Can someone explain why BPD mother cause their sons to become neets?
Fucking casual. I never died
>>543891649I tought it's about being ugly
>>543891649BPD to fucked up society pipeline more like
>>543891649BPD moms just crave a good hard fuck from their son. They go crazy for soncock.
being a dude with actual borderline sucks ass man pretty much resigned to being a social hermit.
>>543891649those sons are intimidated by their mother. i remember being 15 years old when i figured this out>physically, i am far stronger than this person>this person cannot stop me from leaving>this person must allow me reentry into this home by lawit became real fucking simple after that
>>543891835hello saar
My mother had me when she was a teenager and she grew up to be a total womanchild. To this day I have to "tardwrangle" her so she stops getting into fights with others, buying unnecessary shit, buy ACTUAL FOOD (not garbage) and control every single small aspect of my life even as an adult in my 20s.
>>543891835Not even an exaggeration fucking disgusting. Emotional incest.
>>543891649"BPD" is a jewitch invention
>>543892037That’s going to be your life forever if you let it cut the cunt off. She will never ever improve
>>543891649>lifetime of overstimulation, emotional manipulation, living with a beast that literally craves your emotional energy and feeds off of it, using you as a means to achieve the rollercoaster of emotions that was programmed into them as a child, constantly probing you in an attempt to provoke the intended reaction.>anon grows up, learns how to let harsh words roll off their back, cuts off their toxic family(blood being thicker than water is some arbitrary BS, cum is thicker than blood) no longer concerned with meeting the requirements bestowed upon them by society, no longer worried about pleasing people, retreating into the happy and rich inner world they have cultivated since childhood, determined to break the cycle once and for all by any means necessary, probably alone unless he finds his other half by some miracle, unable to know that he does indeed possess the skills to break the cycle AND raise a child Happens every day, I hear
>>543892037how many boyfriends has she had while youve been alive?
>>543891649Hello my mother was and is an insane whore with BPD. She will die alone, her own children and family have cut her off, because she deserves it. BPD whores turn their sons into lifetime caregivers. You will constantly be seeking insane, dangerous women and getting attached to them, extremely deeply. Most of these whores you attach yourself to have BPD or NPD or some other crazy bitch disorder. Guess what? Theres a cure: EMDR therapy. Get it. Seriously. It works. Guess what? That girl that you've been caretaking, that sucks your dick like its her job, the one that keeps leaving and coming back? Thats your mom. You sick fuck. You could never save her, so now youre trying to save her. You retard. Stop it. There are actual support groups for this: CODA and another one i think is called PPG Reformed Caretakers, something like that. Get a sponsor. Fix your codependency. Get EMDR. Stop being a faggot. She doesnt love you. She used you for emotional regulation, she cannot take care of herself. She WILL give you HIV if you persist. Anyway fuck niggers and kikes and w*men belong in cages. Also fuxk your gay faggot thread op
>>543892352Irrelevant. Mine had none, wasn't a teen-mom, still acted like that anon's Mother. She even tried to scare me with the ol' Boomer Special>YOU'RE OUT AT 18>N-N-N-NNNNOOOOO YOU'RE WORSE THAN YOUR FATHERIt was just tragic.
>>543892538My mom actually had me kicked out violently by the current guy that was fucking her the day after my 18th birthday.
How did the son turn into a wojak?
>>543891649Overprotective and obsessive behavior, coupled with weak checked out father (otherwise who won't stick around with her if he wasn't), produces NEETs or at least, people with many issues
>>543895473Literally me.
>>543891649What game is he playing?
>>543895473>produces neetsit produces most modern women and homosexuals
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i always have to behave like a toddler or something how do you get above that
i dont think its nice to talk about family but i wish i had some therapist regarding how fucked up i am
>>543892448doesn't sound like you're cured desu.
its like a string tightly wrapped around your balls and the moment you find any self worth back becoming lose the witchcraft starts and you can't even eat a meal without everything falling on your shirt and shit like thati see a pattern in women though theres something wicked in them that is false and relies on nothing reasonable theyll just spout nonsense, and do all kinds of weird shit.
>>543892352My mother is not very "bright" socially, she had a few boyfriends before, sure. But then my father showed up, dated her, knocked her up one day and she never considered abortion because she had no idea abortion was even a thing. Then, for whatever reason she "fell in love with my father for good" and my father stuck up to her, and now I am here. They never married. Still together decades later.tldr my father groomed an autistic girl and knocked her up
like theyll say something and answer can both be a or b but whatever way theyll just wanna confuse you and spin stuff around like the language and communication evolved diffr we attach meaning logic and ressoning and they just use it as a tool to posess control in a completely different aspect than reasoned thoughtits also uncanny sometimes like deceiving manipulating demons reside within people. its not just womenpeople can be very strange once honesty is gone
>>543892037Listen to this anon >>543892278My mother is in her sixties and a BPD train wreck. Divorcing my dad midlife ruined any chance of a normal second half of her life. I tried to help her by letting her live with us, but it was all in vain. She claimed I was being abusive behind my back. I’m in a healthy relationship with a wife and four kids. I am so done with that bitch.
