I think my parents think im gonna whore out once I move for school.Low and behold I am on the asexual spectrum, and I goon exclusively to dating simulations or my imagination
>>84681008>asexualDo you guys actually masturbate? My female friend is trying to convince me that I'm one but I do masterbate like once every month and a half, for like 4 times and then shower and move on, it is mostly to stop the wet dreams,(I'm 20 please body stop doing that) so yeah
>>84681028Being ace doesn't mean you dont have sexual desires. Not necessarily. Its a spectrum. There are those who do nto desire sex at all, and there are those who still have intimate desire, but not desire for any real individual sexually, at least it really really really hard for them to achieve this. Thays where I fall on the spectrum. Maybe you fall there too?
I might be stupid, I just considered that she thinks I'm ace because I'm friends with her for years and never made a move on her.Ouch, this feels horrible, anons are right women are monsters.
>>84681056Maybe?I dunno what is your friendship with her like?
>>84681008>my parents think im gonna whore out once I move for school.>I am on the asexual spectrum, and I goon exclusively to dating simulations or my imagination
>>84681053Maybe, I may be one then because sexual conversations do bother me and ick me in a way, and my social circle growing up had to a lot of girls within it but even when I was 14 I never got that horny phase where you fantasies about your friends, even my wet dreams aren't dreams perse, I just wake up feeling a boner with pressure from my pants and ejaculate from that.Call me saiki k the way I hit these asexual criteria hey >>84681072Mostly venting to each other and me asking for cooking advice from time to time, we studied together a lot of years growing up so we kinda stayed on touch after going to different colleges
>>84681109AHA! So you ARE asexual.. youre friend was right :D.Now, do you feel like you dont want to have sex at all, or that you arent opposed to the idea, and if its the right person, and you really know them, you might want to?>>84681093I take no shame in it being common. It just means that other people know what's up and have good taste.
>>84681008You are not asexual, you are just so boring that you pretend you are different
>>84681153Why would i pretend to be asexual?
>>84681142>Now, do you feel like you dont want to have sex at allHonestly the concept of sex is a bit disgusting and uncomfortable for me I'm very sensitive to textures and kissing horrifies me like why did we choose that as a method to show affection, also sex is not a clean activity neither the human body, women have to shave and shower like 2 times a day for porn and stuff and we man are really disgusting down there, that's why I believe normal people have sex in the dark > or that you arent opposed to the idea, and if its the right person, and you really know them, you might want to?I guess because I do masterbate I might one day find myself relying on a wife rather than hand but I do understand that my partner would have needs so she will expect me to do that with her, I really don't know , it's hard to know how you'll act in a situation you have never been in
Also, the art style and character design from your pics are interesting, where are they from?
>>84681186Dating sim that includes rape and gore. Ykmet Strade. Not personally into gore but the character is so sexy >>84681178Ahhh... youre just like me then. I am weirded out by sex, I very much ao find it disgusting, but if it is for the person I love, its fine.You might be demisexual anon. Look it up. I dont know if im demisexual, or just plain ol' asexual who doesn't feel sexual attraction to people. It hasn't ever happened to me, so I just never did anything.How did your friend notice?
>>84681246>How did your friend notice?I have a rule where I avoided sexual topics when I talk to people and appropriate if my friends do, and she brought it up because one day she teased me about a girl that I was with in a debate club, the girl was stereotypically attractive and even give me her number but she really bothered me because she really struggled with defending her claims and she kept relying on anecdotes and I statements.The girl added me in her Instagram and there where my friend saw her.
My brain is tired >Appreciate >Avoid Please ignore my Idiocracy, thanks for the interesting conversation, hope you have a great day, and about your og question parents may have give birth to us but they won't ever understand us or truly trust us.As long as you know yourself and understand what you want and love, fearing the future is something that shouldn't be a problem to you at all.
>>84681284AhhhWhere most guys would have folded, you didnt. What an observant friend you got.Do you think you ever want to get married, or have kids?Do you want to?Or do you envision yourself alone?
>>84681311Alright anon, no worries. Its getting late for me too...Thanks for a good convo, I wish you well.Feel free to reply later, i wanna respond and read it.
Fuck shit bitch bitch faaggot I forgot to crop picrel fuuuck
>>84681330>Where most guys would have folded, you didnt. What an observant friend you got.I know it makes me look autistic as hell but it was so annoying and they paired me with her I wanted to win so bad.>Do you think you ever want to get married, or have kids?I think I migh, but seriously have yet to meet my type, it may be coping but the first time I overthinked about love I reached the conclusion that I want to find someone with a personality that I would like to wake up next to for the rest of my life, dating sucks because it mostly looks so I kinda opted out maybe I'll try after reaching 25>Do you want to?Not really, I don't know if you ever saw that cw supergirl show, but supergirl and her sister used to hung out in her apparament wearing pijamas and watching tv in my most romantic fantasy I want to marry someone to have that with >Or do you envision yourself alone?I'll most likely end up alone, my personality is very hard to stomach and I do prefer isolation and when I'm with people I get tired and exhausted quickly I fear finding myself in a relationship with I start strong and full of love and affection only to go back to my status quo which will be really unfair to whoever is my partner.
>>84681053>Being ace doesn't mean you dont have sexual desiresThen being "ace" doesn't fucking mean anything. That's called having a low sex drive, you faggot. Stop buying into leftist buzzwords ffs
>>84681391> I want to find someone with a personality that I would like to wake up next to for the rest of my lifeWise conclusion anon>I'll try after reaching 25Hmmm... I kinda disagree with this, I think you should interact with people, see who you'd like to be around, personalities may change over time. When we're around eachother alot we become more alike on many ways. People change, maybe they dont start out as your type, but become it through having a strong bond.>sister used to hung out in her apparament wearing pijamas and watching tv in my most romantic fantasy I want to marry someone to have that withI get that.I have a similar fantasy.Just living working together, garden work, bushcrafting, hiking, not necessarily talking just being in tune with eachother in a way. The kind of relationship that you ca only get through being with eachother and knowing eachother deeply.>I'll most likely end up alone, my personality is very hard to stomach and I do prefer isolatioDo you prefer it or is it just your habit?>I fear finding myself in a relationship with I start strong and full of love and affection only to go back to my status quo which will be really unfair to whoever is my partner.Really valid fear desu. But it kinda ties back to what I said about habit. Sometimes we self isolate because thats what wr know, and what we are comfortable with. But sometimes, to get good things, we need to step out of rhay comfort zone.>>84681482Definitely not low libido, i masturbate alot, just thinking about sex and all that, i dont wantch porn I just dont see myself acting on any sexuality. Again, im not sexually attracted to people. I just... cant.
>>84681053>Being ace doesn't mean you dont have sexual desires. Yes it does>Not necessarily. Its a spectrumSpectrums are not a thing, if you spend time gooning you're not asexual at all
