moids would you be upset if i was your girlfriend and masturbating fantasizing about other men? like a celebrity or hot guy at work? is it cheating? is it fine if you don't know about it and i don't act on it?
>>84727713Hot guy at work, cheating. Celebrity, I wouldn't care. But I'm a female. Not a male. If I was a man, I wouldn't care about my girlfriend getting off to celebrities. Since I don't care about men getting off to celebrities rn. But it's totally different if it's someone you know, I feel like.
>>84727713>is it ok to masturbate to other moids while in a relationship?i wouldn't say it's inherently morally wrong no>moids would you be upset if i was your girlfriend and masturbating fantasizing about other men? like a celebrity or hot guy at work?most definitely yes.>is it cheating?in the context of a relationship with me it would, yes, as you would be betraying my trust in the realm of sex by lusting over and masturbating to other men.>is it fine if you don't know about it and i don't act on it?in the context of a relationship with me it would not be fine.
>>84727743desu i don't see a difference in it being a person you know vs a celebrity as long as you don't act on it, both are just actors in my fantasies and unattainable
>>84727769Except a person you know is definitely attainable in a way a celebrity isn't. Because you KNOW them. And that fantasy could become a reality, even if you say it'll just stay a fantasy
>>84727713I would be upset yes
>>84727743hello again jensenposter>>84727713id still be grossed out and disappointed even if its not technically cheatingwait, if its a guy at work its def cheating fuck off with that
>>84727713Don't mind if they fawn over some hot guy at work. At the end of the day we are all mammals so it's best not to get too serious about that stuff.
>>84727856Hellooo nonny
>>84727713>celebritydont care>guy at workkys dumb whore
>>84727713Yes. I find celebritiy crushes during a relationship disgusting, but foids have their arguments for them being not grounded in reality.>a hot guy at workThis is genuinely not comparable to a celebrity crush, this is you just not liking your boyfriend. >>84727713>is it cheating Yes.>>84727713>is it fine if you don't know about it and i don't act on it?No.The purpose of a relationship is to rape each other and being each other's mutually exclusive sexual outlet. If you are not #1 in the significant other's fantasies it means he or she has over indulged in media, is brain broken, and isn't the relationship you've been yearning for.
>>84727713>>84727864I will add though if you have a major crush on a guy you work with and you don't tell me that is cheating. But I'm not opposed to you chatting/hanging out with them.
>>84727713Yes, instead of masturbating, we should be having sex. Instead of me masturbating to porn, we should be having sex as well, at the very least just masturbating while looking at you. Same as you. Thinking about other men while masturbating is basically mentally and emotionally cheating, which is 75% of the way to actual cheating. And I would hold myself to the same standards.
I can't believe how cucked some of you are
>>84727907I agree. I don't watch any porn when I'm in a relationship
>>84727713Hot guy at work I would be pissed off. I would also be uncomfortable if it was masturbating with anyone she had direct contact with like a cam model or an online rp partner or something, I don't care if she fantasizes about celebrities or fictional characters or even watches porn because that's all just pie in the sky sort of stuff that doesn't have any bearing on reality but as soon as it's someone she can actually talk to and get a response back that crosses the line. And I hold the same standards for myself, I wouldn't ever jerk off thinking about a girl at work or some cam girl or anything like that. Porn is one thing but direct contact or someone IRL is definitely no-go zone.
>>84727713idk how many of you autists need to hear this but everyone in relationships fantasizes about other people. there will always be more attractive people than your partner. you cannot help yourself but want to fuck them. that's normal. you would be retarded to tell your boyfriend about it. just keep your fantasies about others all to yourself and it's ok.
>>84727713No I don't really care but you have to let me do the same thing
>>84727713not ok for your partner, nor with God. It's an sin.
>>84727869did you ever watch the scene i linked in your thread?if not, here it ishttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VMokoo7Dkks
>>84728042I did, but thanks for sending it again so I could rewatch it. He's so fine....
>>84727713Someone you personally know or interact with I would feel is too close to cheating. Celebrity maybe, husbando I think is fine.
>>84727953>proceeds to not meet the boyfriends sexual needs while thinking about other menOut the door, that bitch goes!
>tfw no attentionwhore egirl gf
>is it ok to masturbate to other moids while in a relationship?I think so>moids would you be upset if i was your girlfriend and masturbating fantasizing about other men? like a celebrity or hot guy at work?Yes. I'd be upset because you would feel aroused because of another man. But it would be better if you masturbated to a person you don't know (celebrities, men in porn) than people you know, such as coworkers or friends>is it cheating? No.>is it fine if you don't know about it No>and i don't act on it?Fine
>>84727713I wouldn't be bothered by it, as long as it is famous guys/anime boys and you don't act on those fantasies (thinking about a coworker or a friend would probably hurt tho).
>>84727713Nope, nothing wrong with that.Cheating is cheating. As long as you aren't doing sexual shit with anyone other than me while we're in a relationship, what you dig your clam to and fantasize about is your own business. Of course, I'd prefer if you talk to me about it, so we can do things like have sex while you have their picture up or roleplay. I don't care if it's a guy you know. Just so long as you understand the second I think you've actually tried something with this person, your shit will be on the curb and your number blocked when you get home.I want my partner to be satisfied, and it's also handy to know exactly which guys I need to be careful of.
>>84727713I mostly would be fine in such a scenario I guess. I would just accept that she is about to dump me for Chad. But it's better than having her be with someone she is not satisfied with. I would just apologize to her for wasting her time, and would hope that she finds someone good who can bring her the joy and pleasure I could not.She just should not remain with me though. I just wish she would leave me sooner to minimize the pain caused to us both.I would not blame her. I would only have myself and my subpar genetics to blame.
>>84727713do you shlick to oreki, id be okay with that
