I feel really bad for non offending pedophiles. You're treated as a monster by society even if you never molested a child or watch cp. Most people don't really think about it, but anyone could be born with an attraction outside their control. It could've been you. Imagine you're a perfectly normal person who just wants to live a happy life without harming others, and you just happen to have a sexual attraction towards children that you can't control. It doesn't mean that you'll ever act on it, but most people seem to think at you should be punished for thoughtcrime when it comes to pedophilic thoughts.
>>84725719I'm a alleged fempedo and people call me a female pedophile and the allegations come up even when I'm confirmed to be dating a fully grown man. I have a boyfriend now and his discord clique had a e-girl calling me a child groomer more than onceCant win when you have pedo allegations tldr
>>84725719Is there a morally safe way to watch CP? Is there any way it can exist without a child being abused? Loli is fine and I am even okay with something like a kid's swimsuit ad because it's public and the parents knew what they were getting the kid into.
>>84725719>non offending pedophilesNo one forces them to tell.
>>84725749why? because you like shotas?
>>84725756>Is there a morally safe way to watch CPNo.Jesus, man...
>>84725759A problem is that someone who is feeling pedophilic urges and wants professional help is discouraged for doing so, because if they tell a psychologist and the information is made public, they could be fired from their job and have their life ruined. So ironically, the incredible stigma towards pedophilia is actually creating more child sex abuse, because potential offenders won't seek professional help. Empathy and understanding towards podophiles could actually reduce child abuse.
>>84725792If you read the rest of my comment you'd see that I was not making a case for CP
>>84725792There's no moral way to watch real cp, because it's fundamentally violating the dignity of the child involved. However the fact that drawings and even text based content is legally classified as cp in a lot of countries is insane. If no child is abused, it's not immoral.
>>84725788loli and shota is based desu
What if pedophilia is a red herring - just a lever to get self concious people to do things for reasons unknown to them?
>>84725793Conversion therapy, as we all know, successfully eliminated the scourge of homosexuality. If only society would find the motivation to use this effective tool to solve pedophilia.
>>84726170I really hope we find a cure for pedophilia. And for anyone who says>we already have a cure, bullet to the brainor shit like that, you're a terrible person for wishing death on someone purely because they commited thoughtcrime. I'm sure if pedophiles had a treatment that made them no longer attracted to children, a lot would willingly receive it.
>>84725815I hate when people jump to conclusions without even reading the post
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>>84726170Even if it is a sexuality like homosexuality, rather than a trauma response or whatever, there is no way for them to morally act on their sexuality. Conversion therapy might not work, but teaching self control and effective management of urges could potentially save not only a child, but the patient themself.
>>84725719The smart way is to not announce whatever sexuality you might have, which goes for any of them.Talking about certain things is distasteful in public
I feel really bad for non offending murderers. You can tell these guys want to murder someone, they just haven't had an opportunity yet, or they haven't followed through on their desire yet
>>84725756I hope you find God's path and not CP.That's sad.
>>84725749> Can't win when you have pedo allegations tldrYOURE NOT SUPPOSED TO WIN, rather go to PRISON then HELL!
>>84725719I'm just going to off myself and the world will be better off.
>>84727390Murder is an act, there's no such thing as a non offending murderer.Pedophilia is a THOUGHT. A pedophile who has involuntary sexual thoughts about children and has never sexually offended against children has done nothing wrong.
>>84727454Please don't do that anon. You're a person who's life has value, even if some people say it doesn't. Thoughts are not actions, you've done nothing wrong. Just know that pedophilia is much more common than we are led to believe; there are hundreds of millions of people going through the same struggle as you.
>>84727391Look, I know what I am. I'm not proud of it, but I would never hurt a real child and I would never watch CP.
>>84725719boo hoo nigger worry about something that matters save your empathy for child abuse victims instead
>>84727592Wanna share your experiences anon? When/how did you realize you were attracted to children?
>>84727566murderous thoughts are a thing, not that they sometimes are hard to sympathise with
>>84727598Why not both? Many pedophiles were themselves abused as children, so having empathy for csa victims necessarily means having empathy for pedophiles. Genuinely though, how can you be such a cruel person? How can you hate someone for an attraction that's against their will. Imagine if you had a child and one day when they were in their early 20's, they came to you and said they were attracted to children and don't know what to do. What you tell them to kill themselves, or would you give them empathy and support?
>>84727627Yes, but someone who has murderous thoughts but hasn't acted on them is not a murderer.Someone who has pedophilic thoughts and hasn't acted on them is still a pedophile. This does NOT however mean that they are a child molester. Pedophilia is a thought, child abuse is an act.
>>84727637your first mistake was the retarded assumption that "attraction is outside of your control" when it literally is
>>84727648what's the point of stating the obvious? it's obvious, so if someone ignores the obvious then he tries to talk about something else, like wasting the precious internet funtime, like we are all doing right now
>>84727657No it's not. There's an anon in this very thread >>84727454 >>84727592 who wants to kill himself because he has an attraction to children that's outside his control. Why the fuck would anyone willingly choose to have an attraction that immediately makes them despised by society?
>>84727657please elaborate for anon. you must be talking about conversion therapy right?
I feel bad for them because, assuming they didn't became pedophiles after being exposed to cp, they just naturally developed that preference and yet their sexuality is heavily negated by society. Of course, I prefer a non offending pedophile suffering from inceldom than a child being raped and traumatized.
>>84727610Fuck it, I guess I'll share a bit(jannies plz don't ban because I am not trying to promote pedophilia in any way). I started as a teen going to the old jailbait subreddit and jailbait gallery, but those were girls that were in my age range. The first time I ever masturbated to a child(and I remember this clearly) was an episode of Toddlers and Tiaras and I was about 13. Since then, I've kind of known that that was what I'm mainly attracted to. Plus like I said, I was already on the internet at that time and I found loli and that has been my main thing for a very long time now. I don't exactly know why I'm like this. I wasn't sexually abused when I was young, so whatever malformation or behavior caused this is entirely my own doing.
>>84727756Thanks for sharing, I hope you're doing alright.
>>84725719I had a conversation with an anon here a while back about this, and it turned out that both me and that anon did basically the same thing.I got molested as fuck growing up (from age 6-12), a lot of abuse material was filmed and it got stopped when I was being taken to some pedo-woman.A short while after this I sought out pedophiles online and wanted to speak to them, and a few agreed to do it. A few of them were pretty open about wanting to hurt kids, but there were two that I felt really fucking bad for>non-offending (I mean, allegedly, but it seemed geniune)>had struggled with this attraction since they were really young>hadn't been able to have any relationship>had tried to cure themselves in various ways>couldn't speak to therapists because they were afraid of being reported>said that they genuinely loved children, and realized how harmful it would be to act on their urges so they didn't>felt extremely alone and isolatedand like the fucking moron that I was, I ended the convos with the two "nice pedos" by revealing that I was a kid, and sent a pic of my face and holding up a sign that said: "thanks for talking", as if I were doing a timestamp on here kek.but fucking crazy to think about, I can't even imagine what kind of hell they must be living in.
>>84727592>I would never watch CP
