How quickly people move on when people die?It's random, I saw my parents wedding video, from the 1980's, and the cameraman was slowly going around filming people at the wedding, and my parents would be saying like>oh she died in 1997>that guy die in 1988>oh that was my uncle John he died in 1995>that was my friend Mary, she and her 3 kids died in a car crash in 1992I could go on... it was like at least 50% of the people at my parents wedding are now dead, and I do remember some of them when I was a young kid seeing them in the video...... but they may as well never have even existed in the first place, because they're gone, their existence is on some VHS tapes or in some old photos in someone's house.This world is really odd, everyone just moves on after someone dies, like they never even existed. Its even rare that some of the best people in the planet that achieved great things even get remembered, most of them are forgotten about too.Kinda makes me question the whole point of really doing anything besides dopamine maxxing and enjoying what time I have.I feel like this is only getting worse now as peoples attention spans get lower and lower...
yep once everyone who knew you is also dead, then it'll be as if you never even existed unless you were really famous like Hitler or whatever
just keep fucking pussy and queefing out more kids, it's how we stay immortal
>>540247289Either reincarnation is true or this is the only life you get. If the former is true, you should take Nietzsche's eternal return to heart. If the latter is true, you should try to make the most impact on the world you can.
>>540247289This is life. You eventually get over shit. You seem very sheltered like you never had to deal with anything hard in the world>3AM in Australiaoh you are a jobless failed NEET makes sense now
Also went to see my dead grandparents at the cemetery and seeing the dates on the tombstonesSeeing some guy for example born 1987, and died in 2005, so they guy died at 18 years old, and we've all just moved on for the following 21 years like that guy never existed.
>>5402475633:40 actually.But yes I have.I came across a video game soundtrack from the year 2000 a few days ago. Hearing it took me back 26 years and I suddenly remembered all the relatives in my family who use to be alive back then.
>>540247289>How quickly people move on when people die?So ur gonna let a death devastated you for 40 years?
Ideally you can leave behind something after you die, like maybe you did some woodworking and have some nice tables or something cool that will help people remember you.I've got a huge dildo collection that somebody is going to find
>>540247632Go outside more, find a job and purpose. The reason you are hug up on this is because you are a directionless NEET with the same mentality of an 8 year old. Part of mentally growing up is dealing with loss
>>540247289babby's first existential crisis>point of really doing anything besides dopamine maxxing and enjoying what time I have.then you took the wrong lesson. the goal should be doing something with your life that is going to reverberate after you're gone.
>>540247718Sadly this shit's gonna go to a thrift store because it'll be replaced by a shitty temu MoDErn table made by a drugged out suicidal 12yo in a Chinese sweatshop.But then it'll be found and used by someone who actually cares, and the temu tables will go to the landfill where they belong.
>>540247289You are right its far more healthy to be like the moms who cant get over their 20 year old sons deaths and bring them up constantly and cry about them and mention them in all their prayers as if they are the second ear to God. Thats healthy.
>>540247289The world marches on.You'll get used to it after a couple of funerals.
>>540247289Maybe because dying doesnt feel like they went very far. The people I know who have died, it feels like they've just gone next door, even though they don't come back. Wherever they are, along some axis it must not be too far.
You cannot grieve forever.
>>540247289You cant let stuff hang on you forever. Im 38 and ive lost a lot of friends and family over the past 10 years and its sad and I have memories of them but if I sat and thought about all of them all the time id go psychotic. The best thing to do is learn from them understand it was their time and focus on not being the next one. I want to hit 100 one day thats my goal ill never understand people who say "im good living till 80" like wtf i talk to war veterans in bars all the time and these guys are in their late 80s went to Nam twice and they drive, move around, walk on their own, eat whatever they want, drink/smoke etc so it really changed my perspective on age my family luckily has pretty good age my grandmother is 98 and shes weak but she still does her thing so I hope I can be like that
I’ve kind of resolved that the main goal of life is just Learning/ experience.Just learn anything and everything as well as experience as much as you can.
>>540247430Not true. If you have a bowling trophy it’s in that alleyway until it’s gone. Founding a company will keep your name on it until it shutters. Being the first to do something on record. You can only be remembered if you achieve something worth remembering
>>540248010I’m the same way, I want to live to 102 at least so that I can have lived in 3 different centuries.I’ve never spoken to an old person, who still had their wits and mobility, want to die. I see many very old people clinging to life up to the bitter end wishing they had made better choices so they could live longer. I’ve taken these experiences to heart and as such I try to live a very healthy and active lifestyle while also gaining as much knowledge as I can.
>>540247477Most people already make an impact. Everyone you know knows someone else. So you've directly impacted millions. Even right now, you are on 4chan because of a friend of a friend of a friend met someone at a bar who plays roblox with a distant cousin to yours. At your recent family gathering, they reminded you that OP is a faggot because I said so.
>>540247289It’s easier than bearing the pain forever, although 30yrs later is by no means evidence of moving on quickly. Your parents are probably the type of people who constantly stay busy, maybe with hobbies, socializing, or hyper-focusing on politics(etc), because they are truly afraid of being alone with their own thoughts for even a moment, as they never took the time to actually process the pain, instead forever putting it off with another distraction. That, or they’ve processed it remarkably well, having found a way to be thankful whomever they lost didn’t have to endure the hell we live in now, that they were given an easy out, a guilt-free death. Some of us feel like we’re only here because of our inhuman ability to take an enormous amount of pain and torment without an heroing, like the world is some sort of prison planet wherein our energy is harvested by some sick sadistic sons of bitches.
>>540248010Child abuse dosent go away.
>>540247430>it'll be as if you never even existedthat's strange, because we already didn't exist at one point but here we are. we won't exist again at some point, which begs the question...
>>540247289what doth life
>>540247461Imagine the smell…
>>540247289It sounds to me like you're a retarded narcissistic jew monkey if I'm to be honest.Like do you expect everyone to just give up on life and die when you bless the world with your departure?
>>540248050Yeah zoomers don't seem to have that thirst for knowledge and lack whimsy. I work in a kitchen and these zoomers have a really hard time taking a joke which is weird too because they were born when memes were big and memes are pretty much just off color jokes packaged in a fun way so you'd think they would get with the program a lil. >>540248198Yeah I visited a buddy of mines grandpa in hospice because he didn't want to go alone and it was a very eye opening experience. I told him "don't you think he'd rather be at home listening to music or watching tv or something?" It was very miserable. Granted it was a very nice expensive place on the water but still even the beauty of the place seemed fake knowing most of the people there never go outside
>>540248259Im talking about death not about trauma
>>540247289The fuck you can do about it? Dig up their corpses and fuck them back to life?
I WILL SHOW YOU FEAR IN A HANDFUL OF DUST
>>540248198>unironically being born in 1999
>>540247289>everyone just moves on after someone dies>Zoomer only now finds about the reality of the world and their existencemaybe that's the whole point of living a meaningful life, you useless idiot? Leave behind a legacy and build something for your next generation. Don't waste your twenties being slow.
>>540247289OP you should know why you feel that way. Maybe as a kid or teen you could actually dwell on the horror of death, but as an adult you literally just feel like "Ok, whatever, I JUST want to get on with my day!" for anybody who dies and isn't directly deeply connected with you like a sibling or parent.You realize most people at a funeral aren't actually sad, they're there out of respect for the dead and their grieving loved ones, but their empathy is often forced and the dead will be "forgotten" by half the people there.You realize this inevitably when you yourself have someone in the family die. The first gut instinct is "Great, now I have to go to their funeral and stop what I'm doing to do this whole ritual thing".It's just like how at some age you stop caring what about doing everything to try and get people to view you a certain way. It's like a grim maturity where you just become too busy and life had gone on for just long enough that the patterns bore you. You no longer are affected by death or the existential horror of it all.>Oh you died? That sucks, anyway gotta get back to muh job or muh vidya!That's how it is, it sucks because you WANT others to act like the king is dead and to grieve and pray for you for a long time, to remember you and actually care you're no longer there.But in reality, only your siblings and children assuming you don't die before your parents really care.As someone else stated, the only way to be remembered forever is to write some famous shit and then influence a lot of people into doing some REALLY big shit so people remember you forever, like Alexander the Great, or Hitler.
