Anyone else grow up with this combo?How'd that work out for ya?
Nigga that's every last one of us raised by parents born between 1945 and 1970.
That's damn near everyone OP. My father raised me from the couch and my mother won't leave me the fuck alone.
>>541866551And how's your experience been?
>>541866426I have that thing where I like peace and quiet and like to do things on my own terms, simply because of how overbearing my mom is.Guess who's a NEET at 36?
>>541866987sametoo neurotic to let anyone relax around her
My mom spoiled me and my dad did the opposite.It worked for my development but the result was that I grew up preferring to not be around my father because father = no fun and mother = fun
>>541866426Pretty much everyone in America who had baby boomer parents.
>>541866426>the one thing the entire userbase of 4ch has in common
>>541866426lol same here. My father was a useless imbecile that should have never reproduced
>>541866426I wish
>>541866426I had the good ol alcoholic dad plus meth head mom. I ended up a neet I'm 34.
>>541866426Horribly
I WILL SUCK THE INTERNET DRY!>$5 transferred to account
>>541866426>how'd that work out for yaI post on 4chan
>>541866426Anybody else have to opposite? Mom divorced my dad and then died from cancer when I was 8. My dad tried to fill both roles but ended up raising me like a passive bitch my whole life, never teaching me anything or how to be a man in the world. I'm not joking he taught me nothing, I had to learn from scratch all while being demoralized and gaslit for 20 years by the person who I thought was suppose to get me started in life and love me unconditionally. Turns out he just resented me and my family because he crashed the party he was having, and he took out his divorce on us.tl;dr got the same experience but with a dad, turned out shit. Not as bad as it could've been, I didn't troon out or plan on any Minecrafts, just became a broken shell of a person, arrested development, etc. Figured this all out way too late in life (30), but at least I did.
Anon's mother was an Anxious Annie who married a Cool Headed Colin.
>>541867163It's direct proof that they cannot be leaders when they blatantly try to force their own faggot personality onto their sons, under the guise of "what is normal". Like the most retarded petty tyrant imaginable. "Oh, your shoes are worn out!!" (goes behind my back and throws away my shoes because they look like they've been used).
>>541867721lmao are you really complaining online your mum threw away your shoes, mate? Fucking hell, hahahaha let's call social services loooool
>>541866667Had all the things I could want. Dad thought that all I needed to become Bill Gates was a computer in my room. Handed me one at age 8 or so along with a single Python book. I didn't have any idea what to do with it. Dad kept thinking that just giving me things would make me into him. Nah.Thankfully I'm doing okay despite his efforts.Amusingly my father-in-law (my wife is an only child) has taught me more about basic life skills/home maintenance/etc. than my own father, I'm the son he never had lol.
>>541867894It's more like an overarching pattern where somehow I as a human being cannot be sovereign and manage my own possessions. Things just disappearing without an explanation. That's fucking toxic behavior. And of course, she can never acknowledge that as cunt behavior. Literal petty tyrant.
>>541866426Yes my mom is 100% a narcissist sociopath with psychopathic tendencies and not just 0 empathy but she lacks the core human foundation of even understanding what it is. I have gone no contact and told her to fuck off 5 years ago. Been the best 5 years of my life, I got /fit/, got a better job in a different city, got a new loving girlfriend (my mom chased my previous partners away), and I have a peace that I didnt know was possible. Wagmi
>>541866426No. I had a normal mom and normal dad
>>541866426You have to have tough skin to deal with a bitch wife. You need to be able to stand your ground without violence. My wife is a fucking bitch but I refuse to be a cuck so we fight. Lately the fights have devolved to her being a bitch and me pointing out every tactic she is using to manipulate me. Its hilarious to watch her try to call me abusive while all I do is point out what she is doing. Arguments are getting fun for me because she can't help herself. Record everything boys.
>>541868494You might as well kill her and stuff her remains in a suitcase.
Imagine telling ANYTHING truthful and personal on this glownigger honeypot datamine of a website.You 4chinners are some if the stupidest mofos I've ever seen.
not passive just gone
>>541868494Why even put yourself in that situation? Pussy must be real good, huh? Even though you can get it anywhere else..
>>541866426Bad. Our nervous systems are always in a constant state of survival. And while we would like to be in a intimate relationship, our nervous system activates "the old patterns" of our childhood. Thus we see every person (too) close to us, as potential thread. Especially women of course.I would reccommed watching this.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AdHh5XTKfDE&pp=ygUjd2hhdCB0aGUgYXV0b25vbXkgdHlwZSBuZWVkIHRvIGhlYXI%3D
>>541868806pussy
>>541869222https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UEBIsUsvheA
>>541866426It‘s the reason why I‘m so fucked up and socially ineptJust got addicted to opioids so I‘n Even more of a loser than beforeI use Christianity to cope but my I‘m too much of an Atheist for it to really work
>>541867553Dad died when i was in middle school but parents were already divorced. Mom was crazy and still is crazy. She's not a bad person but really didn't care as long as you weren't in the house. This was the 80s/90s when this was pretty common. You came home for lunch/dinner and that was it. Never had a curfew but never stayed out late because i was a morning person. Left home at 18 and never looked back. It was good in that it was 80s and 90s and it was a good time to be a kid, but bad in that i felt like i never had parents.
>>541866426Fear and avoidance of women, constant feeling of duty for female pleasure and emotional state, defectiveness schema, sexual issues (crippling performance anxiety) and severe body dismorphia Dad was an alcoholic who ignored me unless he was yelling at me but was generally absent from my life, older sister was a manipulative bully supported by my mom and my mom oscilated between being an overly strict tyrant (when I was young) and a constant victim (when I got too old to control me but still could emotionally blackmail me). I grew up hearing (and believing) that my dad was worthless, stupid, impotent etc Now I'm 32, never had a girlfriend and have to take viagra to be able to get hard with one cause I can't relax enough to enjoy actual sex because I'm anxiously worrying if I'm good/big/hard enough to please the woman
>>541866426sometimes its not the one with the weewee who is the strongest...strong mothers make stronger sons unless the son is just a weak as the dad. in that case the son is normally a gay homo faggot
>>541866657Nope. I have the exact opposite. I love my mom. My dad always made me feel bad about myself, that I haven't achieved enough, always pushing me, praising me rarely, very very few times, only when I really really really did something good. My mom always was more tolerant.I mean, "is", not "was". They're both still alive.What do u think of my situation and me? Genuinely wanna know >>541866987>>541866667>>541867163
>>541867297Same.
>>541868494My ex is exactly like thatJust leave
>>541870004Schau dir das mal an:https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0qn3IITyKow
