How do you deal with crippling loneliness as an adult ?
>>540754665You watch the world burn
>>540754665just think its better than being with people, and reflect on all the times it has sucked being with people and at least you are avoiding that situation right now
>>540754665Arguing about politics I have no influence over
I just play vidya all day.
>>540754665Read old books.Get a wife.Raise a family. Buy land.Learn to shoot.Grow your own.This may take a while.
>>540754665No woman will ever love you anon, 90% of women out there do not love their man, they don't know how to love anyway; they only tolerate him as long as he provides.Learn to be stoic and get by without their fake and subpar love therefore about 90% of women should be invisible to you. Rise up above your biological programming.Take care of your health anons and find distractions to help pass the time, that's all most people do anyway, the difference is they do it with somebody so time spent together flows differently. It's merely an illusion though
>>540754665buy a hooker. Women only annoy me outside of sexo, and living with one is a pain in the ass
make some friends, go find a wife
>>540754665i only ever feel lonely when im around "friends" and "family". thats how fucked things are
when I finally had my own place I started to prefer it. but I grew up in a house with 4 siblings so I never got to appreciate or meter out alone time properly. now any free time I would rather not spend in some mostly performative social ritual.
>>540754665I go outside. Nah, seriously vidya, shit like 4chan, working around the house, and just finding things to do. Find some activities. What's keeping you inside? Address whatever issue is cutting you off from people
>>540754665Idk, I've never been alone.
>>540754665There are times I live out of pure spite. I live my life exactly the way I know I should, even as people fall apart around me, quitting their jobs and moving away, unable to understand that I am who I am.
>>540754665I used to have crippling opposite of loneliness. Being alone is way more peaceful, enjoy it
>>540754665Mid 50s, I have one real friend. Others are acquintancesSpend most of free time with wife and kids (older now)I have been ghosted by some friends/groups in my 40s because I prioritized time my family instead. I don’t care.The more I age the more I appreciate my lone time
>>540754665>How do you deal with crippling loneliness as an adult ?I fuck my wife
>>540754665by not being a pussy>waa waaa waaa im so wonewyGo get laid, pussy.
>>540754665It is what it is
>>540754665I go on funnyjunk and shitpost.My username there is wadawada .Please come sign in and PM pictures of cat buttholes! I love that!
>>540754665Copious amounts of jerking off.Unfortunately I have seem every porn and read every hentai that interests me over the last 20 years and its starting to take a toll. Less and less good shit is made every year.
>>540754665Talk to my wife.
>>540754748Would add:Watch old movies. Download TBs of illegal content. Burn everything to disc.AZOGOLDM-DISC...DVDs and CDs.30 or 40 copies. And buy a new, back up disc reader / butner, every single month. That's important. In short: find something worth doing that doesn't depend on other people being next to you. Lifetime of good films. Music. Books. Every day is like Christmas, anon. For the last 2 decades. First time in human history we've had access to so much free media. Torrents for NEETlife wave duckers."If You Liked School, You’ll Love Work"https://rutracker.org/forum/tracker.php?pid=11298075Possible avant-garde poster? Not verified yet but...https://rutracker.org/forum/tracker.php?pid=11298075Delphi completehttps://thehiddenbay.com/torrent/20381749/Delphi_Complete_Works_[126_ebooks][EPUB_MOBI]_-_HYPATIABooks, mixed politics (because unlike asshole Democrats, I think you should be able to make up your own mind?)https://thehiddenbay.com/user/workerbee/I honestly don't remember, big surprisehttps://youtu.be/-R9gJXtS07gMovieshttps://rutracker.org/forum/tracker.php?pid=11878945Stars of the Lid https://rutracker.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=2608573Dead Can Dancehttps://rutracker.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=4400522Krankhttps://rutracker.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=4277044ASOIAFhttps://rutracker.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=5536103The Curehttps://rutracker.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=3260091Siouxsiehttps://rutracker.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=2894972Gae bolghttps://rutracker.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=1439578Look up, also, "seven pines", for moreEtcB U R N 2 D I S C.M-DISC. AZO. GOLD.DVDs & CDs.3-2-1?30-2-1.At least!Plus, 10 external disc reader/burner And a few good quality cd players. Do the researchPLANNED OBSOLESCENCE is a reality. counter it by doing the above. Peace.
>>540754665Going to furry meetups and MLP conventions
>>540754665>cripplingthere's your problem, it's not crippling, it's a relief, to claim it is crippling is an indicator you haven't experienced people enough to see how shit they all are and what you feel as loneliness is a temporary state you'll get over.
Im a 30+ khhv and I just dont care I dont need anything
>>540754665theological pursuit. You gotta believe the devil is directing causing dryness which directly translates to adversary which are your opps
>>540754665There’s legitimately nothing you can do except learn to be okay being alone. I’m rich, pretty good looking (arguably legitimately good looking), easy going, socially intelligent, and all that stuff that is supposed to count and outside of social media posts I’ve probably said less than 10 sentences to a human being over the last 3 days. And even less if you don’t count saying hi and bye to the people at the desk at the gym. I live in a mansion alone. I work from home for myself. My friends all moved away and like 75% of them are miserable now and don’t like to do anything anymore. I have multiple ex girlfriends that want to hang out, but that’s all bait and drama bombs waiting to happen. So you do stuff alone and accept that’s the way it’s going to be. You might meet some interesting people along the way, but very little will come of it typically. That’s just life now, but it can still be something if you make the most of it.
