My life is cooked. I'm in my mid-30s. I have zero friends or social life. No woman has ever been attracted to me. I live alone. Life is totally over in that regard and I have accepted that I'm a totally ugly subhuman that will never experience what all 20 year olds take for granted.I have a totally pointless low work deadend work from home job that pays around £75k but which I am considering leaving because it has zero advancement. If I left I'd have to move cities, either to London, where I'd live in a shitty flat, or another city, where I wouldn't even have anywhere cool to walk during weekends and where I'd feel like a failure. I don't have the people skills to get promoted anyway, so I'd probably make a mistake by leaving.I have no hard technical skills or manual skills. 25 year olds in San Francisco start companies worth billions while I rot in Britain. People had "the university experience" and I was a friendless loser all throughout.I went on a few holidays in the past year and have a few more cities to see but after I see Tokyo, that will be it. Everywhere is the same.I am too ugly and non-charismastic and autistic to succeed in social media or politics or anything. I am a voiceless slave. Both my parents passed away in prior years and I have zero care for other people.All large scale social movements and trends and discourse feel like ant herds. I'm too smart to believe in any philosophies or religions. All that shit is in-group signalling. I literally cringe when seeing white people (Americans online) talking about "the church". It's 2026 and you're acting like a 1300s villager, grow up. You're supposed to have a 100 IQ.
>>540025652anti-christ faggot, you are a pawn of the Jew, nothing more
>>540025652pics or it didn't happentriple livestream or it's fake
>>540025652Where do you live?
>>540025652just start going on walks and get a dog. getting a dog forced me to be more social because like 5 out of 10 people who walked by always complimented him or asked for his name.
>>540025652>live alone.> work from home job that pays around £75k >sub London pricesyou're doing fucking great, financially you're sorted, you've got your own place talk to a therapist about depression maybe, but be aware that being "lonely" for you is what most of the world thinks of as unimaginable privilege and luxury
>>540025652That sucks dude I'm insanely handsome and just got laid last night and can tonight with a different chick
>>540025652>Miserable frogposter hates the churchPottery.
>>540025652that's rough. have you heard the salvation/livable reality that Jesus offers? this lifestyle and reality will give you hope for the future, not just in this world but also in the world to come. i can tell that you're believing in death as the meaning of your existence that's why you feel that way. death is not the end of all things, anon. i can tell you're suicidal
>>540026068I watched this anon do this last night.Shit was so cash
>>540025947Never tell a hadji your dogs name!!!
>>540025931A boring city.>>540025947So I can start conversations with old people?>>540026058It's not really sorted. It's a slow lifetime ascent through six figure purgatory while taxes, inflation, and the welfare state crushes the economy. Allegedly my pay alone puts me well within the top 20% of household incomes but buying a nice car would dent my savings.
>>540025652Have a sosij roll mate.
kek, reads like my life. Either way I think people like you and me are absolutely fucked, too weird to live, too rare to die
>>540025652>*checks name of the board*Cool story, but what are your political affiliations?
>>540025652>I live aloneYou don't live with your mother because you need to help her to look after your grandma who can't walk and has dementia with hallucinations
>>540025652Your doing way better than me dude, I tried to be a bank robber and when that failed I became a male prostitute then I gave up, you are probably a really good guy unlike me
>>540026286desire for your life to 'change' not to be 'better' or not for it to improve, and it will change gradually.
>>540025652Devote what remains of your life to studying the Trivium. You should also take up MMA. A tough, disciplined body is the precursor to a tough, disciplined mind. You weren't meant to waste your life having "fun". You were meant for more serious things.
>>540026286>A boring city.where?I'm not trying to doxx you I'm just curious. Or what's your closest big city. I'm in the south and it's weird to be reminded the rest of the country even exists.
>>540025652>blasphemes God openly>why is my life so shit?Surely you can’t be this stupid.
