Why is it virtually impossible to make new friends after you get out of college?I'm 28 and I literally have 0 friends.
This is why it pays off to not be racist and have a couple of black friends. I go to the bar with them and they just straight up approach the cutest women there, mumble some shit, make a joke and these women are dying laughing, spilling their drinks and everything. My black friend then points one of the girls to me and says "ayyo go talk to my white nigga" and guess what, she literally does. She goes up to me and asks where I'm from. And we hit it off. Basically never go to bars without a black friend, they're just better about these kind of situations than white guys. I've never seen a black guy with confidence issues.
very natural thread. please contribute sars
>>542475565You choose to not have friends
>>542475565use case for friends?
>>542475565friends are just enemies who don't have the guts to kill you
>>542475763kurwa, I'm not a jeet.
>>542475747>jewish pilpul nigger-worship scriptkill yourself
>>542475565How did you make it through school, university and 5-8 years of working without making any friends. Are you an asshole?
The system is broken. This situation is becoming more common and yet it's presented as an individual problem. Let people who still hang out with their highschool friends, who have never been alone in the world, who have never had to consider cold approaching complete strangers for companionship, tell you you are a loser who can't do something so "simple."It's like someone who was born wealthy explaining how easy it is to get a job, and assuring themselves that in an alternate reality where they were poor and had to work at Walmart, they would shortly attain the same level of wealth they live in now.
>>542475932It's not Jewish to recognize some races have strengths and others don't. It's actually really high IQ.Would I hang out with an Asian if I'm going to bars and trying to pick up women, or would I hang out with one if I'm studying for an exam? It's the same thing. White guys alone by themselves at any bar is just weird. Black guys don't even *show up* to bars alone because they know instinctively it's weird, they show up with a squad because they're more community oriented. They have less inhibition and know how to have fun. White guys don't. White guys are obsessed with either "Jewish conspiracies" or looking mean and deep all the time, they have a hard time letting loose. Argue with me on this and you'll just be proving how stupid you really are.
>>542475565Honestly, it’s right time right placeThe 3 good friends I have are from earlier phases of my life. Shit, I met my best friend back in 3rd grade and we still talk and hang out to this day at age 32You honestly cannot force a friendship. It has to happen when everything lines up perfectly Kind of like finding a gf
>>542475906do you want to 'make friends' to 'feel better about yourself'? People feel when you want to 'take'. The energy should come from within, when you're happy with yourself. So focus on what you do and then try to share it with others. That's the most important thing - the other stuff is acquired as you go. Also It's weird to learn how to talk to people at such an age so you have to just used to the fact that some people will hate your guts and it's not their fault.
>>542475992I did make friends, was friends with a couple of racist Asian girls too; but we just all drifted apart once we all moved to different states and city for work.
>Watch a video on twitter>It gets posted on 4chanWhy do glowniggers love twitter (fuck calling it X) so much?Is Elon pauing you fags to advertise his platform?
It’s literally that easy, even a smelly manlet like Charles Manson made lots of friends after reading this
>>542475992Unironically some of these guys really are, but not the "asshole" loudmouth you'd expect because those guys still have friends. These guys are just quiet, shy, "nice guys" who are secretly racist and have a very high opinion of themselves, and those are usually the types that end up with no friends at 30 and above.
>>542475992it's definitely possible if you saw school as a job to be endured, and all you wanted to do was go home and watch cartoons and play vidya>t. 35yo basement dwelling remotely employed neet that only leaves home for groceries
>>542475565That guy is a comedian, but the clip is being used to add to demoralization processalso uh, you don't get to bring friends
>>542476101niggers never go to bars by theirselves because that's an admission they dont have a bbc, since niggers are always faggots that hang with other hung niggers and go everywhere together like women
>>542475992he just doesn't pretend acquaintances are friends like you do. try this, tell your friends you need help moving for like 8 hours next saturday and everyone who shows up is your friend and the people you talk to daily who don't are your acquaintances
>>542475565I go to the bar alone all the time, but I get absolutely trashed as quickly as I can and sit there til I have to pee or remember I have cigarettesOddly enough, Ive never had any problems with the faggots touching sticks and balls or random women I dont know. Occasionally I have a problem with the bartender but those are fun occasionans where I too can be a mischevious prankster
>>542476250>it's actually really gay if you hang out with friends at barsOkay man whatever.Who seriously takes the advice of these stuck-up narcissists? I feel bad for anybody who listens to this shit.