>>543892037I lived that life and stopped it at 19. Refused to let me go to college and told me to get a mcjob. Then wanted to take my paycheck in rent. I was lazy and just wanted to exist so I kept with it but when I got a raise and suddenly my rent went up the same amount I realized what was up and just left. You need to do it before your life is too stunted.
>>543891738>>543895907Sadism like all Satanisms is the performance of Materialist Relativism. The victim is irredeemable and the discriminating heuristic is FELT as greater than just a god.
theres also something called proxy by munchausen ir something i dint really believe in psychiatry in the full extend but maybe it can bring answers to some people reading this ..yr not alone :'') <3
>tomorrow: job applicationsConsidering the job market, you can assume that there has been efforts made. During the great depression there were lots of men traveling homeless looking for any odd job.
>>543891649lol that bottom pic is literally me except I don't have any figs yet. I've been browsing the buyfag threads on /a/ though, looking for a few I want to put on a shelf.
>>543897348>anxious bitch shows up to the head shrink>doc, doc, I need something, some sort of medication, I'm crackin' doc>female shrink: hmm this bitch be lyin' she's BPD, here's every medication known to man>deliberately fakes, exaggerates, or induces physical or psychological illness in someone under their care
>>543891649>why does being trained to not want things as a kid cause people to not want things?
>>543891649You have to beat your mother since your dad isn't doing it anymore. Women only understand peace under the strong firm backhand of a man.
>>543897621Honest question: the anime figurines, why? To express whimsy for a series you enjoyed?At a certain point the $3000 realistic sexdoll is less cringe than the $3000 anime figurine collection.
They inherited her cluster B tendencies and lack the emotional intelligence to see why leaching and giving hardship to others just so you can play vidya all day is wrong. Sorry
>>543891649All women are bpd.
>>543897944Leeching* even
I have a BPD mother and I am a hard working man. I never go long without a job. My first job was at 14 years old. Even when I have a day off, I like to stay busy. Do you know what really fucks up BPD moms and their kids? Divorce money. If your BPD mom got divorce money then the chances of becoming a lazy NEET increase by about 30-50% and that's not counting weekly allowance from grandma.
>>543893780InterestingMine swatted me and said I was a compulsive liar with a condition because they didn't want to argue about it Lo and behold they put me in a psych ward for 5 months adamant that I just wouldn't stop lying about not having symptoms I feel we're on different ends of the same type of sewage
The whole american thing about immediately kicking out their children as soon as they turn 18 is some boomer holdover. Back then, anyone could afford rent with any job right out of highschool, and a house and a car a few years later, so it was natural to leave your house because it was affordable.
>>543892448My mom was insane bpd and I dont want anyone like her at all.My dad was a saint for staying with her but god knows I wouldn't have and I'd have taught my kids not to stay with a woman like her. I learned anyway, I guess, because I'm not fucking retarded and not easily damaged, unlike you.
>>543891649quick thread detour:i realized im watching a detailed breakdown of the sturmtigermy wife is watching a video asking if eating fresh orange peels can make her farts less smelly
>>543896404Based dad. Hope neither of your parents are monkeys anon.
Waah waah stop blaming mommy for being such a failure and grow up manchild.
>>543899356Doesn't work like ChudlyAvoiding your mommy issues is NOT growing up it's regressing
>>543899356You can’t understand how much bad parenting affects brain development if you haven’t been through it or studied it. My parents genuinely taught me nothing except to be an emotional sponge for my unstable BPD mom, I was raised to be a toy poodle abuse goblin basically. And yes I do have a job.
>>543899356its not about blame its about understanding so you can try to move on and see things difr its pointless explaining things anyways because its not a conscious thing and it changes nothing but if you become aware of certain things you might can find some strenght back, not everyones in the same spot everyone has different situationsits part of growing up i guess
>>543892225Not even multi millionaire nigball chads or tyrones are safe from emotional incest and single mother cuckoldry
>>543891649The stability is not integrated to a functional rationing of bandwidth for prospering
>>543896508You need essentially to live the way religious do to be prepared, if you inherit violent relatives
>>543891918I wish. In europe, society is responsible enough they cannot beat you or worse. Squaring up to someone trying domestic violence requires serious material commitment. They can steal from you right before a big job to sabotage you, they can hurt you, and they can give the estate to their mistress. Litigating will not restore your prosperity since you missed the milestone. It would feel fulfilling to pass a law for better property rights inherited, like half of Europe does.
>>543891649The high amounts of modern BPD are caused by Jewish pills.>birth control disables oxytocin receptors>allergy meds disable histamine systems in the brain>SSRIs contain fluoride>Parkinsons meds cause sex addictionLiterally all pills are poison with intended consequences. Modern BPD insanity is caused by 75% of gen X being lead poisoned + Jew pills killing whatever neurons they have left.
>>543899356Autism is literally caused by emotional abuse of toddlers.
>>543891715Based.
>>543891898there's no such thing as a male with borderline. it's a faggot or a troon
>>543891649https://youtube.com/shorts/AlhSsH3hxSg?si=DJ7f7APHPn1xJ9KiNaturally jewish.
