell with a terrible woman I would cut my losses if it came to that which it doesn't every time and is no guarantee
>>539691853BPD women are just called women. They love making up fake disorders for basic default woman behavior, but then act offended when you view them as lesser. ADHD is another one.
>>539696513Amen.The way to deal with BPD is to have a clear sense of your own direction in life. And if you have a clear sense in your direction in life, there is absolutely zero chance that you would waste one minute of your life with a BPD woman.
>>539691853This is fucking retarded. Try BPD at your peril. It is the most anti-social, violent, abuse, knife to your throat, plotting against you 24/7 bullshit you can ever encounter. They have subhuman IQ and are good for nothing.
>>539691853>I want pussy so I’m going to simp hard modeHow far men have fallen
>>539692948Every bitch who needs saving will eventually need to be saved from you.
>>539691853the last BPD woman i briefly dated gave me PTSD , now i have 0 interest in relationshits and just jerk it.
>>539694888Checked. Second i want to hear, having dated a BPD. Can confirm OP story is accurate in how to handle most of them.>>539696730Too long, didn't read.Try to say what you need to in 20 words or less.
I do wonder about mine.Her mom is definitely unhinged, but she wants distance from her mother, she is tired of dealing with her mood swings.But my girlfriend does have mood swings, mostly out of jealousy over me refusing to be walked over and say things like her being the only pretty girl in the world or whatever.She is lovely most of the time, and even when she is grumpy, I can convince her to at least not walk away. Stay in the room, doomscroll your phone without talking to me if you want, but be present to show you are not running away.She has explicitly instructed me to hold her and kiss her if she is being a faggot, and so far every time I tried it it has worked, she goes back to being affectionate.She definitely has some sort of attachment disorder, because she was shown little love in her life. But she seems to be healing with every passing month and self-aware about what we call her "woman brain", which greatly helps talking about these patterns.Maybe her conflict-raising is just normal levels of womanry, I wouldn't know as this is my first ride and I'm past 30 already.Another advantage is that she is still young and inexperienced, meaning she isn't broken because of other men and her brain architecture is still not set in stone.I-I can fix her, right?
>>539700575bro she's beyond repair trust. you've done an ok job but time to let her go