I mean if you think about it, most friendships simulated or real involve one party being a leech and only giving you someone to talk to in return. You even give them a parting gift (your respects) when they die.Then you can do whatever you want.Caretaker fatigue comes into play too. Not even big world leaders that draw massive crowds are immune. After that parting gift, everyone is free.
>>540248520>It's just like how at some age you stop caring what about doing everything to try and get people to view you a certain way.Thats when you really get your free will
>>540247289Yeah, what gets me is how everyone's responses to a loved one dying are always >now *I* won't get the fun/wholesome/enjoyable times that I got from him/her anymore! This greatly affects *ME*! No empathy or honor for the deceased who weren't ready/didn't want to die. Just >I'm a poor victim of someone else's death and that's all I have the capacity to care about, is how everything pertains to ME!
>>540247289Wait until you see how easily normies and families shrug when their ZOGbot family members get shredded overseas. >”I guess that’s just life!” lol
>>540248259My ex wife was an extreme child abuse survivor. Like actual child abuse. Not "SHE WAS 17 AND 999 DAYS AND SOME 18 YEAR OLD PEDOPHILE SMILED AT HER IN THE SHOPPING MALL" bullshit. And she was 18 when we met and she had already learned to draw upon it to inspire herself for the better by the time we met. So go fuck yourself you've never experienced genuine hardship in your life, zoomgroid.
>>540248587It's also a defeating paradox because you also lose the desire to actually DO anything.
>>540247289I think the same when people breakups
>>540248359Most people don’t seem to realize nowadays that bullying, hurling insults at eachother and other such minor altercations are actually just the working class’s way of telling you they want you to fit in with them better, to make them more comfortable with getting to know who you are. Just let the shit roll off your back, you have to be able to laugh at yourself now and then.
>>540247289We only have room for 150 relationships. After someone dies, the brain brushes them away to make room for new relationships. The dead become just a character in history.
>>540248642Yeah, this is actually very depressingly true, and the children are the ones who suffer, being taken away from half of their family for reasons they can’t comprehend, never to regain the kinship felt.
>>540248520We didn’t need your diatribe to understand we live in a society that could care less about the deaths of men. Our anti-male society mourns the value of lost women and how wonderful they were all the time. This complete lack of any care for the deceased is reserved almost exclusively for men. Guys routinely die within 6 months or a year of their wife dying, because they become depressed as fuck and stop caring about going on Women will live for another 30 years telling the grandkids about how she didn’t start really enjoying life until her husband was gone. It couldn’t be any more night and day different.
>>540248629Calm down tranny you (and your ex) lost
>>540248713Yeah the younger generation really never got that. Theres front of house girls who were born in like 2005 and they can't handle kitchen talk.
>>540248629> My ex wife was an extreme child abuse survivor. Like actual child abuse.Clearly it never went away because she lost the ability to pair bond and divorced your ass.
>>540247289Time dulls pain? Have you never experienced death? You must be 18 to post here.
>>540247289You sound depressedThings change. Old stuff goes away. People leave us. It is important not to dwell on what is gone and lost because it can never come back no matter how much energy you spend on it
>>540248987In my experience, the pain remains, one just learns how to live with it as their new baseline. YMMV.
>>540247289My grandparents are in their late 80s. I remember when my grandfather finally sold his house and they moved in to a retirement community. He was reflecting on all the years there. My mom grew up there, her younger siblings, largely i did, and my younger cousins too. That house and all the joy in it shaped my very image of what the good life was. To be sitting there at the head of the table and have your family all their, wife and kids and grandkids. Happy and fully bellies. A whole community of neighbors coming and going, eating and bringing food and drink, drinking and being merry. I remember the old home videos I've seen from all the way back in the 70s of the bbqs they used to do in the park and how the tennis coirt would be converted into a skate rink in the winter. Despite all those memories, no, i think because of all those memories he said that there's nothing left for him there anymore. He said that he's the last man standing. That he "won" and gave the a little laugh more seeped in sadness than I've ever heard and remarked on it being a hollow victory. All their old friends are dead you see. All those neighbors that come by on the holidays, all the community that was there, it just didn't exist anymore. I'm grown, my cousins are, my parents of course. Not even the family can get together like we once did. We have our own families and friends and communities that we have to put time into. Now it's just a house. A house filled with memories that have turned into ghosts.People move on because you can't live among the dead nor in a memory. You don't really move on though because you don't forget either. We're all haunted. We'll all join the ghosts one day too.
>>540247834>Go outside more, find a job and purpose. The reason you are hug up on this is because you are a directionless NEET with the same mentality of an 8 year old. Part of mentally growing up is dealing with loss
>>540248633Yeah when I moved out of my parents I was a lazy shit not gonna lie I mean I work 50hrs a week but on my off time I noticed I was very stagnant. When I was at my parents I was into a bunch of hobbies had girlfriends all the time went out but for some reason when I had my own space I lost motivation. Im back to normal now but I feel like those 2 years alone kind of held me back I got too comfortable or something
>>540248936> Theres front of house girls who were born in like 2005 and they can't handle kitchen talk.Those types of chicks are so fucking weird. There’s this chick that’s 21 where I work. The only time she seems to light up and say anything at all, is bitching about globohomo jew approved IdPol shit. Nothing else excites her mind at all, not the science involved in our work, nothing. If it isn’t bitching about how the world is giving everything to gays and trannies hard enough, there’s no lights on upstairs. She’s a completely worthless mind broken jew golem. It’s painful to witness actually
Nobody moves on, retard. They just learn not to let it bother them consistently. You are a stunted Reddit mod.
>>540247718>I've got a huge dildo collection that somebody is going to findwtflmaorolflkekaroolalkdfjlaksdjhasdhfhahshahdfhahdsfhasdhfahsdfhashdfhashdfashdfhashdfhasdhfashfdhasdf
>>540247289What are they supposed to do? Ball up and cry in the bathroom every night? Life goes on and nobody has time for gay faggot shit like grieving and mourning when there's a future to build.
Death is a constant. Everyone dies. Civilization would crumble if people let it stop them from functioning.
>>540249168Theres this 19 year old black girl whos a server and the other night she was running salads or something and started asking us about Jews she was like "im scared of Jews do they really control everything etc" because thats apparently all that's on TikTok now
>>540247289I stopped waging because of this. I will skate by and neet and enjoy life and wander around the world. >Oh he doesn't have a job omg how irresponsible! *dies*>omg he hasn't worked in like 10 years can you believe-*dies*>omg he went on vacation for 3 weeks like who has the money to do ta-*dies*Fuck em anon, don't worry about it.
Dude what the fuck are you supposed to do? They're dead and gone and nothing can change that, so why linger on it forever?
>>540248878>This society mourns womenNo it doesn't, you're falling for stupid bitches on their phones. Women on the internet just enhances the socially manipulative bullshit they exhibit in real life.Stop reading the comment sections of some women killed by Tyrone to draw your conclusions on how society deals with death.
>>540249089my 6yo asked me the other day "Are people 'things'?"Sometimes the things that she says man it's just a trip.
>>540248072Both of those things are sold off and demolished as times change.
>>540249079Yes, that's what "dulls" means.
>>540249079This is the case. If you love someone it never goes away. Pain is a very real aspect of love, real love. If it isn’t painful still decades later, you never loved them. That doesn’t mean dwelling in negativity. When I’m at the gym getting a sweet pump on, I can hear my dad screaming at me to push myself in my head. When I’m out stomping down some brush in the mountains, the wind will pick up and I’ll remember how he told me to listen for his voice on the wind and I’d hear it. I still do. But I don’t live in sadness and negativity, he would have made fun of me for being weak if I did that lol. Miss ya ol pops
>>540247289>why don't people spend their entire lives thinking about dead peopleabo shut up and go back to huffing gasoline
>>540247289The average person will be visited at least once by two generation, that’s to say you might visit your parents graves and your grandparents but not your great grandparents and so onAnd that’s average, some people will never be visited IE forgotten sooner, some will only be remembered by one generation, their kids or siblings but on average two generations and you’re forgotten forever
>>540249301That’s actually based. I’m glad to hear she thinks that way because it’s correct.
