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What are the impacts of not spanking children?

Does society get better or worse and why?

Discuss
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Beating children makes them tough and violent. Not beating children makes them soft and weak.
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>>544065058
Faggotass take this dumb
/b a n t drive to the correct board you dumb fucking cunt... it has zero to do with politics fuck face
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>>544065058
Blacks and Mexicans spank the most.
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Atheists don't spank and mostly don't have children.

The Bible says to spank. That's enough for me. Spanking works. Threatening to spank is usually enough, alone, once they understand the pain.
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>>544065292
Blacks and Mexicans spank the most. You can cope all you want while pretending to be a race realist.
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>>544065438 meant for >>544065390
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>>544065390
>spank me daddy!
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Kids who don't respect their parents won't respect anyone outside the household. People wonder why they have soo many disciplinary problems these days. The teacher isn't paid to be your shrink/foster parent, so don't blame them when your kid is getting failing grades when you let them do whatever they (or don't) want.
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>>544065058
Never spanked my kids. Oldest son is a doctor, middle son is a meteorologist, and my daughter is going to school to be an electrician.

Niggers, spics, and jeets beat their kids. A white man can direct others without chimping out.
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>>544065292
>>544065438
I think there's a difference between spanking your child, and beating the shit out of them - with or without an object in-hand. I've seen how they treat their own kids, its how I know not to trust them around anyone else.
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I was flogged with a whip when I was 3, I turned out pretty fucked up.
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>>544065058
I spanked one of my daughters once
In front of the whole family as a lesson:
You don't fuck with dad
10 years later the one I spanked is the one who respects me most and wants to hang out with me all the time
My mistake was not spanking the other children
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>>544065148
kek do that an you will see what happens when you are old and weak.
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>>544065058
I don't have to spank my kids, but I spank my wife regularly.
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>>544066208
My dad hit me with his belt a few times. I really did deserve it. At the time I thought he hated me, but as I grew up I came to understand why. Knowing how much he loves me, and how good a father he is, it must have pained him to do it. But he knew he had to.
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>>544065852
>daughter
>in school to be an electrician

She's a tatted up mess isnt she.
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>>544065058
what about the wife?
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>>544065058
Worked retail long enough to see the little sociopaths that were never spanked and clearly needed it. College psychology 101 class said effectiveness varies by individual, so notice if it's actually working or you just being violent; and then remember to scale back the shit if they tell you the truth. Otherwise you'll raise a kid that always lies because your dumb ass is doling out the same punishment.
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>>544066284
yeah I see these opinions all the time and I think people like you brainwashed themselves because they had to find a way to cope with it. the thing is that physical assault is perceived by the body as deathly danger and damages nervous system. the person will spend the rest of the life fighting their PTSD.
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>>544066516
the world should be thankful you didn't make it past intro to psychology
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>>544065058
I was spanked precisely one time as a kid, not one round of spanking, a singular smack. It was enough to awaken a spanking fetish in me, now I pay whores to spank me. Thanks mom.
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>>544066284
Yeah, have kids and when they pull the same shit you did when your dad tuned you up you fully understand why you got your ass beat.
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>>544065058
Spanking is a tool, not a mean. Parents should have the tool available, but use it only on extreme situations.
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>>544066497
keep dat pimp hand strong mah nigga.
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>>544066394
No, none of my kids have tattoos. I am a general contractor and she wanted to do what I do. I pushed her into being an electrician because even though she is a strong young woman she is still a woman and cannot do most construction work us men can do.

