Does anyone else find it impossible to make yourself do anything unpleasant/uncomfortable if there are no immediate consequences for not doing it? The only reason I have a job or a driver's license is because my parents forced me to. I still live with them in my thirties because they haven't forced me to move out. I don't have any interesting hobbies because I don't have the discipline to stick with them. Hell, I barely ever even brush or floss my teeth because no one's holding a gun to my head making me do it.
>>84757328I just smoke a lot of pot to try cope and my parents never really noticed, helps me coast through a job I hate.Being forced to get my licence will happen soon but they surprisingly haven't pushed that so hard on me.
Do you want to achieve anything out of life? Are you ok with things keep going on the way they are? Most people strive for things. Money. Relationships. Model trains etc. Do you have an inward longing for anything?
>>84757463I've never been one to set goals, because I know I'll give up anywayI'd like to make enough money to support myself and to have a partner I like, but both of those seem beyond my reach
>>84757486Nothing changes if you change nothing. Getting the basics right like self care and setting a routine builds foundations for a life. We develop habits. If no challenge if met, no growth occurs and leads to stagnation and death. If you are comfortable with living a life that is basically the same day over and over again, change nothing. Otherwise start with brushing and showering everyday.
>>84757463>Do you have an inward longing for anything?NTA but no.I don't really want anything.Not even food, I go without for days at a time and it doesn't really bother me.Nothing makes me feel much of anything.I don't know how to learn how to want things.
>>84757328Same. I can't stop being fat because I have no immediate benefit from doing so. It's years upon years of work, at which point I'll be in my 30's as a virgin being some performative male that women see right through. I'd rather be my fat self unless I somehow win the lottery and can get liposuction and skin removal
this simulation is fake and gayeverything is arbitraryonly npcs enjoy being forced to participate in the epstein matrix
>>84757328Yes, actually. It makes it fucked up cause I'm getting my degree and can't force myself to do schoolwork and zone out for days at a time. It's been like this ever since being laid-off and on unemployment because every job market is fucked. I am getting a low-paying job that I hope fixed me, I am actually super scared about it but I'm hoping I can keep it.