I will successfully genocide breeders.You think humans can't be cloned and the brain programmed to act exactly like a machine?You will be replaced with cloned human slaves who slave for me alongside AI.I will replace you fuckin whores with my cloned and programmed human slaves.I will clone these adult-ready humans like in Blade Runner and then I will programm their brains to love and fuck only me like in Westword.I will own them alongside my AI robots and be happy.
>>542476295for niggers it is, every token nigger has a small dick
i´ve went to a bar multiple times alone and had 0 of these issues , just don´t be a sperg and let people get used to you , THEN you can ask to play pool , but if you do it by day one and come across weird people won´t want to interact with you.unwritten rule of bargoing alone.
>>542476220Literally just smile a lot and lie. And maybe read books so you appear "interesting". I know how sociopathic manipulators work. I've been dealing with them my whole life.
>>542475565I like to go to metal bars alone. Hate when someone comes and talks when I just want to get shit faced and listen to some good metal.
>>542476101the surviving black genetics are the ones that were entertaining to whites like running, jumping, dancing and singing. this is literally the only point of black/erectus genetics. denisovans/orientals were post-stone age like whites and that's why the neanderjews wanted to mutt and genocide them. when you're the 3rd best creature that is alive you can't win unless you get rid of the #1 and #2 creatures. they got rid of #2 and are working on #1 but the problem is EVERYONE ALIVE wants to be whiter than they are. brown-haired mutts call themselves whites. they fuck each other and call the curly brown haired, brown eyed kids white. white can't die because everyone wants to be white. when shit gets bad, it will be a fight to be the whitest because the first group that starts pumping out babies with white brains is gonna take over the world to start the next cycle, recreate civilization and leave the mutts behind in the dirt. indians are those "left behind" by white civilization in a previous cycle. aborigines and all indigenous are exactly that, the left over, unwanted non-white genetics. jews figured out putting all their points into bitches with big titties who will suck white dick was their ticket to existing in white society and money, lazy people love money and all it takes is one lazy brown-haired "white" in power and boom, the end of the cycle begins.non-white humans are just animals that can talk. if niggers made dolphin sounds nobody ever would have considered them human
>>542475565It's not impossible to make friends after college, it's that after college people are so brainwashed by their biological experience that they cannot befriend someone that thinks outside of the box. If you have to ask the question why you can't make friends it's because you don't play by the rules of life on this sick planet and they would rather you be weeded out of the gene pool. This is a sad reality to a free mind.
>>542475747None of what you said is normal.
>>542476220Somebody gave me a copy of this in high school and said I should read it so I ripped it in half in front of them and threw it on the floor lol
>>542475565Men are under sustained and relentless attack from foids. They hate us and are obsessed with our destruction.
>>542476272I know what you mean, I have acquaintances, maybe10 friends and 4 people who would bury a body and never bring it up.>>542476194Ok, I'll assume you're genuine and give you a real response. For making friends out of high school I've had the best success in niche hobbies. For example: Practical pistol shooting, and clay shotgun shooting. Or Wargaming clubs. People are usually quite friendly to new comers since they want more people to join, you inbuilt have something to talk about on a deeper level with them, and they probably can't talk to many other people about it. I've had people give me beers afterwards and we just shoot the shit. Some of my best friends are wargamers that I met after university. Just say yes when they offer you something social like hanging out after the event, pay your share of the drinks/ food and try to be chill.
>>542475565Have some fucking hobbies and participate in related social events retard, of course approaching random people out of the blue like a freak won't work.