>>540755364>And buy a new, back up disc reader / butner, every single month. That's important.why
>>540754665Start attending Orthodox Church services. Attend catechism classes. You'll progress from an inquirer to catechumen and eventually be baptized. The guys there will become your brothers. Christ is King.
I talk shit about jeets on 4chan
Normalfag problem. I don't get it.
>>540754665you gtfo this site
Start injecting Testosterone.. - no cap.. replace your body with the shit they steal, through food and water.
>>540755444Let’s hang out nigga
Have enough insight and self-reflect on the fact that you're the issue and while that's not necessarily a bad thing you shouldn't hold the grudge against the world for being an awkward introverted autist.
>>540754665I was born in ‘81. Shit was cash for the first 30-35 years before it all went to shit. So I don’t give a fuck anymore. I still look like I’m in my 20’s tho and date zoomettes.
>>540755476Ever seen, "Time Enough at Last"?The Twilight Zone episode? (A lot of dross in the original series but some really good ones as well) Anyways, because you don't want to be stuck with ten thousand discs you can't read! Or, as happened w BluRay discs, the reader becomes so expensive you can't afford back ups. (BluRay readers are about 200 dollars a piece. DVD readers are 20)AI is also amazing for finding new movies. Feed it 5 or 6 you like, different "constellations", and why you like them, correct it a few times, you'll have so many nee movies to watch, that you never knew existed, it'll be great.
I'm married and basically live the same lonely neet incel life I lived before having a girlfriend/getting married. Mostly listen to black metal and look at this gay website from like 11pm to 7am every day. It's fine
>>540754665How the fuck do you get crippled by loneliness, nigger. Crippled how?
>>540754665Just dont be lonely
>>540754665>crippling lonelinessAre you fucking joking? Are you that soft in the head?
>>540755690>incel>marriedWhy?
>>540755551Your life burns faster Obey your master
>>540754665Every time I think maybe I should have found a woman I didn't utterly despise and try to have a relationship, I remember that I utterly despise all women.
>>540754665Use this time to reflect on the world. Loneliless and silence is a prividlege especially in our era.
>>540754665snacks and vidya
>>540754665Idk, I am an adult so I don’t feel lonely, much less cripplingly so.May as well ask how adults deal with puberty
>>540755745Even women I find attractive... Just talk to them about anything for two minutes and suddenly their robotic Tik Tok inflections are enough to be happy being alone again. And that's if they don't start yelling and bitching for attention.
>>540755364This thread has a lot of movies and links, in case anyone is bored enough to be interested>>540747110Life is suffering. It goes on forever...... then it ends "too soon".I'm trapped in Portland surrounded by pretentious twats. Nothing lonelier that being surrounded by a million and a half people you can't stand, who all want to see you lynchdd lolBut I'm here for the next 2 or 3 years due to probation for road rage incident l I l
>>540754665I can't
>>540754665I love my kid, but want to off myself with the constant female nagging that comes with kids. Loneliness isnt that bad, find a hobby.
>>540754665>crippling loneliness heads will roll, this gives me joy.
>>540754665Not something I experience. I could sit alone for 10,000 years if needed.
>>540754665Get a dog. You'll have a companion that gives you constant attention and encourage you to get out of house every day for outdoor activities and hiking. Meet people in the dog park.
>>540754665Hasn't hit me yet, but maybe because chronic insomnia and diarrhea makes me chase lower tiers of the hierarchy of needs.I'd pick sleep and no diarrhea over a gf any day.
>>540754665
>>540754665Loneliness is caused by low oxytocin. You just need to masturbate or find a prostitute.
>>540754665You get used to it
>>540754665Gaming, you'll met people and have fun times.That's about it.If you don't have a job around other people then consider getting one
>>540756191Your dog will die in 10 years and you'll probably never get another. It sucks to have a strong attachment to something with such a short life span
>>540754665I got married
>>540754665i have a girlfriend and I wish I didnt.. she's absolutely high maintenance and hard to get rid of. being single is peace
>>540754665Isolate further.Endure.Suffer.Heal your faggotry
>>540754665>How do you deal with crippling loneliness as an adult ?I kinda enjoy it.
What's it feel like to be lonely?I mean, what do you miss, or want? And why, I mean yes you're saying you're lonely but why do you want what you want? Can you please elaborate.
>>540754665Havent left my flat since December 2019. Get on my level.
>>540756672>i have a girlfriend and I wish I didnt..Key to good relationship is not living together. I never allowed my gf to fully move in, she needs to have her place and I was open about it from the start. Sometimes she stays for few days, sometimes I stay at her place and we still see each other almost every day.Living together never worked for me, always ended in fights and tensions once the novelty of intimacy wears off.
