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What is causing this? And how the hell do we stop it from happening?

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11179134/
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The Kid Killers in the Church and in Government at the Federal and Super-Federal [shadow government Epstein klan] are going to absolutely ape shit when they see men letting women feed themselves into proverbial wood chippers and not rescuing them because why, they wouldn't ever do anything for us, they don't need no man, let them die. And then everyone celebrating when female suicide rate goes exponential because life truly isn't worth living as a woman pretending to be a man. Life for men is absolute Christian ideal of Fire and Brimstone Hell on Earth. And the Jews are going to have their ready scream of religious persecution directed into every single person's ear on planet when all the men are celebrating that the Female suicide rate is exponential and pushing double digit rates per year.

Who gives a shit? They're not me, let them die.

You gonna See Remphan the kid killing Judeachristian start talking sense for the first time in 70 years when the Church is ready to fuck off and go home to be with your carthaginian brothers in Gaza and occupied Palestine.
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>>540629306
Self harm= hooking up with chad and then claiming she regrets it
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>>540629562
Uh, no. That is entirely different and less serious.
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>>540629306
Not getting to date/marry chad is a death sentence.
1-5% chad male datable population
100% Queen female population

The problem is men.
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>>540629306
Idk but the scars make my dick hard
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>>540629306
Everything shrek has touched is cursed.
I bet that no virgin girl partakes in self-harm.
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>>540629758
>I bet that no virgin girl partakes in self-harm.
You would lose that bet. A lot of the time it happens when they are very young.
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A lot of woman are groomed into thinking that mental illness is some sort of badge of honor. Honestly, modern feminism has a lot to do with it, it creates women who are angry and discontent because they are actively fighting against their natural inclinations. Every self proclaimed feminist I know who hates the patriarchy and men still wants a man who is assertive, dominant, stoic, and a provider. They don't like admitting it, but it's true, and their constant shame and denial makes them depressed.
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>>540629306
If Stacey stopped being such a bitch and gave me sex she would be happier as my wife. Stacey owes me this.
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>>540629306
You cant stop it, curse of Aphrodite, the one way to actually prevent pretty woman from ruining herself is just to marry her young and not let her overthink capacity of her beauty
You wont see ugos do this btw
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>>540629306
>report
Reporting is different from actually doing it. Men engage in much more self-harm than women, they just don't report it as much.
>Yeah, I did alcohol and weed, speeded and then did hard drugs until I passed out. Self-harm? Never did it, bro
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>>540629306
Imagine wanting to damage such a beautiful body. All women and browns know how to do is destroy beautiful things. Still better than tattoos though.
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>>540629306
>What is causing this?
It's trendy.
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>>540629306
Great tits. The cut marks are hot
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it's all crazy.

they hurt themselves, harm their kids, don't want kids, just want to dress like sluts, vote to destroy the country at every opportunity.

I really have to hand it to the muslims. They knew women do this shit and refused to let it happen.
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>>540629306
>What is causing this?
BPD is the most common among women. They're terrible people
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>>540629691
and someone needs to cut it to ribbons while it's still connected to you, faggot. fuck you bitch, shut the fuck up you god damn shitskin motherfuckin nigger.
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>>540629306
>What is causing this?
THE ANSWER: All of it is because they hate God, and thus they hate anything that reminds them of God. Lord Jesus Christ says the body is a person's temple, and should be respected as a temple of God.

~It's the same reason why Feminists will side with Muslims.
~ It's the same reason why PETA will side with BLM.
~ It's the same reason why people engage in miscegenation.

It is all because they hate Lord Jesus Christ, and therefore anything that reminds them of Him. They harm their own bodies, they murder their own babies, they dishonor their ancestry, they disobey their fathers, ...they do ALL of it because they have 'daddy issues'. They hate the Eternal Father.

