You hit your mid 30s and realize like 99 percent of millennials and gen z are in miserable shitty relationships and the experience of being close to one another, the constant proximity, has totally annihilated any sense of romanticism and eroticism. Then they 'open their relationship' and it leads to the woman getting railed by all her exes and guys who are travelling around banging mid 30s early 40s women, and people are still miserable and their lives feel empty.Here is what life is like for the MAN after the 'relationship is opened' - so whilst the woman is getting railed by half the town the guy just sits in his garage on the weekend drinking beers and thinking about the earlier years from a decade ago when he actually had friends who he did things with. He has passive suicidal ideation now and has nothing to look forward to. He is so deflated he doesn't even have any strong feelings about his wife being fucked by hundreds of different dudes - he simply has nothing left to care about at all. The world seems to have passed him by. He is dead yet his body is alive.Everything I described there happens to the people who did everything RIGHT. Those are the people who did everything correctly. They did well in highschool, got into a good college/trade, studied/worked hard, got a mortgage and a nice house. Had a kid or two. Everything they did was the correct and right thing. And they still ended up in their mid 30s a soulless husk, with a broken 'open' relationship, the wife a wine-mom who needs sixty dicks a month just to feel something and the guy is just a shell of a human, has nothing left within him, just totally gone. Empty. Miserable empty lives. And those are the people who were lucky and did everything properly.
>>84651798Hmmm.... where did you get all of this from? Observing your friends or family? I've been curious and I think sex-havers aren't nearly as happy as they want to pretend in front of everyone.
happiness is all relative, of course. relative to the situation around you, relative to your situation in the pastit's hard to be constantly excited about access to clean water and electricity, since everyone has thoseyou will not be giddy 5 years into a relationship. it becomes the normthe best test of "who is happier" is to imagine who would like to exchange their situation with whom. and you will discover, unsurprisingly, that inceldom is in the absolute bottom, right there with debilitating physical conditions and deadly diseasesso, yeah. people who did it correctly and rolled the correct values on the dice are much, much happier for it, even if they don't all the time dance in the rain like the youngest man on earth
>>84651936Yes observing friends and acquaintances. 1 couple had a business and a home. The business shut down and the guy got other work but his wife said she wanted to 'open the relationship'. He allowed it, they then started to sleep around iwth other people but she obviously got way more attention. A few years later they divorced, now neither own property, both are renting. Their son is struggling too, unfortunately. 2. Highschool sweetheart couple had been together since 16. They were early 30s when I met them. I spent some time with the guy, he said his wife was going away on "girls weekends" a lot. I said that sounds like she is cheating. He went said I was wrong. 6 months later he found her phone open on the table and had lots of snapchat notifications and somehow he found she was snapchatting nudes to a guy. She then confessed that she had been fucking random guys on the girls weekends for over a year. They got divorced. They also had 3 children together. And this guy was a very calm, chill, nice guy. Lost the home they had. Both renting now. Plus lots of other stories of people in 'perfect relationships' but actually they never have sex, they're miserable and feel lonely. And they're just bored of it all. They're empty and their lives are empty. What is crazy is that if I ever said "I feel lonely" they'd almost always snap back saying "you be in a relationship and still feel lonely, in fact, being in a relationship and feeling lonely is even worse than actually being on your own and feeling lonely"So that basically was the final piece of the puzzle
>>84651987oh and let me make this perfectly clearpoint number 2, that couple, they had the PICTURE PERFECT LIFE. Highschool sweethearts, both had STABLE WORK that paid pretty good money. Both were virgins before they slept with each other. They had a wonderful wedding, and enough money to have 3 kids and holidays and other good things. And it was still shit enough for her to go fuck other dudes and burn the marriage down, break it apart, and now they are renting and will likely never own a home ever again unless they find someone else to get married with. I am saying they were the picture perfect couple, with the picture perfect relationship, with great careers, loads of extra money. And it still was not enough.
btw youth is another good example. are young people happy? in general, no. like you may be not very happy right now. but would you like to become 20 years older right now? nobody would. this shows that younger people always value their youth, even if they are not actively happy about it in the moment
>>84652010>>84651980great points and yeha I am grateful for my youth, clean water, etc. unironically this works against me though as women see me as not ambitious enough. ahahahahah
i watched what happens to the "bad boy" that women like to chase after. i grew up with him and he started selling drugs when he was a teenager, girls really liked him too and he fucked a bunch of women. hes been in and out if prison for the last 15 years and has been a drug addict and alcoholic the whole time. at some point during prison stays he got married to a party girl stacy type and had 3 kids with her. He stopped drinking and doing drugs for a while and got a job but he eventually started again some time later and he got arrested multiple times having fights with her. hes back in prison again, she moved to a different state with his kids, and once he gets out hes going to get ass fucked with child support.
