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Why are today's marriages no longer as satisfying as they used to be?

Expectations of marriage have shifted from physiological and safety needs toward personal fulfillment and emotional connection.

https://faculty.wcas.northwestern.edu/eli-finkel/documents/2014_FinkelHuiCarswellLarson_PsychInquiry-Copy.pdf
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Pornography has ruined marriage for a lot of men who are now incapable of being faithful.
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>>541619216
>t. Woman
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>>541619134
Because the modern person post-1968 is a consumer first and a human being last. He/she sees everything as commodities and services that are meaningful only inasmuch as they serve self-gratification and comfort. And marriage is no longer an institution with a higher purpose that man must observe, that's "oppression" now, instead it's just another scene of aimless self-indulgence. Something to enjoy and dispose when it outlives its shelf life, not something to build on and invest into. Hence the high expectations and low effort.
It was the higher purpose that made people contributors, that gave meaning to tolerating each others defects and limitations, not the hormonally charged make-believe of romance.
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New INCEL manifesto just dropped!
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>>541619134
There is literally no point in getting married unless you are having children. Even then I would not do so.
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I've been married for nearly 20 years and it's been great!
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>>541619134
Never marry a woman you're sexually attracted to and/or intellectually compatible with. You don't need a sex doll who shares your interests. You need a woman to take care of your home a children. Sex is the most overrated thing in modern society, and having someone to share your interests with is what male friends are for.
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>>541619134
Once again women demand more and offer fucking LESS THAN NOTHING in return
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>>541620185
if a man gets married today, i have no clue what to tell him, "you deserve what you put up with", I guess..
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>>541619134
When you get married you become literally one, the husband puts nothing above the wife and vice versa, and they let absolutely nothing infiltrate, subvert the relationship and denigrate their partner, neither friends, society, family or anything, anyone who isn't willing to do that should just spare themselves the trouble.

Because it gets worse and the sins of the parents burden the kin, once the kids see their parents belittling eachother, or once they see society denigrating those roles, they develop false ideas of manhood, womanhood and parenthood and it all goes to hell.
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>>541620363
Thats why i lost interest in dating
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>>541620363
>needing to ask to be exclusive while dating
i believe when this entered the zeitgeist it was officially over.
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>>541621827
There's a bunch of bullshit "rules" now that women share, and if you don't exactly fix into their perfect feminized version of yourself then you're as good as ghosted. Like for example i was at a coffee shop working on something and i noticed these two people that were obviously on a date. I was a few tables away so i couldn't make out exactly what they were saying but it went something along the lines of the woman said something like "do you want to take a break" and they ended up just silently scrolling through their phones. Like, take a break from getting to know each other?
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>>541619134
>Expectations of marriage have shifted from physiological and safety needs toward personal fulfillment and emotional connection.

Near death experiences and starving together made people hornier and mutal struggle made them love each other and depend on each other more.

This is easy to fix just bring back scarcity
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It's now less risky to go gamble at a casino than date a woman as far as long term outcomes go
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>>541620120
>attractive people are bad
Ugly retarded shitskin cope.
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wife and i just had dinner for our seventh anniversary last night. met as a drunken college hookup in 2011. we have three perfect blonde children and she’s pregnant with number four. i love my wife.
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>>541629080
Wtf
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>>541629198
The woman is supposed to pee on the stick, not you bro
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>>541629294
Men can't get pregnant. Order up.



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