They literally are no different than the Judaists. Just like the other Pagans here on /pol/.
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>>540629306
Would using a dildo on themselves technically be self harm?
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looks like that ice skater hapa
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>>540629935
Don't let these Kid Killing Israelis switch places with white people as a self preservation circuit when the world realizes the small hat klan and everyone who ever participated has to be exiled from the USA. Which includes the christians for empowering and enabling that luciferian klan.
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>>540629894
>I really have to hand it to the muslims. They knew women do this shit and refused to let it happen.
to be fair every major religion knows this
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>>540629636
Is it though? Not really.
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Chicks like this are great, you can treat them like absolute shit with the knowledge that whatever you do to them, they're already doing far worse to themselves. Physical abuse is illegal. Emotional abuse is encouraged.
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>>540629306
I read more literature than this study to get through high school
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>>540629795
Doesn't mean they are virgin.
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>>540629306
I fucked a cutter once.
Bitch sucked dick good
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>>540629915
What causes BPD though Mexibro?
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>>540629306
Watch the movie 'The Secrectary' if you want to know the real answer
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>>540629306
>What causes a girl to do self harm?
Speaking for myself, it was years of seeing therapists whose first barrage of questions was always asking if I've ever self harmed. I had not, and thought the idea was weird as hell. After enough of this, I began to get the idea that it was something that I should try. Then, after I did, after being nudged into it by multiple therapists, I could answer that yes, I had self harmed. Their interest in me intensified. They gave me tons of attention and sympathy, for it. In ways that they had never done before.
So, I made it a habit.
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Women self-harm much more often for attention. Men will just shotgun their own head off instead. Women literally can't do anything right.
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>>540629306
>care about roasties and whores

No, fuck off
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>>540629306
i think for some chicks it has become like getting a tattoo. like, it's just a fashion thing. Everything is for show now. Nobody is genuine about anything. blame social media
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>>540630464
Show boobies
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>>540630464
>((therapists)) encourage and validate toxic behaviors and traits to gain chronic patients

Many such cases. If they cared about you in the first place, they never would have been charging you shekels for your visits.
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I think most women get raped or molested at a young age. I've been told by a woman who did this that when it stops hurting and it feels so good. It's some type of escape from traumatic memories. Maybe trying to justify the pain they were put through by transmuting the pain into pleasure. And also having a feeling of control over their body after it has been taken away from them. It's all just rape trauma pretty much.
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>>540630573
Sawing their tits off to try to become men was a big meme feminine fad there for a minute so it wouldn’t surprise me
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>>540630671
> I think most women get raped or molested at a young age.

Maybe in your sick bucket of crabs society moishe, but not normal ones. You can’t project
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>>540630657
I realize this now. I was a kid at the time though.
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>>540629945
no but tattoos could be classified as self harm.
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>>540629306
>be me
>socialite autist pre covid
>get lots of dates
>go on date w “suicidy” at local food joint
>chatting her up
>notice scars on forearm
>”hey suicidy. what’s up with those horizontal scars on your forearm? they should be vertical, right?”
>she looks away and says she doesn’t want to talk about it
>keep asking anyways because autism
>she gets flustered and rushes to bathroom
>now has scarf wrapped on forearm
>”suicidy… that scarf can’t hide the pain. why don’t you talk about it.”
>she says she has to go
>I pay for date and wish her well
>she texts me later in evening
>”anon… I don’t think this is gonna work.”
>tell her not to give up on life
>she tells me she means us
>”oh. no worries. take care.”
Women…
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>>540629306
It's demonic influence. Whatever demons who do this sometimes gets boys and homosexuals to cut themselves, but it's usually the performatively depressed 14 year old girl who falls to this trick. It's a unique mix of vanity, genuine sadness and a previous dabble into sorcery that opens up the door to self cutting.

