My theory for why women are so against grooming: They innately know men are more attracted to younger women, also younger women are more likely to be virgins (they aren't), and less likely to have baggage (they do). Therefore, by creating this societal stigma against it, they are getting rid of competition. Men who claim they are against it also attain two benefits. First of all, they can virtue signal to women an society as a whole by saying they hate grooming; second of all, they can reduce competition from other men. What do you guys think? Btw when I say grooming, I don't mean dating underage children.
sure will someone groom me (adult) before Chad does lol
>>84699030I think you are correct in this theory. Women do all sorts of sabotage. Famously hairdressers will cut your hair shorter if they think you are a sexual competition threat
>>84699030a lot of women are against it because they were once young women who thought the older man genuinely loved her and saw her for who she is, not just a "blank slate" to fuck first and fuck them up mentally too.
>>84699030I got almost groomed when I was 19 and that's why I don't like it happening generally even though I don't generally talk about this phenomenon or anything. When I was underage (younger than 17) I had an online friend who was an older guy, who instantly wanted to see irl when he started chatting to me again and realized I wasn't underage anymore. We had a few days of dates, touched each other with just hands, but looking back on it I am mega glad I didn't lose my virginity to him but several years later to my current bf who I am still with .
>>84699030the problem with grooming is that the people who often groom are the worst of men. because its seen as a bad thing.women wouldnt complain if it was high value men grooming them. just like rape, they only complain if he isnt hot and rich.
>>84699054Yes, I always wanted to groom an adult
>>84699133>I got almost groomed when I was 19Are you retarded or something?
>>84699263Grooming is just normal courting, apparently.
>>84699164>the people who often groom are the worst of menA lot of attractive men also do it, you only ever hear about the ugly and shitty ones because the women dump their asses and have to explain their shitty relationship as grooming
>>84699030Is this sub 3 guy famous or rich how the fuck did he ever got with such a cute girl. Meanwhile I am 6'3, fit and take care of myself and I am a khhv, admittedly because I have high standards, but I can't even get sex with a mid af girl. How this shit so unfair I hate this world.
>>84699528>He didn't read the postlol
>>84699030>My theory : every redpill talking point for the past 20 yearsCongrats genius
>>84699133>Groomed as an adultAre you retarded>>84699451I fall under this category I guess. I'm in my early 20s, my parents are filthy rich, I've got my own car, I'm tall, handsome, jacked, ran a cosplay& fitness page that got me fanart by girls sometimes (got nuked because I called someone a slur :3). I just can't stay in a normal relationship because I start tasting my own vomit when I think of having to attempt loving someone that had a romantic encounter before me. I wish it was just basic insecurity like normies claim it is, but despite being superior to their exes on paper, I'll be inferior due to not having been picked first. I just want my 16-17 year old (legal here) looksmatching innocent gf to turn into a wife, but dear God do I doubt I'll ever find her because I have no idea where to even begin looking.
>>84699534>he groomed herHow lmao even 14 year olds only want chad. I tried that once with a 19 year old and she ghosted me before we wanted to meet, wasted 6 months of my life.
>>84699030My ass they are only "against" on the surface because its morally seen as doing a good thing, but they love to be groomed by older Chad, literally all my highschool term minor foids dated adult grooming Chad and never there was a report or anything, this is literally the normal of society, ask your average women, they say they lost their virginity at 14 with older Chad, ask if they ever reported it him and they stay silent.
>>84699030was this chick actually with this guy
>>84699557>I just want my 16-17 year old (legal here) looksmatching innocent gf to turn into a wife, but dear God do I doubt I'll ever find her because I have no idea where to even begin looking.Guess you could go to church or something
>>84699617Nigga thats Ai, the word of the mighty Blackpill clearly states that they want Chad only, read the scriptures.
>>84699594>but they love to be groomed by older Chad, literally all my highschool term minor foids dated adult grooming Chad and never there was a report or anythingI never said the girls themselves were against grooming retard. I said older women are against it.
>>84699638Not religious, plus churches are generally either full of boomers or very isolated groups. Like there's obviously 16yo Jehovah's witnesses, but her parents would never give me their blessings in all likelihood, and they wouldn't mesh well with my parents.
>>84699070funny enough this happens alot with people their own age, its only the inevitable people fear because people dont want to rip the bandaid off and see reality for what it is. the comfort of sentimentality and the livelihood of feeling enotions
>>84699030there are so many 16 year olds that show interest in me and thats the fucked thing. im in my mid 20s so the gap makes me feel weird even though its legal. >you would go after "kids" because they show interest in youlike no shit I would, its rare being treated like a human when it comes to foids. Its nice to not constantly be given the cold shoulder or be shown indifference. its only natural to gravitate towards a demographic that shows positive interest in you.
>>84699791>there are so many 16 year olds that show interest in me and thats the fucked thing.Where are you meeting so many of them
>>84699791Old hags are worthless they need to fucking die. females peak 14-25 men peak 25-40.
>>84699791>>84699830I'm 33 and look like a aged pretty boy (I'm east asian) the 15-17 demographics is what I attract without looking in their direction. I thought if girls those ages think I'm good looking then I'd be a god-send for women my age who can pick from a pool of chubby men who let themselves go, but no. Women my age are rarely into asian men at all...
>>84699830discord servers tagged 4chan and closed off servers that you need connections that invite you. I dont take it to dms no matter how lonely it is. but its kind of nice being wanted for once rather than ignored. So I tread carefully between teasing out reactions and avoiding being suggestive and taking it too far.
>>84699030>underage>childrenThese two words are not the same. Teenage girls are adults, the legal age is also 16 in most places.>>84699791>im in my mid 20s so the gap makes me feel weird even though its legal.This is something you seriously need to get over, I'd tell you to go to therapy but psychology is full of roasties. Talk to a non-cuck AI about it or something.