>>540026539kek, this mutt is serious too
>>540026473Honestly, fuck that. I exercise but I reject the embrace of male disposability by jerstermaxing normies. Other people can jump off bridges and join the army and take part in bloodsports.
>>540025652Congrats bro... you made it, for what? Idk, and neither will the people who say that you made it. So yeah.
>>540026539I saw some tweets on X about how single men who go to churches alone are seen as weird, or something. I think this was in the context of dating discussion. I've never been a part of that at all, so I say as an outsider looking in that it's quite pathetic that these people are just living in a shitty microcosm of normgroid culture that centres around muh Bible instead of last night's big game or TV.Going to Catholic mass is for people too subhuman to go to the Miami clubs with Clavicular.
>>540026779That's nice sweetie but what are your political affiliations? Who did you vote for?>>>/r9k/
>>540026779>I saw some tweets on XLess screen time more grass touching.
>>540026779oh now i understand now, you don't want help because you don't believe that you need saving. you're content with living that kind of miserable existence, and you actually take pride and contentment from it. you're a pig, dude
>>540025652I'm more or less the same as you except I just lost my job. Count your blessings, it could always be worse. Maybe look into antidepressants and / or therapy. I'll probably have killed myself some time before the end of the year, you've got a good paying job and can save perhaps to the point where you can take a break from work and sort your head out. You're not like me, you sound like you might be able to salvage yourself, and you should. You said yourself you're an atheist so you know there's fuck all else except for this.
>>540025652Set up a 1000 day plan to get fit and get some skills in something. Then go and buy a degree in SE Asia and fake your resume like everyone is doing it.
>>540027397>some skills in somethingWhat is something that is worth getting skills in? Is coding still worth it? When i google it everything says to learn coding.
>>540025652You're more or less me. At least you go on holidays, I don't really go outside other than for chores and lifting. I've experienced having girlfriends but I don't know if that makes it harder living in isolation
>>540027451Just learn a trade it gets mocked but as far as I can tell it is the only job market left with anything resembling a viable, realistic future.
The way I see it, there are only two ways to evaluate this life that make any sense:1) while you’re in it2) from retrospect While we’re in it, it’s pretty obvious that what we value are materialistic things: pleasure, wealth, social status, luxury, fun. If you want to pursue this path it’s as simple as leveling up your health, wealth, looks, and status. Health and looks are pretty self explanatory. Status comes in large part via wealth and looks. Wealth is the trickiest because it changes but right now wealth is derived almost exclusively from asset ownership, namely owning real estate or business ventures. So if you want this, that’s what you gotta do, acquire real estate or start a business. The perspective from retrospect is more interesting. We can’t judge it for ourselves but we can think about how we would see it logically, and logically, the only things that would probably matter when this finite life is over are 1) whether you’re going to heaven 2) what you did with your finite moments 3) how you did it and 4) who you did it with. Some of these are easier to address than others. Obviously, in regard to who, children are better than acquaintances. But topics like “what to do with your finite life” are harder to address and for this I can only point out that there are things in life worth doing and there are things in life not worth doing. A life dedicated ceaselessly to doing that which is worth doing seems to me a pretty good life. Doing it with people who matter in a virtuous way seems to me as good as it gets. So if this evaluation method makes sense to you, what you really ought to do is figure out what is worth doing with your finite moments. Sadly, nobody can answer that for you. Maybe it’s making art, maybe it’s charity, maybe it’s a trade, a wife, and a family. It’s up to you. But at the end of the, the finite time of the future will be spend regardless. So choose how to spend them as wisely as you can.
>>540026779If you spend your entire life caring about what the mass of social media users think you will never make it.
>>540027451Banking, those kikes are never broke.
>>540027451AI is the new big thing. You may actually have a chance in this, because nobody knows what to do with it, but everyone needs it.