There's a signature to it. It goes back thousands of years. We're in a fucking spiritual war against powers and principalities if you hadn't noticed. Look around. This shit is greater than man.
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>>540629306
Why would I want to stop it?
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>>540630671
Incest molestation and rape really messes with young girls.
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>>540629306
Women heavily value external validation while internalizing stress, anxiety, and anger. Women are broadly taught a model of themselves that is incongruent with biological reality.
It is normal and natural for women to desire the attention of men. It is also normal that they would be aroused by the concept of or prospect of submission or being dominated. Women can get rather fucked up by basically getting a she-boner over a person or situation they are cognitively disposed against.
This is also where some of the misandry comes from, as the typical projection within society is that men are always horny and will bang anything that moves if it gives them the chance without any crisis of conscience.
Men enjoy self-depricating humor to an extent - we will endure a bit of humiliation or a joke at our expense to make people laugh. This has been weaponized in the media to an extreme degree to portray caricatures of men.
This is relevant to women having complete breakdowns because of the external validation factor. Men who mind their own business and try to not recklessly hit on a girl are not seen as responsible or respectable, but simply not interested. A woman who is of the opinion that all she has to do is drop her guard for a moment and a guy will be inside her will be horribly confused when a guy doesn't capitalize on whatever passive aggressive "oh no, my pen dropped" plan she has developed in her head.
Rather than seeing a man who foregoes sexual exploits to try and build a relationship and family planning as the ideal candidate - they'll assume there is something wrong with them since the guy they are comfortable with doesn't try to sexually claim them while the asshole who simply wants to get his dick wet provokes more primitive eroticism at the very least.

They were cut loose as bachelors without realizing men formed civilization and the patterns which made women comfortable and fulfilled. Then we used that to bludgeon young men.
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>>540629306
Getting rid of Jews and Israel would be a nice start.
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>>540629833
They’re orcs.
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>>540630279
>>540629795
>>540629691
>>540629758
Every chick I knew who self harmed did it only after they were exposed to sexuality.
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>>540630835
Cute wombat.
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>>540630891
This too. The therapists who talked me into it were obviously open to dark influences. It goes with the industry they work in.
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>>540629306
They're just whores who want attention
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>>540631248
If you get better anon, you wouldn't have to see them anymore.
>Muh shekels
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>>540630879
For a lot of them, the pain and blood are a sort of stimulus that is almost meditative. It sounds weird - and it is things not working like they should - but they are not actually trying to commit suicide or get attention. Sure, some are, but it's more of a way of trying to take control over something of themselves or establish themselves as being real.
It's kind of the girl version of going to the gym to beat the hell out of a punching bag. Men externalize it, women internalize it. It's not a one for one, but it's a similar sort of pattern.
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>>540631308
they can internalize these nuts
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>>540631292
This was many years ago. I am better. Because I stopped going to therapists and stopped taking their drugs. That industry is awful and harmful.
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That's just called sex
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>>540631413
One anon here said long ago he was seeing female therapists and then once saw a male therapist.
>Guy said "Well you can't be in therapy the rest of your life"
So he decided to change his life and never come back.

Always thought therapists seemed unnecessary in a healthy society.
People had family, uncles, aunts, etc to talk to about whatever.
Family institution and network is dead along with society.
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>>540631413
> That industry is awful and harmful.

It’s an industry that strangely follows the cultural demands of a certain people really strongly. It’s all a mystery though, no one can figure it out.
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>>540629306
>One in five young women report engaging in self harm
The actual number is closer to 1 in 3 when you consider fucking BBC as self harm
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>>540629306
Name?
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>>540631108
Sexuality correlates with a lot of things. We are only here because of a long line of people who had sex and children thereby who survived. It stands to reason that all living creatures with sexual reproduction as a necessity would basically treat it as the end of the world if things aren't going right, sexually. In a way, it is the end of the world.
Obviously, not all sex is good, etc - just pointing out that it's probably one of the most powerful neurological facets we have short of hunger/thirst. People were getting it on before houses were a thing, so even shelter plays second fiddle to sex.
If there are neurons that will fuck a person up hard enough to lead to self harm, they are going to be sexual or tied to food and water.
As for how to heal it....
Time helps. I have seen a few women move past it and into stable relationships. Having experience around men who are stable and respectable tends to help, as does reducing social stimulation.
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>>540631552
> Always thought therapists seemed unnecessary in a healthy society.