Something of you passes on, could be genetics, a lesson, a trait or any of a million things. I do this arm flick thing I do when pushing up my glasses that I'm told a great uncle who died when I was 2 did.
>>540249364(you)
>>540249361>no it’s only online goyim nookIt most certainly is not and the world was this way before women got their phones
>>540249364I remember being 6 years old in first grade thinking about existence and consciousness.I kept having a very specific thought about “I am conscious and aware of what I am doing today but I don’t think I was like this a year ago” even though I had the same thoughts said year ago. Then a few weeks later I would have the same thought and be like “I am REALLY aware now unlike a few weeks ago”.
>>540249364How do you even answer that. Yes, we are things, living things, which makes us different from inanimate objects, things that have never been alive(glass), or that no longer are(wood). Then shit yourself when the kid actually seems to get it, or otherwise hold back your disappointment, who could blame a 6yr old child for responding to your explanation with some inane remark or request.
I dont think you guys get what im saying here.Its just odd how at my parents wedding in the 1980s out of like 300 people, over half of them are no longer here, with a fair chunk of them having died within like 10 years of them being in that wedding footage, which is still decades ago.Its also odd how everything they ever had and did is completely gone, and gone a very long time ago, but a long time ago.. but i was born like 2 years after that wedding, so its a lot of people who I remember as a young kid that were there, that are all gone.I remember being at family gatherings with these people and they dont exist anymore.
https://youtu.be/BnPwcjp_Ass
>>540249429Alright I’ll give you that, I guess I was looking at it from the time heals all wounds perspective when that is in fact not what you said
>>540249640People die when they killed
>>540249628Women projecting on dead women isn't a sign of societal bias it's their typical manipulative bullshit.
>>540247289What would you like people to do?
>>540247289you think too much of humans. we're just any other animal.
>>540247577Graveyards are insane when you really look through them and explore. Basically buried time capsules that would be insanely interesting to crack open and look at the jewelry they were buried with. You just know some of them were buried with wedding rings and beloved personal trinkets.
>>540249718Build a statue for every single person who has ever died
>>540249640> I dont think you guys get what im saying here.Are you attempting to induce some existential dread here bro? This isn’t plebbit. Most of us have been drinking from the fountain of existential dread our entire lives and we revel in it.
>>540249640we get what you are saying, you are just a young moron who cant deal with the idea of death and people moving on,guess what, one day you will die and people wont remeber you either
>>540247577>we've all just moved on for the following 21 years like that guy never existed.Obviously not if there's a tombstone
>>540249640Their memory lives on with you and everyone they knew, just keep speaking of them, remembering the good and even bad times alike, and share their stories wherever you can.
>>540249760Go for it.
>>540247289https://youtu.be/7J_CN0lWO6w?
>>540248629Who says he didn't go through something similar? You can still try and fail.
>>540249707> Women projecting on dead women isn't a sign of societal bias it's their typical manipulative bullshit.When society goes along with everything they have to say and want and does so for years, while it’s just “lol *shrug*” for guys, that’s exactly what it is bro. In this globohomo society male lives hold no value at all. The evidence is everywhere, it’s an extremely gynocentric society. It might hurt your feelers, but it do be dat way
People who matter to us live on in our thoughts until it is our time to go.
>>540249815they might as well be characters in a movie or video game if i was to ever explain them to someone who didnt meet them or knew they existed
What if your parent dies. You can't forget that so easy and move on
>>540249790Honestly I got “younger individual genuinely probing in effort to gain understanding” vibes moreso than doomer glowie shit, but indeed, question everything.
>>540247289Immorality is achieved by race preservation. That's why you're naturally disgusted when you see a white woman with a nigger, she's betraying thousands of white men who fought and died assuming their descendants would never mix with a Neolithic homo erectus
my boomer mom is constantly updating me on the deaths of people I've never interacted with, "Oh my sisters coworkers nephew from a different marriage, he died today" what the fuck am I meant to do with that information?
>>540249738Exhuming corpses is horrifying and gross. They need to be like super super old for it not to be.
>>540247289It looks like we'll have biological immortality pretty soon. I wonder how that will change society.
>>540249995Use the old Native American trick. Set a period of mourning up for yourself officially. >Ill mourn dad and cry and drink some beers on my own for two months >after that, my mourning is over. No crying on behalf of dad >I’ll miss his ass, but I gotta live my life Your parents would want you to be this way. They wouldn’t want you moping around in sadness and depression like a weirdo forever. Life is change, it always has been. That change gives us death, but it’s what enables life in the first place. So just enjoy the ride as much as possible, it’s all anyone has ever done.
>>540250072Just listen. Be greatful. My mother has adopted a new past time of taking nasty shots at me at family dinners so try to bait me into fights. Last time I lived there for a month after grad school she’d follow me around the house screaming if I tried walking away, saying “this is MY house I’ll walk wherever I want!” Then continue whatever she was screaming about.I’d kill to have a mom whose sin is that she talks about dumb social shit I don’t care about.
>>540250027>Immorality is achieved by race preservation.cope is achieved by cope
>>540250199Of course a German would be giddy at such a concept. Have fun.
>>540250211grass isn't always greener, boomers are nuts
>>540247289Now think in terms of ancient history, the thousands of generations' worth of people who've lived full long rich lives and died, their bones now dust. Somebody had pic related made (or made it themselves) for casting. We'll never know who, how long he owned it, how many hundreds or thousands of pieces he made with it, how it ended up wherever it was dug out of the ground in modernity.
>>540250072They all do that man my mom does the same thing. Old people always do, it’s what is important in their lives and minds still. Put in a bit of effort into saying “damn that suck that must be hard” and then tuning it out. Someday you’ll appreciate that someone else at least mildly pretends to care when your best friend croaks and you tell them about it to get it off your chest.
>>540250295It's working out pretty good for the jews you pay taxes to at gunpoint
>>540250211Dude, I’d tell that lady to cool her fucking act real fast if she’d like to ever meet any future grandchildren or not be impossibly alone in old age. I told my mom that shit decades ago and she got the message
>>540249738you sound like a reincarnated grave robber
>>540248298>begs the questionNo, it doesn't. You meant "raises the question" because begging the question is the name of a logical fallacy (a type of circular reasoning)
>>540249632>How do you even answer thatI just told her "Dad can't answer that right now. Where do you even come up with this stuff? Great question kiddo, keep em coming"ie she knows what she's doing.
>>540247289your parents remember exactly when they left and who they were.
>>540250453Are you arguing that Jews today are genetically the same as Jews from thousands of years ago, and thus they do have a legitimate claim to Israel? That's...oddly philosemitic of you.
>>540250598Don’t ever post here again. You will never be a woman.
>>540250663> That's...oddly philosemitic of you.Yep. It immediately stood out to me as well, I didn’t even bother responding to him. Obviously he’s an evil globohomo jew
>>540250598Approved
>>540250663No. But they know that, whatever they are, they will exist in the future, or at least fight to stay there.
>>540250515The horrible irony is that it’s her house where I see my nieces and nephews, so it’s the opposite situation. If I didn’t have a good relationship with them I would have stopped going at all years ago.
>>540250651What about my mum's friend Mary who died in car crash with her 3 kids in 1992Those 3 kids would all be almost 40 now.My mum showed me their family photo that was taken a few months before their deaths.Kinda weirdOnly the Husband/father survived the crash, he moved on and had another family
>>540250396I got one of these at goodwill and always wonder who the person that owned it was. And why the fuck they'd just donate it for nothing, this thing is awesome. Maybe they died and relatives didn't value it. It's not worth a ton of money but it's really weird.
