how to stay positive when everything has been negative and have a history of failures and never getting anything not even a job or moneyno self confidence in getting anything done either just failurejust continue applying mental illnes (doing the same thing as before in hope of change) ?
>>84749502What can make you smile
>>84749510money and not having anxiety daily
>>84749502try seeing the world objectively not subjectivelynone of this has anything to do with you personally however the shitty world still exists in reality. you have to figure out how to realistically in the real world get what you want. your desires are probably really large which cause you to feel unhappy thinking about how to get them because you see the world as attacking you personally and stopping you. yes but it does this to everyone it isnt personal. the world is shit. either you can try to make it or not, doesnt matter, the shit will be there happening to you either way. you simply have to accept things how they are. if you dont have money it may be the only way for you to make money is something shit. for example. but it must be done or you just wont have money. so either stop wanting money or figure out how to objectively get money and not how you subjectively wish you had money or could get it another way. you will basically just give up and choose an immediate stress relief to get the feeling off of you until it comes back, but this is a subjective temporary fix that hurts you long term because you never even attempted to acquire your desired money. so you are stuck in a loop of eternal stress from not having your desires and then stress relief methods to get rid of it never actually achieving long term desires
positive feeing actually comes from doing unpleasant things for your long term desire because when you get the long term desire the payoff is better and worth it than the immediate thing you do for stress relief from not having shit
>>84749689no pay off for 20 years is kinda weighing on me at this point im fatigued beyond repair
>>84749856dont make your goal working goyslop wageslave jobs then. you might have to temporarily but not forever. i cant tell you what you want but once you know then you can figure out how to get it. if you simply want money and to not work then do some research on how to get money without working. but good luck with that. yea the society is rigged and it is shit. if you dont want to be oppressed by society become a criminal or pirate. you dont get the large payoff of the big goal for a long time but you get small payoffs in between. for example instead of drugging to relieve stress of failure, try doing a bunch of unpleasant things to achieve your goal and reward yourself with drugs to get through it. then you have both payoffs. if you just do drugs you only have one small payoff thats where your suffering comes from because the world will not ever stop being shit and hurting you. so if you dont get your big goals they simply wont happen for you. you have to accept the reality of society that it is a shit show and it will oppress you. but you dont have to give up on yourself and your goals whatever they are.