Correct. They knew decades ago this social destabilization and destruction was going to occur because they planned it. So, in a ((service sector)) economy in which people are really screwed up for no good reason, one can build industries and employ useless people who just nod and listen to others talk. It can be called therapy, and the patient can be charged insane amounts of money. It’s great for the GDP.
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>>540631515
It's called hole stretching. It's a basic element of libido

There's no escape from the concept
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>>540631631
maggiemandoline
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>>540631678
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More specifically it has to do with turning things inside out permanently. It's just a part of sex.
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Time will bring the real end of our trial
One day they'll be no remnants
No trace, no residual feelings within ya
One day you won't remember me
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>>540629915
its more common in women only because they seek diagnosis and mental health care more frequently than men. its not more common than men NOR other personality disorders (anxiety depression etc). not sure what your retarded ass meant but youre wrong either way shitskin.
>>540630408
genetics
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It is what it is
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>>540631552
There's an old college humor skit: "it's not about the nail" which demonstrates why women therapists are less likely to produce results. Women like to feel things. They like to talk about experiences and problems and feel those emotions.
Men like to solve problems. While women may be adept at talking to others and getting them to discuss emotions and events, there is rarely a productive set of actions to resolve it and/or those sets of actions are themselves aimed at trying to document more feelings to share.
If you look at how women tend to do things in domestic situations, they often simply complain to the man about a problem and the man, wanting to pamper the object of his affection, will investigate the complaint and resolve the issue.
While there are women who are more helpful in solving problems and even the mythical Nerdy Tomboy who can do it herself, women in many societies "fix things" by complaining to men, who actually fix the problem.
Women complaining to other women will collapse into a black hole of pity and misery before anything gets done.
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>>540630408
It's a combination of social and genetic factors. Usually childhood neglect by the mother, which leads to a chronic sense of emptiness, fear of abandonment, unstable relationships, promiscuity, drug use, etc. they see the world through emotion unlike us that we can interpret with intelligence and then react. That's a bit of what I know about these fiends.
>>540631858
I disagree. Women are more susceptible to stressors and BPDs seldomly seek help at they don't believe they require it except when they self harm or attempt suicide.
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>>540631858
>its more common in women only because they seek diagnosis and mental health care more frequently than men. its not more common than men NOR other personality disorders

are you stupid?

>its not more common than men NOR other personality disorders

it is more common amongst women...and its more common in the USA than Mexico. look it up. Mexico has one of the lowest rates. the cause of both is probably the same, not likely genetic
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>>540629636
>less serious
Uhh that's literally rape sweaty
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>>540632129
its genetic, both my parents have personality disorders, my dad has BPD and doesnt even know it. i have it as well but am aware of it. ive learned to basically not trust my emotions at all. it takes a lot of introspection to even realize it since its just 'normal' to me.. your description of bpd is straight off wikipedia, you dont actually know what its like. essentially you have no idea who the fuck you are your entire life, try to fill your personality with different interests that never feel genuine. you dont know how to feel about other people either. liking someone/thing one moment then splitting on them the next- over nothing causes tremendous emotional pain to myself, ruining relationships. only positive thing i could say is being able to understand other perspectives more easily, and others emotions, at the cost of not being able to regulate your own emotions and falling into negative spirals - isnt worth it at all. most trendy zooms who say they have bpd are just attention whores
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>>540632522
its underdiagnosed in men you dumb fucking beaner, men get diagnosed with other disorders. i would never get diagnosed with BPD because i would never even admit my true feelings to a kike psych, the same way most men wouldnt. stupid fucking bean
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>>540632626
That sounds like an avoidant or attachment disorder. And that sounds somewhat like me. I think I am dismissive avoidant.
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>>540629306
>Sign on the mirror:
>You are smart
>You are kind
>You are important
>You are loved

You are in a full-blown neurotic meltdown if you need a fucking PEP talk just to get through brushing your teeth in the morning.

Jesus Christ, do you have any idea what a massive WAVE of suicides there'll be when these fucking losers experience REAL hardship for the first time?

I'd say 150 million women are gonna kill themselves DAY ONE of any actual crisis or disaster.

