Thread for discussions about selfharm and mutual supportbeen out a lot today hey>How are you doing today?>Any plans for today?>When was the last time you hurt yourself?>Why did you hurt yourself?>Is there anything bothering you right now?
links :DD>a long list of self harm alternatives (thank you muddy):https://imgur.io/a/7Q2zgw7>a first aid post cuting:https://www.lifesigns.org.uk/first-aid-for-self-injury-and-self-harm/>a wound care guide:https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CsvJs8qNCVkHWHKekMSmCn6qn0GBEcgnq9fIqlA6Uv0/mobilebasic>a bpd workbook:https://d-pdf.com/book/1781/read>a bpd Information Book (anon said it's exceptionally good)https://annas-archive.org/md5/1a4f329474320214a120a4d553c6b60c> bdbt (dialectical behavioral therapy)workbook is intended for BPD but can work for anyone:https://cursosdepsicologia.com.ar/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/THEDIA1.pdfPlease don't post any drastic images and if you have to, spoiler them
i stopped cutting so i could be beautiful for my husband and children
aaaa it's supposed to be edited #709 but I accidentally clicked post
>>84649336its been 11 months since the last time i properly cut myself, i try to harm myself in different ways now because my cuts were getting to dangerous and were hell to clean up, i mostly just slam myself into things now lol i look stupid doing it
>>84649336hi catbro! (^-^)>been out a lot todaywhat did you do? another bike trip?>>84649343glad you found a good reason to stop. :>>>84649355dang... i missed 700? D:
>>84649336>>How are you doing today?>>Any plans for today?finding for work again.watching anime>>Is there anything bothering you right now?I feel so unproductive. I want to make something, anything. And I just get no where.>>84649355hi cat> aaaa it's supposed to be edited #709 but I accidentally clicked postIt's okay, we'll have another #700 thread
>>84649336heya cat. Bit pre-occuppied this past weekend, but had today off. how are you?>>84649336rip thread 709. We'll never see you>>84649386hey yuanon, how was your weekend and how's it going today?>>84649395hey cynic, good luck with searching again>watching animewhatcha watching?
>>84649343that's good >>84649384hey anon have you broken any bones?>>84649386heya>another bike trip?yep it was a 100km one :3how are you?>missed 700? D:D:it's okay you been here on the last 6 hundrets>>84649395heyo>finding for work again.>watching animehope it all goes wellwhat anime?>just get no wherewhy do you lose motivation?>another #700 threadwonder if we'll ever get to #7000probably impossible but who knows >>84649479hello>but had today off. how are you?yay ^^I'm well I went on a long bikeride, it was fun>We'll never see you[*]
>>84649384>its been 11 months well done, anon. that's an impressive amount of time.>my cuts were getting to dangerous and were hell to clean up, i mostly just slam myself into things nowwell, glad you found something less extreme. just be careful about concussions. stuff's no joke.>>84649395hi cynic! sorry for disappearing for a while. hope you're doing well. your post doesn't say... ^^'>finding for work again. watching animegood luck with both. i watched some glitch shows today. the gaslight district pilot episode is kinda neat, but i don't really know what they're going for. also tried an episode of murder drones, but non of the jokes worked for me, so i called it quits after that. what are you watching?>>84649479hey officeanon!>had today offsame here. weird that with all the strange holidays this time of year this on aligns.>rip thread 709f>how was your weekend and how's it going today?my brains barely recovered from work and heat related stress. let me think. saturday i was mostly preoccupied with preparing some food, sunday i went out for some workout (reduced the weight because i have same back issues and the heat) and today i cleaned the place and some fans. good decision. how are you?>>84649631>yep it was a 100km one :3damn. that's a big one. :0 hope you put on some sunscreen and had plenty of water with you. was it a new route or a familiar one?>how are you?i doing better now. work was pretty bad last week and it took me a while to recover. mindlessly playing act helped me to deal with that. nearly done with the game now. also had some nice food over the weekend. :] how was yours?>it's okay you been here on the last 6 hundretsmaybe you're right, but i'm not happy about it. my attendancy has been really low for quite some time now. :/
y r all of u name fags
>>84649778>also tried an episode of murder drones, but non of the jokes worked for me, so i called it quitsI think you'd really like murder drones if you gave it more of a chance. The first episode is rougher than the rest and it's better for the story than the comedy. I'd say try a couple episodes to see if you like it.