>>84699250Yes im 19 so that will work
>>84699968>online over discord where you will never see each other irl and you fuck her pussyDoes not count just kys.
>>84699830also roleplay games, it was rare to find someone to have intimate rp with (no it wasnt sexual so feds fuck off and I didnt know the age till later) it was about two coworkers as a diner, one was an anxious incompetent mess and the other was a touka like character who didnt tolerate alot. She seemed to take interest in that. It was something ive been aching to have for years. But she said she was 15 and I had to dip before feelings got involved.
>>84700040I just dont want to risk it, some AOC laws have neuance to them and some areas that cross state lines might get me in federal trouble so I back off whenever possible.
>>84700043Yeah so let me groom you. I'm 27 is that too old.
>>84699905when I was 16, our neighbor was a Japanese guy probably in his mid 30s who rode a harley or some bike like that and wore black leather when he did it. he had slightly longer hair that would blow in the wind when he rode, I thought he was cool.one day I finally got the courage and asked him to give me a ride, and at first he was kind hedging and I thought he didn't like me. I know realize it's cause of my age but lol. anyways eventually he relented and gave me a ride, and taught me how to shift my weight around corners and all that stuff. strangely intoxicating being on the back of a bike, I loved it
>>84700101Good age. What will your type off grooming be?
>>84700130I'm going to encourage you to be a neet with me, and also buy you cute things. Only if you're a virgin though.
>>84700157>>84700130Oh also I'm not really a neet but I work from home
is grooming just a judgemental euphemism for spending time with people
>>84700157yes I am. Becoming neet sounds nice
>>84700181Yes, we can just rot together in my comfy home
>>84700173no it's a made up thing that washed up roasties invented because they were told to be girlbosses and wasted their time getting a degree and "climbing the corporate ladder" and now they have a shitty $30/hr job and 150k in debt and are 35 without a bfand everyone knows younger women will gladly date men who are a bit older. and the roastie wants those men for herself, when she SHOULD have gotten married years ago.
>>84700187I love comfy homes. Im sleeping on the floor
>>84700214You should only be sleeping on top or under me
>>84700222Only if you are warm
>>84700238We'll always be really warm
>>84700243Thank you so much Where can i sign in
>>84700126damn lol poor guy probably had the worst case of blueballs ever, having his 16 year old neighbor on the back of his bike and knowing he couldn't do anything with you I assume right lol...
>>84700261aeroaeroaero on discord
>>84700292Wait where are you from?
>>84700317I'm in Europe, what about you?
>>84700336also live there
>>84700366So I think this could work, do you want to add me?
>>84700372Im kind of ugly or low selfworth if you dont mind
>>84700401Don't put yourself down, I'm sure there's lots of nice things about you.
>>84700262you know you're probably right about the blueballs thing anon. but in my defense I didn't think about that since I was 16 and pretty sheltered. once I'd convinced him it was ok though he was happy to let me ride around with him anytime though so it must not have been that badmy mom saw me on the back of his bike though and definitely gave me the side-eye about it for a while, but then I guess she decided it was fine and told me I had to wear a helmet. and no, nothing too spicy happened, even though we very low key flirted. how can you not flirt a bit when you're holding tightly onto a guy on the back of his bike going 100mph down the freeway you know?
>>84700080>some AOC laws have neuance to themCheck your local laws, this isn't true in most places. Agecucks lie about the laws to stop you from realizing you can do better than a roastie.
>>84699030"Grooming" also shows them their failures. A lot of "grooming victims" actually end up marrying the man. Meanwhile they opened their legs to every guy in town and have nothing to show for it.
>>84700475can I ask, are you white?
>>84700959I am and blonde, too if that matters
>>84701047DAMN ok motorcycle guy was one of the luckiest guys on the planet! even if nothing happened but flirting it's still fun. how did you two lowkey flirt though?
>>84701188lol I don't know about that anon, we'd just ride around mostly. a few times we went to one of his favorite ramen places, which was great cause I'd only had the cheapo ramen before and the real stuff is so much better. he was impressed cause I ordered the same tantanmen he did with the spicy pepper sauce I forget the name of but he was sure I wouldn't be able to finish it lol I guess I was bright red from the spice thobut I'd do the classic girl things when I wanted to go for a ride. I'd show up at his house and do the whole coy thing: hands behind the back, and lean forward with the puppy dog eyes. "hey yoshimitsu, you wanna take me for a riiiiide?" shameless I know. the man had the resolve of a saint, he only cracked a few times. he saw me wearing a skirt one day and said I looked amazing so I'd always try to wear a skirt for him haha
>>84699791>like no shit I would, its rare being treated like a human when it comes to foids.i think it's because you know you won't do it, so you aren't nervous about anything and come off as nonchalant as fuck. being older is a cheat code naturally, but yeah, it sucks. we aren't in a society anymore where it's acceptable.
>>84699030I don't have twitter but the idea of random anons making AI images of themselves hugging and kissing the dead egirl and posting it on main so other foids see what awaits them is fucking hilarious to me, even better if it's jeets instead of incels
>>84699791>its rare being treated like a human when it comes to foids.this so fucked up because it's true.
>>84701441>I'd show up at his house and do the whole coy thing: hands behind the back, and lean forward with the puppy dog eyes. "hey yoshimitsu, you wanna take me for a riiiiide?" shameless I know. the man had the resolve of a saint, he only cracked a few times.That's crazy, some guys have all the luck. That's probably how these guys end up writing anime plotlines now that I think about it.
>>84699905Damn you're just like him fr fr
