I've been arguing with my co-workers about this. Who comes first in a relationship, your mother, your kids, or your wife?My co-workers are adamant that your wife should come first, and I don't agree it. I believe the kids come first, then the mother (within reason) because she gave you life and provided for you when you were a child, and then your wife. That's not to say you should neglect your wife. I just don't believe she should come over your mother or your kids.
>>543976893Kids, Wife, Mother
>>543977038IKR? What kind of mother would want to be saved over her own kids anyhow? She'd never live it down.
>>543976893Kids>wife>motherThey don’t have kids so they don’t even understand the biological urge to protect and raise them.Why are you arguing with npcs? Make money off them. They’re fucking hopeless.
It's a fake and gay scenario cooked up by severely mentally ill philosophers, just like the trolley problem. But you owe support to your children because they didn't choose to be born. You don't owe anything to anyone else. Your wife is just a hole, and science has proven that females lack qualia, consciousness, and subjective awareness in addition to being severely cognitively impaired and fundamentally incapable of ratiocination. We're talking about a baby queefer and a penis-sucking and fucking machine - would you save your piss bottle or your children from a house fire?
>>543977194>Why are you arguing with npcs? Make money off them. They’re fucking hopeless.This. Use them as your goyim. They love being exploited. You can even make them rape and kill each other in wars btw.
>>543977038This is the correct answer but depending on exactly what they mean by "come first" I could see some framing where it would make sense to put your wife first in certain contexts
None, they should all work in tandem.
>>543976893I don't have kids, but even I understand they come first. From a purely animalistic sense it's>Kids>Mother>WifeYour kids are carrying on your genes, your mother passed on her genes to you which means she still has a closer to connection to your genes, and your wife is pretty much interchangeable. The only thing that matters are your genes.It might sound idiotic me saying that when I have no kids, but that doesn't make what I say untrue.
>>543976893Foids want to hear you say you'd put your wife first, because they believe men exist to exploit for resources and children are just a means to that end. Children should of course come first, but foids don't want to hear that since it means that men find wives just as expendable as women do their husbands. Foids all think their vaginas are made of gold and the men are supposed to prioritize it over everything else to qualify as their "one true love" or whatever.
Kids if your ownWife if faithfull and virgin marriedMother is the previous generation already reproduced therefore comes last.>Kids > Wife If the wife is old or unable to provide the ammout of children>Wife > KidsIf the wife is very young and still fertileWife that cannot bear children, children that can not bear grandchildren or reproduce, not your own kids = worthlessValue = chance to spread your genesSimple as that
Copy-pasta thread from Romanian pedophile
>>543976893Kids come first always, if your wife disagrees, good luck, you married a retard and are probably retarded yourself
>>543976893Children>wife>mother.Anyone who says otherwise has fucked up morals
>>543976893>>543977038>>543977119>>543977194Your kid will benefit more from having parents who put each other first.
>>543977038this. a lot of baby boomers forgot this. fucking simps
>>543978782Not at their expense.As a parent your sole purpose is raising your kids so they can continue the cycle.Selfishness will be the death of civilization.You are right that children benefit from parents who value each other, but not at the expense of the children as the question implies.This is obvious.Stop being obnoxious
>>543976893>>543977038Wife>Kids>MotherYou will benefit as a couple, and as family, if each parent puts each other first.When you always put your kids first, you will lose so much effectiveness for raising your kids that you end up hurting your children.If you abstract this back to yourself, for instance, think of how your mom might ALWAYS be trying to make EVERYONE (not even direct family, but other family members or uncles/aunts or family friends) happy and ends up in a spiral. I know, because I saw my own mother do it. It took her until her 50s to realize she was being self destructive always putting others first before herself.Putting each parent first does not mean there are no sacrifices. It doesn't mean the parents are sipping lattes while watching their kids sit in filled diapers crying in hunger. It simply means that the parents are making each each other has the resources they need to get through life without going insane. Kids will be much happier with two healthy mentally centered parents.
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>>543976893Comes first in what? Saving someone from a fire? Kids, wife, momIn deciding who gets to ride shotgun with me? Wife, kids, momWife comes first pretty much in all day to day situations. If the kids want to go playground but the wife wants to go on a road trip, you're going on a road trip.
