is it wrong to try to hope to get lucky and hope to find a bf who looks a very specific way based on your old oneitis? i always liked him but he's a degenerate and also travels for work basically. i realized i would be too insecure for that and i'd constantly be afraid that i'd get cheated on, so i never tried to get close to him and have tried to give up on liking him since.i think i didn't have any sort of "type" before, but now i do, and i realize it's very specific. the kinds of clothes one wears for example.
>chad but a bit more specificUh huh.
>>84751430Just don't tell anyone. How would they know? Every guy I ever talked to looks just like a cartoon character I had a crush on as a kid. Its the only type of guy I'm attracted to. But they don't ever notice if you don't tell them.
>>84751430If you are afraid he will cheat on you he is out of your league, date your looksmatch and this wouldn't be a problem.
>>84751456Johnny Bravo? Or something worse like.. *shudders* ...furries?
>>84751463No, it wasn't really a cartoon character, exactly. It was a book/audiobook series I was really into. But there were cartoon illustrations of it. It was called Die Drei ???, it was about these three detective kids, and I somehow convinced myself I would marry the third detective, Bob Andrews one day.
>>84751490He looks like Shaggy if he never found out about weed.
>>84751496Yeah, now that u say it...but something about him spoke to me as a kid, and I never moved on
>>84751456okay so definitely one of those things you will take into the grave with you i see.>>84751447>>84751462i don't think he's le chad, i've known more objectively handsome men but i haven't been interested. i've been interested in two people my whole life, and this old oneitis is one of them. i think i tend to get obsessed like this when it's someone i want to be like (in everything except looks/gender bc i don't want to be a man obviously), and then that turns into intense attraction at some point.
