>be me, 30 European (yes I'm Italian ignore flag)>be lonely and never make friends>due to Uni I have a chance to live and work in Germany for some time>speak the language decently and am able to speak about almost anything>get to know many cool people in my job, all of them women.>I visit an old book store that belongs to a cool boomer (he's pro AfD and very nationalistic, like me)>make "friends" with all of them>after I return to my country all of them seem normal at first, become distant>i always start conversations every now and then to see how they are>one of them has cancer>I send her a HAND DRAWN LETTER from a very lovely acquaintance of mine>none of them reply. I have to wait up to two months (when I decided to double text) for a reply. Then one more month after my double text.>no one seems to give a fuck about me and treats me as though I wasn't anyone to them>mind you less than a year ago we were working together and having fun and going out for drinkstoday I hit the boiling point.>this particular cool boomer distances himself>I send him an email 2 months ago asking how he's doing, and he doesn't reply at all>no contact for two months straight>today it's his birthday, I send him a long heart warming message telling me I hope he has a wonderful new year and that he is healthy>he just replies "Thank you!">back then he used to write paragraphs and send me videos and whatnot>no he just doesn't give the slightest of fucks>get a fit and block everyone from Germany from whatsapp and delete their emails. Throw away their gifts because it reminds me of them and it breaks my heart.I know they won't contact me, because FOR SOME FUCKING REASON IM NON EXISTANT TO THEM. I GUESS ITS BECAUSE IM WHITE. If my name were Mohammed Ngubu al Childrapedin or JACOB MONEYLENDOWITZSTEIN then they would most certainly talk to me every day.Can anyone tell me what the fuck is going on with people? I thought this was incredibly cruel and uncalled for.
very kissable lipscrazy that back in the 80s you could just walk up to a train station and get head from 14 yo Christiane F just for a hit of H
>>544983698>make "friends" with all of themthey were never your friends, they just tolerated your presence and tried to be nice and then when you finally went back to your brown people shithole everyone was glad one shitskin less in their life.we germans actually dont like interacting with brownskinned Ausländer Fotzen.
>>544984016Obwohl ich kein Ausländer bin, waren die sehr ausländerfreundlich... Ich bin arischer Herkunft, ich trage immer Thor Steiner und habe meine Liebe für Deutschland und das deutsche Volk zur Sprache gebracht. One of them was married to a bolivian and had 3 mongrel kids. So it's definately not a race issue. Only problem is that I wasn't a kike or nigger-mongrel.
>>544984103youre a faggot to think you could keep friendships while living far apart, let alone weeping about itwhat a fagman up, pedo
>>544983698>30 European (yes I'm Italian ignore flag)>be lonely and never make friendsyou are just a geek loser who doesn't know how to greentext. you'll do better back at plebbit, narcissistic attention whore.
>>544984103Du hast absolut keine Ahnung von deutscher Mentalität. Wir sind nicht hier, um dich zu unterhalten oder deine Gefühle zu managen. Ein bisschen Deutsch sprechen und ein T-Shirt anhaben macht dich noch lange nicht zum Local. Dass die Leute dir nicht antworten, liegt wahrscheinlich daran, dass du einfach langweilig bist so wie alle braunen Untermenschen.
>>544983698>I know they won't contact meGermans only form what you people call friendship during Kindergarten, you are just an associate otherwise. We are generally nice to everyone here, but don't mistake it for genuine friendship. Many southerners can't cope with this at all.
>>544984730Halt dein Lügenmaul du Schwanzlutscher!>>544983698>academic setting>low sample size>huge distance>1 year laterthey probably dont bother to reply to a 'stranger', people have lives outside of a distant acquaintancealso: that is probably the perk of a lonely loner meeting normies.you meeting them was probably some peak social interaction and experience for you, but for them you were just someone out of 50 other people
>>544983698>be me>become best buddy with workmate>change jobs>tell him>our friendship is going to fall apart>we don't have common goals anymore and don't experience the same environment anymore>there will be nothing to talk about soon>came as i said
>>544983698I often end up ghosting most people I know or just block and delete their numbers after a while.If we don't see each other regularly or if there's no actual benefit from the relationship (useful acquaintances for a job, moving, repairs, childcare, travel), there's genuinely no point in maintaining it.Recently ghosted a friend from high school (again) after accidentally meeting him after ten years, dude can't hold a basic job and his mom pays his rent despite him being thirty, I'm about to buy my first apartment, we have absolutely nothing in common, plus he's a gymcel and couldn't order a pint properly.Don't take it personally anon.
>>544984016>we germans actually dont like interacting with brownskinned Ausländer FotzenIm Romanian and I have friends from Germany. In fact I even learned your language from them. Ihr sind nicht so unfreundlich wie manche sagen
>>544983698Your life is too easy where you are. They are stressed the fuck out. Can you imagine being so stressed you cant think?
>>544985355Heil Hitler! Richtig, mein deutscher herr?