They can't even get through their DAY without writing out affirmations on their bathroom mirror. "I'm important. I matter."

Fuck's sake, just kill yourself sweetheart, you haven't got a chance.
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>>540632626
>try to fill your personality with different interests that never feel genuine. you dont know how to feel about other people either.
Can relate somewhat as a psychopath.
Psychopath, not the crazy serial killer sociopath.
I had to learn how to fake over emotion to fit in.
In contrast to BPD's, I am level headed.
Nothing seems to bother me much.
Do feel emotions, etc, but in a different way/capacity. Emotions do not rule my life.

Strange combination of empath and psychopath.
Don't like being around many people. Bad energy/emotions. Can take that in. Learned as a kid to shut them/it out. Not my feelings. Interesting how unsettled many people are.
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>>540631858
>its not more common than men NOR other personality disorders (anxiety depression etc).
Also false. Within cluster B, APSD and NPD affect men with higher prevalence than women, and women have more BPD and HPD. Anxiety and depression are mood disorders not personality disorders. Also I can tell you have BPD because of how you reacted to my comment.
>>540632626
>your description of bpd is straight off wikipedia,
They use the DSM's I suppose. It's also from dealing with people like you who overlap NPD/NPD.
>you dont actually know what its like.
Thankfully not first hand. Have you done DBT? They promise big, but under deliver.
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>>540631308
pain releases endorphins. so does exercise. it's not that deep.
same thing as enjoying spicy foods
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>>540632784
the fear of abandonment is basically an attachment disorder. and splitting is a maladaptive strategy to avoid emotional pain, by leaving before they leave.
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>>540632626
Guess what? You can get rid of your Borderline Personality Disorder when ever you choose to fo it.
Its exactly what I did. I decided to stop acting like an insufferable insane retard.
It was actually God who helped me, but still. Without my making the decision to quit acting wild, and to quit livin in spiritual retardation, it never could have happened.
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>>540632799
I read it as
>You are smart
>You are kino
And it actually made me feel better.
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>>540629306
In highschool I ran with the emo/scene kids and all the girls cut themselves or had severe mental health issues. It was bad.
To be honest, I don't know what was causing it. A lot of them were raised by single moms.
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>>540632950
>psycho
BPDs have secondary psychopathy. supposedly its not genetic but environmental
>>540632976
my parents have NPD. i dont do DBT or seek mental health care, even thinking about being BPD just makes me feel even worse. my treatment is eating only raw food, learning circus tricks, smoking weed every 1-2 weeks when i start having a crisis, and modified jungian elemental hypnotherapy (staring at a candle/water bowl until i fall into a trance and visualizing different colored lego blocks as parts of my personalitys connecting). no meds because theres none that treat bpd anyway. its like im not a "real" person with core values or self, cant fix something that was never there
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Puberrty is traumatizing to girls and all pagan/tribal societies had initiation rituals to guide and ground girls through it (same for boys, but for girls its more critical)