More of an /adv thread pal.When it comes to woman though your somewhat correct alot of them have aburd egos, your equivalent woman thinks she deserves a guy making $200k who's ripped.Same idiot bitch "where are all the men".I don't even try to advise woman anymore even if they come to me for help."Oh yeah luv there's some guy making $600k an hour just waiting to date your fat ass defiantly just wait forever". That's my advice to them now, 0 fucks left.Nothing more insulting than being some former party girls 5th, 10th, 20th, 100th? choice.
>>540025652> I'm in my mid-30s. I have zero friends or social life. This has been me since my 20s, I am 32 now. It sucks because I can cope without a social life but I would love to be able to start a family but that seems to be only for chads are retarded niggers now
>>540025652>I have a totally pointless low work deadend work from home job that pays around £75kHow much money do you expect you can save up in the next 5y?Looksmaxxing and sexpatting is your ticket out of misery. There are so many SEA and LATAM, hell even Eastern Euro poorfag shitholes with hot women waiting for a yuropean to rescue them.Stop rotting in your room and take a hard, honest look at your flaws. What needs fixing? Hair transplant? Weight loss? Mole removal? Teeth?Make appointments and start fixing your shit. 35yo is prime for men, your life is NOT over like a walled woman's your age.
>>540025652>I don't care for others>Fuck philosophy and religion>I'm too smart Yeah real big mystery why you have no friends. But you're really smart so I'm sure you'll figure it out eventually
>>540025652Seek Jesus. He will always be there for you.
>>540025652Youre catastrophizing Start becoming aware of the shit you have gratitude for.
>>540025652Just devote your time and energy to making money and then fuck really hot slavic hookers. That's what I do and it's pretty kino. A strange thing I learned is that hookers really like kind of quiet, awkward, unthreatening nice guys, even the m'lady types, because they're so used to dirtbags and pimps and all that. So If that's you, you can actually be yourself more around a hooker than a regular chick who just wants to be slapped and spit on and buttfucked by niggers. At least give it a shot before throwing in the towel.Also, you should take a trip to Thailand or Vietnam and bang hot little Southeast Asian numbers. You can bang a Thai girl that weighs 90 lb and sounds like a dog chewing on a squeaky toy when you fuck her and it's like $40. You can get a decent room for $40 plus some food for $10. It's like $100 a day to fuck chicks way hotter and more enjoyable than the average roastie.
>>540026286>boring cityAnon, you’re the boring one. plenty of fat, ugly, stupid men have hot women, quit being so fucking soft
>>540025652You should be posting in r9k instead if youre that much of a nohope loser faggot with zero ambition. Step one is stop the self pity completely, the state of your life now is the result of choices you have made and nothing more. Step two is to stand up straight, I am serious. Nobody takes a slouch seriously in anything.
>>540028026In theory, staying in my job for the next 5 years would let me save up a tonne of pension and a few years worth of living costs.In practice, staying in this job for 5 years would feel like crushing failure. Imagine being 40 and thinking that's when life starts.My flaws are my ugly unfixable face and total lack of normieness. There's no fixing that.
>>540025652>i'm too smart to believeapparently notknow thyself, fool
>>540025652 Ignore the bot replies. If you want to actually discuss anything coherently - be it geopolitics, history, finance, conspiracy theories, metaphysics, the answer is getting 5-15 active people in an invite only chat and isolating ourself from the group-thinking horde. Campfire of the Saints of some sort. Everything is upside down, if you want to have civil discourse you need to isolate yourself while every jingoist crazies loitering on the openweb and it's only going to get worse. Maybe consider joining mine this https://smp8.simplex.im/g#fd8nd878bfvUHbhgcr7rkYuqGP_xZ76unOvzERG8OeQ Discord & Telegram are namefag apps, at least SX doens't require your phone number to join and the first messaging app without user identifier. Any open forum with namefags eventually fails out like Twitter. No one really posts effort comments. It's not about the numbers. It's the sense of censorship being present all the time. People are afraid to say even slightly wrong things but how do you learn things without being wrong at first? Everything is sanitized for Ai to train on. Sense of discovery is gone on the internet. Raw human engagement gone. You are not observing things, you are being observed. If you feel like chans are the only place left that this axiom still applies - strong minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, weak minds discuss people, then we're stuck. Chans suffer from low user count. There's really only 30 people posting here cocurrently. Only generals on /poI/ go over 300 replies and they're already a chat room for bunch of circlejerk minus it's on the open web. Chat is a a downgrade but I can't think of better atm. There's no systematic, programmable solution cause it's the people who are using the internet is at fault here. Long link in archive if above link doesn't work https://archive.4plebs.org/pol/thread/539447099/#539457056
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>>540028253>My flaws are my ugly unfixable face and total lack of normieness. There's no fixing that.Nothing is unfixable.What's wrong with your face, exactly? Recessed jaw? Crooked nose? Thick cheeks with low bones? There are surgeries for everything.