You live in a fantasy world where if people aren't x they have to be y. That is just because you lack the ability to think. Probably your a nigger. Post hand and timestamp, chuhra.
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>>544065907
what happens when you soank your child and he keeps misbehaving? Are you going to just hit your kid harder and harder. Spanking your kid is a low IQ move. Spanking a small child is like spanking a baby. You should lose your kid for that shit. If you dont have the patience to deal with a toddler without spanking him, you shouldnt be around children.
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>>544066523
No not really. I was a pretty normal kid 99% of the time. My dad hit me with his belt a few times but there was only one time that I remember vividly and that was because of what I had done. I was in the backyard and I put a golf ball on a tee, grabbed one of dad's clubs, and smacked the golf ball as hard as I could at a two-storey house two doors down. I don't know what I was thinking. It was the stupidest thing I've ever done in my life. But that wasn't the worst part. The worst part was that the ball didn't go straight, it somehow went 90 degrees sideways, and broke our kitchen window. My mother was in the kitchen at the time. No one got hurt but she must've gotten the fright of her life. I ran away down the street and knocked on a neighbour's door and asked if I could come in, and I remember sitting in their lounge room for a while watching TV. I don't remember if I told them what happened. Not long after I went back home and dad confronted me and asked me what happened. I can't remember what I told him but he picked me up and took me to his room and hit me with his belt and that was that. Never did anything stupid like that again, except for read your post.
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>>544066516
kys
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>>544066284
The biggest advantage of beating children is not teaching them right from wrong. That is the third biggest advantage. The biggest advantage is making them tough. Then they are acquainted with getting hurt. This is advantageous. The second biggest advantage is showing them how to hurt someone. Humans need to hurt things to survive. Modern people are scared to even eat meat because they don't want to hurt anything. By beating the child you are showing them how to be violent. Nonviolent people do not survive. That is why the European race is disappearing.
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None of my kids are niggers so we've never had to spank or hit them. Not even sure what exactly merits a physical punishment?
Just lucked out I guess.
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>>544066924
yep he was clearly abusive a long time before because you were so scared you werent even able to go home. not even talking about the fact that you didnt meant to do it, which taught you that you are not allowed to make mistakes and learn from them.
hey, retard. think about this: you know how soldiers in war get PTSD? now these are adult people, and know that they are in war and they are attacked by enemies, which is expected. and yet, they still get PTSD. now, imagine what it does to a person, if you are a weak small child and someone attacks you, and that someone is your own fucking parent on top of that. ponder about that, smartass.
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>>544067085
theyre going to have low impulse control and act like monkeys
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It doesn't teach them discipline; it just sets them on the path to either become wifebeaters or alphabet people.
Don't bend over backwards for whatever stupid shit your kid says or does. Take away their phone/computer/vidya games if they act up.
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>>544066924
That's kind of retarded. Why not just force you to repair the window?
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>>544065058
when a hun boy was born before ever knew the comfort of his mothers breast his face was burned to insure that he would become immune to nearly all forms of waekness because his first experience in this world was pain.
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>>544065058
does spanking with my dick count?
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>>544067518
The Huns would have considered circumcision to be savage, and rightfully so.
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>>544067145
>retard
>smartass
>small weak child
Lot of projection in your posts.
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>>544065058
if i had a cute little 9-yr-old boy, i would spank him every day.
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>>544065058
you can always catch up later
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>>544067658
well you are the one itt that makes a claim that child beating is alright. you are obviously not alright. if I truly loved someone I simply wouldnt be able to lay a hand on them. it would be physically impossible. but you cope by telling yourself he did it because he loved you which just makes zero sense. look into C-PTSD. good luck on your healing, mate.
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>>544068052
It all makes sense now.
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>>544068603
I see, my mistake. I fell for it again.
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>>544065852
>my daughter is going to work, not marry
Good goy
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>>544066731
>chuhra
Brown
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>>544069099
Do you live in an alternate universe where 99.9% of the girls in your high school DIDN'T have career paths as backup plans?
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>>544067595
ive spokke nothing of that, only an ancient barbarian ritual.
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>>544069198
>because the world has gone to shit and we don't have sexual roles anymore we should keep doing the same thing because reeeeee fuck the past
>the future is feminist
Retard
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>>544065058
You absolutely should spank your kids, when and if they deserve such punishment. Simultaneously, you absolutely should use it sparingly, calmly, and wisely. There are times for when physical punishment is necessary, however, 98% of the time, timeout and stern words are more than enough to correct bad punishment.

I was squarely on the position that im not going to coddle my kids and that gentle parenting was faggy. However, I realize that spanking is overkill and there are several times where I regret resorting to such. Toddlers sometimes just cant comprehend us and our intentions sometimes. In addition, my kids would also try to 'discipline' each other on my behalf too. Some other times, they will recognize they are bad and run away preemptively with their hands covering their butts. It breaks your heart to realize the fear you put in them when you learn that timeouts are just as effective.