That nervous energy has to go somewhere
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>>540633092
i wish it were that easy. you mustve had some other shit. i dont act like a retard, people think im (mostly) normal but a little 'off'. but inside is an emotional thunderstorm.
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>>540629306
Good. I hate women and they should hate themselves too
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if anyone wants to see a film of what a BPD male looks like, watch "der freie wille" (2006)
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>>540633564
They're not capable of emotions anon. You would know that if you were White.
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>>540633603
That about that shamu whale? I seen it. I don't think its about what you think its about, though.
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>>540632799
>>540633168
I also thought it said kino.
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>>540629306
the injuries to woman should only come from the man
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Probably because evil misogynistic men are constantly trying to take away their freedom. What women need is more feminism. I'm sure it'll save them this time
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>>540629562
That's rape
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>>540633519
I was full on diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. For years I bought into what they were selling. Until I didn't.
Here is another thing the therapists don't tell you about BPD. It is a flaw or group of flaws, on your character. You are a shitty person, basically. But you can stop being a shitty person, whenever you choose to do it. That is what they either don't know, or pretend not to know.
If you are causing emotional, psychological, or physical harm to other people in your life, then that makes you a shitty person of poor character.
You can and should decide to stop being shitty. And develop a good character, instead.
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>>540629306
Self harm, Daddy issues, will definitely do anal, thats a fine future ex right there.
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>>540632976
>>540633395
PhD psychologist here, you would do well to abandon the DSM psychobabble as its all essentially a LARP, most of the personality disorders are fake, its just clusters of personality traits that will naturally arise when someone is traumatized. Its all just trauma coping, it could be PTSD trauma (one off event that fucks you) or complex (a series of behavioral and cognitive adaptations to survive in a stressful and unpredictable environment (aka, what being raised by two narcissist basket-case parents will do to you). The "not a real person" thing is traumatic dissociation. Your brain zoned you out as a child/adolescent to help you get through the day, but you never snapped out of it because your nervous system hasn't been updated. Look into somatic therapies and body/mind therapies; this is putting it very simply, but essentially you need to hard reset your nervous system, which is where your trauma is stored, in your body (your presence, calm, posture, tone, accent, etc.) (talk therapy doesn't work great for this reason; your issues are stored in your body no matter how much you talk about the issue. Look up Peter Levine, Bessel Van Der Kolk etc. If you want something quick you can do right now related to this, "Trauma release exercises" on youtube.

Jung's stuff is great if you resonate with it and for relating dreams/practicing mindful active imagination. Personally on the deepest level I think Jung was closest to the structure of the brain. In practice though it falls short for actually soothing out a person physiologically.

>>540632950
Again, you are not a psychopath, you are just traumatized and your brain gave you habits from childhood/adolescence to protect you, even if that seems contradictory or paradoxical. Just consider it. Consider that you are not a an unusual or genetically defective person, your brain just tried to protect you in its own way when you were growing up
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>>540634134
>your brain just tried to protect you in its own way when you were growing up
Nobody touched me retard.

Psychopathy is a medical condition of the brain.
Runs in the family for centuries.
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>>540634277
Will add, this is not a negative.
Which society suggests.
i could not imagine being an emo normie.
What a shit animal impulse existence.
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>>540634134
this guy knows his
brainology
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>>540632799
>Jesus Christ, do you have any idea what a massive WAVE of suicides there'll be when these fucking losers experience REAL hardship for the first time?
You know, people say this a lot, but I think the opposite is true. We're all fucked up because we don't have real hardships. Hunter-gatherers don't have depression despite their lives being much harder. Hardship puts life in perspective.

If all those people got hit with real hardships, the fog in their brains would lift, they'd throw away their prescriptions and they'd immediately turn into real people living real life. They would improve.
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>>540634067
What does it say about your mental health, if you think sticking your dick into someone's shit and shit hole, sounds like a good idea? Just sayin'.
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>>540634616
Doin fine over here. you were the one thinking of my dick covered in poop. weird
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>>540634134
You are correct in what you say. Talk therapy is garbage and only serves to retraumatize and stagnate the individual.
The only thing worth doing for a real cure for psychological distress, is Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR).
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>>540634000
its disordered thinking, you cant choose to think differently. but you can choose to not think (or at least as much) which actually helps.
>>540634134
it could be trauma based and i thought it was, but i dont think my childhood was more traumatic than the worst 20% of peoples. i got yelled at by a BPD freak who would threaten to disinherit me or give me up for adoption a few times, and hit with a belt/had shit thrown at me a few times, had my mouth washed with soap, but plenty of people have worse things and they dont have this disorder. reflecting on my parents traits makes me think its almost all genetic, since i have their genes, im literally a version of 2 disordered people combined.
i am healing my nervous system through raw food, animal fat (raw unsalted butter) and half a gallon of raw milk every day, and raw meat, raw eggs, raw fruit. it takes time though. ive looked into the TRE but havent made time in my daily routine for it yet, i should though. as well as active imagination. i keep a dream journal too. and im studying transurfing and the tufti books.
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>>540629306
Women are attention whores and you want me to be shocked? Try again when women are killing themselves in such grand numbers that we literally cannot bury them all. I might think that's interesting.
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>>540629306
>PTSD trauma (one off event that fucks you) or complex (a series of behavioral and cognitive adaptations to survive in a stressful and unpredictable environment (aka, what being raised by two narcissist basket-case parents will do to you)