>>540249947you should know by now that reality and fantasy are separate and when you explain your memories of your lost relatives to someone, they generally assume you're telling the truth and these events really happened and you actually experienced emotional and sentimental bonds through these storiesmaybe your problem is that you don't value life as much as you initially thought if describing the story of someone's life sounds like you're just summarizing last night's rerun of Breaking Bad
>>540250814Find a park or place to take them and hang out. Fuck dealing with people like that bro. She will only make your life miserable for decades. Ignore her until she figures reality out
>>540247289People might seem cold or cynical, but perhaps they don't want to burden others with their grief? It takes a particular kind of shithead to reframe every conversation around their dead loved one and the grief they are feeling.Once you hit a certain age, most people you encounter have lost quite a few people. Parents, friends, old and young, and emotional attachment becomes exhausting. "Moving on" isn't a one-and-done deal, what you are observing is probably more complex than what you are interpreting.
>>540247289Welcome to being a pleb. Nobody cares if you live. Nobody cares if you die. We are all NPCs.
>>540250626Just remember to circle back to those questions you have to put off due to the obligations of reality and to not blow off questions as “stupid/ridiculous” when they inevitably come. I remember asking my dad, at like 5 or 6 what he meant by “blow the speakers” if we turned up the music too loud in his Camaro, like, do they literally blow up, or just break apart? And he basically just told me that was a retarded question, didn’t even attempt to answer it, and wonders why his nice bigass Sony speakers wound up trashed after my poking/prodding and experimentation to find out what the fuck happens if you blow speakers out. I found out after having fucked around, but it was worth it.
>>540250917Lol I’m a 30something single childless man I can’t go hang with them the zoomers will call me a pedo and lynch me. I also hate my sister, their mother, for wholly unrelated reasons.
>>540250811> But they know that, whatever they are, they will exist in the future, or at least fight to stay there.That logic applies to every single people on the planet anon The Iraqis are still here and are genetic descendants of Sumerians to a degree. They still have their stories and history to a degree, it’s just changed. All you do is post weird philosemitic points
>>540250986To clarify, the Sony towers were in the house, and I was left alone or with my siblings quite a bit, plus my dad worked nights while stepmom worked days, leading to a childhood of raising ourselves. Well this got sad fast. Always does when I bring up the past. I’ve had a chick who was tossed around state run foster homes her whole childhood tell me that my past was way too fucked up for her to relate to, very eye opening stuff.
>>540250879>Maybe they died and relatives didn't value itMost likely, relatives usually want to clean out a place quickly after a death and that mindset leads to "get rid of it" attitude. Plus older people tend to hoard tons of shit so when they die there's piles of crap to go through when you're cleaning a place out, you get fatigued quickly trying to carefully pick through and choose what to save. Nice find, anon.
>>540247289i don't think it's necessarily because people are easy to forget about the dead ones, anon. we simply understand that no amount of grief would bring them back to life and there are a lot more immediate matters to think about after more time passes.
>>540247289>>oh she died in 1997>>that guy die in 1988>>oh that was my uncle John he died in 1995>>that was my friend Mary, she and her 3 kids died in a car crash in 1992But /pol/ told me no one ever died before the vax?
>>540250986My one of my boomer dad's favorite lines when I was a kid was "maybe I'll show you sometime"rarely ever showed me anything, especially not if it was how to do something or how something was done
>>540247289Death is as natural as life. Animals can't live without other life dying. The neuroticism surrounding death is an aberration of civilization
>>540251050Acknowledging that jews use racism to foster better collectivism doesn't mean I like everything they do or want them in power. You sound like a libtard. >That logic applies to every single people on the planet anonEveryone but whites.
>>540247289I just lost a good friend to OD. I'm one of the "lucky" 5% out of like 50 heroin addicts from my suburban PNW town to have made it out alive and doing relatively "ok" in life. I lost so many of my friends to it. but with the last guy it just really kinda hurt because he never actually did anything in life, just bullshitted around on the same block we grew up on. it's really getting hard to remember what life was like pre-9/11. I won't say it was a utopia by any means. But there were days you could go all day without some faggy, fake and gay, globohomo nonsense being forced into your face. just small things that add up.>sir you cant wear a backpack in this store>dude I'm a fucking homeowner. I make $350k/year>sir please leave the backpack up front and you will get a ticket to get it back when you leaveI mourn for the loss of the era more than the people. Hopefully in 100 years or so, the cycle will repeat and there will be "good times" again. what we have now is not sustainable.
>>540247289My family is like this, all of them have died of diseases and drugs and my parents have had amazing genetics, but they are essentially alone and going mad from the fact that everyone has died around them.
>>540247289I loved my Grandfather. He is dead now. I still love my Grandfather but theres nothing I can do. All I have is the hope to see him again in my next life.
people have died and I moved on, but when she cucked me it absolutely shattered my world and I never recovered.Dreaming about her gives me cold sweats and nausea, and we haven't spoken or seen one another in nearly 5 years. Ever since then I have no bitches and OOZE unattractiveness.I think I have PTSD now. Never marry.
>>540248072> Founding a company will keep your name on it until it shutters. Being the first to do something on record. You can only be remembered if you achieve something worth rememberingI dont think that's what he meant. And I want to be remembered by friends and family. I dont care about people I dont know reading my Name and despite the fact that I did something (like a founding, or a record at smt) dont know shit about me. There's just no connection if you know what I mean.
>>540247289Over 100 billion human beings have lived and died before you were born. You're not special. Nobody is. Enjoy being alive while you can.https://www.prb.org/news/how-many-people-have-ever-lived-on-earth/
People only really care for their directs (mom, dad, brother, sister, son, etc) beyond that unless you spent a lot of time together people don't care anywhere near as much.Also grief subsides after 12-24 months to the point where if it's not a direct you don't feel hardly anything for them anymore.Just the way it is.
>>540251424I had one serious relationshit. Pretty soon it will have been half my life ago. Nothing since except hanging out with girls I realized I didn't like.At this point I'm just glad I got to experience it once. Plenty of guys get nothing ever, their whole lives. I don't care about sex unless it's in a long term relationship.
>>540247289Are you a kid or acting like one?Yes everyone dies, but not everyone lives. If you would spend all your time mourning dead people you would not live.It’s pretty nice that those people are still remembered 30-40 years later.This does not mean that you have to live for hedonism. In some ways humans build things collectively. But then our leaders decided to import all the niggers and sandniggers to destroy the collective, but that’s a different story.
>>540249906And here we are talking about diatribes we don't need. Even if its only to talk, brother, like you did just now, its okay. We all feel some sort of variation of -that- way. We are told our lives are meaningless and the only thing that matters is to consume. You don't have to live that way. the onus is on us, as men, to find meaning and worth in our lives. Unlike women we can't rely on a society to tell us right from wrong, what is good and what is bad. We are able to discern that for ourselves and what really matters at the end of the day is if you can live with yourself. And even that only matters for as long as you live. When the world doesn't give a fuck about your life or death that is natural. Family cares. Friends care. But they have to keep going on living after you go the same way you have to keep on living when they go. I'm sure you are carrying with you important bits of your family with you close to your heart. We're all just gathering warm, shining experiences to carry us through the dark. And it is so dark. Ours is the duty to keep the fire of civilization, our shining memories, alive, burning, continuing to cast light and fight against the shadows that would swallow us all for eternity.You're carrying with you the hopes and dreams of a bloodline. Of a family. And surely there are some among us for whom family wasn't worth a damn, but that has not always been so. Be the one who husbands their strength, who guards their flame of hope and desire for Justice and Love that you might pass it on to someone else. That you might be the warm memory someone carries with them into their dark places.There are real monsters in the world. Ours is the duty to go into the dark places and root them out. Lest we in our spite cast everyone into the crushing dark that seeks to consume us all.
>>540249084That sucks anon. We never should have moved so far away from our families. We are weaker as a people and a community for it.
