Is this true /pol/? Are the men and women worth marrying out partying instead of staying at home doing nothing all day?
>>545630875No
>>545630938Well vidrel’s argument is that our parents generation were also going out and meeting people at clubs and bars… and the concept of staying home and saving yourself is a new concept from this generation. That’s not true?
There's truth to it. pheromones are a helluva drug
>>545630875Yes.It's a self inflicted sacrifice nobody knows ir cares about.
Theres nothing interesting to do with other people.
>>545630875Yes but not for the reason you are thinking. The people who go out and have social lives tend to be more well rounded with higher social status than people that stay inside staring at a computer screen.
>>545630875This is cope as all the women in my family were whores in their 20s and now they're in their 30s desperately looking for someone to marry them. If you aren't actively searching for a spouse you're never going to get one
>>545631062>our parents generation were also going out and meeting people at clubs and bars70% divorce ratethey werent good people then and party goers arent good people nowhow is this not blatantly evident to you
That's how you meet people
>>545632406This is only true for men. Women who stayed home tend to be better partners u less they were mid. Hot ones only really
>>545631062I volunteered at an art gallery and met my wife there.I spent years going out to bars chasing tail, and it was worthless.
Date in college and youre more likely to find higher-achieving dates. Less issues with money, drugs, and broken family life.
>>545630875Only applies to men.Sitting at home and self-improving or developing some exceptional talent has little actual ROI in the dating market, all it gets you are golddiggers. I am 46 years old and dating a more attractive younger woman than most of the tier 1 soccer players. Why? Because I am shameless, extroverted and dont mind rejection. If you build yourself and wait you either get nothing because nobody knows you or if they do know you some surgically enhanced mid hag will squuze her fat face into your life. Plenty tattoo artists, drug dealers, djs, bouncers and whatever mog Haaland and Yamal simply because they exist in the real world and learned to get people there
>>545632622And then what? >hi total stranger>hello...
For women, it's all downhill, once men realize you've been around the block this means you are dealing only with hedonists who just want to fuck you or simps who are otherwise out of options. Since most women think they are too good to approach men, or refuse to research where to go for men or what to do to attract them, they will be forced to settle for either of these. My ex wife is one of these women, totally cooked as the zoomers say.Money and status doesnt matter, when women realize you are needy, like really needy, you can be the richest most attractive guy in the world but they will be feeling genetically appalled by you. This is why so often you see rich hags cheat their husbands
>>545632992If that's how you start conversations then it's no mystery why your alone
>>545633116Explain
>>545633116I had women throw stuff at me. Still worth it. Part of why I am good is that I was simply out to have a good time. One feminist changed her mind after throwing something at me. I told her that I am now reconsidering inviting her out because if gets time to prepare she might throw something bigger at me. Can't risk that. She bursted out laughing. Didnt invite her out still, dont want something thrown at me. Women are crazy but its fun, eventually you strike gold and that is how it just works. If the woman comes to you, ironically what zoomers want due to their fragile egos, then that woman is there to dig gold.
>>545632691Sorry to break it to you but they ALL go out anon. Even the mid girls you think stay at home like we do go out.
>>545633341No, this is false. Tons of zoomer women are indoor bound due to being socially passive. It is not just the men. They are much more lethargic than the previous generations. I am dating a woman half my age and I have to drag her out, not the reverse. Happened to me with other younger women too. You could argue that women willing to date a much older guy have a different profile but I doubt it, their social circles also seem smaller. It is all socially turned down 1-3 notches
>>545633471You could be right about zoomers. I don't interact with them or know anything about them.
>>545632529Because he literally follows the religion of feminism/simping. He’s going to flame you nd cuss you out in a rage now, possibly impotently threaten you and then abandon the thread.
>>545633513I only would date zoomer or younger. Single mothers or women who are seeking men to finance their lifestyle arent something I am interested in. Dated women in their 30s, it is always this. It is also really hard to fuck older women. Younger women are if you can endure the rejection rate much easier to get into bed. Far, far easier. Most guys cannot do it because rejection is like their biggest fear. Not for me, I thrive on it. It is insanely funny and you can make some good stories from it
>>545633341You’re 100% right what the fuck was I thinking. You know what happens bro is that my brain checks out and I start buying bitches bullshit.The last chick I dropped was actually becazue I literally found out she was going out drinking every weekend being a whore, while larping as an introvert and lying to me about it for awhile till one day the truth came out
>>545633641Women cant stop themselves. They're like a manifestation of the uncertainty principle where unless they are getting attention they simply cease to exist. Its why cities apparently exist they're just huge factories for female attention.