>>84652024something i don't think gets mentioned enough if that often the 'bad boys' are beaten up by the women they fuck. the women who are attracted to the bad boys are actually often very chaotic and violent themselves. I think the women are attracted tot he bad boy because the women are also looking for a permission slip to be chaotic and violent and to act out physical and mental and emotional abuse. I genuinely have seen this enough now to pick up on the pattern.
>>84652043i think thats actually what happened. i know the girl he married and she was a massive cunt and she probably drove him crazy. being around her for more than 10 minutes was exhausting. she was a big coke head and i think she was bipolar or something like that, totally batshit crazy
>>84652065yeah man! Your story of that guy got me thinking about all this. It's not well spoken about though, a lot of people keep it hush hush. They don't mention it. I knew another guy who was genuinely like one of those guys women fiend over, the male model looking guy. Big muscles, very tall, and had a face that looked like the superman guy. No shit. I spent some time with him, about 6 months, it turned out his relationship was abusive and she was the reason. She would throw lamps and shit at him. He had documented evidence. But he had a child with her. Super fucking insane to see this because this guy was genuinely so good looking that when he was doing his job (he was involved in HVAC stuff) it was pretty common that women would take their tops off and flash their tits at him, just cheeky sexual shit like that, happened a lot. But his personal life was a total mess. This guy wasn't even the full on bad boy type, wasn't into drugs, wasn't into crime. But he had a look and still, he was beaten up and abused. Just crazy to see this shit. This guy literally won the genetic lottery yet he was getting abused by a woman in his relationship. Honestly I wouldn't believe it except I knew the guy and saw evidence. He had to fight to get custody of his daughter. The woman. his ex wife, was totally unhinged, total chaos.
> guys who did everything right> describes a reddit bugman who did everything wrong
>>84651798Cuckoldry and open relationships aren't that common anon.I was expecting a broader chastisement of normies, how most people can't afford a home, how many are failing to get married or marrying later and divorcing often, how most kids are being raised by single mothers, how living standards are in decline, how politics is a total mess with senile boomers voting in israel shill and epstein confidant Trump and the alliance of minorities, feminists and gays vote for self-avowed "democratic socialists" like bernie, AOC and mamdani, how not even video games and mass media are fun anymore because everything has to make some kind of social statement.Instead I guess it's just your cuck fetish I guess, bait and switch. There are few intellectual wojaks on /r9k/ anymore.
>>84652329>Cuckoldry and open relationships aren't that common anon.>Instead I guess it's just your cuck fetish I guess, bait and switch. There are few intellectual wojaks on /r9k/ anymore.
>>84651798You get a beautiful wife then later she becomes an ugly hag.You become rich then realize you will die and all your stuff will be given to someone else.There is no real happiness in this world, just a little bit of fun and suffering. Real happiness is in heaven and it has ever beautiful virgins that won't ever displease you.
>>84651987Oh yeah, my boss keeps dating girls from work, where they would normally be out of his leg... he's fat, older, just kind of disgusting honetly. Kind of a Hutt...But the dude always gets skinny hot, big boobied girls working under him and then dates a few... like...One of them told me they had sex 3 times in the 4 years they dated and he wasn't good at it. They date him for money.. but he always tries to act like it's love and he's super cool. The girls cheat, always too. With the dudes at work. Cheating is everywhere bro, every dude is out there getting cucked besides incels.
>>84651987>>84652003Also forgot to add your observations are valid, I was just testing your methodology, brother. I get it though. It's never enough, I swear the better a relationship SHOULD be the more a woman goes into self-destruct mode.
