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I know dating apps exist, but I was wondering what avenues one could take if they wanted to start something in person
>t having a hard time finding a gf, last girl who was definitely interested backed out before a relationship could start due to her mental hang ups and feeling pressure where it didn’t exist

Is it just me, or has it gotten harder overall to get in a relationship? Women seem really irrational and cannot commit to things that they want. It sucks lol
>inb4 you’re likely a sperg/poor/ugly/uninteresting/have no hobbies/insert internet meme
Categorically untrue
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>>545235982
You can get a sense of what is going on, feminism destroyed other nations you will not be an exception, you aren't a Jewish actor and even they have high divorce.
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>>545235982
I dunno
The girlfriend store?
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I wish I had me 20 years ago.
At least we get to fix it for the next man in the chainlink fence testudo.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yJc4Fst1LMg
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>>545235982
Just do what I do and flirt with every female you meet
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>>545236180
based boomhauer
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>>545236109
>even they have high divorce
lol, what I’ve learned is that having money and all the other stuff like a friend group and hobbies, etc is just a prerequisite. It isn’t even enough to get your foot in the door
Luckily I have done all that by habit/design, but whenever I see people online talking about how all that “should be enough” it really isn’t LOL
In my experience it seems to be that, plus luck. And even when you’re in a relationship the chick you’re with WILL be irrational, even if she is one of the good ones.
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>>545236180
Even the fat ones though?
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women are dogshit.

if you need sex, go for hookers..
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f2yawL8-iQs
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>>545236320
I’m trying to have a family eventually
I’m 32 bro
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>>545235982
I got all three of the gf I ever had through my friends. Two were my friend's moms and my first gf was was my friend's sister.
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I met my wife on mIRC
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>>545236400

good luck.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ot-oLe_Qrg8
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>>545236443
thats how it used to be. no one does matchmaking for their peers anymore.
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>>545236551
Yeah, that’s the problem
I have none lol
You’re right though. It really is luck
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>>545236525
does she have a penis
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Cold Approach is DEATHLY hard
And Women are NOT BUILT to shoulder it, but men are
Women admitting that being rejected on cold approach with genuine desire, is one of the most painful things in the entire world that a person can do. It douses the flame of your SOUL. And that women going around saying "it's effortless for men to do it", is an intentional Feminine evil lack of awareness. Absolute chadwick to scar this woman for her entire life, for taking one little step, one little shot, for what she wanted. LOL. Women are unable to be Men, and by one-shotting her, it's basically a death sentence of her submissive feminine self.

Leftover Women Are MAD Men Are SHAMELESSLY Boycotting Marriage & Dating In 2026 by Manhood
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ji65mb7Dmdo
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>>545236443
>Two were my friend's moms
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>>545235982
Homeless shelter.
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>>545236721
I don’t get women. Last chick I talked to basically rejected herself by telling me that I was nobody to her. But before she left, she looked back at me. I think she wanted to see if she fucked up, so i dismissed her pretty indifferently to let her know that she did
I’m in my 30s now and I’ve had multiple women show interest in me throughout my life, and I still don’t understand why they self sabotage themselves
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How many marriageable women are in my city?

But Dad, there are 3 million people within a 50 mile radius of me, there must be an infinite supply of marriageable women, right? Hold your horses son/daughter, the number goes down from 3 million to 300 really fucking fast okay, here is how:

I want anyone - 3 million
I want a Women, not a Man - 1.5 million.
She has to be within 5 years of my age - 400 thousand.
She has to be NOT already married - 100 thousand.
She has to be Never married: - 70 thousand.
She has to want to start a family - 40 thousand.
She has to be college educated - 30 thousand.
She has to be the top 20% of desirability - 10 thousand
She has to be participating in my meeting strats - 5 thousand
She has to not alrady have kids - 4 thousand
She has to be younger than me - 2 thousand

Your list of requirements reduces the 3 million people in your city to about 200 to 1000 live options depending on if you're willing to settle for an ugly land whale who's going to leave you and take half your stuff.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UB_HSQJ71_s
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Girls don't exist. They're just a myth.
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>>545236809
women self sabotage because they want you to run in and rescue them from themselves. You're dealing with a max submissive wife, you don't even know what that's good for, and emitting that vibe repulses her as danger.

