Let's think about this rationally and systemically.>women are sluts>"Waaah, where are all the good men?">men are sloths>"Waaah, where are all the good women?"The solution seems simple: if there were more good men, there would be less sluts; and if there were more good women, there would be less sloths.>Men: "Nah, I won't improve myself until the women start improving themselves.">Women: "Nah, I won't improve myself until the men start improving themselves."This here's the main conundrum. The self-improvement must start simultaneously, because neither party wants to take the first step.How do we ensure that?