>20 Year old>Spent whole life in front of a screen>No friends>Virgin>Have a jobI want some old man wisdom, how would you live your life if you were in my position? Like what do you wish you did different? I want to learn from your mistakes, let this retard in on your wisdom before its too late for me too.
>>84704769touch grass pussy thats all you need to do
>>84704769Brush your teeth every day, exercise, have good posture, set up a career, marry a girl young if you get serious with her. If you end up dating a girl for 2+ years or some shit just marry her. There, a bunch of normalfag shit that will set you up for a nice normalfag life.
>>84704794Maybe its my generation thing, but what's the point of marriage? I mean from my point of view its just bringing the government into you're relationship and complicating things.
>>84704808Getting married and having children is the meaning of life, put simply. Whatever hobby you think will keep you satisfied and entertained forever will not even keep you going past 35 let alone all the way to 70 or 80 or whatever. And keep in mind your sex drive falls off as you age too so if you plan to fill the hap with porn and jerking off that gets less and less fun each decade. The fact is living things are made to reproduce. If you have kids you will have automatic meaning for life and if you don't you will have no meaning and just he passing the time. Might as well go for the good normalfag life if you're only 20 and it's not over for you yet.
>>84704769You're practically an infant in the womb. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at 20.>>84704808I wouldn't say it's a requirement if you and your partner feel the same way about it but it does massively simplify your lives. There's a huge societal prejudice against unmarried couples. You'll struggle with visitation rights in hospitals, power of attorney if she's comatose, inheritance if she dies. And it will be more difficult to be acknowledged as the father of any children. Also, it's a big party to bring your families together and make a commitment in front of everyone else you love. I don't believe in god but I still felt the significance of that moment.
>>84704769it's literally simple.but hard to do.train 6 days a week.eat clean.get quality sleep. invest your money into the stock market. don't buy useless shit.live simply. unfortunately this will alienate you from a lot of people...
>>84704769GET PUSSY NOW BEFORE YOUR DICK SLOWS DOWN OR STOPS WORKING
>>84704769Securing a high quality mate is the single most important thing you can do
>>84704872How should one go about securing a mate?
>>84704769start training boxing and wrestling asap at the cheapest local gyms
>>84704769One cannot escape the consequences of their actions and not have a way out.
>>84704769From a 22yo guy in your position: do not listen to older men. They're biologically motivated to sabotage you. The only man who isn't is your father, and even that's doubtful
>>84704769If I could roll back the clock to 20 I'd get started on game dev stuff then instead of 10 years later. Whatever thing you want to make/do or skill you want to master, start now. It's never too late to start, but you'll still regret waiting so long.
>>84704920this is a woman typing this.women sabotage each other, men try to help others not make the same mistakes.we want a better world for our children and we dont compete against each other by way of sabotage like women.
Life is short, life is shit, and soon it will be over
>>84704920You're thinking of women. Women sabotage young women. Men don't do that, just look at the advice ITT. The female equivalent thread would be hags telling the young foid to get fat and shave her head and that she don't need no man and never have children. That's sabotage. This thread is telling OP to exercise and shit
>>84704898be known and well reputed in your community, be able to provide for a partner, be masculine and not feminine in your behaviour
>>8470476940 yo guy herehighschool, military, college, chill lifemy advice is rather small but might do some heavy liftingdont be overly picky with women, if you find one who actually goes out of her way for you even if she isnt the hottest of the hot or the best of the best, it is better to have a good woman now than no woman later.at 20 you are at a point where you have basically have 10 years of easy stumbling into women, once you hit 40, it becomes incredibly hard to organically run into women.when you find a girl set boundaries immediately and be very vocal. always bring up problems, never brood on them, be direct and assume shes retarded.with a career or job, make sure you focus on the future proofing part, nothing fucks you more than taking something that seems good at the moment that doesnt play out well in the long. actually sit down and focus for a few weeks or months and come up with a path to take that has potential and wont make you kill yourself at least. working to live is a lot better than living to work.spend as little money as you can, a bit of savings now pays off a lot more later, so avoid going out and drinking a lot, blowing money on dumb young guy shit like expensive cars or such. dont spend money on women either, the women who want your dick will NEVER want money out of it. if she isnt happy with cheap or free dates then she is only wanting you to entertain her and save her money.