What do if both?
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>>540634377
Worth a try, I'd say her mental health certainly doesn't have much room to get worse...
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>>540633395
>i dont do DBT or seek mental health care
I know it's a pain but why not give it a go. You can't be suffering 24/7. My ex had it and she didn't seek help either. What if things do get better? If you do get meds those would not for the BPD per se I reckon.
>>540634134
>PhD psychologist here,
MD here. I'm not reading all that, fren.
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>>540631694
>hole stretching

what
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>>540630944
So you’re saying it was the Jews?
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>>540635142
Dialectical Behavioral Therapy is just as shit as regular talk therapy.
Its basically some woman talking to you in the style of a retarded woman, conversing with a retarded child.
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>>540635713
I figured. You know they used to claim full remission of BPD symptoms in like a year and a half. I wonder where they'd find someone willing to stick with it that long, kek.
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>>540635142
thinking about it makes it worse. ive skimmed some DBT books and it doesnt look very promising since its stuff i already know, the difficult part is detaching from my emotions and disordered thoughts. im against meds, im trying the raw food diet and if none of it works i might try some in a year or two if i dont see improvement
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>>540633317
>A lot of them were raised by single moms.

I think you just answered it.
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>>540636063
On the other hand, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, EMDR works wonders. And fast. At least in my experience. I have a very realistic view, meaning a skeptical and dismissive view, on the psych establishment, and still I will give credit where it is due if something is actually helpful.
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>>540636162
Have you eliminated all gluten, too? You should.
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>>540636397
yes, gluten is only in fake "food". i have a disgusting diet where i make smoothies out of raw steak, pineapple, raw eggs and honey and raw butter every day. then have snacks of fruit and drink tons of raw jersey milk daily. sometimes ill have a boiled potato though
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I started in maybe fourth grade. I did not tell anyone or try to let people see. My parents were total psychos who pretended to be normal. They would deny me hygiene items, regular food, a mattress, and school supplies for non-poverty reasons. There are a lot of things they never cared to teach us and they were basically absent despite my mom working like 15 hours a week when she wasn’t NEET. They are such psychos that when my husband discovered they were doing financial crimes against me and my sister as adults they made up a case and tried to sue him in federal court, before realizing that they could be deposed by my husband.
I don’t do it anymore; not living with my parents is what fixed it. I feel bad that my body is somewhat ruined, but it is what it is. Now I occasionally ask my husband for a really good back scratch and force the thought of how good it would feel to do it again as deep down as I can. I have a child to be an example to.
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>>540636750
Sounds nutritious. As long as you can enjoy the taste. But why mash it all up into one smoothie? A lot of those foods would taste pretty good on their own, but it seems like mashing them all together in to one drink would make it unpallateable.
Raw steak sliced ultra, ultra thin is good.
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>>540629306
Take away women's right to vote.
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>>540636894
the steak isnt bad, but i dont like raw eggs. i dont season it either when i eat steak, other than a little worchestshire.
main reason is it takes me forever to eat, almost an hour. but blending it lets me drink it down with 10 minutes of prep and 20 seconds of glug glug
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>>540637172
I bet you could get equivalent nutrition to raw eggs if you boiled them. Even a soft boil would prob be a better texture than raw and still give a nice blend. But, if it works for you, who am I to say?
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>>540637362
heat kills the live enzymes and then its not raw, im following the raw primal diet, so only raw foods. potatoes do need to be cooked so i make an exception since its a natural food but i only eat them like once a week.
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i want to carve my name with a knife into a sluts fat ass, mark her as mine
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>>540637579
>he doesnt have his name carved into an efoids leg
ngmi
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>>540629306
>What is causing this?
Is it possible that all you people sit in here 24/7 watching all the symptoms and causes of this toxic society and yet you continue to miss the forest for the trees?
and no it's not "the jews"
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>>540637172
That sounds vile. Please do a cook song on /ck/.
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>>540629306
my daughter cut herself for a short while when she was 13. when I found out I freaked out hard at how stupid and pointless it was. she stopped doing it and is normal today.