>>543978929I'll give you a good example of parents putting each other first in a healthy way. Take the parents who haven't taken a vacation for themselves in YEARS. They always say "but I have kids and its hard", as if they have to be near their children 24/7 or they cease to exist.You can find time to dump them off and a grandparents house, or to find a trusted babysitter, while you go on a vacation for a few days. No, it does not make you a bad parent. Its HEALTHY for children to be apart from parents from time to time (and to spend time with extended family like aunts/uncles/grandparents).
>>543979140Hero.
>>543976893>kids>self>wife>mother>>>>>literally anything else>>wife’s mother
>>543979183You just want to argue. You're being obnoxious
>>543976893Mother until you have a wife. Wife until you have kids. Kids move out on their own then back to wife. Simple as.
>>543979183>trusted babysitterYou can't trust strangers with your kids and you're a fucking retard if you do
>>543976893>picrelI might have to reconsider my position on furshitThat female furshit is hot as fuck
>>543979740lol
>>5439768931.kids 2.mom 3.wife
>>543980097It's been like 3 years and I still have near zero (pun intended) clue what that game she's from is about. All I know there is a scene where she gets massaged.
>>543976893Kids, mother, wife in order of genetic relatedness + loyalty/responsibility.
>>543978929Continuing the cycle means attracting and keeping a mate. Which means prioritizing that mate, in most cases. If you tell a foid you care more about the kids than her she's liable to Clancy them
>>543979894You're right, we should bubblewrap our children and make sure they never leave the house. After all, their teacher might rape them.
>>543976893>>543977038Men only want one thing and its fucking disgusting
>>543980662Its anime, but a gacha game.
>>543984692The gacha part does come up every time, but what of the gameplay? Do users just insert coins and unlock new skins? Surely there's more to it. Been making it a point not to just look it up, that way people can claim it's an arpg, a shooter, a card game, a turn-based strategy or a quest and all of these are equally believable. On trivial matters such as this it's kind of fun allowing to be bamboozled.
>>543987025You hack and slash with different characters to level them up in different ways. Game is easy if youre use to it, but at some points gets really challenging. Thats what the gear is for.
>>543976893Kids come first. They are the most vulnerable, and even the wife is responsible for then. Then wife and mother.
>>543976893>wife mother kidsWorst Marry-Fuck-Kill prompt I've ever heard. Try harder next time OP
I cum first in a relationship.
>anything>motherWesterncucks deserve to be genocided
>>543976893It's a very fine line, but your wife should come first in most normal situations. Having a happy, healthy marriage is more important than virtually anything else when it comes to raising your kids. You should, as a husband, make sure your wife is taken care of first so that she can take care of your kids and they can grow up seeing the value of that partnership.Marriage is not 50:50. It's all in from both parties and that doesn't stop because you have children. You are supposed to dedicate your entire life to that other person and failure to do so has measurable consequences on children. That said, obviously, in real life or death scenarios, your kids should take priority. It's your job as a father to protect your children above all else.The one exception that has always infuriated me is when it comes to childbirth. The mother comes first when there is a chance for both to die. A child raised without a parent will be stunted. If the mother can be saved, she should always be prioritized.A man's mother shouldn't even be in this conversation. She should never be concerned about until the wife and children are so thoroughly provided for that she cannot become a burden.
>>543988812Shut up boomer cuck
>>543988001Anticlimactic but better than most alternatives. Sometimes /v/ and /vg/ threads come up on the main page, opening an unfamiliar general with anime in the OP usually reveals a thread full of fan art but almost no screenshots. Then you see a screenshot and it's some kind of a card collectible game with an occasional tower defense segment or something. Somehow these appear to be very popular. I miss the days when gameplay came first.>>543988381GIWTWM
kids>mother>wifewife can be replaced
>>543976893as long as u come first it doesnt matter
>>543989881Idk where those keep coming from but the raccoon one is my favorite so far.
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>>543989881Gayest shit I've ever seen and there aren't even two cocks on screen.
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>>543976893Mother can kill the kids then.
