>be me>helping my dad voluntarily every night after work this week, plus the weekend, on preparing his rental house to be sold>pressure wash the outside of the house and deck, shed, sidewalk, garden, etc>just washing the area, not complaining about the work, doing my thing>he comes over and criticizes my "technique" after I've already done most of the work>shows me "the right way to do it">tells me he would have "canned me if I was working by the hour" because I apparently took too long>he is in a bad mood the other half of the dayWhy is he like this?
>>84756890Sounds like my dad too.He was probably just in a shit mood or hungry or something.
>>84756890like 90% of fathers and grandfathers are like this. no idea why, but nothing their son/grandson can do will be "good enough" after a certain age. dont think too much about it.
Your father is what's known as "a real piece of shit." You should go no-contact.