Even the boy in the same city as me on discord ghosted me after we showed interest why am I such a fuck up we were planning to meet and everything
>>84743111He found out you weren't a real woman, I guess?
>>84743111Lmao same exact thing happened to me. I think he was in a relationship and just wanted to fuck me though and realized I wasn't like that. Consider it a blessing in disguise
>>84743111You're not a fuckup for this, he just got scared and let his anxiousness win, it's not even your fault.
Idk im sorta a fuck up and hes asked to meet and I brushed it off even though I want too
>>84743289why did you brush it off?It definitely annoying when I want to meet a girl and she just makes excuses or whatever
>>84743125Why were you trying to meet up with someone of who you knew was already dating someone else?
>>84743111The girl in the same city as me still wants to meet but I wouldn't get my hopes up for a relationship with hershes pretty cute though>>84743289dont let your intrusive thoughts win, ive done that multiple times in the past and regretted it
>>84743111Gotta take off sage as my name don't mind me
>>84743111hey, at least you had somebody nearby willing to meet (at first)
>>84743111If it makes you feel any better sometimes ppl jsut disappear. I wanted to meet up again with kumagawa anon to hang out (he was my friend I am NOT attracted to his ass) after over a year passed since the first time we met up irl. One morning he had blocked me ;-; like faggot I know where you live I could literally- whatever not worth the trouble
>>84743111A lot of terminally online types (people you meet on Discord and r9k) tend to be very skittish and afraid of commitment.They still have the human need for communication but have made themselves fear real, physical human connection and are now too afraid to make anything real. It's one of the big issues of e-dating and hence why I have largely avoided it.
>>84743381why dont you just find someone else to meet up with, esp if you werent attracted to him?
>>84743396Huh? No no you misrepresented what I meant. He was my homeboy and I hang out with my homeboys. I have plenty of friends. I just wanted to meet up with him again cuz I like that two of my friends, well now only one, has been met through r9k because its silly and fun. I see the other one once a year cuz she lives a bit farther
>>84743432weird that you'd bring up the attractiveness thing thenare you male or female?
>>84743312I didn't know he was dating someone else. I only speculated that after the ghosting.
>>84743490Its not weird that I bring it up. Im talking about a friend here. Why would I be attracted to a friend? And im female. If you had true female friends that are your bros youd know we always dog on our boys and call them ugly. They also call their female friends ugly thats kinda just how different sex friendships works. The real ones where no one has a secret crush
>>84743392Its my fault Im a loser
>>84743649>he's just a friend, its nothing else>but teehee i need to mention unprompted that im not attracted to himtypicalcalling them ugly and joking around to their face is one thing, shit talking them anonymously online when nobody asked is another.
>>84743111suffah o algo