>>540247289baby boomers are hitting the actuarial tablesthey still enormously outnumber the rest of the US population
>>540247289..." and that is why no one will remember your name"
>>540249084Very nicely written
>>540251722I had 4.2/4 cucked me, one just petered out and we went our separate ways, one I broke up with for admitting to having a 3 some before we got together.Last one, the wife, was an undiagnosed narcissist who strung me along and used me for years whilst having affairs left and right, and gaslighting me into believing I was crazy for noticing.Turns out she was fucking a male model with his dick down to his knees. Don't ask me how I found out. I literally never recovered from the ego blow and just egressed from society into hermit mode.Women showing attraction towards me now triggers my fight or flight, and I constantly ruminate or dream about her lying to me and fucking other guys. I have no social media and self sabotage any inkling of a girl wanting to get to know me. Last thing some plap that tried to flirt with me said:>you really will be alone foreverand it still rings in my ears like a curse.Women fucking suck dude, I only wanted a normal life and maybe some kids, not constant nightmares and endless loops of traumatic memories playing on and on in my head.
>>540251913emus seem based
>>540249640>Its just odd how at my parents wedding in the 1980s out of like 300 people, over half of them are no longer here, with a fair chunk of them having died within like 10 years of them being in that wedding footagethe 80s are 40yrs ago now. thats 4 decades so its no surprise many adults might have died in all that time. >Its also odd how everything they ever had and did is completely goneis it? im sure many had children or spouses that remember them fondly. just goes to show life is short. you dont realize it as a kid but you as you get older. and as you get older the more people you know will have croaked and then you realize there is nothing you can do except enjoy every day you are still alive because you never know when your time is going to be up. worrying about it isnt going to change the future
>>540247289The best way to counter this is moving to Africa, marry half a dozen negress concubines and have a shitload of mutt babies. In 100 years, when you and everyone who knew you will be dead, they'll still be a shitload of quarter aryan niggers running around in Africa, they'll all crave for their Aryan genetics and say all the time "duuuude, never forgetti granps he wuz aryan so we wuz aryan and shiiieet too". You'll have a whole fucking village people of niggers honouring your genetic legacy. Forever.
>>540252331Being alone is not a curse when the alternative is misery. At least if you are miserable alone it is only you who suffer. And in fact, you come to realize that being alone isn't so bad. The desire to feel the completeness that comes from having someone you might raise a family with is always going to be with you. I know it is hard. You get so used to the pain that its comfortable. Without the pain who are you? Some sucker, waiting to be taken advantage of again? Maybe. Maybe. But you also might be the pillar that some beautiful human being leans on some day. And most wonderful, they'll be there to hold you up when you feel the need to lean.And if they're not. Well, move on. Don't let them own that real estate in your heart forever anon. Don't let them curse you like that. In the name of Christ Jesus, be free from those shackles of the past that chain you so. Be free to enjoy the life you desire so. Be strong enough to seek it, and strong enough to walk away if she wants to play games. Believe in a love that is possible and believe in your own discernment and wisdom earned through pain and error. Someone out there needs you the same way you need them. Don't ever give up on someone who also deserves love.
>>540252331yeah that sucks dude>you really will be alone forever>and it still rings in my ears like a curse.my version of that is me saying it to my ex. when I knew it was really over for sure one of the last things I said was "okay I guess I get to be alone for the rest of my life" which I knew you're not supposed to say it out loud but I value objectivity and realism above all else. no wishful thinking allowed. it still rings in my own ears though, as you said
>>540253062thanks bro but I sincerely don't think women are capable of 'love', they're all amoral opportunistic predators one degree of separation away from actual murderers.
Anon just discovered people don't live forever.
>>540247289I mean my nigga, i wholeheartedly understand that you deeply miss your loved ones and friends, too. Im black. Especially me, my mom and my grabdmother reminisce about the good times we had of family reunions we had back in the days when they were still alive and had good connections with each other, but times have changed. You cant let that be vacant in your mind forever. Every living thing, including you, and me and especially animals will inevitably die. When its your time, its your time.And thats how i cope everyday when i feel down and out.Tl;dr: Just enjoy life and spend time with the ones tou love while youre still here, my nigga
>>540247289Says you. I still mourn a buddy that passed in 2021.
>>540251913Tf?
>>540247577But you know he existed because you saw his headstone ...and now I know he existed because you told me. It doesn't even matter that I don't know his name or anything about him, it was him and uniquely his grave that you saw and because of that everyone reading this thread has thought, if only for seconds, of this real (mystery to us) person who had a name and a life and friends and family.What is really crazy is that when life ends for one person, life continues uninterrupted for the rest of the world. Nothing stops. The pizza place down on the corner will be open tomorrow and people will order pizzas for dinner while the dead person will never have another slice. Nothing that happens the next day will be known to that person who just died. Aaliyah never knew about 9/11 which happened 3 weeks after she died. Some music nerd never heard his favorite band's best record because it came out a year after he died... and so on.This shit cuts and can give you an existential crisis when you think about what it all means and that you will experience this same fate someday. That's life... and that's death. Everybody dies.
>>540251492The only correct post ITT. Couldnt have said it better myselfAll life on this planet will die.
>>540253162You might be right. There are plenty of myths, lgends, and real life experiences that point this way. But you've learned to spot trouble signs. And you were strong enough to walk away when you needed to even if maybe it was a day late and a dollar short a couple times. Even if, especially if that is the case, your wisdom and learning might help out a younger brother. True male role models in this shitshow thats left of society are few and far between. Most of them are giving advice directly tied to their wallets so how do you trust anything coming out of their whore mouth when it is obvious that money is more important to them than Truth. Despite what the kikeslave media would have you believe, we are the captains of this Ship we call society. We're either going to correct course or go down with it. If you feel like you have nothing to live for, sit down and really think. Think about what is important to you on a fundamental level. Think about who in your life you still have love for. Who you can help. Who you can't help, as wasting time is always a hard thing to wrap your head around after you've already sunken the cost into it. I suppose I'm saying spend your energy and stamina and will where it will do most good and to not lose sight of the bigger picture in search of any sort of figurative white whale to the detriment of what you know to be good and true. The most valuable thing isn't time, its what you choose to spend it on. Sometimes that requires a real sitting down and deciding what that is.Godspeed toward victory, brother. No doubt we won't all see it. Maybe none of us will. I think I'm getting closer to being able to live with that.
>>540253739BUT NOT EVERY MAN TRULY LIVES
My first gf dumped me August of 2014 and Dad died April of 2015. We dated since high school for 6 years, and while I'm glad I'm not with that BPD whore anymore your first relationship ending is a pretty big emotional hit. Then my dad succumbed to alcoholism at 51. I was 24 and it fucked me up for several years, I still miss him. I blame me being single for a decade after on that shit combination of events. I still feel like I have residual PTSD or something from that, my mom became an even more unhinged soviet born and raised woman. But after the grief and sadness subsided, I just think of all the fond memories growing up. He gave me a great childhood and was a good man, even if an alcoholic. He's a lot of why I think I've always wanted a family of my own.Idk if anyone agrees but having a parent you love die in your mid 20s seems somehow worse to experience on a cognitive level than if he died if I was like 7 or 77. As a kid you'd be sad sure, but you'd grow up knowing life without him, or as an old man I'd have seen him live his life into old age and die naturally and have him see his grandkids before dying, etc. He died a month before I graduated college and almost flunked out. I finally was stepping into real adulthood and he was gone. No more advice, or hanging out, or new experiences together like you did for nearly a quarter century before. I miss him so much bros, but life moves on.
>>540247289Go to rehab anonYou sound like a porn addictI didn't even need to read "dopamine" to know. Only porn addicts have this kind of existential crisisAka fake and gayWhen you're out of rehab you will be welcome back to reality by everyone already living in it
>>540247430Immortalize yourself
>>540250667I'll never be a woman because I'm an educated man, you dumb gorilla nigger
>>540247289Holy shit, existence is ephemeral and nothing matters? Shocking revelation. This is why love is the only thing that matters. If you aren't loved by someone else, then nothing matters. Currently loveless.
>>540249738>You just know some of them were buried with wedding rings and beloved personal trinketsReminds me of my mom putting silver coins in my dad's pockets in his casket at the funeral so he'd have fare to cross the River Styx. We're hohol-ziggers, mostly orthodox Christian (dad was jewish, inb4), but ancient greek culture seems to have a lot of influence on Slav culture, hell Cyrillic is based off greek. My mother and I are named after famous ancient greeks.
