how do you win in life is it better to just ldar? everything seems pointless and difficult unless you are born genetically gifted and rich then why even bother?
>>84754798what do you think winning in life is anon
>>84754798I was born genetically gifted. It's probably a strong reason why I'm optimistic. I'm not rich and I do not care to be. I also don't know what to tell people to have them feel better about their situations. It's sad that those two things are the most important parts of life outside of memories and relationships but even those are shaped by the first two. Genes and money
>>84754807having something to live for instead of feeling like im in the waiting room for death>>84754827yes that seems the way things are
>>84754798>everything seems pointless and difficult unless you are born genetically gifted and rich then why even bother?idk anon. i think about this a lot, but more specifically with why my life turned out badly. when i was doing everything according to the social script i had a decent life and there was always at least a handful of people i could pass the time with. but the more i started to get rejected for my lack of competence, the more those people started to disappear. winning at life mostly too good to be ignored or having some kind of self esteem or status shield. and then when i started ldaring i found something that made me quite happy but every time i tried to share it with someone they kind of ignored me or just changed the subject or called it stupid. so what i gather is if you follow social convention people will accept you and you will be a winner but if you deviate from that path and make your own success/march to the beat of your own drum people will kind o flook down on you and call it cope. so i think the ultimate way to win is to normalmaxx
>>84754856a lot of people are just not predisposed to having a passion. i live a pretty nice life but i still would not say i have anything in particular im around for. find people you can be around that bring you actual happiness. engage in something that challenges and changes you. pick up a community based class on a topic you think would suit you as a person. listen to music you wouldnt usually listen to, and review the albums. go to theatres more often for the sake of having a shared experience. call a family member you care about. start cooking meals you havent cooked before. other shared spaces like the gym, libraries, etc are great to just feel like youre not alone. most people just follow the general purpose of getting married and working and having kids. everything else is unique to them. you dont even need to do any of that to have a overall enjoyable life. other ideas. go on a hike, go geocaching, buy a camera and photograph concerts and busy streets. get into fashion or diying. there are so so so many things to do to occupy yourself and you may just end up finding your purpose through this. mine was social connection.
>>84754798There is nothing in this life that is not a scam.Still, try to keep your head out of the water, because there's no rock-bottom, there's no limit of how low you can fall.
>>84754953isnt there just an off switch