>>84652043this shit happened to me t. bad boy, i honestly thought your first post was like, you know me irl and fictionalized a little. now im like 35 and fucked up from drugs and drinking and ptsdmaxxed both from dumping 10 years of my life into bpdemons and from all the shit i did along the way. i can confirm that it is still over, in this case
>>84651798I bet that room very stinky haha
>>84651987>if I ever said "I feel lonely" they'd almost always snap back saying "you be in a relationship and still feel lonely, in fact, being in a relationship and feeling lonely is even worse than actually being on your own and feeling lonely"This is like the blackholepill, once you realize that it is over even if you make it, I don't even know what the point is after realizing this. Coming from being on the 'guy snapping at you saying relationships are worse' side btw not the neverfucked incel side. Chad gets abused, celebrities get divorce raped. What do you think is waiting for you on the other side? You'll get your oneitis and be happy ever after? I don't mean to discourage anyone from trying, I guess it's better to have had some good times in between the vast gulfs of suffering rather than just endless suffering, so you may as well hit the gym and swipe tinder or whatever. It really does come down to being happy with and by yourself. If you have this, you're also immune to relationship problems because you don't need them and can have the self-respect to get out of situations that aren't right.>how can I ever love myself if no one ever loved meHow are you ever going to love yourself if your wife cheats on you? If you get with a hot girl and she makes your life a living hell for years on end? If you abandon your kids with some harpy because you're going to kill her and yourself if you don't leave? Do you really think a woman is going to make your life better, long term?
>>84651798I've witnesses millenials who I otherwise respected having "open relationships", in this case I think it was more like the boyfriend got demoted to a housemate.
>>84651798Those have to be pornstars right?
>>84653211>reverse searched the accounts yeah more or less OF types
>>84651798What are these ladies doing?
>>84653719They are dismantling the Patriarchy.
>>84652733Yeah and it is so obvious too. But they go to great lengths to pretend and to falsify, they lie a lot. >>84652793Yeah man. And the heavy stuff is when you realize you lost all those years, all that time. When that heaviness hits it is unfortunately when a lot of guys go back to drugs and alcohol. Nah avoid that, stay sober. And if you aren't sober, get sober. Only thing I can suggest is gym, just get fit, stay fit. There's no greater meaning I have found, not yet, sorry. >>84652814But almost all of them are smiling.>>84652987>This is like the blackholepill, once you realize that it is over even if you make it, I don't even know what the point is after realizing this.Yeah I don't either lol. It's just gym, I guess. Just getting fit, staying fit. >I guess it's better to have had some good times in between the vast gulfs of suffering rather than just endless suffering,Yes>so you may as well hit the gym and swipe tinder or whatever.Yes 100 percent. >It really does come down to being happy with and by yourself.Yaeh and that means eating clean, getting fit and staying fit, sleeping well. That is what you have to do at the physical level which then helps your mental level. >If you have this, you're also immune to relationship problems because you don't need them and can have the self-respect to get out of situations that aren't right.Yeah exactly! No longer can you get sucked in to bullshit. It's almost like permanent post nut clarity. >Do you really think a woman is going to make your life better, long term?Honestly that question hits hard. Women, many of them, start getting perimenopause symptoms in their mid 30s. That whole crazy journey of perimenopause and menopause can last a decade. And it sucks for the women, most of them hate it. The more I think about all this the more I think I just need to be as good as I can for myself. >>84653204Yeah, house mate, 'friend'.
>>84651798This is why I took the 2dpill.
>>84654008You mean gave up
>>84653219i reverse searched and its giving me a similar video but with different girlsi want to know the ones in OP's video specificallyanyone?
the one on the bottom on the very leftI NEED HER NAME PLEASE
>>84654008Same. 2D girls aren't stinky like the ones on OP's .webm
>>84651798Their soles are nice.
>>8465179899% of men are violent low IQ narcissists who made every wrong choice in life.
>>84651987I don't think inceldom is the bottom. I would not trade my situation for that of a reddit cuck in an open relationship with a woman who dose'nt love him and is only using hun for stability and to pay bills.I would rather be completely alone than used and abused as a tool. That's probably a big part of why I did end up alone. I don't have that desperation.
>>84653966holy redddit spacing batman