>>545633742>cities are shaped like giant microprocessors>act like massive conduits for female attentionBro that’s mindfuck imagery. Loosh harvesting by foods for satan?
One thing I do realize is that telling this to men is almost meaningless. I dont want to tout my own horn too much but most of you will never be able to replicate this because you simply were raised to be pussies and systemically speaking it is advantageous for a society to emphasize raising its offspring like that. >>545633742You are talking about a self-selected minority there which has been getting even more attention through social media. It is not reality, zoomer women are much less brazen than they depict themselves, or are depicted by said outliers who push themselves in front of everything.
>>545633338>she is there to dig goldIf women arent approaching you they don't find you attractive, fullstop. Its 2026, women have agency, they approach Chad
>>545633791Foids*
For the record, really doubt its a conspiracy, it is just that societies work best if men accept what is thrown at their feet. For a long time I was wondering why pressure is almost always directed at men and then I realized that its because men are generally willingly to be ok with things that are average or below even. You can negotiate men into horrible argreements, simply on the premise of it being "good enough". Really a horrific blackpill to accept about my own sex. In a way, this is amplified when you truly need something or when you are in a situation where you want to make something work. In my own past marriage this applied to me too, I tried to make things work with a woman who wasnt cooperative in the least. To get to where I am I had to go sexless for years, endure nagging and complaints.>>545633935This shit is exactly what I mean, you guys are massive retards. Women aside of a small minority never do anything. And those who do are usually the worst woman imaginable who only come when you have something they want. Which is the worst thing imaginable. This is why all these artists, athletes and moviestars get fucked so hard by the women they are with. The fan row women are a condensed concentrate of disagreeable women with the Mar a lago face. Meanwhile the drug dealer, weirdo mcdonalds nightshift manager or tattoo artists gets the cute silent girl nextdoor. Because they got them in the real world, they caught them like a fish. And you are there looksmaxing for some BS event that never happens
>>545634040Old german loser
>>545630875marriageable women haven't been invented yet.
>>545634448You will be settled on in your 30s and somehow think that is true love because she approached you lol.
>>545634566Kill yourself worthless faggot
>>545634566What I can say is that my experiences with women have made me mellow out a lot when it comes to some of them, the problem is the strategic downside of modern marriage remains. I am at a point where I would like to have more children. I am not the kind of asshole who leaves a woman in the dust, but legal marriage is too damn risky. Germany has been known to throw out marriage contracts too. Hence, I would not do it again, even though my marriage has not financially hurt me, as my ex-wife had greater total assets as a result of a notable inheritance. The fact that I already take care of my children financially from the previous marriage should be proof enough of my sincerity. If a woman thinks that isnt enough sign of my in-principle loyal character I assume dubious motives and bail. A guy I work with I told this too, and he was like "you would bail on a woman that much younger," and the answer is a resounding yes. I did it before and can do it again. This line of thinking is precisely why he isn't with an attractive woman. He has this limited thinking and is worried that society would banish him if he dared to take one of the cookies. There is nobody doing that aside of some bitter women and young incels online, though. Nobody. They don't matter; they are not important. If they had such great power, they would not spend it ranting on Reddit about how men are toxic. And ultimately they also don't want to stop it because in their hearts they are deeply willing to trade up for the right guy. They almost all do. Every iron-clad feminist that isnt a lesbian has a price where she is selling out, where "age just becomes a number": That may not be me, but that exists for sure. Feminism is just a way to ramp up said price through collective bargaining. Men dont understand this in most cases. This is why women only support vague laws where they can ultimately still behave in their best self-interest but have an exit hatch, they sell out on each other in a heartbeat
>>545632694That's nice. Bars are disgusting.
>>545634831The best place is the university area of the city you are in
>>545633471Nah I dont agree with this. The girls who come off that way are just extra stralthy larpers about it
>>545630875What ethnicity is that?
>>545634884You have been fooled by women larping on the internet that women irl are all by women larping on the internet. Yeah the women who post on reddit amiugly or saying they are autistic are most certainly larping. I am talking about the real deal, the average human. The simple next-door girl without massive online presence.
>>545630875Nah man, the truth is if you are erudite intellectual like myself, I have been barely participating with the women and now I'm something like a massive male whore in my 40s. The payoff appears to be real, if you actually try.
>>545634040Yeah yeah I just don't care, the muslims, drug dealers etc. can have them
>>545634724He's right though