>>84649778>big one. :0ye, I'm a little tired now but actually really not much but I may sleepe soon>hope you put on some sunscreen I put some on but my face and arms are a little red x3 >had plenty of water with you. yep I also ate a bunch of ice cream on the way>was it a new route or a familiar one?I'd say mostly familiar >doing better now\o/>helped me to deal with thatthanks crabs >had some nice food over the weekend. :] woa what?>how was yours?on the weekend I mostly just chipped away at the map >attendancy has been really low for quite some time now. :/I know but it's not your fault you're so tired :<
>>84649835well we used to not use names but then we'd often mix each other up so it makes a lot of sense to use names when we post here regularly
Hello friends, hope you're all well. Not much to report here but earlier I got struck with a general feeling of gratefulness for this thread.I also had Mug root beer for the first time after trying to get my hands on it for a while. It's pretty good.>>84649355We all make mistakes. That's why pencils come with erasers!>>84649395>I feel so unproductive. I want to make something, anything. And I just get no where.I know the feeling. What kind of stuff are you trying to make? Something you're familiar with or something totally new?>>84649479Did you do anything fun today?>>84649778>heat related stressDo you have air conditioning over in Deutschland? Or is it like the UK where everyone is in denial that it's needed?
>>84649336Hello!!>How are you doing today?doing kinda alright>Any plans for today?just gonna pack some more stuff for vacation tmr n then watch anime>When was the last time you hurt yourself?yesterday>Why did you hurt yourself?loneliness>Is there anything bothering you right now?again, constant loneliness and having no one who gives a shit abt me>been out a lot today how was it? :D
>>84649835>y r all of u name fagswhat catbro said. made it so that people didn't have to announce who they are every thread.>>84649855if you gave it more of a chancehm. at this point i'm pretty good at knowing if i like something at a glance, but if you say it improves, i'll give it another shot. found some nice shows i'd never watched otherwise by just trusting some anons recommendations.>>84649872>I'm a little tired now but actually really not muchsays every sleepy person ever. :p>but I may sleepe sooni'm just waiting for some laundry and then i'm heading to bed, too. it's late, after all. and i have the feeling that sleeping will be a bit harder than usual for me, so maybe heading there early will give me a headstart.>I put some on but my face and arms are a little red x3you did your due dilligence. that's anyone can ask for. i suppose the wind cools you down when riding a bike, so you don't feel the sun as much.>I also ate a bunch of ice cream on the wayhad some today as well. just can't keep myself in check.>I'd say mostly familiarstill some nooks and crannies left to explore?>woa what?the porchetta i talked about before. came pretty well and lasted for two days. i worried that it would be too dry or salty after letting it cure in the fridge for 5 days, but it didn't. still very intense flavor.>I mostly just chipped away at the mapi see. any progress?>I know but it's not your fault you're so tired :<maybe. i wish i could say what it is, though.>>84649951hi dinon!>hope you're all wellall things considered, i'm alright.>I got struck with a general feeling of gratefulness for this thread.yeah. it's been a great help for me as well. no place i'd rather be.>It's pretty good.i like it too, but hard to get here and i'm pretty much in the minority. ^^'
>>84649951>Do you have air conditioning over in Deutschland? Or is it like the UK where everyone is in denial that it's needed?mostly like in the uk. i've got some fans, but that's about it. helps me get through the day, though. maybe i should place some water bowl in front of those. heard that helps.>>84650166hi, yvki!>just gonna pack some more stuff for vacation tmr n then watch animevacation! \o/ where are you headed and what are you watching?>lonelinesssorry to hear, but relatable.>no one who gives a shit abt mei know it's not much, but we're always happy to hear what's going on with you.
>>84650325hi!! >where are you headedlower bavaria! its just a 4 hour drive for me :3>what are you watching?wanted to rewatch oregairu for the feels. love that anime so muuuuch>but we're always happy to hear what's going on >with you.its so crazy ngl. never felt so much comfort anywhere online xD at least yall understand me, and im glad that i started posting
>>84649631>I went on a long bikeride, it was funglad to hear. I've been in a lot more than i like past few days, but trying to get out more next weekend and beyond so will be good>[*]could be worse, could have typoed a 00' thread>>84649778>strange holidays this time of year this on aligns.what one is it there? we have memorial day, which basically start of summer even though it's kind of a somber military holiday in theory. Kinda cold and wet out though, so doesn't feel like summer>brains barely recovered from work and heat related stresssorry about both. Odd we're having unseasonably coold weather over here suddenly>preparing some foodwhat food? what for?>. how are you?i'm okay. A bit scatter brained. I was recovering from not sleeping one night last week and only thing I can coherently remember is being happy about pulling the character I wanted in gacha and getting everything i needed for a cosplay. so all good i guess>>84649951hey discanon>Did you do anything fun today?not much. I mostly worked on some project stuff and wasted more time than i should. Bought tickets for another small event i'm interested in and finally got the dog out for a walk, so guess those were nice.How about you?>>84650166hi YvKi > more stuff for vacationwhat kind of vacation you going on?