>>540247289>Kinda makes me question the whole point of really doing anything besides dopamine maxxing and enjoying what time I have.Exactly. A lot of us figured this out in childhood
>>540253946You sound like a faggotNot because you miss your dad but because you never stepped up to replace him when he died and still yearn for a masculine/fatherly figureI know literal teenage girls who replaced their fathers. Not financially but mentally, emotionally and physically shielding their family both younger and older. What a fucking joke
>>540254286You don't have any brothers or sisters? Mother or father? Cousins? Nieces? Nephews? Grandparents?The love of a woman or wife is grand, as is the love of children. And while they are a great and wonderful responsibility, sometimes things don't work out that way. At least you aren't bineg a dead beat dad or anything. Or a welfare queen mother.
>>540254501Most coomers started in childhoodNothing worth bragging about faggot
>>540249084My family and other relatives are the same way. Just had an uncle who passed away 3 years ago. My family members had beef with one another (they still to this day) but he kept the family together and helped one another. But at least two of the people in my family are atleast thoughful abd helpful to my mom.But ever since he died, everyone just doesnt want to talk each other anymore, but gossip and be petty as fuck. I know i will always remember a friend of my grandnother who died years ago and my mom, tooSorry to hear about your grandfather, btw. He sounded like a good man
>>540254508my father is an angry alcoholic obsessed with his work. I will never be half the man he is so why bother.
>>540254508And yet here you are being a gorilla nigger with zero empathy. I know animals with more empathy than you. Nowhere in his post does he say that he didn't step up and fill the void, just that it fucked him up and was in large part a factor as to why he remained single.Learn to fucking read and maybe not project some much of yourself into what you inference by absence.
>>540254705That sounds like evasion, brother. Face your task head on. Even if you won't become half the man you visualize your father to be, you may instead become the man you need to be, when you need to be him. Don't give up on yourself. If you don't give up on anyone, don't give up on you.
i grew up with many cemeteries right in my neighborhood. this one, most holy redeemer, is literally the backyard to many people. or front yard if you are on the opposite side
>>540254508Go bark somewhere else, nafri fag
>>540247289>someone died in 1980swhat are you, twelve? people usually move on in weeks, months if it's a spousei'll let you in on another secret, most people don't even cry or say anything at funerals, they just sigh and go back to work next day
>>540254508>>540254644Well damn, i can tell you've never been loved in your entire life and you have mommy and daddy issuesYou need take that shit to therapy, nigga
>>540247289>This world is really odd, everyone just moves on after someone dies, like they never even existed. Its even rare that some of the best people in the planet that achieved great things even get remembered, most of them are forgotten about too.You have to be trolling.
>>540254880I got the angry alcoholic part down to a T. Sadly I didn't inherit his workaholic handyman genes. Nigger can fix anything from a cargo ship (literally) to doing fucking tiles when he isn't at work.He literally built our house during his off time.
>>540254176It is very common to have this kind of existential crisis at some point in life, otherwise the term "existential crisis" wouldn't exist. This is a textbook example of one.
>>540253062May I give you my Bitcoin account to deposit to?
>>540247289how does being remembered help you in any way shape or form you retarded monkeybrains, you still die. atheists are such brainlets everytime; next ur gonna tell me life is le meaningless because youre small oppossed to as large as the solar system. kek absolute teenage angst tier midwittery you need to go back
Some people can't. Richard Nixon didn't outlast his wife a year and everyone around him expected him to go soon.
>>540254508This might have sounded harsh and might have gotten a poor reception, but there is some truth to this. And you don't have to literally become your father and carry on all his traits, but you do have to step up. I'm literally doing this for my mom now who 4 years after dad died still can not handle life without him there to guide her. Now I have to support her like he did. And yes she's an emotional mess, but she's my mom so of course I'm going to be there for her.
>>540247289Boomers dying isn't that sad OP.
I would like to think that when you die you start your life over. Or at least you go back 20 or 30 years.
Just so you know, everyone can pretty much choose when they die. We all reach that point where we decide we're done and it's time to go.
>>540247430In 10,000 years, Hitler will be forgotten, Genghis Khan will be forgotten, Michael Jackson, The Beatles, The Iliad, all of the great poetries, every building will be destroyed to dust, the only thing that might survive is the pyramids, but even that would be degraded.>>540248298God bless you.
>>540247289What is everyone supposed to do? Sit around and mope or pray at an altar for you for 60 years? People have to get on with their lives. The closest you can ever come to immortality is having your genetics live on down through the ages, but then again they were never really "yours" to begin with. You were a custodian, a torch bearer for those who came before you. If you fail to pass the torch properly you get erased completely from existence.
>>540254705Well, you don't want to be the angry alcoholic part of him and no one misses that part of him and is wanting his son to repeat that behavior anyway.You also don't have to be a pro repairman, you just have to know how to problem solve, which might mean facilitating getting someone to do the repairs at a good rate. You aren't replacing him because he's not replaceable, but you're just stepping up to take on the challenges he took on for others, in your own way. It doesn't matter how you get things done, as long as you're taking a leadership role.
>>540249084I feel this too and im not even the grandfather... im just the kid who was around witnessing all the family and extended family and friends together back in those days, and yeah no one seems to have time anymoreWhen I was a kid it was normal to have large gatherings, now it rarely happens unless its a wedding or funeral or something like that.
>>540253946TLDR. This isn't your blog site queer.Waaaah my GF left meWaaaaah my daddy died.Get over it faggot, no one cares.
>>540255717People want to feel like they matter. Eventually they figure out that they don't. And if they did matter and if they are championed and remembered and have shit named after them, 100 years from now that will all be forgotten and obsolete and replaced and renamed and torn down and paved over. So even those people who did make an impact will eventually be forgotten. Even something like an Amber alert named in memory of a murdered girl will eventually be called something else. Hell most people don't even know why it's called an Amber alert anyway.
>>540247289best not to dwell
>>540247289yeah, that's life, it catches up quick, you have no choice but to move beyond it, you can't raise them up from the dead, you can't clone them, it's lights out for all eventually, just enjoy what you can, try not to get too caught up in the mud, then welcome the end as it comes because again- you've got no other choice on the matter.
>>540252546They are. They have the intelligence of a chicken, but kinda look and act like dinosaurs. Most dinos were probably as intelligent as a chicken so it fits.
>>540247289I remember my parents had a really large couch, and I was behind them while they were sitting there. I pondered how short their life would be, and how one day they would be completely gone and everything I had known there that day would come to an end when they were dead. Fast forward 30 years later, it's like I had that thought yesterday. They are gone. One day 4chan will be a memory, and you'll remember my post.
>>540250598Shut up bitch
>>540248072I don't care about legacy. Absolutely everything on this world is meant to fade away. Ive built a lot of things and 95% of it is already gone and I'm ok with that. My mom asked me to design her and my dad's headstone and I like that they are resting under my artwork. It came out classy and nice. I don't even want to be buried. Dump my ashes under a nice tree.Eternity isn't here. It's after the demolition. So I treat my present moments with care.
The graveyard that some of the most famous people like Marilyn Monroe and Hugh Hefner are buried in is a sad couple of acres in between some parking garages. Nothing visually impressive. No view, water or even nice landscaping. They aren't even buried with family. Just other celebrities.
>>540247289Not everyone or every time. I lost some of the people I care about the most and some I was really close to including my dog that had been through every step of an important stretch of my life and I'm always thinking of all of them. I have A plant from the 90s my great grandma grew and think of her and my grandpa every day because of it. A houseplant from my Aunt. An outside plant from my grandma. I've tried to dig into extended family history and know past generations somewhat but its hard when no one else seems interested in the obscure work of a family tree or the future generations and how they might be incentivized to appreciate it and keep it going. Keeping the past afloat is easy enough for minor instances and a few generations. True archival of generations and countless physical objects is a whole other thing. I try to lean on photos instead of objects out of practicality. Limiting to only the most important.Life it's very odd as you said. I completely agree. I've been fixated with questions of existence, the limitations of our perception as humans. How random it all seems to be while having other layers that lean towards the opposite. It feels like escapism but being in motion is the best way I know to deal with that reality. Live your life because its a gift regardless. Go out and touch grass. Leave the world a better place. Live life in the way you feel is ideal despite how much crap has become the norm. And remember the ones you've cared about and lost out of respect, appreciation and the character you keep alive that lives on inside you. It helps their memory and makes you a better person.