>>542475565Americans move like 20 times on average in their lifetimes where anatomically you're still the same ape that generally lived it's whole life within 30 miles of where it was born.
>>542475565I feel badly for that dude. But that's the way it is. It's time to destroy the society our great grandfathers built. It's been weaponized against us.
>>542475565Because all straight men are trash. Completely inconsiderate of others and only care about the hole they're fucking. They will also simultaneously make threads like the OP despite the aforementioned. You don't want friends, you only care about pussy.
>>542475747Lol. Back to plebbit, sodomite. You literally just made that up.
>>542475992didn't go to college, work is filled with boomers
>>542475565simpsons did it firsthttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YSLMLHNY4QQ
>>542475565Because no one talks to strangers anymore.
friends are a waste of time, and they disappear so it's wasted effort
>>542475992Friendship is generally a function of proximity and shared interestsWhen either of those change, the relationship fadesNot always, but for the majority, that is the case.
Just get a twink boytoy you faggots
>>542476612And look where you are now.
>>542476927we still do, but only on anonymous digitial interfaces like this Kiribatian frog-trading forum
>>542476227wtf that's literally me (except I'm not racist)
>>542475565Just use the non-4chan social media and you'll make friends naturally
>>542477038even doing that will make them believe that they can survive off onlyfans with someone else that has a better dick... unless you make them addicted to crack
>>542475565Making friends is easy. You simply go to places where people are engaging in the hobbies you're into. Back when you were in school you were forced to be there every day. What made it fun was the people you were forced to be there with. As an adult you don't have to be anywhere. You choose where you want to be. Because you're no longer being forced to interact with others its harder to interact at all. Everyone is running around doing their own thing. That's where the hobbies come in. You meet people into the same things you're into and you become friends not because you're forced to be there, but because you want to be there. Go where your people are, not some random bar where everyone is half drunk and not their normal selves
>>542475565College and earlier is really the only time in your life where it's considered acceptable to just walk up to random people in a class or dorm and ask if they want to hang out.As you get older you need friends to make new friends.
>>542475565I find this webm way too relatable as someone who moved to a new town after college and tried going to bars solo in order to rebuild my social life. Half the people thought I was an undercover cop, the rest just seemed to think I was a creep. It was a major waste of time
>>542477123Except I'll never see any of you in real life. I'll probably won't even see most of you again after this thread.
>>542476612I like your energy, I would be your friend
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>>542475565Why is he touching his throat every 5 seconds?
>>542475565>The bartender asked a paying customer to leavebull
friendship is overrated
Used to love going to the bar by myself. Bartender used to throw on the goonies and OG star wars movies before the crowds came in and i drank 12 $2 blue moons. Did some coke in the bathroom then went and took a nap before going out with people. Covid ruined everything, especially my rampant alcoholism and cocain use.
>>542475565Holy shit thats rough, anons who watched this video, never subjugate yourself to trying to conform to what society says you should do (going to a bar, to be embarrassed and shamed socially, ripped off from your money, and literally told and forced to leave). Do you whatever the fuck you want to, unironically, dont do what this poor guy did and force yourself to do stuff you dont enjoy, and to sit thru a humiliation ritual, be your own person. I stopped buying into the whole "go to a bar, make friends, be a part of society" long ago, and I dont think ive had 1 day where that ive truly been unhappy since, my life may not be totally perfect, but its 100% my own, and its governed daily by me, not arbitrary, frankly disgusting societal norms that are against you. Anyway i digress, that poor guy is all i can say lol, thats fucked
>>542476227This is a little too on the nose
>>542476272this doesnt work if youre like 30 and above, if you are enough of an asshole to ask someone to waste their day off instead of paying someone to do it you cant be surprised you are friendless
>>542475992I'm autistic but also high IQ so people mostly see me as normal if a bit odd. People have tried to be my friend throughout my life and I don't know how to handle it.
