Why does it have to be some super big effort where i gotta go out of my way and change so much about my life and what i do in day to day in order just to get my dick in some pussy?Why can't i just do whatever and it work out? Is it normal for a guy to have to completely live a fake life and go out of his way to do shit he would never do, just to enter the realm of possibility to get a gf?
>>546270244It is the human mating ritual. Other animals go and build nests, stand out from competition, etc. And humans do the equivalent of that.
>>546270244Even Nikolas Cruz has a girlfriend Having a girlfriend isn't a great leaping moment in your life
>>5462702448/10 loosh harvest
if you have try, you already lost just ask any normalfag in a relationship how they met their significant other. it just happens to them. they didn't have to exert any effort. they were just naturally sociable and hung around places where mating could happen
>>546270244Maybe I can be your girlfriend tonight op
>>546270320>Having a girlfriend isn't a great leaping moment in your lifethat's wholly a matter of perspective, like most things in life. a gf is like a sports car. to a rich person it's no big deal adding another to their collection. to someone poor, they'll appreciate it and see it as a big boost to their status
>>546270244just fuck prostitutes. women aren't worth the time and money investment.
>>546270361>looshYou're not drawing power from someone by taking it away from them you stupid faggot whore.
>>546270244>Is it normal for a guy to have to completely live a fake life and go out of his way to do shit he would never do, just to enter the realm of possibility to get a gf?hyperhoeflation set in by the 2010's as evidenced by the slutwalks
>>546270244Youre probably just fucking wierd bro. I changed 0 and basically always had a gf until I got married around 24
>>546270501there is no difference between a gf and a prostitute, one you take on a mall shopping spree, the other you give cash to
>>546270399Does anyone have that post about self improvenement being a scam ?
>>546270244Just fuck a kangaroo.
>>546270490Spiritually poor perhaps.
it's always been difficultyou have to have your shit together 90% of guys don't look like chad or tyrone or are under 6 foot
>>546270244you got no rizz
>>546270582probablyi remember being a young kid in school, and people had gf's and bf's, and i couldn't understand any of itthen in high school i understood it, but by then i was so late to the party everyone else already had multiple "relationships" by then and i was the awkward single guy then in my 20's the "gap" between me and people who had gf's and bf's grew exponentially further to the point where it felt impossible to make any kind of connection to any girl at uni now in my late 20's it feels like everyone has already been through a dozen long-term relationships and a dozen random short term things stacked on that tooi dont see how it works now, ive lived my life as a single guy without taking into account a woman in my life and it seems like this is now just a permanent thing, my life is basically fully developed around there not being another person with me, let alone a woman as a sexual partnerat this point I would have to completely change my entire lifestyle, my entire personality, my entire day to day schedule, all of my interests and hobbies, basically everything, in order to be able to even begin meeting the minimum requirements that would allow a girlfriend to enter my life
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>>546270244just give up, you're probably never going to find true love so no point in trying.
>>546271042Brutal teen love pill https://incels.wiki/w/Teen_love_pill
>>546271042try being 40, good news is that you stop giving a fuck and life becomes more comfy
>>546271132the point isnt to "find true love" its to glorify God by filfilling His first commandment to adam, be fruitful and multiply. the goal is to understand the facts that all women are evil vapid whores and virtually all pastors are evil vapid whores. the goal is to survive in this post civilized evil fuckhole
>>546271042Women arent a monolithic block with requirements, you over think shit thats your problem. You probably have standards that are too high, just accept yourself as you are if you are unwilling to change and find a bitch thats willing to accept that. Shes probably going to be chopped or a little fat whatever
chad doesn't have to try
>>546271309>You absolutely have to make concessions to your self respect to have sexYeah so I'm walking away. I'm physically hot enough that it bothers you.
>>546270244>dw man just blame me
>>546271309> just beeeeeeeeee yourselfwomen need lobotomy healthcare
>>546271309my only standard is dont be fatim a gymcel so a fat girlfriend wouldnt make any sense to mealso, i dont have high standards, i actually prefer porn where the woman has small tits, not much of an ass, and a basic face.... its so much more realistic,i just dont like fatness
>>546270244>Why the hell is it so hard to just get a gf?Hypergamy. Before computers and the internet, getting a girlfriend was effortless and everyone matched with their counterpart based on looks, status, social class, etc. Now women want the absolute best and will not compromise for less, even if she has to be part of a harem to be with the top guy or be a single, childless cat lady for the rest of her life.
average men is unattractive to the average female. once given the freedom of options, women either look for the same men, refuse to settle, or settle and make some poor sap miserable for the rest of their livesbut it all boils down to a fundamental asymmetry in attraction between the sexes
>>546271546partly true. but back then women were also whoring around and cuckolding their husbands. patriarchy makes this more risky and covert, feminism just makes the underlying dynamic more blatant
>>546270244you can also hire a whore, costs about the same and she doesn't pretend to love you for what you can do for her, you're welcome dalit
>>546270244you are an ergonomical unit, a vessel. Not even your gf cares about who you are, you are here to facilitate the reality.
