We planned a life together and instead of building it together she expected me to do all the work while she sat on her ass as a "kept woman" with no responsibilities. She ruined her own life too, but she doesn't know it yet because her family shields her from the consequences.I'm still so fucking angry that she led me on and wasted so much time. If women weren't so coddled by society, many of them would be homeless bums.Don't try to help people who won't help themselves, anons.