>>544984103Anon, you really sound like an annoying faggot NGLI'm not even trying to insult you at this point ...
>>544983698>germans >peopleThat was your mistake
>>544983698https://youtu.be/lqZehFAwoTM?t=32It's over as soon as you turn 18 and leave the school system without a well established social circle. You go to work, but you won't make any friends, just coworkers. You join a sports club, same deal. It's over, because everyone already has their social circles locked in since childhood. You'll be nothing more than a coworker, destined to be alone for life. Social life and relationships are like trains you have to catch at the quay, a race against time that takes place during adolescence. And by extension, logically of course, no social life and no women.But normies don't understand this because they are clueless normies who think you can walk into a bar full of strangers and magically form a social life like in The Sims. Only women can start from scratch and create a social life and get a boyfriend from scratch because of their status as women.Whether you're 30 or 40 it doesn't change anything, maybe for the normies, but for you and me Chud, a year is like any other, the sands of time flowing towards nothingness, nothing more.. nothing less.
adults dont have friends, they have a wife. grow up. no one has time to entertain other people when they wage 50 hours per week
>>544984730Beruhig dich Igor.Warst schon mal in Italien?
>>544983698>ignore flagno, i don't think i will
>>544983698I want to shit on krautland but I would've done the same thing. Can barely talk to nearby acquaintances let alone distant ones. It simply takes effort to text, you have to be polite, find something to say yadda yadda, texting is bs anyway it was much better when people only met IRL or sent letters once a year. This is also what you get a food for, so she can manage all the social stuff.
>>544983698>be me, 30 European (yes I'm Italian ignore flag)sorry but you're gonna have to explain that flag before I read any further
>>544983698Most people are fake and soul drained because they've been fucked by the world, going to bars with people doesn't make them your friend, more like an acquaintance, real friends are rare and unconditional.
>>544983698what are you even talking about, maybe society works differently in italy but what you are describing is a completely normal and expected behaviour here.
>>544984103sorry Bre, ausländerfreundliche Menschen sind unehrlich. Die einzigen halbwegs ehrlichen Deutschen, die du gewinnen hättest können, wären die eher distanzierten, die nicht einfach nur performativ 'nett' sind.
>>544983698>uniroinically thought you could get "ride or dies">in germany>by chattering about the weather and pasta with foids and a baby boomerlmao
>>544985478I wonder about the point of it too sometimes. But it’s good for people to be Among people. Drinking buddies are always good. Talking buddies are good. I’m thinking about a weird situation. There was a smoking hot woman at work and we circoed each other for a long while pretending I wasn’t married. At some point I might even have taken the plunge, but she drew the line and decided we shouldn’t meet anymore. Quite alright, but I’m actually considering proposing a platonic relationship with her, because she’s actually quite interesting for a woman. Such a weird thing to ponder.
>>544983698Ich bin ein sucken zie Berliner
>>544986361That motherfucker read some free tourist brochures and thinks he's Italian now.
>>544983698Don’t take it personally anon Germans just have cultural autism, you weren’t actively present in their lives so they cut you out…
>>544983698>be lonely and never make friendsgee i wonder why
>>544984103>Ich bin arischer Herkunftpffft hahahaha
>>544984016> HAND DRAWN LETTER>>544983698Kinda seems like this honestly, OP. You seem pretty autistic and like one of those social retards that thinks a girl smiling at them in a college class or making a joke means they want to get married or some shit. You hung out with some people a few times and were too sperg to understand that doesn't make you lifelong, deeply treasured companions. They didn't feel like putting a bunch of energy into placating some needy, highly autistic foreigner.
>>544983873christiane F was Polish you retard>>544983698that girl is not German either shitskin
>>544984730>>544985034>>544985355SAAR!! SAAAR! WHY YOU ARE NOT REPLY TO MY LETTER?VERY NICE COLEAGE RITE BY HAND.
>>544986847It's not autism it's healthy in-group preference.An anglokike wouldn't get it.
>>544985355>you meeting them was probably some peak social interaction and experience for you, but for them you were just someone out of 50 other peopleExactly this.>>544986968I get the feeling I'm too retarded. I've lived my whole life around certain people and thought Germanics would be different. But the whole globohomo shit is taking really all of us down.>>544986510Yes, i thought that and I'm not ashamed.
>>544984103I am sorry but we are cold, autistic mayo monkeys. If you seek friendship, look to your own people, not the buck broken automatons inhabiting this foggy shithole
You are to emotionalYou are a very sheltered type individual, judging by the fact you are going to Uni at 30 and think everybody owes you somethingNatural friendships don't happen by forcing them, they just happen.Not invited, dont go.Not asked , dont answerYou need to develop a thicker skin and a deeper inner worldI swear you niggas would not survive in a shithole like serbia>>544984514Like anon has said here, how about you try to be a part of someones world instead of whining how they are a part of yoursAnd seriously whats up with being 30 and going to uni
