How do people navigate this life growing up without solid families? how many of you had a more or less functioning one? my mom was always insane but my dad (rip) was a great guy and I wouldn’t have made it this far without him. (Not things are great for me but they may have ended up even worse) even having him around life was tough— without him I have no clue what my life would have turned out like.I miss him all the time and wish I could ask him for advice. and I suppose that’s the inspiration for making this thread is there are people that never have that even for a day.I meet a ton of people who never had a dad, most are okay. but some are really shitty. But that’s most people I guess. I suppose I’m wondering if that’s part of why this world is so fucked up is just lack of a good mentor growing up. (Yeah absent dads exist but that’s not my point here)
>>542832876the best thing that can happen to a man is to be born in a garbage bin its like being born to a incomprihensible wealth, but without the part where you feel humilated after some family member heated the toilet seat with their ass for you
>>542832876in the past you had 50 years of freedom because both you and your parents died earlynowadays you you die as a virgin at 89 just 1 year after your parents die, youre given a total of 1 year of freedom then you join back the same parental reincarnation cycle
>>542832876youre too poor to event change geo location and thus change parental reincarnation cycle, so youre reborn with the same insufferable sack of meats
>>542832876you tolerate their drunk sleepwalking entering your room like a murderer at 1 am to watch you sleep or do things you cannot catch on camerayou tolerate them pissing the entire toilet floor you tomerate them returing invalidated toilet paper rolls from the dirty toilet paper binyou tolerate them walking with transparents bras, despite their tits being ugly and fatyou tolerate them entering your room and re arranging your papers playing with your air conditioner remote without your consentyou tolerate them screaming at each other to raise the global frustration levels in the entire apartmentyou tolerate them planting divorce books under Christmas trees to signal messages to each otheryou tolerate their smelly boots after work, the smell of which can reach every room in the apartmentyou tolerate the disgusting kitchen smells you tolerate them moving their ass in front of the tv while you watch it you tolerate their feet in your peripheral vision trying to make you pay attention to themyou tolerate these insufferable pieces of shit and your only reward is being reborn with them to tolerate them again cause nobody else wants to
>>542832876you tolerate them blocking your internet connection by torrenting pornyou tolerate them giving you orders to join the living room tableyou tolerate them inquiring context about your every move as if they are keeping secret notes on what you do all the timeyou tomerate their political leanings and them interogating you whether you voted and who you voted for
>>542832876you tolerate them fingering your food and giving you dirty the opposite if spoonsyou tolerate their awful cooking
>>542832876and all you get is more of these shitty pieces of shit because unlike you they were given jobs
>>542832876you tolerate your father's testicle sack slipping from his underwear when he sleeps drunk in the kitchen because your mother kicked him out of the room
>>542832876you tolerate your drunk father placing you on his front preventing you from escaping by closing his arms like a handcuff around you to tell you drink wisdoms about life while yoi beat him and punch him in the head
>>542832876you tolerate your father punching your brother and him falling on a sharp object crushing his entire skull bleeding all over the kitchen being sent to hospital in 1 am at night
>>542832876you tolerate your hysteric mother for calling the cops on you for moving the bed to the basement because its broken and it destroys your spine
>>542832876and all you get for it is more of the same
>>542832876you tolerate your mother keeping a collection of broken shoes from the 80s in front of the door to make her look poor because she wants people to think she is poor
>>542832876you tolerate your mother's whispering manipulations theatrical spectacles, hysteria, gaslighting, blame diversion, screamings, saying she would rather all of us were dead, and that commies were right
>>542832876and all you get is more of the same
>>542832876may everyone in the future be born in a garbage bin thats what i pray for
>>542832876i might have not been able to say that, but i survived the abortion so i did
>>542832876Whatever badness the parents do, it's the bad things that the parents do.Children are so trusting of their parents that they'll integrate the effects of that badness as if they contributed to it.But they didn't.It's just shitty parents being shit at parenting, and shitty parents projecting.My mother would put me and my little brother up against my dad because it distracted us from the shit she was talking about us to everyone else.She insisted we got diagnosed for things we didn't have (my lil bro didn't get anything in the end) just so she could exploit that and belittle and control us, to keep us around forever.And she would go out of her way to make sure everybody knew we were the broken ones, just like dad was broken.I spent my teen years fighting the believing it which she made extremely difficult, but I persevered.At the end of the day, I wasn't broken. She was.Her being broken was not my fault or my responsibility, and when I moved out it wasn't my problem anymore.Many guys hate mental problems because they get told these are inherited or some sort of damage they're born with.For a very select few guys this may be true.For the overwhelming majority of guys it isn't.Mental damage can be caused by injuries too.I spent 2 years away from my entire family seeing and hearing them never, healing the injuries my mother gave me.That's how I know.They're just injuries.Injuries can heal.
>>542835454Dude. What? Even jews are not this cruel.
>>542836113my father was never given a single day of unemployment, all he had to do was show up for mandatory military service 2 months or 3, after that never had a single day where jobs declined him in his life
>>542836113i never had a day in my life where i was ever employed 26
>>542836113my mother works at a bank, and tried to make a contract with 300 kg school director of Dimitrovgrad school (a commie citt built in 2 days by commies) that theyd give me 3 years worth of education if i just showed up, thus let me pass classes just not to wrong the name of their school
>>542832876The worst thing is when you have nothing to blame. I had an okay childhood, born in a 1st world country with lots of financial support for education, able bodied, average looking...Yet I made all kinds of problems up in my head and self-sabotaged myself at every step to become a total fucking loser and now I have to live in the hell I created for myself for the rest of my life knowing I did this myself.
>>542837616city*
Mcdonalds on every block fixes this
i am drunk incel virgin loser neet with about 2% phone battery left, and i just want to say how much i love my ginger classmate who will probably never meet me again :( and also how much i want my parents to suffer heart attack or a stroke
>>542838490or both
>>542838561especially both
>>542838603and now i have 1% phone battery and i love my ginger classmate whom i will never meet
>>542838490>i want my parents to suffer heart attack or a strokeThen who's going to warm your tendies, faggot?
>>542838679she always looked beautiful
>>542838720i am bulgarian neet not US neetunlike US neets i cannot afford Asuka Langley figurines from Ebay, i am involuntary neet
>>542832876Iirc nowadays 30-40% of white people come from broken homes vs 90% for black people. It’s shit for black people and it’s shit for white people except maybe (probably though not completely) in different ways
>>54283881090% of whites come from broken homes like niggers this might be a tough fact for a Timmy that’s a jeet in his own country but you guys fucking suck
>>542838794not because i physically cannot afford them but because my parents have ownership complex so they will remind me everything i buy with their money is ultimately theirs
>>542832876Someone once handed meA Box of Darkness.It was only later,that I realised,this too was A Gift.
>>542838894It’s not 90% yet I’m pretty sure but it’s headed that way most likely the way things are nowadays. Though if I were somebody for whom it would be tough, it wouldn’t be, because it’s not true.
Poor Bulgarian. Awfulrrendous
>>542838720>28 PBTIDyou are one drunken italian. Did you eat some fermented spaghetti?
>>542839357oops wrong guy. I meant this guy>>542838603
