I've gone no contact with my family and they keep trying to contact me.
>>539788321They miss you anon, you were probably their whipping boy
>>539788321They are vampires it will take many years until they starve
>>539788321Make peace with your family they won’t be around forever
Boomers fear abandonment more than they fear death, but on the other hand, they do have the horsepower to realize that they have been the world's most massive cunts to everyone else in the world for their entire lives, including to their own kids and wives. And that the universe is doing exactly what it is supposed to be doing, punishing obstructions to a world where everyone cooperates with everyone, the sinking end state that once you have it, there can be nothing else.For now we still have eat or be eaten, just buy a jewish Lawyer and put on a smallhat and be Jewish, he'll get you to walk off murder one. Jews are immune to the law in the USA, check it, there are no Jews in any prison anywhere in the world. The Klan pulls them out citing reasons, because again repeating myself, they are above the law.
>>539788321MKULTRA agents are closing in on your location now.
>>539788321I just stopped calling them one day, haven't heard from anyone in 13 years.
>>539788468>t. hungry vampire Anon knows what’s best for anon, even if he is a faggot
>>539788321i've gone no contact and they couldn't be happier
>>539788321fat faced nigga
>>539788393My mom literally text trying to shame me about not going to my sisters wedding. I just want to be left alone. >>539788450Yeah I figured.>>539788468Frankly don't have the energy. I'm dead inside and the last thing on my mind is fixing my issues with narcissists.
>>539788513I'll make some coffee in the meantime.>>539788524based>>539788530Thanks leaf.
>>539788654i went to my brother's wedding and was respectful and gracious to everyoneand in return they treated me like shit and sat me among non-family at the receptionI'm done
Some families are too psycho and you gotta cut contact. I wish I could do the same OP.
>>539788321Be honest, did you troon out?
>>539788468Setting boundaries is making peace
>>539788321How much money do you owe them
>>539789186No contact is the only solution to a narcissist. Op's situation sounds much more like he's dealing with narcissistic family members than an infected ax wound.
>>539788321>>539788393Or maybe he did something interesting or made some money so now suddenly the all feel bad or whatever. They hate you until they need something from you, or feel bad for hating you and then expect *you* to comeBig boo hoo story aside, fact of the matter is they weren't there when I needed them most, my life has been a marathon of pain, misery, rejection and abandonment now they just want to hang out at the finish line act like nothing ever happened or they're mopey about it and need someone to make them feel betterDad contacted me once out of the blue after like 6 years of minding my own business sends me some msg like"I need a woman" I showed it to my wife, and we both agreed it's probably best for everyone if I just leave it be. Went and saw him around Christmas, but he was just a drunk and we both noticed he didn't actually ask me any questionsMoving forward, i'm not sure if I think any further contact has any value. It's just a bunch of people with the same last name, not a family
>>539788321in general, people who go no contact are massive fags.
>>539792862>t. Piece of shit who will die alone, deservedly
>le no contact R*ddit moment Modern soulless vaxxoids don't even care. Normalfags are soulless
>>539792939You're a passive aggressive bitch
>>539788321>be me>get invited to family events>don't go>they lie about me a lot for some reason>not even nice lies>the bad ones "oh hes been doing x y z" I forgot what it was now I literally dont care so much that I forgot, but gramma was crying saying "they've been saying horrible things about you">"but what they were saying is an impossibility since you dont even go out and they dont even see you" so she confided in me basically>"dont tell them I told you">makes no sense>like them though and on good terms aside from the lies>just dont interact with them except occasional visits>"why do you feed random animals just let them be">but they need help...>gramma's bathtub is leaking>my brother who is a teacher wont fix it but is living there>I fix it for her>"take this money anon for fixing my bathtub leaking and re-sealing it, you bought all the stuff for it and spent many hours taking off the old sealant, how much was it?">no gramma you keep it>mother's garden is dirty and overgrown with weeds when I visit so I clean it>plant her some broccoli and flowers and shit>"how much money do you want for it?">what? i dont care about money, it looks nice thats enough for me>its sad really>all they care about is money>they seem all like mkultrad npcs to me>realized I cant tell them about jews and satan many years ago so just tend to avoid people in general>in fact I avoid outsidewhy bother???? just be happy op and enjoy what you can. its not my problem, its not your problem. Everyone has their own problems, let their problems be theirs and let yours be yours, but help when you can but not to the extent it will cause you problems.
>>539791711Go have a drink with your old man you poofter I bet you've never even punched him
>>539788321I have the same problem with your mom. Slam pigs should know their place.
>>539789027>sat me among non-family at the receptionSounds like they did you a favor though.
>>539793565>my estranged daughter is almost 10>her mother has abandoned her to my father who she now lives with>because she looks too much like me>we just used to smoke weed all the time and fuck and argue>daughter reminds her of me>bitch shouldnt have cheated on me then it'd be fine>stopped me seeing her>anyway,>I give my grandma a king james bible to give daughter with my contact details inside>she doesnt receive itits just not my problem, so no point getting mad, or sad. what more can one do? nothing. just be happy op. at what point does it become too much? game on some vidya, eat some pidser, and be kind and helpful when god presents you with an opportunity to do so
>>539788321No contact is gay. Your moms loves you
>>539788321Block and get legal orders if you own property. Delete all social media so they can’t have narcissistic supply. Do not engage with their flying monkeys. Return all mail to sender with official post office stamp. Restraining orders if they show up at your house. They are most desperate for any interaction even negative. Do not give it to them. Just pretend they are dead and stop thinking about them
>>539788468Fuck off
>>539794929Grow up Cindy
>>539788321my parents stopped trying to contact menow they're contacting my brother non-stop about what I'm up tothen my retarded brother starts guilt tripping me>"hurr durr dad used to beat the shit out of me but I don't care anymore LOL so why are you still mad????"Ive been at the point where my parents are inconsolable and are a pain in the ass 100% of the time and I'm just waiting for them to die, for the past 10 years or so. Plus they are retarded boomers who inherited a million from their parents and refuse to give any to the aforementioned brother who is in the throes of his wife leaving him because she's bored.
It was never your fault anonshttps://youtu.be/c7EWsxOYPqw
>>539788321The only family I talk to are my parents, I've just grown tired of my extended family's drama and dysfunctional lives, I have enough problems at work.
>>539795601No contact with parents and low contact with brother. If brother starts making excuses for abuse end interaction immediately. Don’t even think about generational money. It’s not yours. If brother starts talking about inheritance money end conversation immediately
>>539793828The last time I saw him before Christmas, I had to usher my wife out the door as the man chased us across the lawn brandishing a hammer while shitfaced at 2'o clock on a Sunday afternoonMaybe some prison time would do him some good, he would put down the fucking wine for 20 minuets - in any case he should be thankful he has the privilege of being a drunk, miserable failure inside the privacy of his own home, he could be doing it in prison slurping hooch out of a fucking toilet bowl, if he could manage to afford itI've lost all respect for him, he's a drunk - it's just that simple. Has been since he was old enough to be a man
>>539796622Hahahaha fuck, fair enough
