Why do you folk struggle so much with being a virgin?Im a virgin woman, i am because of the religion I grew up in.Now, i have remained one even though im not religeous. I dont find it hard whatsoever, its just my mode of life. Preferred mode of life even.Smut and datingsims when i want to, and the rest of the time i only really have myself to worry about. I wouldn't even consider being in a relationship if it wouldnt work out long term, or if he or me arent trying to love eachother properly.Whereas i see stories on here saying that they were in relationships with BPDs and other mentally ill girl's. Why would you torture yourself with love that wouldn't last?Or going to escorts?All because of virginity?I could lead a long life as a virgin, probably die as one and i wouldn't really mind. As long as i have people and family or community around, and some higher purpose. Like being a nun, that would be chill.
i have a biological need to reproduce and it's a little annoying that i can't fulfill it solely because i was born into a time and place that arbitrarily makes it 10x more difficult than ever before
>>84731582You have the option to change that on a dime. For us it is increasingly like a life sentence full of humiliation
I want a girl taller than me to cherish me and love and cuddle me and fuck me senseless and have children with me and marry me
>>84731619>biological need to reproduceNo. It's not a need, it's an envy, however intense it may be.
>>84731582I don't mind being a virgin.
>>84731663No no, I think its a need desu. I mean women too face this. >>84731619I agree that its harder, but its somewhat of a good thing. Not that i am in favour of modern dating culture, rather i am in favour of women being able to choose.
>>84731665Why? Thats an unusual take on this board.>>84731641Yes i could theoretically change. But rather I am trying to point to the fact that intimacy doesn't necessarily lead to a better life. I feel as though the average incel cares more about FOMO than actual love.
>>84731582Being a virgin is not the problem for me.. it is love from a woman i crave
>>84731841That one is valid desu. Having someone that loves and appreciates you.But love like that is incredibly rare, and most of us will never have true appreciation like that.
>>84731663semantics aside, you understand what i mean by need. the pursuit of reproduction is the ultimate goal, purpose and meaning of mammal existence. it's a male's job to figure out how to secure a baby. that's all i'm here for. now that modernity has made this pursuit an endless fucking labyrinth, my sub-5 toil is without meaning. supplementary human interests (learning, building, having fun) are so much less important than sex that the magnitude of the difference is impossible to appropriately emphasize.
>>84731828Sex is gross. I prefer friendship.
>>84731902Based asexual man.I 100% agree with you on companionship. Its the only thing that actually bothers me.Would you want this companionship to be romantic in any way?
>>84731863>But love like that is incredibly rare, and most of us will never have true appreciation like that.Sadface :( well it isnt that rare.. maybe for people like me
>>84732032I'd say that pure unjaded love is quite rare.Most relationships are purely transactional.>maybe for people like meWhy do you say that?
>>84732112I do not want to go into detail and it would sound like a bunch of self pity nonsense anyway. I do not think it is realistic for me to experience love at the moment i am a mess.
>>84731582being an incel doesn't bother me much. i don't think there is a girl i would like to have around me all the time. Whenever i feel lonely, i would hang out with a friend and i'll be good for another couple of months
>>84731582I don't mind being a virgin nor do I want companionship/love, I just really want sex. Sex seems like a fun activity, especially with an attractive person, I wish I could have it.People like me are built for escorts, I'll probably rent one once my life stabilises a bit.
>>84731582I am a male volcel and also wonder about this. I guess for a lot of people the biological urge is just very strong. Personally I also don't see much appeal in casual sex or sex without love. I would even feel bad about losing my virgin status casually if I was in a loving relationship after it.
>>84732181Hmmm it's okey. I would like to know, maybe give my 2 cents to you too. But I'll make it up to you.>>84732215Right?! Sex without a loving partner, and for me this is critical, that you stay with forever. I dont think id be comfortable having Intimacy if I ever have the feeling it wouldn't last .>>84732201> i don't think there is a girl i would like to have around me all the time.This is a talking point i see few mention. There is no way being with a person constantly, even if its a romantic partner would be fun. Its like your siblings, its fun to have them, but when they are around alot you notice flaws and other annoying shit they do. >>84732209You was built for having a harem or some shiiBut why aren't you into companionship?
>>84731582>Why do you folk struggle so much with being a virgin? >Im a virgin womanYou cannot be real
>>84732305No idea, companionship just doesn't do anything for me. Being understood or loved seems like such a hassle, and I don't particularly care for either. Like, I have some friends but I can still easily go months without talking to them, loneliness is an extremely rare emotion for me and when I do feel it it's very faint. I'm just not the type of person that gets much out of relationships in general, I'd make for a shitty boyfriend that ghosts you for weeks. I also don't like physical touch, so there would be none of that cuddling nonsense either.Don't ask me why I still want sex if I don't like physical touch, I don't know. I think it's nature overpowering my mental illness.
>>84732456Aromantic?Hm.>I'd make for a shitty boyfriend that ghosts you for weeksIt's great that you know yourself.>I also don't like physical touchDon't like physical touch but likes sex?InterestingBut i won't question it. I'm just mildly surprised and amused.But I do understand you, companionship requires consistency and thats really hard to maintain. Its one of the reasons I dont really pursue anyone, because I'd make for a bad lover.>>84732446>You cannot be realWdym?
>>84732582>Wdym?Of course a woman wouldn't care much about being a virgin, having sex is easy for foids. Like... What point are you even trying to make?
Do permavirgin fembots masturbate? Are some of them horny virgins?
>>84732585I mean both genders have a desire for intimacy, even if its easier for "foids"Thr point in trying to get at is that i feel like incels worry more about FOMO than having an intimate partner you love.>>84732600What counts as permavirgin?
>>84732675>incels worry more about FOMO than having an intimate partnerbut I have FOMO of an intimate partner, not sex. incels could hire a prostitute, visit a massage parlor, whatever, if all they wanted was sex.Deep down incels are hopeless romantics turned bitter and jaded