That being said, do not spare the rod. Children should expect grave consequences for crossing a father or mother, and such boundaries are very beneficial in their upbringing
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>>544069487
So you live in an alternate universe. How many of your daughters have you successfully married of as stay-at-home moms? 0? Faggot.
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>>544065058
>be me
>do something wrong
>fear the slipper
>dont do wrong thing any more
I'm convinced that not being allowed to physically strike children for doing wrong things is a way for the kikes to dismantle society further. If I didn't get the slipper I would have still been doing bad things.
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>>544069593
My children are under 10, moron. Raise your kids to be skanks. Keep pushing daughters into education. My children will have more children than I did. Yours will die out.

You are literally an NPC.
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>>544065058
The effects of spanking children aren't universal. Some children (white) have the capacity to develop a superego or conscience that allows them to internalize rules and exoectations, whereas most do not. For the latter, spanking, or physical violence up to and including death, must remain a constant and real threat throughout their lives for them to behave in any way approaching the former.
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>>544069724
Exactly. The number is 0. You haven't done shit but talk, and you're talking down to a grown man with adult children. You are the worst kind of faggot
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>>544065058
it's based
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>>544069781
Keep seething, male feminist.
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>>544065058
>People stop smacking thier kids around the 90s/00s.
>They become faggot commies who riot for nogs.
We need to start smacking them again. But only when its absolutely necessary.
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>>544065058
Actually spanking them is not really necessary but having the authority to do so is. The lack of authority that people have over their own children results in the state basically taking over the role of parents and turning children into gremlins. In general the state has too much of a monopoly on violence, the average person here in Canada should be able to defend themselves more, and use violence in a corrective manner too. Also if you beat your children too bad such that something gets injured you should be obligated to pay for their recovery, this would be to disincentivize beating children too hard.
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>>544065852
You failed your daughter.
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>>544066523
What kind of pussy faggot are you? Consequences for your own actions give you PTSD?
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if spanking children worked then why didnt it work throughout all of human history when it was normalized?
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>>544072097
What sort of retarded comment is this? The generations before us were head over heels superior to us
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>>544065058
My wife spanks me and it makes my wiener tingle.
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>>544065058
they do not learn to treat violence as the problem solving default
depends on what a society's bread and butter is
beating a child at the low end results in a more violent and somewhat stunted individual
and the high end all kinds of trauma related illness
for something like a warring empire with a young population it's better
for something like a trade empire with larger population of infirm old fucks it's worse
also not great if you need intergenerational social cohesion for other reasons
but could be a plus in systems that benefit from high turnover in key positions
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>>544065058
My step dad used to make me and my step sister strip naked and spank us whenever we did anything bad. He stopped when we hit puberty. I don’t think it did much except give me a crippling fear of nudity
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>>544065707
my parents hitting me is most of the reason i couldn't respect them lol sub brick retards had only spanking and 'because i said so'
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>>544065058
It's important to be flexible on the matter sence not every child is the same. What works for one will fail on the other so you must be observant and learn what approach works best for your kid.
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>>544069099
My genes march on, how about yours?
>>544070499
How many kids do you have memeflag fag?
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>>544073288
>i am a male feminist and proud cuck
Where did all of these reddit nigger come from?
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>>544065058
I was literally just thinking this. Basically every single human on earth was spanked until like 2007 when suddenly it became unconsciounable and universal knowledge that spanking isn’t acceptable and never works.
And somehow all those kids who were never spanked are growing up deplressed and anxious… it’s not adding up
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>>544065438
Their kids act up the most
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>>544073403
There are actual studies that indicate that spanking and other corporal punishment retards frontal lobe development in children compared to kids that weren’t hit. It’s not even up for debate
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>>544066284
Honestly corporal punishment isn’t that bad. It sucks when it happens but then it’s over and done with. And usually you know deep down you deserved it and can feel relieved afterwards since the punishment is over and everyone moves on.
Instead now we just have parents losing their minds and losing control going through these elaborate systems of rewards and indirect punishments and suspending privileges for hours or days at a time.
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>>544066523
There’s no evidence for claims like this. And a spanking isn’t an assault.
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>>544066810
>Spanking a small child is like spanking a baby
No it’s spanking a child. If they were babies then it would be like spanking a baby.
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>>544073452
Link em faggot. I don’t believe it for a second. Asians beat the hell out of their kids and they dominate white kids in school. This is some kind of Jewish nonsense they are really strongly pushing on white people. Cause everyone else hits their kids and always has including whites prior to 1999.
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>>544073381
The course of the past century has been the gradually increasing awareness among the people that any violence we engage in will be harshly punished by the government, even if it's normal violence, like a father disciplining a child, a father driving unwelcome suitors away from his daughter, a community repelling unwelcome newcomers, a mob dispatching a hated degenerate, etc. The only people allowed to use violence are agents of the government.
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>>544066523
that's pure BS
the nervous system primarily retains psychological trauma, not physical trauma.