>>540247289You're telling me? I'm a coroner. Everyone's fate is to be reduced to a rotted corpse. It's really put me in touch with the cycle of life:>be born, body is new, get to be a carefree child not having to work>become adult, life starts to suck, have to work>become old, get to retire (way later than we should), but now your body is broken and decaying, all your systems are shutting down>dieOnce that spark of life is gone, nothing maintains itself anymore. There's no circulation, nothing is replenishing. You just rot, your fluids settle and start to leak, your skin sheds off, bugs eat you bit by bit until nothing is left. And that's all you ever were, a bunch of atoms somehow arranged and kept maintained by that spark we call life. Once it's gone you're no longer animated and it all just returns to the earth. It's crazy.
>>540247289Best thing to do with death is ride on from it.
>>540254520I have a brother, but it's not enough.
>>540247289Ah yes, babies first case of existential dread
>>540254286love isn't real. grow the fuck up.
>>540258368Love is real and observable both in the indirect action sense and neurologically
>>540247289i had this same revelation anon whenn 3 of my friends diedone of them some girl i knew from hs who died from accidental drugs and it was insane when I found out cause she had almost zero presence anywhere, nothing online, just a facebook no mention anywhere, no youtube vids, it was like she didn't exist at all, and once she was dead no one remembered her but me, same with another friend who offed themself, no one remembered them or talks about them, i'm like their living memory and that falls on my shoulders it's a fucked up situation in life
>>540249906And at the end of the day, these same dumb women realize how fucked they are when the men who protect them are gone. It is as if people have no concept of the fact that the laws are determinant on the dominant culture and demographic, if Islam takes over, well all their laws they tout so much as a good will immediately be considered heresy. These idiots only realize the consequences when they are in their death throes.
A lot of this has already been said, but, also, I feel like people are missing the point that the economy is so fucked up. The last 4 people in my life that have died have had no funeral. They just get fired up in a kilm and turned to ash and shipped in an indigent box. The average person can no longer afford luxuries like paying respects and mourning. The modern economy is so fast that it demands the spice flows at all and any cost
>>540251913>>540252546>>540256967
>>540248878>Women will live for another 30 years telling the grandkids about how she didn’t start really enjoying life until her husband was gone.This shit is so fucking sick and depraved and it actually hurt my relationship with my grandmother who, outside my mom (who died young) was someone I was incredibly close to.My grandfather was a great man; Based as Fuck, military officer, statesman, a patriarch in the community, wise and mostly self-educated. When he died in his late 70s before the cancer took him he could run, work and fight circles around most 40 year-olds. There was almost nothing this guy couldn't do. I never heard or saw anyone say anything bad about him.A few years after he dies everyone just starts talking shit about him. My grandmother completely remodeled their house and it was like she was trying to remove every single trace of him as much as possible. Keep in mind, this is the same guy who raised all her kids, paid for her way of life, set up trustfunds for all the grandkids and everything. This dude was everything a woman could've ever wanted in a man.She literally hated him the whole time and just couldn't wait to be rid of him and our now Pro-Hypergamous Society allowed her to do that. Her chroninc disrespect of him and his legacy and everything he did for me, my parents and our whole community and state permanetly damaged our relationship.The creature known as the Modern Woman is to be despised at all costs.
>>540247289people have been discussing this since ancient Greece and earlier. It's liberating because it forces you to realize how silly your anxieties over what anyone thinks of you are. Everything other than God or whatever you believe deeply in is vanity.
>>540247289>Isn't it kinda odd and a lil scary how quickly people move on when people die?For the living know that they will die;But the dead know nothing,And they have no more reward,For the memory of them is forgotten.Also their love, their hatred, and their envy have now perished;Nevermore will they have a shareIn anything done under the sun.-Ecclesiastes Chapter 9 Verses 5-6>Kinda makes me question the whole point of really doing anything besides dopamine maxxing and enjoying what time I have.Nothing is better for a man than that he should eat and drink, and that his soul should enjoy good in his labor. This also, I saw, was from the hand of God. For who can eat, or who can have enjoyment, more than I? For God gives wisdom and knowledge and joy to a man who is good in His sight; but to the sinner He gives the work of gathering and collecting, that he may give to him who is good before God. This also is vanity and grasping for the wind.-Ecclesiastes Chapter 2 Verses 24-26So I commended enjoyment, because a man has nothing better under the sun than to eat, drink, and be merry; for this will remain with him in his labor all the days of his life which God gives him under the sun.-Ecclesiastes Chapter 8 Verse 15>>540248050>I’ve kind of resolved that the main goal of life is just Learning/ experience.Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might; for there is no work or device or knowledge or wisdom in the grave where you are going.-Ecclesiastes Chapter 9 Verse 10
>>540247289>life and death Oldfag here, one of my best friends P died a few weeks ago. Him and my other good friend J all grew up on the same suburban block 3 houses away from each other…always had each other’s backs from the age of riding big wheels to working on each other’s hoopdie rides as teens and he was one of a handful of people who I would trust with my life, money, or woman.Me and J stopped off at a bar after we both got out of work to raise a toast to our lost friend, and got to talking about how many of our other friends from the neighborhood are now dead….We stopped counting when we got to 20 and said that we would be knee walking drunk if we tried to toast them all. Some gone in their teens and 20s and others like P barely made it to 50….The older you get, the more loss you’ll accumulate, if you’re a likable person at all.Eventually we all reach the point where life stops offering you so many things and instead starts taking them away, but you must continue to look for life’s small gifts or the sense of accumulated loss will make you neck yourself like a troon who’s seen the mirror…
>>540247289you have to be 18 to post here kid.death is inevitable, as you grow older you learn how to deal with it.
>>540247289go outside and have a protest
>>540247461you need to be a chad to get even 4/10 hole nowadayswomen don't want losers with higher than average iqt. 29 year old virgin
>>540247289maybe i'd give a shit if my body was in pristine condition.now with most of my family gone, there's nothing you faggots can threaten me with.
Hold on if you want or don't. It's all about style.
Death was defeated by Jesus Christ on the cross 2000 years ago. Stop being a retard, repent, and have eternal life.
>>540256066>michael jackson forgottenlol
>>540247289Until very, very recently in human history, death was common for those under 10. You'd have 7-10 kids and 2-3 would live to 10. The humans that were so overwhelmed with grief that it affected their daily life didn't survive. they either committed suicide, or stopped having kids. The ones that could cope with grief tanked it and powered through. Personality traits are somewhat genetically heritable, so over the course of thousands of generations, humanity selected for "able to cope with grief."
>>540260150He was brutally mocked in his time and how is reputation is torn between the lies that were told about him and some minor attempts to rehabilitate his legacy.At best, he's "remembered" for walking backwards and singing Billy Jean. He's an idol simulacrum whose actual interiority/struggles/inner life is about as ignored as yours will be when you die. And that's just 40 years after his heyday.You're focused on glitz and not how memory actually works. The secular immorality plan of fame is doomed, sorry.
>>540260808*immortality
I worked in a hospice and people died all the time there (it's a place people go to die) and even the ones you liked to speak to, you forget about them in short order.
>>540247289>Just grieve forever No, fuck you, loser.
>>540259619Reminds me of this image
>>540258428only men are capable of anything resembling love
>>540247289>easy coom, easy goone day you're here the next day you're gone, simple as eh
>>540261304Oh so you support homosexuality amongst men specifically?
>>540251395You will. We will, brother. Keep that love alive =)
>>540259408>Modern Womanthey were always like that. all of them. The Bible is full of redpills.