>>542478163Sounds like they already got a bunch of money out of him so they didnt care if he leaves
>>542475992I made friends in school but not university because my grades were terrible and thus I thought I would be a bad influence on others (plus i didn't want to lead them on only to kill myself in a few years)now I lack an interest in socialising, aside from the intel
>>542475747Ok you still didn't get laid but your nigger friend did faggot cuck.
>>542477767You'll see my flag making quite psychotic posts here. Both of us are here forever, friend.
>>542478007The 19th is a mistake.
>>542475747Mutt's law, american culture, etc
>>542475747I dont associate with niggers.
>>542475565how? every workplace I make new friends. And it's not even my priority
I ditched my high school "friends" in favor of steam erp friends and never been happier.
>>542475992>Are you an asshole?
>>542475992Dude are you serious? Have you interacted with 4channers or right wing racists online? They're the meanest assholes on earth. It's only them who are surprised they have no friends and no pussy. 99% of making friends is just being nice and 90% of getting pussy is also being nice. Try to interact with the average dude here, and tell me if he's a person you'd want to be around.
>>542475565Virtually impossible because (YOU) MAKE IT THAT WAY.Speak for yourself, I made friends last week and I'm older than you, stop looking for excuses and improve your charisma!
Friends are fir childern you dumb lonely piece of shit. If you are really lonely make a family, if you can't family fuck and marry a woman, then go save you your money and buy baby and raise it. Just stop fucking complaining.
>>542475992all my friends are dead
>>542476231In these conditions you STILL can have friends>I play G game and watch C cartoon>Never heard of it, what's the story?>You're missing out! It starts with a hero who...
>>542475992you don't have any friends unless you rape children with them and eat their aborted childrape fetuses.
>>542475565Who the hell wants friends? They're all fake anyway and only use you for something.
>>542475747Yes, women are fucking retarded and react positively to retarded men. You’re better off having 80 IQ than 120 IQ
>>542475747Something stopping you from doing this yourself without nigger involvement?
>>542475565Because once you leave the school system and hit the job market, it’s over. You can be as sociable as you like, you might even strike up a genuine seeming friendship with coworkers and really hit it off but in the end, they’ll just save your number as "Name [Company]" and you’ll never see them again once your contracts wrap up. Why? Because social life has nothing to do with personality, contrary to what the normies here claim (who themselves generally have a personality that is as bland as can be). It’s STRUCTURAL (If you dropped out of school, spent your teenage years playing video games, with little family around, or whatever else its over) .Social life is a train you have to catch at the platform, and that platform is called "adolescence." Once you miss that train, it’s game over no matter how sociable you are. Normies already have bonds established since childhood and family; don't you see them glued to their phones 24/7 at work? They’re chatting with their family and friends on the outside. That’s because, to them, you’re just an acquaintance. Yeah, the point is you don't build a social life at work or anywhere else once you're an adult, whether it's a sports club or whatever. Real life isn't The Sims, where you can just walk into a bar (who actually does that?) as a total stranger, strike up a conversation, and make friends like you did at the local park when you were eight. Don't listen to all those Boomers, Gen Xers, and Millennials who are out of touch with reality; those guys are literally stuck in 1990. They spout the same watered down nonsense when it comes to women too, calling men "manchildren." Millennials are just Boomers. They lived through life before the internet, and they tell you you have to go to a bar, lmao. When you see a guy say that, that’s when you realize these guys are living in another galaxy, one that isn't 2026.
>>542482909And the thing is, sure, we don't care about having a social life at 30 but without one, you'll NEVER meet women (unless you're over 1.85m tall; then you can start from scratch, same for women).
>>542475747Didn't go a single post without worshipping niggers
>>542476354there is a major difference in culture between the two places. america is obsessed with social position, and someone without an entourage is seen as low status, thus would lower their collective status if he joined the group. north americans are extremely rude, mean and sadistic as a general rule. they love to mob people and attack as a group. you go to the bar to show you already have a group of friends, to show off new clothes, to larp like you're a reality tv show cast member. you don't go to acquire anything, you go there if you already have it and want to flaunt it to others. very superficial culture herethey either kiss your ass or want you dead, no in between