What's it like to be ah-loon?I liken it to a bah-loon?(Oh... whoa oh whoa ..oh oh)
>>540756255Lol, well that...is...one answer
>>540756526Price of admission. It's absolutely fucking brutal but I'll always have two dogs for the rest of my life
>>540754665hunting and burning jews is a good activity...
>>5407546651 go to church2 sit right in the middle of the congregation3 get up and sing
>>540757350https://youtube.com/shorts/fOoWKNOXcBs?si=P0lSrlaD34ZH66NR
>>540754665I spend time with my friends.Yes, I had to become the guy who does the work to figure out everyones scheduels and comes up with the hangout spots and events and pesters people with messages.But it beats never seeing my friends.
>>540755444either larp or a chad so gtfo
Step 1:Read Steppenwolf by Herman Hesse. Step 2: Go to Step 1.
>>540754665im 30, no friends, no family, never had a gf, live alone in my flat and wfh. i just work and get by with my hobbies in the flat. that's about it until i die i guess. gave up with even thinking about women at 28 as men are finished after 28 for finding a woman but no one on this mongolian basket weaving forum is brave enough to admit so
>>540756202>diarrhea>leaf flagsucks to be a jeet
>>540756330>masturbateliteral woman behaviour. a man should never play with himself. i dont masturbate or watch porn at all and i advise you do the same (though i still dont get laid or speak to women)
>>540754748>Get a wife.Stopped reading there
>>540754665I'm literally about to rope but to keep myself engaged I watch streamers on Twitch and smoke cigs
It literally just doesn't bother me
>>540758023>I watch streamers on Twitchyou should just rope
>>540754665By not posting it on Pol because it's not political That's how you deal with it, retard
>>540758029That's because you have severe autism
>>540754665>crippling loneliness>adultKill yourself, retard
>>540754665>1. go to reddit and find somebody to send you free estrogen pills>2. buy a dress>3. sever your penis with an angle grinder>4. rope
The same way I dealt with it as a child.Bro, you had your whole life to learn.
>>540754665It matters to start with .. then you adjust become introverted, then it just doesn't matter any more, you do not want company
>>540754665Understand that it is temporary provided that you take action upon it. To navigate this world is to build your personal capital as in what is intrinsic to you. Once you do that everything else will fall into place. The other types of capital (social, emotional, financial) are mere leverages of that. To put it simply - innovate. That is quite literally what our species is born to do.Loneliness is just a feeling of desperation. It is a form of depression as you quite literally feel like shit when you feel lonely. What is depression? It a form of pain which is an indication that something is wrong with your body, I.e. your life. You cannot solve your problems until you understand what they are, inside and out. "No matter how isolated you are and how lonely you feel, if you do your work truly and conscientiously, unknown allies will come and seek you." – Carl Junghttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcwqjQvo3qohttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PX4KQXPqkJY
>>540754665Loneliness is underrated. Idk about you, but I often feel better when people aren't around. Others, even close friends/family, can eventually drag you down.
>>540754665Weed, vidya and shitposting. There is nothing better in this world right now.
>>540754665I deal with it because I am not alone.
>>540754732I'm enjoying watching it burn with my intelligent fun femchud girlfriend
>>540754665Knowing I'm going to snap someday.
>>540754665Loneliness?I have crippling mandatory social interaction.I wish I never had to see another human being for as long as I lived.
>>540759702Loneliness and solitude are different. Most of us autists love being alone but nobody loves being lonely.
>>540754665Go to Mass
32 yo no a single person to talk in last year,quit job after 5 years year ago,at same time wife left after 6 years,cant find job here only 3700 month with hohols in factory,mother almost 80 years got dementia as fuck dont recognize me,ex wife fucked with some slovak or slovenian and travel around worldi just dont care i play video games from 2000-2012 on my old computer with 4 gigabites of ramfuck this shit,even respawning as a pajeet dont gonna be worse bye,me now go play dead space 2 have a good day
>>540754732Why is there a squirrel in his living room?
>>540759909Looked into it and every single church in my province is full NPC globohomo. Even the Greek orthodox.
>>540754665>crippling loneliness as an adultI think I became an adult the moment I stopped needing other people for validation. Sit and think about the times you have with people. How much of that is for them? Almost every time I bet. Tell me, when you are out do you only stay out long enough to be seen or do you actually try to fight the desire to go home?
>>540754665I’m 38. No gf ever, no hookups or one night stands, rejected by every woman I’ve ever wanted, only ever fucked whores and hated it pretty much every time.I’ve never been lonely because I’m not a child.How to deal with loneliness? Grow up.
>>540754748NEVER MARRY
>>540759917Play Condemned: Criminal Origins, FEAR, and FEAR 2 Project Origin, fren.
>>540759909>the solution to your problem is my religionWe need to cut out you people so badly.
>>540754743It's not a waste of time. I'd say kids these day are more right wing than ever, and this place played a major if not the biggest role.
>>540754665Had some many bad interactions with people that I just avoid everyone now. Even nice people I assume they are out to get me and keep them at arms length. I have a gf of 7 years though so I guess it's not actual loneliness.
>>540759896I should clarify. Being alone is a great treasure. But there is a big difference in being alone and loneliness. I've often felt loneliness when surrounded by others in constant social situations.
