Genuine question for my fellow losers,How do you cope with the feeling that you have no future? I'm pushing 30, and my life is completely empty. No job, no wife, no friends, overweight, and my only real "hobbies" are gaming and jerking off. Every single time I sit down to play a game now I just think of my finite time on this earth burning away. Every day that passes, I can't enjoy anything anymore without these thoughts hanging over me, the constant awareness that I wasted my life and there's nothing to do about it. I will never get what I want in this life, I will never achieve anything. How do I accept this and losermaxx so I can truly be happy?
I cope by saying normie standards of success doesn't apply to me
>>84739070what are your standards of success then?
>>84739063I'm slowly trying to change, my biggest goal is to get a hobby that isn't boring. When I finally do that I'd be unstoppable.
>>84739063i delude myself into thinking grandiose ideas via bipolar manic episodes. before they turn into psychosis i usually start to believe that im meant to command interstellar empires, that kinda crazy shit. keeps me going at least through the hospitalizations.
>>84739075I like mopeds motorized bicycles and ebikes maybe you will like those too they are fun and you can feel the breeze they are fast plus the chicks dig them
>>84739063Now I don't relate to your personal issues but how I deal with the thought that I have no future is by recognizing it is a negative thought and a false one as well I change what I'm thinking into something positive or go and do something positive like breathe fresh air or listen to music or drink water or smile
>>84739063There are plenty of people with a job and a wife and kids who are miserable and wish they were dead every single day. I still think you should try getting a gf and living a little before your body truly decays but chances are that your idea of a successful life is more or less a mirage.
>>84739063Well I'm trying to get on government assistance for a change of pace. Once I have 1.3k disposable income I think my life will change for the better. Plus I'm the type of person to never lose hope and think that I can change things around. I've kinda have realized that I delude myself thinking like this to keep myself afloat and, after that realization its been a little less effective than usual - But I pinky double promise I will go to college next year and get a gf. xD
>>84739098I think it applies to me completely I have no future because I don't have the mindset needed to change my life. I don't have the motivation or the drive to go out there and hustle, looksmaxx, or "grind" I wish i could just enjoy that and give up and be perfectly happy but i cant.
>>84739063I use the money from my job to start my own personal projects. My most recent one that I completed was a TrueNAS server. I stopped caring about getting a girlfriend almost entirely because most women piss me off anyways. I usually pop some SSRIs before work to make my shift easier. This is my life. It's pretty bad, but it could be worse.
>>84739063No one has a future
>>84739063I am 34 and going to start sailing a yacht when I hit 2028My plan is to acquire a loan, buy a boat and refit it with essentials like tools, supplies, and diagnostic equipment to troubleshoot mechanical/electrical failures.Any failure at sea could be life or death, so it's best to be resourceful with improvisation.I think when I sail across the atlantic in a 32 foot boat I will further pay off the loan by livestreaming a month at sea alone on youtube and hope for donations to quickly pay back the loan.
>>84739063>How do you cope with the feeling that you have no future?I turn 29 this year and have no prospects. I've spent my entire life confined in my bedroom and haven't experienced anything. So I've booked a hotel and train ticket to a state I've always wanted to visit and plan to visit in October. I've applied for two credit cards and have been slowly selling a lot of my stuff for extra money so I can indulegencemaxx before I off myself. I've felt happier and more at peace with my life since I've started these plans than I've felt in the past 10 years.
>>84739063I'm 30 and all of that except for overweight. I've been a NEET for about 8 years now, since the start of COVID-19. I've started using a treadmill in the morning and it makes me feel much better. This >>84739070anon is legitimately correct, you just need to lower your expectations and be happy with the bare minimum. Easier said than done but I've started running on a treadmill and it puts me in a much better mood. Letting your cortisol be spiked and living a sedentary lifestyle is the worst thing you can do. Did I mention the treadmill?
>>84739063Retard you're going nowhere because you're choosing to give up. You're 30, not 80, stop whining loke a little bitch and start self-improvemaxxing or continue to suffer from the consequences of your inaction. Dumb faggot nigger.
>>84739100>try getting a gfRephrase this as "try impressing a woman enough that she wants to have sex with you and do stuff with you routinely" and you begin to see the flaw with your logic. Girlfriends do not exist to be got for men such as us.
>>84739678>when I hit 2028Why 2028 in particular, anon ? Anyway, sailing away is also my life goal, I hope we both succeed in our goals..
>>84739063video games are all i've ever really lived fori had extremely sad and awkward teenage sex with a girl i met on an autism forum 14 years ago so i don't technically have to die a virgin i guessi cry a lot and have a lot of hate in my heartfrom childhood the message has always been clear, nobody wants me around, i am entirely forgettable at best, so i learned to live alone and only a few extremely persistent people ever coaxed me out, they all ended up hurting me intentionally or otherwisepoorly, i cope poorly
Sometimes I cum in my hand and it feels really good.
>>84739063my cope? world war 3, i dont even hope im wrong anymore i fucking hate all these goyim.
>>84739063i dont know anon, i knew this was gonna happen to me when i was 20, i just couldnt do anything, its like there are walls everywhere and i cant get over them.ive been trying to buy a car for 2 years, i literally keep hesitating over and over. i never get anything done quickly. how people progress through their careers and get tons of stuff done all the time is beyond me
>>84739063>wasted my lifeI genuinely think gaming is not a waste of time.It is the best entertainment media we have and extremelly fun.The way I see is more like, every second that I am not gaming, I am wasting my life, the only exception is if I using this time to get more money in order to buy more games.That's what life is all about, games, games and games.