>>546271637>women were also whoring around and cuckolding their husbandsIt was very rare and doing so would mean social suicide for the woman. Men did not tolerate the cuckold fetish like they do now with Jewish porn brainwashing/programming.
>>546271042Yeah, pretty much. The idea of someone being in my life in that capacity seems so foreign to me. BUT I've seen anons completely 180 their lives and get a wife/ house/ career all in the span of a year or two.
>>546271489Sorry anon the only future for you is a fat ugly asian or fat ugly nigger.
>>546271209Im half-way there>t.35yo
>>546271907my 1 and only requirement is dont be fat
>>546270244The requirements only grow proportionately to your age. In your teens you can be a jobless bum and score plenty of girls just living off your mom’s money. By 30, you should probably have your own place and money otherwise that’s very weird and awkward for everyone. Like why are you such a loser? So yea.
Relationships take work and effort, dude. Judt get a hooker and don't fuck sith women who want an actual relationship and marriage.
>>546270244everyone is a main character in their own life. all girls believe they deserve the best.
>>546271791less rare then you'd think sadly. Medieval and Renaissance literature is filled with tales of cuckoldry. true, it was seen as one of the biggest dishonors a man could befall, and the threat of genuine violence kept women's nature more inhibited, but the idea that it was all a fairytale romance for the average man back then is a fantasy. you can force women into marriage, you cannot force them them into loving and desiring you. whether that matters is another thing
>>546271991nothing has ever happened regardless of the life stage
>>546270490True. My brothers were always surrounded by girls, and now my son is. My son has too many girls, hopefully he won't get too soured. He complains about them, but keeps them around.
>>546270244its pretty easy you just need to lower your standards
>>546272145my only standard is dont be fat
>>546271042>change my entire lifestyle, my entire personality, my entire day to day schedule, all of my interests and hobbiesWell, scifi movies and video games aren't really hobbies, and are a terrible lifestyle. Being an antisocial fuckwit won't keep anyone around unless you trap her with a kid or 2.
>>546270244how is it hard? literally just go outside and you will eventually meet a girl interested in you. I dont even want woman because they are useless and annoying but they still try to worm themselves into my life so I stopped going outside much.couple days ago:>go outside to the grocery store>cute 18yo girl stacking butter and milk flirts with me>dont react at all to her cringe attempt at a monolog and leave>on my way home see underage neighbour chicks who chat me up>not interested in their holes and tell them to shut up beyond the friendly hello you greet your neighbours with>one of the girls hugs me anyway then they walk away giggling while looking back at me the entire time>have to go to the ATM in the bank>ATM is broken because shitskins destroyed it somehow>have to talk with the bank employee>chick in her mid to late 20s>remembers my name, remembers the last time we spoke like 2 months ago and starts telling me about her life (didnt ask her)>ask to withdraw cash and she asks if this is for my gf>tell her no its not>finally arrive home>neighbour woman in her early 20s hammers on my door>says her faucet is dripping and if I can help her>"bitch call a plumber" I say but help her anyway and just close the valve under her sink>while I do this one simple hand motion in her bathroom she keeps telling me about her apartment and why she decorated it like this and goes into detail about her bedroom furniture and her bed like I give a shit>finally leave and go back into my apartment>wonder when the next roastie will bother me
>>546271489I'm sorry for projecting onto you. A dude who likes normal, every day womeb???? Usually dudes love ysll, chubby, fat titted whores, even when their wife is 100% opposite of that, and forego her for the pixel demon whores, even though he's an obese, lazy slob.
>>546270244Just stop being Indian bro
>>546272406Post height
>>546272554185cm which by german standards is pretty much average. I often see guys that are my height or taller.
>>546270244No bad vibes goy
>>546272742Ok thanks
>have basically no irl friends, haven't gone to a bar with friends since I was a student years ago >only time I leave the house is to buy groceries >using dating apps would be pointless because most of the women on there want a guy who's exciting and has a ton of photos of him doing cool shit outside, I literally have no photos of myself >inertly coast through life, every day just sort of bleeds into the next at this point, I probably have a higher chance of winning the lottery or getting struck by lightning than I do getting a girlfriend.
>>546270244Its not hard to get a girlfriend. Just swipe on everything on tinder and you will get fatties and really low tier level women. Its hard to find a good woman.
>>546272406Today on shit that never happened
>>546271042this is my problem too, I'm almost 30 and I've never had a gf, how tf does one transition from a life of solitude to actually sharing your life with another person?
>>546270244I own a business, have friends, have hobbies, work out/cardio/etc and I cannot find anyone to date either. Girls just don’t seek guys out unless they’re super model tier or fucking degen and impulsive It sucks, but it shouldn’t really stop your life imoLast girl I tried with burned me hard. She wanted it to work out too, but she had too many mental issues and pushed me away really hard when I tried to advance things. I’ve been told by others that she looks “off” these days after that happened.