its always for attention that shit about "the pain" is just bullshit they do it to show their friends that they're deep and so emoshunal.
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>>540629532
>every woman said I was the best guy ever
>till I told them I have epilepsy from the MMR vaccine and don't drive
fuck em
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>>540629306
>What is causing this?
They hate themselves because Chad pays little to no attention to them.
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>>540629306
their whole lives are self harm
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>>540636162
I only do CBT and it's been good so far. I don't think I can recommend it for you but in my case, it allowed me to pause, analyze, then proceed. I don't have BPD, I have PTSD. Also I read bipolar is associated with BPD, just so you know.
>the difficult part is detaching from my emotions and disordered thoughts
For what it's worth, that's something many non BPD people struggle with including me. Don't give up, fren.
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>>540636360
I've read about it. I've also heard good things about its use on PTSD. Also from the use of psychedelics for war veterans although my knowledge is very limited on that.
>I have a very realistic view, meaning a skeptical and dismissive view, on the psych establishment
My issue with them is the replicability of their studies. I think that's where my mistrust comes from.
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>>540629306
>born into the piss easy life of an attractive white/asian woman
>cut your own flesh over minor inconveniences
imagine them encountering actual problems
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>>540629306
>what is causing this
women. social media is providing echo chambers for women to trigger each others' amygdalas together, to amplify negative emotions and express above average levels of disgust.

women's free choices. hypergamy and pre-selection is how they exercise their agency, and it isn't working out that well for any of us.
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sup wit chu babe
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>>540629306
Dad is too weak.
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>>540629306
i can save her!
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>>540637819
>Is it possible that all you people sit in here 24/7 watching all the symptoms and causes of this toxic society and yet you continue to miss the forest for the trees?
>and no it's not "the jews"
ikr? it's MEN who are the problem, and the PATRIARCHY
anyone with an IQ above 85 already knows this, but not /pol/
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>>540629562
>Self harm= hooking up with chad and then claiming she regrets it

Self harm = hooking up with a chad (or two) and then being dumped afterwards.
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>>540629306
they want me
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>>540629562
The day where women's rights are removed to the point where them being crazy is gonna be a green flag for men that are contributing members of that society is the day we start entering a new prosperous era.

Women that false accuse men with abuse and start crying and start hating you when you tell her to break up with her favorite rapist, should never have been entertained as anything else but human cattle and meat sleeves of various degrees of ownership.
Especially when they already come with bull rings and body modifications that just result in attention seeking, might as well given them ear tags and live their lives being freaky cattle pets or being donated to science to make them enthusiastic about that life.

But we paid the equivalent of a cotton tax with universal suffrage
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>>540629306
Imagine one day you decided you felt cute and took picture of yourself just for shills to use it as spam fuel.
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>>540629306
https://youtu.be/SbQu55bMvZs?t=1566

Men have declared spiritual jihad on women and it shows as they slowly begin to lose it. This is it anons, the real gender war has begun, not the fake one with countless pronouns that is being shilled everywhere in the media, but the real war between man and woman.
Women are about to learn a harsh lesson.

Don't talk to women, don't help them, don't ask them out, don't have dating apps, don't interact with them. If a woman approaches you be nice and respectful but do not flirt or overtly joke, treat them as an equal man and then leave after the reason for the conversation is over. If a girl comes up to you and flirts kindly turn her down, if she asks you out suddenly say no thank you, don't make up a reason she only has agency because of some external reason not because she likes you. Be vague when talking about your life or weekend plans, anything you do or do with them like hooking up will be picked apart and analyzed by her and her online friends. You are a traitor and not helping anyone if you fall for their tricks.
If men can't display a modicum of power over society, this world and women, then I guess they don't hold much power at all.
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Its sad when I see an e-thot with legions of self-harm scars.



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