I'm 31 and I got nothing, there's nothing I can tell you that'll actually stick and imprint in the way you want it to, you have to learn from your own mistakes because eventually you'll get disillusioned with advice rooted in the experiences of others and start to resent it which will lead to rebellion and finding out for yourself anyway so it's pointless to even try, honestly what confuses me is this mass confusion plaguing young people now, I always sort of knew exactly what I wanted to do, sure there were moments of listlessness but I was never enough of a cuck to need some other fag's sanctimonious guidance, my advice? Stop asking for advice and figure it the fuck out, discover your own meaning, only then will it be truly yours and not some somebody else's co-opted build
>>84704920yes 84704920 is somewhat correct as some men definitely give bad advice, i certainly got that but I gave solid advice right here >>84704847
>I want some old man wisdom, how would you live your life if you were in my position? Like what do you wish you did different? I want to learn from your mistakes, let this retard in on your wisdom before its too late for me too.It sounds like you are already doomed to a life of inceldom and alienation, anon. Normies usually get laid in their teens.It's great that you have a job, but if there's no way to parlay that into being a sex-haver, there is literally no point.Unless foids show interest in wanting to bang, there is no point in chasing them.Just try to money-maxx and buy gold, anon. Fiat money is a scam.
>>84704898Address whatever flaws you have and expose yourself to as many females as possible. It's a broad question and a lot of it is fairly obvious, if you struggle with intimacy go to psychotherapy, if you're losing hair take finastride, if you're anxious take pregabalin and so on.
>>84704769you dont need to be a vampire billionaire CEO bodybuilder to get a foid, and you definetly dont need to be one to be happy. if you are naturally ambitionless then the pursuit of money via workmaxxing will make you more miserable than happy, money will simply not buy happiness for you. get into fitness if you feel like you should, being fit will increase the quality of your life but dont bother gymmaxxing like a retard since it will just make you miserable. pick a hobby you like and get good at it, youll always regret not getting good at it if you dont. career wise the 40 year old anon is right, pick something that you can do that wont make you want to kill yourself and that wont be made obsolete in the future. the leading thought of your life should be "how can i make life as comfortable for myself as possible while keeping unnecessary suffering to a minimum."
Try and find an activity that makes you happy. Don't let yourself get caught into a routine of having a job that pays enough but makes you miserable. A relationship isn't going to fall into your lap, don't do what I did and suddenly wake up as a 28 year old virgin, and it's too late. That's all the advice I can really give.
>>84704832>Getting married and having children is the meaning of life, put simplyntaThen what about people who can't/don't achieve that goal, like monks, priests, most mentally ill and disabled people? Are they here just to survive instead of having a life?
I think like that other guy said, this is totally pointless. You won't listen and will just live your own life and make your own mistakes and choices. So be it. Personally I just think your outcome is largely genetically determined. If you want my actual no bullshit advice I'll just be straight with you -> human life, being a human body, is a constant struggle and chore. Our fate is unavoidable death and yet we will (pointlessly) struggle against this everyday. On top of that we live in an incredibly rigid, oppressive society and state governance that violently oppresses and dictates how you can behave (under threat of violent arrest and imprisonment, or even death if you live in cuckmerica). On top of that society is structured under capitalism where you must compete against others in a market of labour. This means equipping yourself with skills to sell to others, or becoming the man (pr woman) to which others sell their labour, by possessing the means of production. It's exploitation of yourself, or others, all the way down. Every product or service you use is produced or provided by the alienated labour of exploited workers. On top of this and more fundamentally your own birth was imposed upon you. Nothing about your life is free. So how can I give you advice when you're not even in control? I think the only true act of freedom is violent revolt. And this I consider to encompass both suicide and homicide. Suicide as a revolt against the conditions of human existence -> as jot good enough, and homicide as a revolt against the oppression of others -> against the state, the cops, the institutions that weild power (churches, schools, psych hospitals, prisons etc). Of course you're too pussy for this and it's just a power fantasy. Which leaves suicide. I'm not just fucking with you either. I tried suicide in my early 20s. Obviously I failed. Im 34 now. I wish I died then. I wish I was never born
>>84705123. I don't think the conditions of human embodiment are good enough to pass on to my potential offspring, and I don't think they're good enough to even live another day, or another minute. Truthfully I think the best thing for me, for all of us, is to die, and to die now. Don't live like me. Too hesitant to take the final revolt, and live on pointlessly in this wasteland, trapped between suffering and death. That's my advice. Kill yourself as soon as possible and spare yourself from all future suffering. Life isn't worth living
>>84704961>the women who want your dick will NEVER want money out of itPops is telling the truth, my first long-term gf would drive an hour and a half and buy a pizza on the way just to ride me all night long and she did this for years, I was a broke loser the entire time but she liked my big hog and I made her laugh, also I'm 6'3", that's literally all you need to be happy, just be 6'3", have an 8" penis, boast a quick wit to kill time during intervals between stuffing her full of man meat, boom you have a nice formula for staving off mortality rumination for a little while, also don't be fat and have 8/10 minimum facial aesthetics it's literally that simple (disclaimer: not memeing)