You are currently living through a time where the first results of "beating not allowed" generation is starting to enter adulthood. And you see the level of entitlement and arrogance they have towards everyone and towards life as a whole, combined with extreme levels of depression, especially among those who are treated like royalty during their childhood.

Punishment for misbehaviour is a normal parenting nature, and is required for offspring. This includes emotional and physical violence.
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Honestly I think it's pretty fucking wild to hit your own kids. You're the world to them, you're their god almost, you should never have to resort to such means. There are a thousand viable non violent punishments (clean X, do Y, you are not allowed to use Z) and if your kid is moral and you aren't a knuckledragger then your explanation for why they were in the wrong and your appropriate disappointment should be the ultimate punishment for them anyway.

I have a coworker who mentioned their dad whooped them all the time and for not good reason and when I met the dad I wanted to fucking puke as I shook his hand and made nice, my coworker is the best dude.

Personally I mouthed off once and my dad gave me the most half-hearted spanking, I could tell by the time his hand was up he saw the wrong in what he was doing and he just tapped me once. Obviously I felt like the asshole and I knew I was in the wrong, I had no delusions because I wasn't a fucking idiot. Really the only threat necessary was to cut off my PC time (I NEED TO PLAY INFANTRY ONLINE and STARSIEGE, PLEASE DON'T!).

Don't hit your kids, bros. Talk to them. There's a lesson in every fuck up.

Imagine your kids thinking of you when you're dead, and they think of this asshole 5x their bodyweight who just kicked the shit out of them. Imagine your dad being your bully. Fucking sad, dude. And obviously, don't circumcise your kids, that'd be even more cruel.
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>>544073719
it's gynocentrism
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>>544073834
>There are a thousand viable non violent punishments (clean X, do Y, you are not allowed to use Z)
lmao, what if the kid just shows you the middle finger and tells you to fuck off?
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>>544073834
>I have a coworker who mentioned their dad whooped them all the time and for not good reason and when I met the dad I wanted to fucking puke as I shook his hand and made nice, my coworker is the best dude.
maybe your coworker is the best dude because he was whooped sufficiently as a kid
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>>544066208
I grew up in a generation where literally everyone was spanked. Most not especially severely, but seriously everyone. Most of us have good relationship with our parents, and most of us are taking care of them in their old age. These things have little to do with each other - you can abuse your children without raising your hand to them at all, or you can have a loving safe home where someone gets a few swats instead of being grounded.
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There is a proven phenomenon that beautiful people (applies equally to beautiful men and women) are on average many times more arrogant, egocentric, greedy than an average person is.
And the reason for this is because instinctively society treats beauty as a virtue, and is less likely to punish a beautiful person for his mistakes or bad behaviour.
As a result beautiful people develop anti-social behaviour, as their brains do not fully comprehend normal limits and social mechanisms.

Removing beating from parenting achieves a very similar effect.
What you're essentially doing is teaching your kid that no matter what he does or says, the maximum punishment he may receive is losing a toy, or being told to clean the room.