Women are the gender of Sabotage, since your role is to prevent that, it's a shit test.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=53_avBYr1Ag
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>>545236906
You know, what you’re saying is unintentionally profound. They don’t really seem to understand themselves or what they want - in a way, they kind of don’t exist. They’re just apparitional projections based on fleeting and momentary emotions
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>>545236677

just show them you got money.

you will drown in pussy.
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>>545236875
either they are all giants or he is a midget
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mzeIbIFnzc4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHyLitZz150

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TqNsvygUc0I
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>>545236983
She failed mine imo
She’s at an entry level position at our work, and I’m at a level that earns enough to where I don’t even want to say. She hung out with me a lot, made videos with me, didn’t care if I said “retarded” or “gay” out loud, etc. Was comfortable enough to say no. You get the idea
Anyways, myself and other people I know who knew her understood she was into me. She just had too many mental hang ups. Just a few days ago when she screwed up, I asked her questions to gauge how she viewed me and she said I was just a “work person” and that outside of that environment she would not really try to talk to me. Essentially telling me I was nothing to her despite everything stated above and more. So I just abruptly ended things.
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>>545236121
>The girlfriend store?
This
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>>545237008
This is not true
I work with 18 year old girls and with tons of other people on my level too, and my role has me earning a ton, while they make not much. Only 1 showed interest and I described her itt. The other 18 year old chicks shoot for losers that make them feel unsafe, and then bitch about how all men are evil later on
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>>545236875
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>>545236809
>I still don’t understand why they self sabotage themselves
They're expecting you to chase them lmao
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>>545237306
For how long? There was a period of time when she went silent on me for like 3 weeks. Then she came back and I even would roast her about it but she was able to see that I persisted
I think she did that because I tried to make plans, and she felt nonexistent pressure and folded like a wet paper towel
You’ll see other posts itt that she did some dumb bullshit again, but I won’t be there to play her dumb game a 2nd time
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>>545236752
The only bad part is now both of my old friends hate me now and won't even talk to me.
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>>545237414
>For how long?
Literally forever lol
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>>545237468
That is simp territory and we must leave that land uncharted
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>>545235982
Girls worth giving a shit about must be pure because pairbonding is real, therefore virginity matters. Relationships are built on proximity, so use that. If I had to start over, I would
>Work a local part time job
>Frequent or volunteer at local library
>Frequent a local hobby store or craft center
>Volunteer at an animal shelter or clinic
>Join a church or religious group
>Join a fraternity or local group, such as moose lodge, and network to someone's granddaughter
>Enroll or teach at a college freshman STEM course
>Sexpat
In order to be nearby teen virgins. Mind you, dating as an adult is a compounding punishment for all the time squandered since your own youth. Mileage may vary
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>>545237268

the younger they are, the more they believe in nonsense like love.
the older they get, the more important money becomes.

besides, you definitely don't show off hard enough.
trust me, it works.

on everyone.
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>>545237540
I never will show off. I have learned through life experiences that being visible makes enemies
For example - I lost fake friends in a harsh ass way once because I outlifted them. I thought they would be happy for my milestone but that all got bitter and I ditched them asap
I would be insanely stupid if I showed up my money
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>>545237608
One of the most blackpilling experiences of my life was working at a grocery store. You'd routinely encounter women who would do one of two things 1) ask you to get shit from a high shelf - they could easily do it themselves but got off on having you do it 2) judge you instantly with an eye up-down and then dismiss you to feel better about themselves.

They don't deserve to live in an equal citizenship society.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=35fiNZTVVtU
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>>545237608

>I would be insanely stupid if I showed up my money

not when it comes to women.
its an absolute life hack.

but anyhow.
good luck.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k-E37hN251A
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>>545235982
Unironically the only women who haven't had their dignity and lovability completely eroded by feminism and the radical attention economy are still teenagers and when then by the time they're legal at least 30% of them are already utter dog shit and another 30% are already far too down that rabbit hole to correct and are doomed to become crazy cat ladies. Just find a girl online who lives kinda near you, has a chill personality and likes showing you her tits and see how far you can go.
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>>545238397
Dude
Did that kid die? His limbs went all stiff
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reminder if it has reddit space its a shill thread
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>>545236282
the real prerequisite for a relationship is being able and willing to spend literally all of your time and money on her

theres other things as well, but pretty much thats the gist of things
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>>545238461
I organize my paragraphs like emails, sue me