>>540247289Earth to earth, ashes to ashes, dust to dustI've always had a faith in God for as long as I can remember, how others cope with death I could not imagine. We will meet again that's my comfort.If you can't find God then I assume not thinking about it, drowning your sorrows in work or alcohol. Is there anything more depressing than an Atheist funeral?
>>540255484What are you, an indian? I don't have any fucking money, let alone bitcoins.
>>540261379There are multiple kinds of love, you fucking faggotEros =/= Platonic
>>540251464My dad, and then my best friend died within a year of each other in 2021. I think about them often. But sometimes it feels like nobody else remembers or thinks about them. That makes me sad.
>>540261379no. i support enslaving women.
>>540258638I can confirm that the last several I’ve gone to were memorial services held after the person was cremated, including my own grandmother(I’m told it’s what she wanted, I choose to believe that). The last funeral I went to with an open casket was in 2011, rural MO for a very old uncle of mine, who lived simple and poor but saved enough for the funeral and plot. It was like a massive family reunion, and actually felt like a celebration of his life, other than the graveside service itself which had more somber tones. 5 memorials since then, 2013, 2019, 2023, 2024, 2025
>>540252331>>you really will be alone foreverex told me similar. I'm less alone when I'm by myself that I was with her.
>>540248072Without google name a single bowling trophy holder, company founder that isn't a giant company, and a single famous first achiever besides The Write Brother s or Neil Armstrong. ie Pick something that isn't super famous, as you suggested.
>>540261652Oh, okay, carry on then. Make sure they eat ALL OF THE EGGS
>>540247430Zoomies, if you don't want to be forgotten, you need to Hitlermaxx
>>540247289No, you're just realizing how irrelevant you are in the greater scheme of things when previously, you've always considered yourself the protagonist of the story.
Have you never lost anybody? You have to move on. It's the only way to function.
>>540261840I mean, they could Hitlerzie you and basically just lie about you the entire time and mock you for daring to question the Semite-supremacy that surrounds the world.
My grandfather was my 2nd dad as my real one died when I was 5. I then quickly became the family scapegoat and a leper(for not getting the vax) and couldnt even wait for my grandmother who was deteriorating fast due to broken heart syndrome. Gossip, lies, insanely fast as well. A single message from me got spread to other members in literal seconds, always removing any context and painting me a monster whos unhinged. It almost killed me. Perverse resentment I didnt know could exist, my biggest crime was loving them more than anything in the world, and them loving me just as much. That was my crime.All I got out of it was losing my family, yet a deep dive in their dysfunction(no lying, I can see how it rubbed into me, giving me bad traits) and scary personality disorders that arent quirks like I used to think.Im like my dad. He hated his sister, as I hate mine. Literal bpdemon. My aunts, uncles, sadly some cousins, are way more fucked up than I thought. Took 9 years to see a light in the tunnel, sober for almost one after 8 of alcoholism and isolation.My family on both sides have serious generational trauma. Im the only one I know so far who figured it out and how to break it. An older cousin or two I think know inside but not to my extent.Be glad if a death is just a passing death sometimes. This has been hell.Gods a little funny, uncle who was the worst vaxmaxxed to a literal meme degree(like 4 fucking at the start) and heart is completely fucked by age 60. Never had a gf, pushed anyone who can stand him away barring family.My dad and grandparents left a mark, my cousins loved them. He has almost nothing.
>>540261708Company founder- in 1978, Anna and Oscar Nardo founded Hanna Instruments in their garage First achiever- Jack Kilby, Integrated circuit for Texas Instruments Bowling- can’t help you there
>>540261446Untrue. When society was structured to punish hypergamy and the grooming was so advanced even other women would do it we had some real gems out there.
>>540247289>This world is really odd, everyone just moves on after someone dies, like they never even existedNot the entire world. Every person I have ever known still lives in my memories. Life gets harder and harder every year. I think most people are NPCs. For me, I sucks to have to feel.
>>540260126Amen, brother.We will reunite sooner than later, and frolic in joy next to Jesus Christ, for He Is Risen. May faith guide our lives in honor and peace.
>>540247430Wrong. Palantir will remember you forever and will sell your social media and innermost thoughts as training data. You will never be forgotten no matter how much you beg for it.
>>540247872>But then it'll be found and used by someone who actually caresThis. I rescued a console television from the dump recently and play N64 games on it now. Someone worked at the Zenith factory back in the day to build that thing and a piece of their effort would have been destroyed forever if I hadn't grabbed it. I also wonder about the people who owned it back in the day and where they are now and if I'm even the first person to play N64 on it.The things we build will outlive us and the stories behind them will keep growing even after we are gone. Those autists who collect furniture from the 1700's may be onto something after all.
Sounds like babby's first existensial crisis. Although I won't triviliaze. Realizing you are in fact mortal (happens around teens to early 20s) is extremely terrifying.
>>540247289how many times have you thought about david bowie this year, he was one of the most popular and influential musicians in the last century, despite being a pedo like the rest of them
>>540264456Admittedly, I’ve thought of Ziggy Stardust at least once in the last month.>>540263452Damn, I miss my Zenith Space Command. I have a Magnavox now after having to leave it behind in a cross country move- I would’ve justified bringing it if it hadn’t shit the bed a week prior, needed a new flyback transformer
>>540263452good find, i save them when i can as well, I have a few meme ones but my fave is a shitty Emerson VCR combo i got for $8 at the Goodwill outlet - which are basically Goodwills for Goodwill stores and where all the shit they cant sell ends up.
>>540265074The replacement
>>540263336Damn, that may just give some people some feeling of meaning in their lives.
>>540247430Even hitler wont be as famous in the future, look at napoleon.
>>540265291I will name my firstborn son Adolf Hitler in the future.
>>540262165>strom He was an old time southern gentleman who had a wife of his same class while banging out a series of black mistresses for 50 years
>>540263336Based Palantir. Nice to know someone cares.
>>540247289>How quickly people move on when people die?You must understand that most people care only about themselves. This is particulary true among boomers.
>>540264456>how many times have you thought about david bowieSee>>540267077The “sing songs of us after we are dead” thing goes double for those who sang the songs people listen to or sing daily
>>540262165>When society was structured to punish hypergamySociety was structured because WOMEN WERE ALWAYS LIKE THAT AND WILL REMAIN LIKE THAT FOREVER. IT IS THEIR NATURE.
>>540248072what an actual stupid fucking metric."oh there was a guy named john fitzpatrick that bowled"how does this have any bearing on anyone's life?you really just want to be vain
>>540247289Yes. Some of us have a predisposition to have an acute awareness of the cosmic penitentiary we are in. I never let go of the fact from elementary school that you could bite the dust even as a young child in some freak unexpected accident.
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>>540247947The point was that none of this matters, including you being a jaded and contrarian little shit.
>>540247289Yeah but when you think about it the species would have died off if we didn’t evolve to take death on the chin
>>540268796One of my classmates got run over by a car after elementary school, his head turned to mush in front of everyone, including his parents and little brother. Shit was fucked
i come from a long line of sex having fuckers and I intend on continuing that family tradition if only to honor my ancestors
>>540248629Women don't have real problems.
>>540249221>the one with hope for the future is brown
CC: LambrightTime for a drinking stream Kaos Commander
>>540269269Oh they certainly do.
>>540249640>I remember being at family gatherings with these dead people.Family gathering happened because of the radio/television brainwashing.More importantly..Your internet brainwash right now is telling you to jerk off as much as possible so the jews can gain full AI control without you caring to do anything about it, starting to understand the bigger picture now?
>>540247289I feel exceptional sorrow for the dead, and maybe the speed at which people move on and the world keeps turning is why. I also dont believe in god.
>>540270543You don't feel anything except euphoria when you're biting into the juicy Big Mac at McDonald's.Meanwhile your every burger/chicken nuggets order SPEEDS UP the animal killing facility's machine speed to meet the new projected demand number for animal meat.You don't care about actual living beings, you only care about what makes you feel, the world is full of egoistic human young fucks like You. We simply don't need more.