And then 10-20 years later you're surprised why he landed in jail or got himself killed.
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>>544066107
She probably got a fetish for being spanked by daddy in front of the whole family ;)
Spanking is sexual in nature that's why couples do it
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Spanking IS sexual, it's light BDSM. You don't spank a boy because that makes you a homosexual pedophile. You don't let your wife spank him either that will turn him into a sissy faggot. If you want corporal punishment hit him over the hands with a ruler like in school, spanking makes you a gay predator.
As for little girls if you spank them you're rolling the dice with them developing a fetish for it or for you.
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>>544074303
What sort of Freudian homo shit is this? Parents regularly have to wipe ass, change clothes, bathe their kids, etc. Spanking ass is nothing compared to that. You'd wouldn't be such a homoerotic faggot if you actually bred and had kids yourself
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>>544065058
physical discipline is only a requirement for underdeveloped individuals who don't understand consequences.
eg toddlers and black people
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>>544073834
>think of this asshole 5x their bodyweight who just kicked the shit out of them
That's not really what people are talking about dude. I absolutely can't relate to that image - I never felt that way, and won't when my dad is in the ground either. He was always a huge softie growing up, and still is.
I am a recent father, I am not planning on using any sort of corporal punishment because these are the times we live in and I don't want my son to be different from his friends in this way - but I suspect some things about life are just easier for people who grew up in my times (b 1982) - because back when we were too stupid to have a productive conversation with some things were reinforced the simple and instant way.
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>>544074436
Men shouldn't wipe ass or change diapers that's gay feminist shit in nature men were busy all the time doing stuff outside the house while the women only had to stay with the kids, that's all they did their only job.
Also if spanking isn't sexual you're perfectly fine with me spanking your girlfriend a little bit right? It's just corporal punishment she's been a bad girl after all ;) right?
Also kids get spanked at way older ages than when you are wiping their shit and changing diapers (which naturally you should only do in the most extreme circumstances like your wife being disabled) you want corporal punishment? Hit him over the feet or the hands with a ruler. What excuse do you have now for being gay?
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If you are a homosexual pedophile just proclaim it Mr. Jackson!
You want an excuse to touch your 10 year old's son ass since he no longer wears diapers and bathes by himself. You could do the ruler method teachers did in school but you want to touch some ass instead ;)
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>>544065058
It's pretty much been proven at this point that spanking your children doesn't actually do anything positive for them
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>>544065058
>Spanking children
Borderline pedo fetishistic shit that has less to do with correcting behaviour and more to do with a psychosexual powertrip against someone powerless to fight back
>It was common in the past
And so was marrying and fucking kids and early teenagers
>Spanking wife
More acceptable than getting physical with her in other ways but similar pathology to spanking kids minus the pedo part.
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>>544065058
Anything to touch a kid’s ass huh?
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>>544075063
>>544074893
You guys are projecting your own sexuality onto normies. Your lineage is full of farmers who smacked uncooperative farm animals on the haunch without ever imagining that touching the largest muscle on the animal was some form of sexual aggression. They weren't hitting the donkey's ass because it looked romantic. This is a great example of how decadent our culture has become. A culture where it is more normal for 13 year olds to have sex and smoke pot than work or be beaten by their elders is a dead society.
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And let me ask you anti-beaters. We are all familiar with the phenomenon of young teens causing trouble for attention, like for example coming into a store and knocking stuff off the shelves. In the old days that behavior would get them beaten. Nowadays, because everyone is terrified that if they touch someone the police will arrest them, people are scared to confront obvious criminal behavior, even in their own property. Thus the overpolicing of society has, like the overwatering of plants, caused more harm than good.
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>>544075255
>>544075363
>Noooo I have smack my kids ass to vent my impotent anger, it's literally the only way, don't you see?
>Unironically comparing smacking a farm animal to smacking your children
Pedo cope drivel
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>>544075541
>nooo the only point of butt muscle is getting fucked I am not pervert hehe =)
Let me guess, if you had to beat your child for some reason you would punch them in the gut instead? If you want to beat someone without hurting them then there is no better place than glutes...
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>>544075363
By the time they're teenagers, the time for corporal punishment is long over. If yours is knocking shit off in stores for attention you done fucked up. I never did that shit, and nobody spanked me after I was like, six.
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>>544065390
The bible also says that if your child doesn't obey you, you should bring it to the community so he is stoned to death
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>>544065390
>The Bible says to spank.
The bible says to spare not the rod. If you weren't pants on head retarded you'd know that meant a shepherd's crook, not a fucking beat stick. The shepherd is guiding the sheep he's not out there beating the everloving piss out of them. You're supposed to be a teacher and guide for your children, it doesn't say "kick the shit out of them if they won't listen!"



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