>>540025652Oh well, get in line. You aren't the only one. So fucking suck it up and get a drink. Watch some wrestling and learn yo play the guitar or how to cook meth. The world is yours.
>>540025652People have begun to lose their hopes and forget their dreams.Nobody cares about anything anymore.Nobody wants to get together anymore.Nobody does anything without getting paid anymore.Nobody wants to do anything anymore.https://youtu.be/kVaolNKt2zwhttps://youtu.be/1d925iMSuLY
>it's 2026anno dominiyou're using the chronology that leads back to the birth of Jesus Christ
>>540025652>I'm too smart to believe in any philosophies or religions. All that shit is in-group signalling. I literally cringe when seeing white people (Americans online) talking about "the church". It's 2026 and you're acting like a 1300s villager, grow upBold of some dysgenic loser faggot to talk like that.>da current yearPerhaps if your IQ wasn't midwit territory you would see that "the current year" is as retarded an argument as the rest of your reddit tier take._I literally cringe_You spergs always think you're geniuses. If you're so smart, why are you an incapable failure as you describe? Don't you find it a bit inconsistent that you're so much smarter than so many and yet completely unable to achieve or do anything? Pure dunning-kruger
>>540028519when was the last time you talked to actual people in real life?this board has become pure unadulterated cancer
>>540025652>I'm too smart to believe in any philosophies or religionsYou lost me there.You dont even have the self awareness to say: I do this, but its a vice / it shouldnt be this way.You are a satanist jerking your ego.>I do this, therefore its correct, and everyone else is stupid.Okay, good luck with that, fag.
>>540026473>telling a guy in his midthirties to start doing MMAlol>>540027397>telling a guy in his midthirties to sacrifice the next three years of his youth selfimprooooving in order to maybe someday in the future get a lifelol
>>540027663>telling a guy in his midthirties to start a career in hard physical labourlol
>>540025652I am a married father in my forties. I have no local friends because my family is atomized and I moved across the continent. I don't need any - my work and my daughters are more than enough. You're not that smart. Go out to a pub, bring some work with you and practice your listening skills and eye contact when people approach. I know this works because I broke free from actual real autism by doing this back in my late 20s. Since then, I've been married three times, earned PhD from Harvard, had lots of kids, and advanced into a high-paying, high-stakes career. you need to start giving a fuck about your own life and your community. Its a warning - those with no stake in the future rarely end up seeing it.that's my old man wisdom.
>>540028803> telling a guy in his midthirties Should he start in his 40s?
>>540025652i'm a 32 year old NEET with no friends or social life and i would love to be in your position
You are an idiot, OP, that lacks self awareness. While some of us are entertained by your oblivious, completely unwarranted sense of self-importance, I am not. And that last statement you sneaked in like a Trojan horse, is so unnuanced that it verges on the sort of pseudo-deep, cynical analysis that we are all used to here. If you are so smart and so self-congratulatory, why are you making a thread on /pol/ pissing and moaning about your lot in life?