>>84705114Monks and priests have an all consuming life mission to fill the gap. Random wagies do not. Mentally ill and disabled people generally don't live the most fulfilling life's if we're being totally honest. I don't have kids and never will so it's not like it's a death sentence, I'm just saying that having kids is instant and permanent meaning to your life. It's the most straight forward, effective, and objectively best meaning to life for 99% of people otherwise you've gotta be a monk or nicholai tesla or some shit to find meaning
>>84705133More evidence that commies are weak-willed spineless vermin who deserve death they're too weak to enact upon themselves
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>>84704769Well you would be significantly better off than I was at 20 solely by having a job so my "advice" wouldn't mean shit.All I ever wanted was to live alone and that's impossible without a lot of compromises I can't make and thanks to the knowledge of the unibomber I know it is an exercise in futility.The only people I can advise are much worse off, most of the nutjobs I am specialized in shot up schools, went postal, and got themselves killed or stuck in asylum already so my target demographic "resolves" themselves. I am only useful in dealing with people at the breaking point. I spent a long while at the same breaking point in school and managed to step away before things got violent.But for more "practical" advice, none of this matters. You will stumble into whatever you're meant to do, even if it's nothing. Even if you end up on the street, starving out of your mind wondering if the drugs will take your mind off of it.There is no amount of information you can convey that will let us make a proper decision for you. Even if you volunteer/dox yourself practically, nobody here can predict the future with 100% accuracy, only try to rig systems in our favor as best we can. You can fail even if you make all the correct actions. Life sucks like that. I am also not you, I do not know what you want. I am a probable schizoid who is deeply dehumanized. It is like trying to give advice as an AI would to a human, it all sounds like the hallucinations we mock AI for, or the illogical conclusions it is susceptible. I have no motivation to go out and improve but my luck has not ran out so far, and it is only by that luck I have survived and even thrived. If I didn't have that, I would have died about a decade ago on the street. That is how meaningless I am to this world.Do your best, and pray you don't have to starve. Anything else is just window dressing for your life.
>>84705185The funniest part is that's structured like a shitpost but it's literally all true and I'm still not very satisfied with how things turned out, suffering turns out to be relative after all
Focus on building the foundations of a safe solid career. Proof your future. The virgin part is not rare these days, don't sweat it, just start doing things that will make you socialize.
>>84705200wait you're actually that guy? 6ft3, 8 inch, quick wit handsome face etc? I thuoght you were just shitposting about Chad. Soa re you saying you have all those attributes but still aren't really satiisfied and still having to deal with mortality and shit like that?
>>84705274Sadly, yes, but I can see how it would read like comedic brilliance because of the way I phrased it so matter-of-factly, I'm not ungrateful for what I experienced but I mean humans are sort of dealt a baseline level of suffering that they have to channel in various ways and you never really rid yourself of it, believe it or not even regular sex you get accustomed to and it just becomes another problem in your life
>>84704779tickposting
>>84704769I am the oldest living creature in the land of Arnynekaye, and I'm here to tell you that all the advice on this thread is crap because not a single poster before me has told you that the best thing for you to do at age 20 is get the hell off this rotten board and never come back. That's the short version of my "Old Man Wisdom". If you want the TL:DR version keep reading.>20 Year old>Spent whole life in front of a screenYou haven't spent your whole life in front of a screen, your life has barely started. Today you could start learning to play the electric guitar, take up judo lessons, or start bodybuilding and be great at any (or all) of these things before your mid-twenties. The important thing is to do SOMETHING that has a purpose and a GOAL, instead of wasting time on the infinite number of things designed to waste your time online.>No friends>Virgin>Have a jobWell at least you have a job, that's probably the hardest part nowadays. In order to get friends and a girlfriend you need to get out more. Don't just come home from work and sit down in front of the computer. But try and tie your socializing to whatever your goal is. Otherwise you end up with a bunch of friends who are really just drinking buddies. Without knowing more about you I can't give you any more specific advice than that.
>>84705157I dont know about that anon but I plan to paint pictures until the lead/mercury/cadmium/arsenic kills me
>>84704769>Have a jobis it a good job though? or garbage like retail, warehousing, fast food?I would recommend getting a job where you can learn things and experience different careers. Talk to and deal with the upper management, sales people, accountants, engineers, technicians, etc. You do this because you want to learn what their job is like and if it's something you would like doing.Eventually you'll want a better job (more money) and your options are either to climb the corporate ladder or go back to school for a relevant degree. I chose the latter and went back to uni at 30yo.There's not much of a rush to do anything. Do whatever you want when you want and don't compare yourself to other people.It would have been cool to do uni at 20yo instead, but I didn't know what I wanted to do or why.Also get an outside hobby. The screen is not that great. You will feel better when you have a purpose to leave the screen.