>>545238493
I showed that in a way. Gave her new born nephew a toy. Would buy her shit from time to time. I always let her know I didn’t do stuff for free
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Their circlejerk convinced them they can always do better
I was forced to say this to a widow I know, she met a jeet in mobile legends, thankfully she ended it before the jeet could rape her toddler daughter
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>>545238528
if you're dating a girl and you're showing fatherly/protective cues, like you're fawning over her nieces or nephews- and she doesn't pounce on you- she's just using you to prove to her family she's no longer in her 'bad girl phase' or something approximating that

she has no intent of continuing the relationship. she's just begrudgingly dating you to prove something to her family- again- something like "i can date boring normal guys too sometimes, see? i don't just date players and dirtbags!"
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>>545238442
iunno lol. probably
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>>545236677
This is where people tell you to go to church but that's not viable anymore because it's now single mum and/or coalburner territory
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>>545238701
I wasn’t dating her, too much to retype but it’s all itt
Tl;dr - showed lots of interest in me but was unpredictable
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>>545238713
Damn. Any news articles on this?
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>>545236307
fat ones often have thin "friends" who will try to one up their "friends" by stealing their romantic prospects.
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>>545237153
Damn man you studiously consume dating advice from bread tuners
How has it worked out for you and before you ask I'm a wizard
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>>545236126
What the actual fuck is that garbled nonsense infographic?
Did you have AI write it?
Those words dont make sense in context with each other.
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>>545235982
Don't you guys have friend circles?
You just make an effort to meet friends of friends, you see a girl you like and ask if she's single or she asks them if you're single and things go from there.
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>>545240207
>Don't you guys have friend circles?
lol
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>>545235982
work
church
friends
family
school

that's it really. if someone says hobbies they are a retard. the stats show no one ever meets through hobbies. unless you are a faggot into knitting or something
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>>545236400
Fuck hookers while you date. If you find a decent one then abstain
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>>545237540
>>545238184
>>545237008
>show off your wealth
And only attract gold diggers? No thanks.
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>>545241468

love is an illusion.
all human relationships are transactional.
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>>545236307
A lot of those fat cunts had a phase where they were bulimic in high school to achieve passably pretty. Their gag reflex is completely desensitized and you can throat fuck them without worry.
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>>545235982
If you're hot, everywhere.
If you're not hot, nowhere.
>t. no hot
Tried hitting up multiple women irl and never had success. You just gotta look good or nothing will come out of it. But then again so it is with dating apps.
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>Where do guys meet women to start relationships
i thought college but that was incorrect of me
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>>545235982
Just walk around with your cock out and see what latches on.
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>>545244021
college is where girls go to collect male orbiters and have situationships
women will maintain a roster of male orbiters and situationships for years and then one day pick a guy to get serious with
the concept of dating- as most people over the age of 25 would understand it- doesn't actually really exist after 2020 or so
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>>545235982
>where meet women?
>2026
>not being a tard wrangler
ngmi
>webm very relevant
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>>545236126
2 beats 8 because the 8 are all females.
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>>545235982
Met my wife at our local community college while taking night classes my job paid for plus paid me extra $ to take. I was 44 at the time, she was 21. Figured she just started chatting me up and hanging out with me all tge time cause she came from a single parent family and never knew her dad so it was just her wanting a father figure/ older friend to chat with. Obviously I as wrong and she was into me for whatever reason. Been married 8 years now, got 2 kids. So maybe take a s couple college courses at your community college, try your luck there.
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>>545237528
>doing all this just to be forced to debase yourself, be a peacock for girls, and accept a feminist-ruled relationship with her regularly "shit testing" you
>and then being a cuck that lets her further disrespect and debase you regularly if you call her out on her "shit testing"
>just for her to then cheat and divorce rape you when she gets bored, or finds a taller and more androgynous pretty boy, or finds a simp with a larger bank account, or all 3
Retard
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>>545237268
18yo girls don't care about money in the sense of number in your bank account. But start dressing with a style and drive a sport car, and that's when they will see you as rich and worth their attention. Otherwise your are just a random who dresses like a corporate drone. Their unconscious mind doesn't register you as rich.
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>>545235982
listen to nick fuentes, jocking but you will hear someone replicating his shit here, liberal woman have 100 bodies when they finish collegue so you will be divorce raped, best case is being a mormon and marry with local churchgirls at 20
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>>545246067
>girls dont care about money
>just do all this stuff to LOOK like you are rich and then they will care about you
lol is this nigger serious



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