>>84650396heyo!>what kind of vacation you going on?hiking... i hate it and love it at the same time.. its waaay too warm. but at least i can take some more pics. i got into photography a while ago so i wanna shoot more pics there
>>84650411>hikingnice! Have fun. I love hiking as well. I live in the USA and have been to a good chunk of the states here to go to parks for hiking. Would go weeks and just travel around park to park.>its waaay too warm. yeah, I would often go during the hottest part of summer and it can be intense. Can really drain you quite a bit. Especially depending on if you're under trees or out in the open a lot. Had some hikes in very barren areas that felt like I was going to waste away on and have to carry so much water.> i can take some more picsenjoy doing that as well. I got tons of them from over the years
>>84650357>lower bavaria! its just a 4 hour drive for me :3nice. furthest i ever get is baden-wuertemberg, which is a 6 hours for me. never been to bavaria before. well, i drove through on my way to italy, but never stopped there. what's the plan?>oregairunever heard of it before, but i looked it up and it makes sense. i didn't watch anime at the time. ^^' what's it about?>never felt so much comfort anywhere online xDcatbro enforced his vision of a comfy thread with an iron paw.>at least yall understand metrue. i always say there's a level of understanding and connection here you rarely have anywhere else. i guess people who come to this site and stay must have something in common.>im glad that i started postinggood thing you found your way here.>>84650396>what one is it there?pentecost. something christian. that's all i know. even had to google the english term for it.>start of summer even though it's kind of a somber military holiday in theorysounds more like something i'd put in fall or winter. is there a reason for the date?>Kinda cold and wet out though, so doesn't feel like summermy thoughts a few days ago. now i wish it wouldn't feel like summer that much.>Odd we're having unseasonably coold weather over here suddenlyapril was really weird in that regard. had 10 degrees swings every few days. not sure how that translates to fahrenheit, but i always have a hard time with constantly changing temperatures.>what food? what for?the porchetta i had in the fringe since monday last week and just for me. nothing special.>A bit scatter brained. I was recovering from not sleeping one night last weeksorry to hear. why didn't you get any sleep?
>>84650396>only thing I can coherently remember is being happy about pulling the character I wanted in gacha and getting everything i needed for a cosplaythat's the stuff i remember talking about with you too, so i guess we didn't miss anything important. ^^ last time you replied to me you brought up baldur's gate 3 and how the devs complained how everyone basically made the same character. i got the game and tried to make a human male character. fun fact: 95% of the hair and beard options look look like complete ass, same with the hair colors, so when they complain about everyone making the same character, that's why that happened. i got so game to play it in multiplayer with my twow-group, so i'll see what character i'll end up making. can't say the other races look very appealing, either.gonna get some sleep now. good night, everyone!
i cut for the first time since a month clean
>>84649479>>84649479Hi office anon> whatcha watchingBHA's last two seasons. I dropped off years ago and thought it would be good background noise. I actually ended up liking a lot of the fights.>>84649631> lose motivationYeah that and general distractions.>100kmWow thats far. I hope you're not too tired.>>84649778Hi yu> sorry for disappearing for a whileNothing to apologize for> i watched some glitch shows today. The only glitch so I really ended up liking was TADC and it took a few episodes.>the gaslight district pilot episode is kinda neat, but i don't really know what they're going forYeah that was beer, i thought it was supposed to be digital version of old stock motion cartoons with gross out logic. Not much more to it.> murder drones, but non of the jokes worked for me, so i called it quits after thatI keep seeing murder drones on my feed. Haven't tried it yet. It looks like another cute robot girl show?> what are you watching?Talked about it above.>>84649951Hi dis> What kind of stuff are you trying to make? Something you're familiar with or something totally new?I'm trying to make a video where I just explain a book without directly spoiling it. At first, I just summarized the entire plot. Which defeats the purpose since you'd still figure everything out by what I'm omitting. But it's hard to talk about any interesting shit without context. Like "so it was aliens all along and group of humans preparing their arrival in order to end humanity's rule over the planet" doesn't make much sense without the build up.
>>84650743phew im late...>what's it about?its just some high school rom com xD kinda have a strong emotional bond to it for sum reason. prolly cuz i watched it shortly after i got cheated on as a way of coping>furthest i ever get is baden-wuertembergheh, thats where im from